I need to rant – I cannot stand my wife

[CrowbarParticipant 192]

Please bear with me – I’m just ranting and raving.

I hate going places with her – every driver on the road is a douchebag except for her. If you’re in front of her and slow down to make a turn, you’re a douchebag. Constant road rage, and this is with our little kids in the car.

She is lazy – just sits on her ass playing games on the computer while the kids are playing. I take the kids to the park, to the zoo, to other places and have fun with them. That requires too much energy for her, as she’s content to just sit on her ass complaining about how tired she is.

She makes no effort to stay in shape – says that she’ll start a diet, and after two days she’ll stop because she’s “stress eating”. Constantly catching her stuffing food in her mouth, but then complains about how tired she is. Maybe get off your ass, put the food away, and take the kids to the park.

I have absolutely no interest in talking to her – it’s like talking to a 13 year old, and anything that I say can be twisted or allow her to segue into something she wants to spend money on or bitch to me about.

I can’t stand her siblings – sister is nothing more than an overbearing drama queen who gets what she wants because my wife won’t stand up to her. Brother is better, but he can’t keep his temper in check on stupid crap. If I say anything, then I get in trouble because I “hate her family”.

I have to hide money in my business from her. She has all these ideas of what she wants to do to the house which will cost a bunch of $. She will deplete savings to do this (her savings, as I’m not touching the funds in the business), but she doesn’t care.

Our sex life is non-existent, but considering that she’s around 190 lbs, that’s probably not a bad thing.

I only stay because of my kids. She’s the type that will tell the kids (who are still little) what a douchebag daddy is, and I want to mitigate the effects of her immaturity and laziness on them. They see that I have fun with them and they see that Mommy just sits on her ass.

I’m done ranting. Any men even contemplating marriage need to open their eyes. I’d give anything to go back to my single days. Women aren’t worth it (doubly so for divorced women – there’s a reason that they’re divorced which I wish I had realized). The early sex messed up my brain and I’m now a zombie just going day to day hoping that this is just a horrible dream and that I’ll wake up.

[AwakenedParticipant 35200]

I married her long lost sister……

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[MonkParticipant 16979]

Time to start planning your exit.

[Can’t Stump TrumpParticipant]

How nice were her t~~~?

Women are better at multitasking? Fucking up several things at once is not multitasking.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Crowbar wrote:

Please bear with me – I’m just ranting and raving.

That’s why we’re here. Rant on.
My son has friends from childhood who got married a few years ago. He tells me the same story. Miserable, bossy, good for nothing, fat couch cows whose only skill is complaining. I’m glad he is getting plenty of redpills before he got caught up with any ham-beasts.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[Nags4CashParticipant 1163]

Do not stay for the kids! I can’t stress this enough. You will have good odds for some degree of custody based on what I’m hearing, and when they get older they will understand. Might take until they’re 30, but they will get it. In the mean time, your very soul is being clawed at on a daily basis. All the money you’re saving you will eventually lose a significant portion of it. Cut your loses as fast as possible to save future earnings. Get out asap.

Murph ~ There is nothing brave or manly about entering into a contract with somebody which allows them to take your money, assets, children, and decades of your future income on a mere whim.

[MarketWatcherParticipant]

Monk wrote:

Time to start planning your exit.

Also, do not move out of your house because she says so.

[Anonymous 42]

.45 or .38? Whichever solution is right for you!

[Nags4CashParticipant 1163]

Anonymous wrote:

.45 or .38? Whichever solution is right for you!

You crazy brother 🤣

Murph ~ There is nothing brave or manly about entering into a contract with somebody which allows them to take your money, assets, children, and decades of your future income on a mere whim.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Crowbar wrote:

Women aren’t worth it (doubly so for divorced women – there’s a reason that they’re divorced which I wish I had realized). The early sex messed up my brain and I’m now a zombie just going day to day hoping that this is just a horrible dream and that I’ll wake up.

Me and probably 80% of the guys here have experienced those same things.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[CrowbarParticipant 192]

Thanks for “listening”, gents. Ranger, you’re right on. I got sex right away, and while it wasn’t mind-blowing (I don’t need mind-blowing), it was plentiful. Of course, judgement got clouded, and now I’m where I am today.

CST – how were her t~~~? Actually, not bad. 🙂 Back when we had sex, there was enough to enjoy.

I’ve been thinking of planning my exit, but I hesitate due to her immaturity. As I mentioned in the rant, she’s the type to let the kids know how horrible I am, plus she’s very lazy and I don’t want them exposed to that if she had them. I just stay around to keep my influence as I want my kids to be mature, responsible adults who don’t sit on their ass all day.

She’s also planning a “vacation” (read: a trip). Last time we drove somewhere, the ride home wasn’t fun. She stuffed her face with tons of junk food she got at a convenience store, then when she wasn’t sleeping she was bitching about the other drivers on the road, the traffic (without going into detail, the route we took will have traffic), and how I was driving. I just pretended to ignore her, which I found out annoyed her (I saw a message she sent to a friend saying how she was trying to get under my skin but I wasn’t reacting to her).

