I have nothing, want a divorce.

[AstroParticipant 2045]

Even my wife knows I have nothing but a cheap home my dad owns and he died in 2009. I would rather burn with Oscar (my dachshund) in this home than give it away and she well knows I will light the flame. To me, life means nothing. I just need the money to end it and we will both agree there is nothing to save. The divorce should be dirt cheap as we have no kids and nothing to fight over. I live in Knoxville, does anyone know a cheap local lawyer? If so, we need to negotiate a price…

[Anonymous 42]

Hang in there Sparky, you’ll get through it and be STRONGER in the END!

Some guys don’t make it through to the other side where peace and tranquility await the injured men from the GREAT WAR ON MEN started by WOMEN! A journey through hell on earth!

Life can actually be enjoyable, you just need to let your flag fly! Never give up, never surrender! Or the land of the free and the home of the brave!

[Anonymous 43]

stop.

Stop this bulls~~~ on this forum. This is not where you need to be right now. You need to be in the county clerk’s office getting documents.

I am not a lawyer, I am not a financial planner or associated with the housing or title industry. I am not a county clerk. Seek your own professional advice. I am an idiot on the internet.

Consult with a lawyer. Consultations are free. He will give you things to do.

honestly, by not having the house in your name, you may have f~~~ed this up beyond recognition, like the house goes into probate, and you need to vacate or be evicted then no one gets any equity. I have no idea if this is the case. Sort this house s~~~ out first. Do not put your c~~~ on the title. do not put the c~~~ on the title. Do not put the c~~~ on the title to the house. Remove all her s~~~ from the house before the title is in your name. No items of hers in the house, emery boards, underwear, toothbrushes, box of tampons, nothing. Bag it all up and get it out. Hire a bunch of college kids to do it for you…$20 and pizza. Done. If one fake fingernail can be found anywhere in the house, she can lay claim to your house. Do not be nice about this. The time for nice has long passed. Nice will cost you money, time and probably your house. lol let her prove that she ever lived there. She abandoned the house, lost all claim to it, too f~~~ing bad for her.

Once the house is in your name, look into getting a homeowner line of credit before your wife can put a claim on the house…fix the house. My god when did plywood become $100 a sheet? pad the bill a lot, now hire the lawyer with this money. You have money and she doesn’t, too f~~~ing bad. Crush this c~~~. Do not buy a car, do not buy a boat do not buy furniture or anything that your c~~~ can take from you.. Do buy something shiny and metallic, and make it go away. Do this in city far away. poof, gone? where? what? I have nothing but repair bills your honor. Put debts on the financial disclosure. get receipts. The house needed $90K in repairs, here is an estimate from a contractor and a house condition report

Contact credit bureaus. There are three of them. Put a hold on your account…no new credit in your name. Take her off your credit cards. Take her off bank accounts. Do not open new bank accounts until after divorce is finished. Avoid marital assets.

house issue done, now dump that bitch. Get her s~~~ out of there. all of it. Scrub every trace out of there. I do mean trace. Professional cleaning company will suck up her dandruff, hair, nail clippings, her scent will be suck out and blown away.

Go to court, preserve your rights and your home. Lawyer will take care of things from there. Do not be nice. Lawyer will not be nice.

Go do this. start tomorrow. Lawyer, county clerk’s office. Go. Forum will not help. Real world problem requires real world action.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Actually get it done.

After you get that divorce certificate you breath, you feel safe.

I know trust me.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[It’sallbsParticipant]

My only comment would be to do as May has advised and stat now not this afternoon or tomorrow, now.

I’d also get a bodycam if you have not already got one.

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[Anonymous 43]

hmmm it is 7:15 am in his time zone…Get going Sparky you have 30 minutes to s~~~, shower and shave. General quarters, all hands to battle f~~~ing stations! GOGOGOGOGOGOGOGOGO Lawyer’s offices open at 9. Lawyers are in court in the morning, set an appointment for this afternoon. Consult first, then county clerk, they close at 4 usually. Let’s go Sparky, Get the lead out!

This needed to be done 8 years ago, but maybe this is good, you get to decide who is put on the new deed and title. Please tell me your dad did not leave the house to both of you, just you alone, right?

God Damn, having a wife really f~~~s things up. Getting married ought to be illegal!

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

If you both have nothing worth fighting over, and you both agree upon that then a mediator for the both of you could probably do the divorce. I would still consult an attorney as if you both agree and there are no kids or cash then he could probably do it quickly as well. Either way STAY FACTUAL, and don’t turn it into an emotional s~~~ show.

Also, at the same time your consulting your attorney about the divorce inquire about clearing up your real estate issues as well.

Spend the beginning of this year CLEARING up all your CRAP, and the rest of the time rebuilding YOUR LIFE.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[IRuleMeParticipant]

I agree with May.

SHE WANTS THIS OF YOU SPARKY! She WANTS you to be all f~~~ed up in your head, so you forget to do the things you need to do. She WANTS you to ignore the work that needs to be done, in hopes that you won’t notice, or won’t put up a fight, so she can come and get more of your stuff. Take your house, all your things. She doesn’t give a f~~~ if you live or die. Which is precisely why you SHOULD give a f~~~ if you live or die. Throw it in her face, prove her wrong. She don’t give a f~~~ if you take your own life. Why should she? She don’t care if you’re homeless on the street. Why should she? All the better to her.

