I hate women

[EyeswideopenParticipant 2930]

Hating women’s behaviour is like hating gravity. It’s futile and counterproductive. They are what they are. You just need to use reasonable and customary precautions with all interactions.

In correct doses, under controlled conditions, gravity can be fun. Think of riding a roller coaster; just no cohabitation, no marriage, no impregnation. Focus on you, your career, your fun, your relaxation time.

- Marriage is described as an institution. You would have to be crazy to be commited to it. -"If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal. Not people or things" Albert Einstein

[Anonymous 1]

[bladeParticipant]

We are all men . Just a natural emotion that in this day and age we are expected to not have . Hey we all get f~~~ed of from time to time . Venting is healthy man s~~~ .

Hey f~~~ you woman you get ya periods and become crazy c~~~s and more than hate the f~~~ing world for a week straight .

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[AttonParticipant]

I’m not at a point yet where I simply “don’t care” about women. I hate them. I’ve been hurt in the past by them, and I can’t seem to let it go. I thought time would heal this hate, but in some ways time has only intensified it. The more I learn about women, and the likely reasons they hurt me in the past, the more I hate them.

You’re not a sith and you never will be.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[Anonymous 42]

I love women! I understand women! I stay away from women!

It may be confusing to some but it’s right as rain to me!

[GrumpParticipant 14]

Hate, as A C Grayling wrote, is a reflexive emotion. It is something you really feel about yourself and then express towards an external target.

I suspect the hatred that the OP feels is anger at himself, for being fooled for so long when he should have known better. Or perhaps he did know better but wouldn’t admit the truth to himself. It is right and proper to feel angry at oneself for making stupid mistakes and betraying oneself. It’s tough to confront failings, especially god awful howlers, but this is how we learn and better ourselves.

When we say we hate others, we often really mean we feel disapproval, disdain, even disgust for qualities or behaviour that engender these reactions. No reason to let these things disturb your mood. Better to be vigilant against them in ourselves.

My direct advice to the OP is a reminder that we only have one (earthly) life to live and it is not a rehearsal. Take personal responsibility for living it as best you can. I’m preaching against myself here but never listen to other people’s advice. Never waste your precious life doing what other people think you should. The W in MGTOW is YOUR way.

[narwhalParticipant]

I agree with what everyone is saying, but I also think that ‘not caring’ is something you have to actively train yourself to do. Hate has become your default response when it comes to women’s behavior. It’s similar to how a white knight has a default response to a woman in distress. In both case, a man needs to work on checking himself and retrain his own behavior.

Many of us have been married or lived rather blue pill lives. Maybe it’s just me, but it’s not as if my default responses to women just changed overnight.

Grump wrote:

Hate, as A C Grayling wrote, is a reflexive emotion. It is something you really feel about yourself and then express towards an external target.

I think there’s some truth to this too. That’s something that we’ve often said about women. Much of their bad behavior says a lot about what they think of themselves.

For me personal, it feels like the less I are about how others treat me, the more I am able to forgive myself for less then spectacular behavior, the move I like myself.

Ok. Then do it.

[MACHOParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

I love women! I understand women! I stay away from women!
It may be confusing to some but it’s right as rain to me!

Tower we are true brothers! I feel the exact same way! Once we make peace with what we can’t change everything becomes clear. The clouds part, love comes back into our hearts.

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[Anonymous 42]

MACHO wrote:

MG-ɹǝʍo┴ wrote:

I love women! I understand women! I stay away from women!
It may be confusing to some but it’s right as rain to me!

Tower we are true brothers! I feel the exact same way! Once we make peace with what we can’t change everything becomes clear. The clouds part, love comes back into our hearts.

And that sir is letting your light shine through the darkness! It’s a very comforting place to be, and reprobate thinking is transparently washed away, the mind becomes much more clear and the decisions become much easier!

[MACHOParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

And that sir is letting your light shine through the darkness! It’s a very comforting place to be, and reprobate thinking is transparently washed away, the mind becomes much more clear and the decisions become much easier!

True words spoken from the heart!