[Anonymous 42]

Nags4Cash wrote:

MG-ɹǝʍo┴ wrote:

.45 or .38? Whichever solution is right for you!

You crazy brother

It’s not my fault the solutions are so limited!

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Crowbar wrote:

(I saw a message she sent to a friend saying how she was trying to get under my skin but I wasn’t reacting to her).

It doesn’t sound like a good way to have to live.

Women value drama too much. I prefer peace and tranquility.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[WallyParticipant]

Any man considering marriage needs to read your post ASAP.

It reads like my parents marriage.

run Dad run!!

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[GregB0Participant]

Crowbar wrote:

I’m now a zombie just going day to day hoping that this is just a horrible dream and that I’ll wake up.

Hang in there and as Monk suggests……

Monk wrote:

Time to start planning your exit.

and until you are able to leave remember ….

FrostByte wrote:

That’s why we’re here. Rant on.

Once again, Men helping Men when the deck seems stacked against them.

​"​My father didn't tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.​" - Clarence Buddinton Kelland

[HermitParticipant]

Crowbar wrote:

I’m now a zombie just going day to day hoping that this is just a horrible dream and that I’ll wake up.

She must not be that bad. When I was married, I was hoping for a very early death………..either hers or mine, didn’t matter which.

I understand completely. I’m sure just about all men who have been married do as well. It is a miserable existence, living with a woman. I was there where you are now. I pray that you will soon be rid of her so you can begin your life again.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[DorkShitParticipant 4353]

You sound like you get it. You are able to stand outside of the fray and see her as the child she is.

You need to work on you. She wants you to hate. Work on your relationship with your father.

She thinks you are a weak man. Show her nothing.

Take control of your life. If you get rid of her your children lose. You will never find a woman that is any better than what you have.

She is facing the abyss of misery. She realizes that with you none of her hopes and dreams will come true. She hates her father. Through him, she hates you. Your marriage to you had nothing to do with you. You represent her father.

Take control of the spoiled child if you can. No joint bank accounts. No loans. No credit cards. Squeeze the juice. Be the father. Be the man. Stand firm.

Peace brother.

Peace brothers

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22508]

Crowbar wrote:

Thanks for “listening”, gents. Ranger, you’re right on. I got sex right away, and while it wasn’t mind-blowing (I don’t need mind-blowing), it was plentiful. Of course, judgement got clouded, and now I’m where I am today.

CST – how were her t~~~? Actually, not bad. 🙂 Back when we had sex, there was enough to enjoy.

I’ve been thinking of planning my exit, but I hesitate due to her immaturity. As I mentioned in the rant, she’s the type to let the kids know how horrible I am, plus she’s very lazy and I don’t want them exposed to that if she had them. I just stay around to keep my influence as I want my kids to be mature, responsible adults who don’t sit on their ass all day.

She’s also planning a “vacation” (read: a trip). Last time we drove somewhere, the ride home wasn’t fun. She stuffed her face with tons of junk food she got at a convenience store, then when she wasn’t sleeping she was bitching about the other drivers on the road, the traffic (without going into detail, the route we took will have traffic), and how I was driving. I just pretended to ignore her, which I found out annoyed her (I saw a message she sent to a friend saying how she was trying to get under my skin but I wasn’t reacting to her).

See, right there. This doing s~~~ to p~~~ you off. Its on’y going to get worse and the stuff she will do to get a reaction will get more dangerous. This is supposedly the person who loves you most, pulling this s~~~ on you. You really do need to consider getting out of this marriage fast. Be the one that files first. It does make a difference no matter what anyone says otherwise. Its already worse for men by default, dont be the defendant. be the plaintiff. It truly makes a difference.

Just make sure if you fill stuff out online, to regularly check that you still are listed as the plaintiff. I helped a buddy of mine file his divorce online, and no s~~~, the system repeatedly changed him to denfendant, and his ex to plantiff. That is how stacked it might be, but it also proves it is important to be the plantiff. By default, defendant is the negative positon. Men are already in the negative position in divorce, being defendant makes it worse.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[BadgerParticipant 2277]

Wally wrote:

Any man considering marriage needs to read your post ASAP.

I will just repeat this quote of excellent advice to anyone on this forum contemplating marriage.

You can read the posts of guys on the other forums who have gone through divorce to find out how to protect yourself, your business and assets, and the children because it appears that eventually that is where you are headed. She might surprise you with divorce instead of you initialing it. That is what happens in the majority of cases. The guys on MGTOW are here to help. You only need to ask.

[Knarley BobParticipant 2219]

Doing any thing to push your buttons is a classic tactic. If you react, it’s ammo for her. If you don’t it will make her crazier. Document the times she tries to instigate a fight, don’t respond. Contact a lawyer and get the ball rolling, be the one to start the divorce.
It will put her on the defensive, and you more in the driver’s seat.
My Ex started it, moved out when I was gone. I was without a leg to stand on. And the stuff she took, I couldn’t get back.

Sounds like your kids already know the score, they are smarter than you think.

OATHKEEPERS, not on our watch. MOLON LABE

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