I KNEW not to do it (Confronted by jealous boyfriend)

[GrumpyParticipant]

You handled that far far better than I did when I was younger.
I nearly lost my career and my freedom due to some one night stand who’s big bad boyfriend needed to prove how tough he was on her behalf.
She was f~~~ing around, got caught, pointed fingers and he met someone who meets violence with violence.
Jealousy is easy to instill and easier to manipulate. Ironically it costs more in pain and suffering for all involved than it is worth.

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[QuellParticipant 2538]

Oooh look at the big blue piller pounding his chest!

Will be sweet to see him crying in the gutter when she leaves him in 1-2 months.

[BrainPilotParticipant 7640]

Even the best of us occasionally needs to be reminded of what we already know…

Stay strong brother.

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

[BraceParticipant 467]

Antipathy wrote:

Brace wrote:

u dodged a bullet. now do urself a favor and never be friends with girls. it never works. I thank you alot for sharing this, alot of guys will learn from ur post.

This is spot on. Girls don’t know how to be a “friend”. They can pretend to be, when they forgot money for the vending machine at work, or when their car is stuck in a snowdrift … but that’s about it. Anything other than that, expect to be stabbed in the back at every turn, expect to be lied to, have your emotions torn to shreds, and ultimately, prepare to be left at the first hint of trouble. They are no “friend” to man.

boys and girls can’t be friends. I’ve learned that the hard way, been in both situations. it’s this simple.

if shes hot u would want to bang her.

if she’s ugly she would want to bang u.
people dance around these 2 points pretending it’s only friendship, both genders can be collegues, teammates, work buddies, or group partner, but calling it friendship is whole different ball game. I rarely interact with the girls in my master group and when I do it’s school related. I’m glad they grew tired of trying to get close. now they never invite me to anything outside of our common dominator our MS program.

calling someone a friend mean u trust them to a degree. and wouldn’t mind relying on them. if ur in trouble would u call a male or a female friends? we all know the answer to that. some guys would put their necks out to save ur or my ass and ask nothing in return but appreciation. we all been through that. and apart from family a guy friend is always one phone call away not a gal female friend.

[Sky-OParticipant 18953]

Good ol’ manipulative triangulation.

Because snowflake’s pussy is capable of creating as much drama as it wants to.

Meanwhile. . .

She sits back and enjoys the chaos she stirred up.

[Anonymous 3]

Female friends are bulls~~~. Even if you’re the one in the friendzone, the moment you withdraw your attention, be a little more assertive, give a little less f~~~, the moment you stop giving in to her bulls~~~, all of a sudden she comes after you.

I remember I was with this “female friend” some years ago, she was talking about how she was with this guy and how good at sex he was. I was thinking, okay why the f~~~ are you telling me that? So I went off and said something like “Speaking of being good at sex, man I remember I f~~~ed this beautiful Argentinian chick a while back. What a goddess. I tell her, you got a huge heart you know that? So huge you can actually see it if you turn your head around and look down. She loves getting her hair pulled while I’m hitting it from behind. Man, ain’t that a sight, I’m telling ya. Can you imagine my view? Damn, I wonder what happened to her. Let me tell ya something, those South American chicks, man, they’re the s~~~…”

I just went on and went on, completely uncensored and obnoxious, and as graphic and vulgar as possible, trying to entertain myself. The entire time the girl only responded with yeah, yeah, yeah, and got really quiet. I was like giving a monologue. I turned to her and all of a sudden, she got that f~~~ me look, puppy dog eyes, staring at me, biting her lips a little bit. I ask her “You want to hear more?” She gives me a really quiet no. Several long awkward seconds go by and she doesn’t say anything so I decided to bail and said you know I have to go, I’ll talk to you later, and I just walked out the door. Immediately after, she texted me saying something like “I’m sorry, hearing you being with other women just makes me feel really jealous for some reason. I don’t know but I don’t want to think about other women touching you. :(” And wants me to come over so we can “talk”.

