I need some real advice

[Mover1799Participant 58]

You cant be afraid of women , there is nothing wrong in having a good conversation and getting to know someone, the only thing that is important is to keep your guard up at all time.  Women’s emotions, from my personal experience, can turn on/off like a light switch, you just gotta be ready IF that happens, which it usually does.

But there are rare occasions where you can have a good female friend (with benefits) and can talk to her about anything and she can relate, but do not AT ANYTIME develop anything else from this or it will blow up in your face most of the time.

[xgreenlanternoxParticipant 253]

Thanks again all but the answer to this one has to be no on all levels other than acquaintance. I am stuck in a lease for 6 more months at this place. the minute all of this goes south as it always will, it becomes a war zone that I can’t escape and it’s not worth it. Just like you don’t s~~~ where you eat at work, same rules apply here. There are plenty of other females out there that are potential f~~~ buddy candidates that don’t live anywhere near me if I need to find one that badly at some point 🙂

[Anonymous 9]

Well I think both of you realize there’s some sexual tension there, and in my experience if I sleep over a chicks house and don’t f~~~ her then she holds some kind of resentment towards me after that.

That usually occurred in my younger days, but now I’m of the mindset that if she invites me over there’s nothing but sex in the equation; especially if she’s hot, and oozes sex appeal. I’m not the friendly guy who sits over and chats about boring s~~~ anymore. I usually make things happen in a sexual way, and she would want it no other way because she invited me over for a reason.

If you want to date then go for it, just don’t get her pregnant.

[xgreenlanternoxParticipant 253]

Anonymous wrote:

if I sleep over a chicks house and don’t f~~~ her then she holds some kind of resentment towards me after that.

It’s interesting you should say that… Now that I think about it, I do remember the last time I stayed over her house she literally asked me in the morning “why do you even stay here?”. I guess that question makes a lot more sense now. Still though, the fact that I live where she does and will be in the middle of a war-zone when everything goes south by catching feelings for me and wanting more is enough to keep me away where I belong. It’s not worth the risk.

[Anonymous 9]

I understand.

Peace of mind is everything. It’s not worth losing it over a piece of ass.

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