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[TaxGuyParticipant]

One of my favorite sayings is life is 10% what happens to you and 90% what you do about it. My advice on what you do about it is read up on Buddhist practices. I’m not saying become one, but you can learn a lot about living in the moment. The past doesn’t matter because there is nothing you can do about it. The future doesn’t matter because it is uncertain. The only “real” thing is right now.

My favorite story is about two monks walking through the woods. They come across a group of people trying to get over a small stream. They are headed to a wedding, all dressed up and don’t want to get wet. One of the monks picks up a woman and carries her over the stream. She thanks him and they continue on their way. About 30 minutes later the second monk says “I can’t believe you picked up that woman! We aren’t supposed to touch women!” The first monk says “I only carried her across the stream. You’ve been carrying her for the last 30 minutes.”

Let go of the past. You can’t do anything about it, you can’t change it. All you can do is live this moment. So make it a good one.

Take care brother. Remember, the only two days of the week where you can’t accomplish anything is yesterday and tomorrow….

Order the good wine

[Anonymous 42]

MACHO wrote:

The clouds part, love comes back into our hearts.

But the love is for life, living, self, and the pursuit of your own happiness, never to offer the precious gift of love away again to a women to forsake it, destroy it, then throw it back in your face as if it were a filthy rag, it’s referred to as one casting his pearls before the swine. Swine can chew up teeth, pearls are nothing more than malt b~~~~ to a swine, and they always come out the other end of time as a steaming pile of s~~~.

Think everything through in life and your pearls won’t be turned to s~~~…

[UntamedParticipant]

Jim01 wrote:

I think Keymaster has nailed it

for me personally I don’t hate women but what I do hate is how they f~~~ things up that I enjoy doing in my spare time

I pay women no attention as well as a growing number of men, so they then decide to f~~~ up things men enjoy doing – films, sports (I can’t go anywhere without women’s sports being shoved down my throat), videogames etc….

that is what I hate about them – they can’t leave anything men enjoy the f~~~ alone

You’re right, that’s f~~~ing annoying, but then again, what is it they do or say that’s not annoying? I get annoyed by their very presence and that’s why I’ve practiced the art of ignoring them.

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[jimbob15217Participant 491]

I get you completely. I’m pretty much in the same spot. It helps me to remember that often would I do is more important than what I think or feel. That applies to going my own way, just like it applies to other actions in life. Enough consistent conduct and my feelings will follow. If I get a little wistful so what? It’s acting on it (trying to initiate a doubtful relationship) that causes greater real life problems and suffering than mere wistfulness.

[Chase PesosParticipant 2136]

WOTGM,

Women,oh they gone man!

Chase a check, never chase a chick...

[black_knightParticipant 2602]

I like to think of it like this:
Imagine a spectrum, and at each of its two ends lies a coin. At one end there is a ‘passion’ coin with two sides: love and hate. At the other end of the spectrum is an ‘indifference’ coin whose two sides are blank. No matter how many times that coin is tossed, it lands only with a blank face. Quite fitting for indifference really, eh?

Your goal regarding women is reaching the indifference side of the spectrum, because hating still means you care about them. The most empowering thing is realising YOU can choose to channel that care wherever you want. It’s simply down to you to make that choice, today. If YOU CHOOSE to channel it to you, then in time this will exhaust you capacity for passion, and you’ll wake up one day and realise you’re only drawing blank faces at women. Simultaneously, you’ll realise you feel that elusive feeling we’re all chasing: contentment.

I say it again, YOU CHOOSE to channel passion to you. Have a love affair with yourself, not women.

[Anonymous 54]

You hate them because they dont meet up to the standard you set for them in your mind.

They should sweet, loveing, kind, loyal, respect ful, as advertised!

No one likes being played.

Accept that they are what they are,
Not what you want them to be.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

WOTGM wrote:

How do I get to a point where I can let my anger go, and just “not care” about women instead of hating them?

That is a key question, and deserves analysis. My brothers above have done a pretty good job but let me add my two cents because I understand anger, hatred and the desire for revenge. In my younger days I was a slave to these impulses but no longer—I freed myself. It was very hard but can be done.

