I need to rant – I cannot stand my wife

[Anonymous 12]

I can relate to that I have been with women who are never happy and always angry and just about everything.

[ZarathustraParticipant 2246]

Between the issues when she is driving and the laziness I see her as the worst sort of person: Someone who is controlling and must have her own way but is lazy. That is the worst combination because it always fall on someone else to create the type of environment her controlling personality needs.

[Nags4CashParticipant 1163]

Well there is a third option if you aren’t ready to leave. Man up and treat her like the child she is.

If you have a joint account immediately separate accounts. Don’t buy her anything, you aren’t obligated too. Save all that money for the inevitable divorce. Tell her to buy whatever she needs herself.

Look into your states laws for marriage property sharing. Depending on the state you may benefit from putting everything in your name from now on. Don’t do her any favors from now on. If she disagrees with anything you say, point at the door and explain to her who it is that pays for the house. Treat her like a disobedient child from now on. You won’t let the kids act like that, so why let her?

It might seem like to much work and fuss, but you are killing yourself by sitting there and playing the ignoring game. Do yourself the Justice you deserve and do not tolerate or accept this behavior from someone that you support financially.

Murph ~ There is nothing brave or manly about entering into a contract with somebody which allows them to take your money, assets, children, and decades of your future income on a mere whim.

[Nags4CashParticipant 1163]

And turn off her phone if you pay for that too.

She’s convinced she owns you, prove her wrong.

And cancel that f~~~ing trip. Buy yourself a motorcycle instead.

Also there’s nothing wrong with telling her that you find her to be an unattractive slob. Tell her to fix it or you’ll leave. She can’t get anyone else in her current condition.

Murph ~ There is nothing brave or manly about entering into a contract with somebody which allows them to take your money, assets, children, and decades of your future income on a mere whim.

[MoreSkyParticipant 4865]

"...reinvent your life because you must; it is your life and its history and the present belong only to you.” It is Your Life, Charles Bukowski.

[hmskl’dParticipant 6406]

Nags4Cash wrote:

Buy yourself a motorcycle instead.

I agree

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

After two marriages I can safely say that you will lose far more than you will gain by staying with an obese nasty bitch. I was fortunate in that at least they kept in reasonable physical shape but the nagging, the fights, the constant s~~~ tests will wear away at your core. I now suffer from severe depression and anxiety, am financially decimated and physically exhausted. Get out now – it DOES NOT get better.

I saw a young woman today while riding the red line subway home in Chicago. I was sitting next to her part of the way. She was a ten plus if thats possible. Stunning. But my fancy quickly turned to relief that she got off the train and I continued home. Beneath her immense beauty likely is a controlling wench.

[Won'tGetFooledAgainParticipant 3293]

Truthseeker82 wrote:

After two marriages I can safely say that you will lose far more than you will gain by staying with an obese nasty bitch. I was fortunate in that at least they kept in reasonable physical shape but the nagging, the fights, the constant s~~~ tests will wear away at your core. I now suffer from severe depression and anxiety, am financially decimated and physically exhausted. Get out now – it DOES NOT get better.

Totally agree, it is nearly five years since I separated from my ex-wife due to her cheating and I feel exactly the same. I am 44, if I had never got married I would be looking at either retirement or doing a job I actually enjoy.

They all want to sit on their ass all day at home doing f~~~ all while spending every penny you earn on useless s~~~. They only live for the moment and feelz, so don’t plan for the future they just want to spend every penny they can get hold of now. All the while they are sending you to the plantation, all they can think about is chad tingles until it gets too much and they divorce rape you.

My divorce has made me question everything, how doing a job you hate every day to buy s~~~ you don’t need is a waste of time. Trust me, having that slightly bigger house or nicer car makes no difference to your life in the long run.

All I want is a simple life with no drama and enough money to live a frugal existance. If you break things down logically, everything your average blue piller does is for that one minute of being b~~~~ deep in a woman. Working 8 hours a day, the commuting, the stress, the financial worries, the trying (and failing) to keep the bitch happy, the holidays you don’t want to go on, the house renovations you don’t want, buying her a car all of that in exchange for some s~~~, mechanical sex once a month.

F~~~ that.

For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

[Anonymous 12]

Crowbar wrote:

(I saw a message she sent to a friend saying how she was trying to get under my skin but I wasn’t reacting to her).

ALERT!

What is this woman planning!
Act like she has a Gun pointed at your head.
Is she trying to make you run away?
what else has she started doing?

