I used to say "It Won't Happen To Me" but now I can not even smile

[The AirmanParticipant 74]

Just over 50 and leaving my third wife. The first two left me…this time I am leaving.
First wife: Canadian, runaway when she was young, high school dropout. Stupid me marries this bitch, and she was bitch, her only skill was f~~~ing; she was hot. Our daughter was age 8 when she left me and took my daughter from me. She had already decided how I should live and how much I should pay. She dictated her incentive plan to me. I did not agree and quit my high paying job which I actually loved that job.
First wife result: Daughter disowned me. First wife died. Daughter is late 20’s now and have accepted that she will never come around.
Second wife: Average and fun. Brought her and her two young children to my house. She stopped working so she could raise the little devils. That was good as she worked so much and the kids were devils and not good from the mother working extra hours and her kids in perpetual daycare/babysitting.
Second wife was happy when we had money. Had to spend it. When we did not have money I was a piece of s~~~. I was a top earner in my field and she liked that. When I hurt my back and did not work for a while–I was nobody all of sudden.
Things progressed. I furthered my career. This inspired her to become a nurse.
Well..oh what a surprise….she did not love me anymore and eventually married a coworker. Which is marriage four for her (I was marriage three for her). Poor fella. I was so stupid to be husband three and someone even more stupid is husband four.
Third wife: An overseas lady so I thought was well raised and conservative. No skill which I was ok with as she is from a male dominated country. Her only job was to take care of me and of course her children from a previous marriage. I met her five years ago…she earned about $400 USD (equivalent) a month. Overseas I started working and I provided her children with better schools and gave her an allowance so she did not have to work; rather she could take care of the children and me properly.
A poor asian in a poor country, no skill in the workforce other than stocking T-shirts at a tourist shop, no way to save a nickel, no way to raise the children properly.
Well, all women are the same, east or west, they are the same. How hard can I work to provide luxury to someone else? With no reward to me. No appreciation. No recognition. Only s~~~ on with she wants more. And then try to extort.
I am done. Done. Done. Done. I can not physically recover from another bitch from hell. I am approaching mid-fifties.
I want my sense of humor again (taken away 20 years ago). I want to exercise again ( I loved running and other cardio). I want to talk to someone without being scrutinized.
I want to be me again. Fun, energetic, smile.
Thank you MGTOW for your support and to all other men struggling to be the man they were.
BE F~~~ING CAREFUL AND DON’T SAY “IT WON’T HAPPEN TO ME.”

[JVBParticipant]

You have plenty of years ahead of you sir. You got to put all that in the rear view and look forward. Put the rage and regret down and focus on your goals. Welcome to you !!

Peace is > piece.

[Anonymous 7]

Welcome, good sir.

You are in good company here, and there is a lot of support, as well as, a boot to the ass when needed.

The she devil grinder chips to the bone. It will take time to heal. Just know the knowledge and humor found here will help you to heal.

AWALT

Edit to add:
Your avatar has given me a great idea for what I’m making for lunch, so you’re an inspiration for someone today. Thank you.

Stay positive about yourself – your abilities, as well as, the contribution you make to your own life.

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

Welcome. Although there were many red flags – you’ve learned and can now move on fully cognizant of the pitfalls of hitching yourself and wallet to anyone.
I’m a few years older than you and my son – who is a 27 year old soon to be physician – has no interest in me. So I can somewhat relate to the pain of having your daughter abandon you. Just know things can and will get better so long as you stay in forward drive and never reverse.
I’ve been a participant on these forums for almost two years. The wisdom, strength and confidence I’ve gained through the tribulations of our brothers is immense. You are NOT alone. We understand better than any woman – or mangina or simp for that matter – the truth about women and modern society in general. Full speed ahead Mate – and steady as she goes!

[joetechParticipant]

It took me two ex wives and an ex girlfriend from hell to learn those lessons. At 62 I’m finally living my own life on my own terms. Don’t forget what you’ve learned. Welcome too the forums.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[NerevarParticipant 8040]

Welcome, brother! Know that all unmarried men here will NEVER marry, we keep all our s~~~ for ourselves and refuse c~~~s to claim (a large) part of it. If there are men here in relations~~~s, they hopefully have everything settled financially.

May I ask, though, as to why you remarried and then again?

"One of the best things internet exposed is just how insane women are." - Freeman_K

[The AirmanParticipant 74]

Why I remarried again and again?
Good question.
I can only say that I thought I was doing the right thing.