When I was a teenager and young man I spent several years as a member of a organization (which I will leave nameless) that actively promoted hatred and revenge. It was central to their philosophy. I think I was attracted to this group because I was an outsider to the mainstream, I felt unwanted, marginalized, different, not one of the “crowd”. I used to get ostracized, beat up the usual fate of the unpopular. As a result I was a very angry person and this group appeals to the angry, to the outsider and they offered acceptance, comradeship, and the promise of revenge against all comers—and anyone not one of us was an enemy.

Unfortunately I did many “questionable things” during those years and I will not insult your intelligence with silly excuses like I was just following instructions. The fact is I did those things and I’m sure the day will come when I will be held to account by the Creator.

So how did I free myself from the downward spiral of anger, hate and revenge? It wasn’t easy. Our leader told us once that it was our hate that made us powerful, and enabled us to do things we would not normally be able to do. He was right to a point. But I had the self awareness to step back and evaluate my behavior. Yes revenge actualized through violence can be intoxicating; in fact it is like a drug…but you need more and more to feel the “fix”.

I discovered that hate and revenge became the end in itself. It overwhelms and squelches the philosophy or purpose that created it in the first place. It became hate/revenge for its own sake. You can see this same dynamic in the world—terrorists, North Korea Iran etc. Whatever cause long ago initiated their anger has in most cases in a practical sense disappeared and is no longer a catalyst in any practical sense—but the hate and anger goes on because again it has become and end in itself.

Using the power of reason you can logic out the solution. These emotions and urges are seductive, but they are also ultimately self destructive. Once you have annihilated all of your enemies what then? I thank God I reasoned this out. It was clear to me that if I remained in that group and an apostate of their philosophy I would ultimately end up one of three ways:
a) killed by someone
b) in prison
c) killed myself

Interestingly when I quit the leader didn’t try to stop me or talk me out of leaving. He just chuckled and told me “once you put that uniform on–it never comes off”. For many years I didn’t understand that. Then years later some member of the group came looking for me (internal issues in this group are “settled” in this way). I knew this would happen sooner or later. So I prepared myself mentally and physically to take care of business—and then I understood what the leader meant. I was still on the hook, still playing the game.

It was hard but I chose not to “take care of business”. I confronted my adversary directly and told him I understood why he sought me out and what I was prepared to do. Back in those days I was pretty formidable which is why they sent their best guy to deal with me. But fortunately he was no fool and left. Since then I have worked very hard to recognize and resist the urges that are plaguing you.

You can get over this, you can use your mind and reason to reject these urges and repudiate their control over you. Claim your life, don’t give it over to something that has as its purpose ultimately your own destruction. Giving into hate and revenge is just slow motion suicide.

[MGTOW KnightParticipant 7477]

WOTGM wrote:

The more I learn about women, and the likely reasons they hurt me in the past, the more I hate them.

@wotgm

Don’t hate them. By hating them, you are still showing you care. You just need to be apathetic to women. Like what everyone else has said here, hating only harms you.

Do you think your c~~~s in the past are losing any sleep over you?

The answer is NO. Hate just gives them power to dictate your happiness.

F~~~ that! Don’t ever give a c~~~ that control over your life.

After the red pill rage subsides, you will see that we are giving you some solid wisdom.

Don’t hate just show indifference.

Fuck bitches... literally and metaphorically

[anonymousyamParticipant 4605]

To be honest i hate far more that cucks of the past were dumb enough to give women power in trying to get laid or woman’s approval.

If women were not allowed to vote in the leftist give more gibs to women and immigrants poliiticans based solely on their mangina talking points (not whether or not they will be credible) then we would not be in this mess.

If women could not f~~~ up marriage by divorcing for any or no reason, if women could not throw a man in prison based on her word for domestic violence and marital rape or even if there is evidence because of the rights of the husband we would not be in a situation where mgtow is the only logical choice.

However we are past the point where we can change anything politcially since the system is based off of voting and women do far more if it since they live longer, have less of their population locked away and have less felonies that block them from it.

And even then manginas would not want to see women lose their rights and gibs since they benefit from it so we would still lose.

So the only thing we can do now is just find our personal mission and live it. If society falls then so be it but live for today as no one is guaranteed a tomorrow.

Just an east coast asshole who likes to curse, If you get offended by words like fuck, cunt, shit, piss, bitch or any racial slurs then you just scroll down.

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