“plan your exit”…

maybe she has been planning your exit for months or years.
behave accordingly.

[Duke TogoParticipant 2664]

You only have 2 options:

1. See a lawyer first thing tomorrow and file for divorce; or

2. Just disappear with the children and leave her flat on her ass with no money to survive on.

Time for ranting is over. Now is the time for action or suffering the consequences of your inaction.

Just because you know the score, it does not mean a thing if you don’t act on that knowledge.

Have some pride and self respect and get that bitch out of your life.

[MonkParticipant 16979]

Anonymous wrote:

… maybe she has been planning your exit for months or years.

Don’t they all?

[Anonymous 12]

Monk wrote:

g-mow wrote:

… maybe she has been planning your exit for months or years.

Don’t they all?

I did not want to be THAT blunt, but…
maybe you have a point.

MayyyYyYYYbe.

[DocParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

.45 or .38? Whichever solution is right for you!

Howitzer would be top choice.

The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

[Anonymous 12]

too much effort, too much $$$ spent on taking out the trash.
and the logistix of that…

a fork or a kitchen knife.
John Wick once killed 3 men in a bar with a simple Pencil.
i am sure you heard the story.

[Parker (Freedom Fighter)Participant 99]

Not a problem on the rant, my brother!

I had a good friend over the other day to my place for a little PS4 and he was saying the exact same things about his wife.

So glad I never married or had kids!

[CrowbarParticipant 192]

Late reply – thanks, fellas. Nice to be able to rant to like-minded gentlemen.

I now have to listen to her bitch about her job (she’s a teacher, and goes back this week, and is constantly complaining about it). I got the pleasure of having her accompany the kids and I to the pool the other day – got to listen to her bitch about me picking the wrong cooler, about how crowded it was (no s~~~, Sherlock, it’s 90 degrees), and to top it off, I got to show off my 200 lb wife to the other men there. As a bonus, was able to see her stuff her face with pizza and candy at the pool.

To those on the fence, can’t stress this enough – don’t let the early sex cloud your judgement. That’s the mistake I made, and now the sex is long gone (not that I really mind, as she weighs almost as much as me, and I’m a good 6-7″ taller than her, and I’m not skinny), and to replace the sex, she substituted laziness and nagging.

ETA – and if you’re considering getting involved with a divorcee, take a second and ask yourself why she’s divorced. My wife was married before, and now I’m realizing why.

[HermitParticipant]

Crowbar wrote:

ETA – and if you’re considering getting involved with a divorcee, take a second and ask yourself why she’s divorced. My wife was married before, and now I’m realizing why.

That’s how damn stupid I was. She was married and divorced 3 times before me, a three time loser and like an idiot, a stupid f~~~ing idiot, I married her. Ah well, it could be worse. I could still be married to her.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[743 roadmasterParticipant]

Start a stash some place only you can get to it.

Divorce is going to be expensive, even though she is a pig it is going to be physically and emotionally draining. Can not stress that part enough.

Also need to document how she acts around the children that is going to come up in court and will be the biggest expense if it goes her way. Record you doing with and for the children. Also record the day to day, that will help how she acts toward you.
Most divorce lawyers are set up to get the women money, so be aware of what yours is going to be doing before going into court.

mgtow is its own worst enemy- https://www.campusreform.org/

[CrowbarParticipant 192]

I copied this verbatim from an article on this site – sums up my life perfectly (except that I have two little kids, not three):

“It’s a weird situation. On the one hand, you don’t want to be a beta and put up with this s~~~. On the other, you also don’t want three little kids to grow up in an atmosphere of constant warfare, fighting and so on. And she’s almost completely incapable of rationally discussing an issue, and working together to arrive at some kind of workable solution. It’s all demands, irrational rage, and pouting. If there were no children, I’d simply leave. But I can’t. So you begin to develop this really bizarre relationship where you emotionally isolate her, acting sort of semi-normal, but not letting her know anything about what you really feel or want because she’ll use it against you. I lie constantly.”

This sums it up for me. She sometimes complains that I don’t communicate – I don’t communicate as if I tell her how I feel or want, then like this guy, it just gets used against me or allows her to bring up something I don’t want to hear about. There’s lots of stuff she doesn’t know about because I don’t tell her. I can’t stand to be around her, but don’t want to uproot the kids’ lives, so for now I just put up with it. As I stated, the sex ended for the most part a decade ago, which is fine as she’s about 5’6″ and I’m guessing around 195 lbs (I’m 6’1″ and around 215). My happiest days are when she’s not around.

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