It’s difficult enough to find true friends. I can count mine in one hand. Men and women can never see eye to eye, and that makes it that much more difficult to be friends, if not impossible. Be friendly to women, by all means if you want, but never try to make friends with them. It’s always drama and trouble. It’s always a game to make somebody in the party jealous or some s~~~.

[Anonymous 1]

Solid wrote:

PistolPete wrote:

You were set up man! You were a pawn in a s~~~ test.

You nailed it brother ! Just a pawn in her sick and twisted game !

Last month I have a similar situation, a c~~~ told her boyfriend that when they were on a break she slept with me, well, I didn’t even talk to her that week, and it was just a big s~~~ test.

He played the mangina bluepiller, all s~~~ and rage, said some things and threatened to beat the s~~~ out of me, things that he will regret soon, because he will start to work with me in a project next month.

And acted as was MY fault that his slutty girlfriend slept with me in her imagination… They are together now and I don’t know what happened. AWALT, they don’t have idea and don’t even care about the consequences of their s~~~ty games.

You know what possibly will happen ? That mangina-hipster will work with me, he will act like an ass for obvious reasons, all other coworkers will think that he is crazy and he will be fired. That c~~~ just f~~~ed his future job with a nonsense game…

AWALT !

No mercy for the mangina! if he is not capable of breaking up after she told him about cheating (either true or false) then he deserves everything that will come from this s~~~.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

HIM: “Leave. My Girl. Alone.”

YOU “Lemme guess. She made up some bulls~~~ to make you jealous and you believed it. Don’t fall for it, man. Oldest trick in the book. Have a nice day.”

Bros before ho’s. RIGHT? Take the guys’ side. Know what I mean? You can indirectly let him know you don’t bang other guys chicks as a personal policy. Even if she’s naked and begging you for it, it’s not happening. You can say that out loud on facebook if it ever comes to that.

This is how you remove yourself and she’s can’t use you….. but you also let the other guy know you’re on HIS side – while jabbing at his ego a little and implying nah, you can keep her. I don’t compete with other guys for women.

BE BETTER AT THE GAMES WOMEN PLAY.

Women will lie and take each others side the name of “the sisterhood”. So why do guys wanna kill each other over some chick? Women play their little jealousy games to create drama. Sometimes they will plot to see if you would cheat with her friend! And they are in on it behind your back.

So while other guys will white knight , grandstand, peac~~~, start conflicts and compete for women…. you refuse to play that game and let them openly have her. Completely. “She’s all yours man. I assure you. Don’t tell me you fell for her cheap jealousy trick. They all do it. “ etc. etc. etc.

You disqualify the girl as not worth the trouble.
And you indirectly disqualify his taste in women at the same time.

He thinks she’s worth starting conflicts for.
You let him know NO woman is worth fighting for.

Touché.

“MY GIRL”. What a tragic case of one-itis. He suffers from the center-of-the-universe misconception. Have fun with that. He thinks she’s IT. The sun rises and sets in her pants and you’re automatically some slimy douche who wants a piece behind his back? NO WAY!! Don’t let him even think it.

This will p~~~ her off to no end, too.
Social manipulation is a woman’s game. BE BETTER AT IT.

Sky-O wrote:

Good ol’ manipulative triangulation.
Because snowflake’s pussy is capable of creating as much drama as it wants to.
Meanwhile. . .
She sits back and enjoys the chaos she stirred up.

And now he knows how to take the wind out of her sails.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[ConstantineParticipant 4420]

“I was a real ass to let him send that stuff”? WTF? If she had said, “I didn’t know that he was sending those messages to you”, it might be one thing, but she knew what he was doing and “let him” do it anyway?

Does your conscience work on a delay there, f~~~wit?

Oh and “He was out of town for the next few months, so we broke up”. Interesting. So he “loved her more than anybody else ever could” yet they still parted ways. Who said romance is dead.

To see what is in front of one's nose requires a constant struggle. -Orwell

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

She didnt think her boyfriend didnt care that much for her, so she used you to make her feel better about it. Now we understand why the boyfriend doesnt care. What a c~~~.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

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