[The AirmanParticipant 74]

My Avatar I chose because it was something I ordered the way I wanted it.

[HitmanParticipant]

welcome airman,
i thought it could never happen to me either,
until it DID !
glad you found the site.
it will be one of the best things you ever did by joining.
this changes EVERYTHING my friend.
and your’e in very good company here.
enjoy !!!

[The Manipulated ManParticipant 1856]

Welcome TA,

You and I are from the same generation and both of us have made similar mistakes.

My last great “Unicorn” hunt and remnants of NAWALT ended with Asian women. For too many Western men, Asian woman have some charming qualities which get us trapped into “RelationS~~~S” with them. Their version of femininity does an excellent job of concealing their voracious appetites which destroys men.

One a side note, it is interesting that all my “RelationS~~~S” with women from all over the world made me more obsessive/ compulsive than I am as a MGTOW.

I gained weight when I was involved with Asian women. Sex gives me an appetite. In my defense, the spicy food is wonderful.

Here is a fundamental law: All women are biologically hard wired to take care of themselves.
This law is the basis for a Woman’s Narcissism.
This law is a foundation for Woman’s Nature.

AWALT.

Asian women are Masters at obfuscating this law and the consequences for their Western men.

I was surprised how the female Buddhist had no real compassion for their men, in spite of their grand gestures. They are fabulous at pretending to be compassionate which definitely fooled me for some time. These woman are quite “compassionate” towards their own endeavors and their family, but never to their Male “Providers” in reality.

Now I understand that “Woman’s Nature” and “Woman’s Narcissism” has a biological function.

Anyway, many thanks for signing up as a member and making your first Introduction.

Here are some tips:

Do not give out any information about yourself that will enable our Great Enemy to identify you.

I am going to ask you some questions that you are not required to answer.

The reason I am asking is because I want you to think about where you are as a MGTOW and what is waiting for you down the MGTOW road.

Too many men, especially myself, who have spent their time as Blue Pill slaves have had no lives during that time outside their marriage. Blue Pill men generally have few hobbies, friends, future goals, and interests on the Plantation because all of a man’s resources, including mental/ time, are used up serving his adult child woman and HER children. And I have found that men with daughters have the least, out of the blue pill slaves.

Kindly share some of the fun things that you do for yourself.

What are your plans for the future?

All of my experience with women have lead me to the conclusion that “Unicorns” do not exist anywhere in the World. They never did. And that all of the nonsense about “Love” and “Soul Mates” which comes out of a woman’s mouth is an illusion.

I was also shocked to discover that an Asian woman’s intelligence did not help her to understand or see her own Narcissistic behavior. She can parrot some words, but there is never any understanding and/or guilt about her vile behavior. In fact, her great intelligence makes a powerful weapon in support of the dreadful aspects of “Woman’s Nature.”

The West had memorialized Women’s Nature in the tales of “Helen of Troy” and the “Whore of Babayan.”

Some fine example of Woman’s Nature come from South Asia and my favorite is Kali:

What happens when a man finally comprehends the cold and calculating thoughts that are going through a woman's mind, while her eyes are brimming with tears?

[BlacqueJacqueShellacqueParticipant 6890]

Good lord Mr. Airman! Welcome to the forums. I hope you’ve been reading lots. You are a good example for the younger dudes out there. I’ve heard of once bitten twice shy buy not thrice bitten, my, my.

Looking forward to your enlightened posts. Three go’s?! You’ll have stories.

[The AirmanParticipant 74]

I am overseas now.
This time I kept all me assets in the USA and she has no means or ability to get my assets.
I will spend the next month here then travel to North America and spend time with my Mother and Father.
She took all the monetary contents from my wallet; the local currency + my safety stash of $100 US notes. Just another example of entitlement I suppose.

[BlacqueJacqueShellacqueParticipant 6890]

The Airman wrote:

My Avatar I chose because it was something I ordered the way I wanted it.

Also, this is one of the BEST explanations of an avatar ever! You’re sense of humour is already returning.

[The AirmanParticipant 74]

BlacqueJacqueShellacque wrote:

Good lord Mr. Airman! Welcome to the forums. I hope you’ve been reading lots. You are a good example for the younger dudes out there. I’ve heard of once bitten twice shy buy not thrice bitten, my, my.

Looking forward to your enlightened posts. Three go’s?! You’ll have stories.