ARE YOU GONNA LET HER WIN!!!!?

F~~~ THAT!

Take from her the satisfaction of victory and rub her nose in it. Stand stall. Emerge from the ashes a stronger person. Take control of your life. Show her, and the world that you will not be f~~~ing beaten!

Get rid of your house. Get a new place. Move on. That home is going to be nothing but negative energy and bad memories. As long as you stay there, you will never truly be able to move forward. Both as a MGTOW, AND as a MAN. Leave that house where it belongs. With the memories of the past. Settle into a new home, somewhere, ANYWHERE else. Your situation isn’t working for you. Being a part time driver doesn’t suite what you need to survive. And staying in a house where you were royally f~~~ed isn’t suiting your progress. Change your situation. Make progress.

If you’re situation in life isn’t working for you, change your situation.

[Anonymous 43]

Awakened…If is a mighty big word.

I tried the mediator thing in my case, the c~~~ blew that all to hell. She forced the mediator to sign off on no further mediation was possible when she had everything to lose and I had nothing to give. I wanted cheap, easy, no drama. What I got was a s~~~show in court every week for 6 years.

Try mediation just for s~~~s and giggles. Prepare for war.

[Anonymous 43]

Sparky, fight for your life, it’s a pretty good one.

[IRuleMeParticipant]

A man who is emotional and doesn’t have his wits about him is easy to defeat. He is in his own head, and will make careless mistakes. That’s exactly what she’s banking on. Who does burning the house f~~~ over? HER? Not even close. YOU? YOU F~~~ING BET!

You can either choose to be your own worst enemy, or your own best friend.

[Anonymous 42]

Anonymous wrote:

Getting married ought to be illegal

Getting married more than once should be illegal!

Now wouldn’t that grind the Marry’go’round to a screeching f~~~ing halt?!?!

After divorce nobody should have any rights to any hearings at all!

That would drop an atomic-bomb on the marriage/divorce industry!

No second timers! You’re out and you’re OUT FOR GOOD!

One marriage, each person, one lifetime! Nobody gets a second chance!

Forgive them?

let them destroy again and again?

No! GAME OVER! YOU’RE OUT!!!!!

[Anonymous 43]

The lawyer is not emotional and he will cut through the crap. This is why you hire a lawyer, to take things apart, and to get the best possible deal for you. Give a little to look reasonable. By little I mean nothing if possible.

[Anonymous 1]

Don’t drag it on. Do it now get it done. It will take long enough. Things will not improve until you do. Take the first steps And Disengage.

All further contact goes though the lawyer. Start thinking long term. It is war for your life.

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

Anonymous wrote:

I tried the mediator thing in my case, the c~~~ blew that all to hell.

I only suggested that because OP stated that She realizes that they have nothing to fight over, but if she or he turns it into an emotional s~~~ show then this won’t work.

They don’t have resources or kids to fight over so all that’s left to fight about is emotional bulls~~~.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Anonymous 42]

Awakened wrote:

They don’t have resources or kids to fight over so all that’s left to fight about is emotional bulls~~~.

What’s with the house? Who owns it? Who owned it, and what kind of time frames for ownership? Is there a mortgage? Does she lay claim to it of any kind?

Can you get her to sign a settlement for nothing? Can the both of you part and go your own way?

[AstroParticipant 2045]

Anonymous wrote:

Some guys don’t make it through to the other side where peace and tranquility await the injured men from the GREAT WAR ON MEN started by WOMEN! A journey through hell on earth!

You are correct. I took my hits with MGTOW as well but do not give two s~~~s. I have started to enjoy my life with my Dachshund (Oscar M. W.). It may not mean much for those who look for pussy but I can only impress myself. I have a sex doll if I must have it and she is far better than a woman. She has many looks.

[WPLParticipant 2390]

I agree with others here: go talk to a lawyer (or several) NOW! I spoke with several before my divorce. Almost all will give you a free initial consultation, usually 30 minutes in my experience (though one spoke with me for an hour and wouldn’t accept payment for the extra time), and that’s enough to get a rough idea of your legal standing, the lawyer’s style (negotiate vs. attack), things for YOU to do and not do, and a general outline for how each would handle your case. There is literally NO downside to doing this.

You may feel that you have nothing worth fighting over, but when the s~~~ hits the fan, you might be surprised at what she’ll try (especially if her lawyer and the Hive are prodding her on). I know from experience. I owned some vehicles which were NOT marital property, my ex KNEW that, and my ex’s lawyer STILL made a half-hearted attempt to claim them as joint property.

[AstroParticipant 2045]

WOW, you scared me. I will say no more.

[CombatRollParticipant 2594]

If you were in the house prior to marrying her and it was left to you from your father then it is NOT marital property.

If she wants out of the marriage tell her the house is inheritance, not marital property. It is off the table.

Does she even want it? It sounds like she wants out of this marriage just like you do.

Make it happen and be happy, dammit!

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