To the young dudes–it is hard to start over and start over. And with each woman from hell takes away your personality as well as your assets.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Only a few years behind you. 2 divorces. Now, I have a vasectomy and I only have a non-cohabitating gf and that is contingent upon her not becoming a drain on me. She waxes love love love for me, and I play along, but in the back of my mind is that she is not my woman, this is just my turn. I don’t let myself get attached to any woman anymore; I’m not sure I could if I tried — once you understand women, you can’t love them anymore.

I don’t believe romantic love is real, so I wonder if she is lying to herself, lying to me, or both.

I did briefly consider East European, Latin, and Asian women after the cheating 2nd wife left but basically decided that those women just have loose cultural bandages over their hypergamy and that they are the same as Western women right under the cultural surface.

I used to think non-Western cultures could keep hypergamy under control, but now I view it sort of like putting make up over herpes sores.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

The Airman wrote:

Black wrote:

Good lord Mr. Airman! Welcome to the forums. I hope you’ve been reading lots. You are a good example for the younger dudes out there. I’ve heard of once bitten twice shy buy not thrice bitten, my, my.

Looking forward to your enlightened posts. Three go’s?! You’ll have stories.

To the young dudes–it is hard to start over and start over. And with each woman from hell takes away your personality as well as your assets.

At this point in time, I think you and I both realize that all bitches must f~~~ off from marriage. My girlfriend has her own job & house and she doesn’t even keep her toothbrush at my place.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[MarketWatcherParticipant]

Welcome home brother.

The Airman wrote:

My Avatar I chose because it was something I ordered the way I wanted it.

Exactly! What YOU want for a change.

[CUNTHATERParticipant 324]

100% correct. All c~~~s are THE SAME. As an example, I’m on a “Christian” dating site. This “Christian” c~~~ I messaged replied (after taking a look at my profile – one is notified if a c~~~ looks at his profile) saying that she “didn’t want to leave me hanging” as she was “talking to someone” and that she “is not a good juggler.” Lying POS c~~~. If my profile had been attracted to her, no way does she say that. She’d trade up. C~~~ – no wonder you are alone.

Best advice: pump and dump or better yet stay the hell away. Never marry these evil C~~~S. They are all the same and always looking to trade up. How easy it is for this s~~~heads to cheat on a man via their cell phones. STAY AWAY.

American cunts constantly think they live in a reality TV show.....Evil POSs....ALL CUNTS ARE THE SAME….THERE ARE NO UNICORNS!!! EVEN CHURCH GOING, PROCLAIMED VIRGINS ARE THE SAME CUNTS…..THEY ALL MONKEY BRANCH…TO HELL WITH THEM ALL!!!

[Back in BlackParticipant 1732]

Ouch! Unfortunately I can relate. You and I are about the same age and I also married and divorced three times. The blue pill dose was heavy in me.

Sorry to hear about your daughter – that sucks.

You are in the right place. This place is the only place online or off like this. All men, all the time. We know the pain you feel. Continue to bring it and share your experience and wisdom with us.

"Women are directly adapted to act as the nurses and educators of our early childhood, for the simple reason that they themselves are childish, foolish, and short-sighted—in a word, are big children all their lives, something intermediate between the child and the man, who is a man in the strict sense of the word. Consider how a young girl will toy day after day with a child, dance with it and sing to it; and then consider what a man, with the very best intentions in the world, could do in her place.” Quote from Arthur Shopenhauer, 17th century philosopher

[JimBoLeaParticipant 1891]

WELCOME TO THE FOLD BROTHER. AND I’M TURNING 53 THIS YEAR AND I HAVE NEVER BEEN MARRIED. I THANK GOD UP ABOVE THAT I NEVER GOT HOOKED UP WITH THEM SUCCUBUSSES F~~~ING WHORE BITCHES FROM THE FINAL DIMENSION. I WAS TORTURED BY A F~~~ING PILL POPPING BOX WINE DRINKING BITCH STEP MOTHER. ALL MY TEEN YEARS. AND HAVING 3 STEPFORD STEP SISTERS, MY LIFE WAS A F~~~ING LIVING HELL. I’M GLAD YOU MADE IT THIS FAR, NOW YOU HAVE THE REST OF YOUR LIFE TO BE FREE AND HAPPY GO GET IT. ITS BEEN WAITING FOR YOU…

LILITH IS THE HEAD SUCCUBUS AND SHE LIVES ON THE DARK SIDE OF THE MOON

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