I hate women

[WOTGMSpectator 749]

I’m not at a point yet where I simply “don’t care” about women. I hate them. I’ve been hurt in the past by them, and I can’t seem to let it go. I thought time would heal this hate, but in some ways time has only intensified it. The more I learn about women, and the likely reasons they hurt me in the past, the more I hate them.

I would like to get to a point where I am truly MGTOW (simply stop caring about women) but it’s hard when you’ve been hurt in the past by women. You want them to suffer the way they made you suffer. You want to see karma hurt them the way they hurt you.

How do I get to a point where I can let my anger go, and just “not care” about women instead of hating them? I need advice from MGTOW brothers who have been hurt by women in the past. How do you let that anger go, and find happiness in your life? It’s been hard.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

WOTGM wrote:

I hate women

Forgive my directness, but no you don’t.

It’s silly, unrealistic and impossible to “hate women” as entire sex – just like it’s silly, unrealistic and impossible to LOVE them all.

Do you knock the Starbucks cups out of their hands when you pass them?
Do you spit epithets when you pass a woman on the street?
Do you set their s~~~ on fire?

Then you don’t “hate women”.
With no intent to diss your feelings, be practical.

WOTGM wrote:

I would like to get to a point where I am truly MGTOW (simply stop caring about women)

That’s like saying you’d like to get to a point where you can drive down the freeway and not concern yourself with flying debris, other bad drivers and s~~~ that can kill you.

Wouldn’t you agree?

It’s not enough to just be a good driver. You need to actively practice collision avoidance. “Not caring” about what can harm you will most certainly harm you on the road, and also applies when navigating the roads of life.

WOTGM wrote:

You want them to suffer the way they made you suffer.

Fortunately, ignoring women takes care of that. A simple “No” when a woman wants something – with no explanation or apology attached – is DEVASTATING to them. they can’t handle it!

“Can I ask you a favor?”

“no”.

—

How awesome is that?! One little word and her hamster explodes. “No” should actually be the expected answer, and it’s her own problem that she expected an automatic “yes”. You don’t even need to “hate” her for asking. She will hate you more for saying no.

WOTGM wrote:

How do I get to a point where I can let my anger go, and just “not care” about women instead of hating them?

Do you hate the sun for giving off harmful radiation? Shaking your fist at women for being for what they are is like shaking your fist at the sun for gamma rays…. or being mad at a kangaroo for hopping. ‘

Futile wasted energy.

Don’t give them your energy. Don’t give them you’re “hate”. It’s like telling her you still care and a woman will PREFER to be “hated” than ignored.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[MuglintarParticipant 1333]

Bro’, I have been fed blue pills for decades, abused and exploited by mother, a dreadful divorce and being cheated in more ways than able to explain. For my taste I had enough reasons to be hating women.

What you are going through is the stage of red-pill rage. Nothing uncommon, we all have been there.
The Blue Pill is a damn powerful drug, your anger right now is part of the withdrawal appearance.
Do not fall for the traps you might be seeing around you (NAWALT, MRA-philosophy etc.).
if necessary you might blow off some steam here or in “Blue Pill Hell”.

At the end you will feel a calmness and inner peace you can’t imagine right now.

Hang in there, “The darkest hour is just before the dawn”

"Him, who delights in solitude, is either a wild beast or a GOD!" - Aristotle (Aristot. Pol. 1.1253a) 1 Hom. Il. 9.63; the passage goes on: ἐστὶν ἐκεῖνος ι ὃς πολέμου ἔραται.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

WOTGM wrote:

I hate them.

Why would you give them that?

You want them to suffer the way they made you suffer.

Then stop hating them.

Hating means you care. It means they are important to you.

They NEED that.

If you really want to f~~~ women over, if you really want to cut them to their very core, stop giving a f~~~ about them. Because what women fear the most, right down to the bottom of their most primitive natures, is abandonment.

So abandon them. Stop hating them. Walk away.

They hate that.

But that is not your problem.

[I am SpartacusParticipant 164]

Knowledge is power buddy. You can channel the rage towards working out or making fat stacks of cash. Most of us here have been through the pain and anger. In my redpill rage period I had grudge sex with a lot of them. A few I couldn’t hurt enough. Yes sir! May I have another!? The anger will decrees over time. The dull thud may remain but use that as a constant reminder to keep on your toes.

"I am Spartacus!", said Spartacus.................and everyone around him.

[MACHOParticipant]

WOTGM wrote:

I’m not at a point yet where I simply “don’t care” about women. I hate them

Funny because when you first introduced yourself, I was wondering about the meaning of your acronym WOTGM then someone had noticed that it was MGTOW spelled backward! Then my first thought had been “maybe it also means mgtow backward!” I used the word mirrored. Just saying!

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[Dashing Young DissidentSpectator]

Keymaster wrote:

Forgive my directness, but no you don’t.

It’s silly, unrealistic and impossible to “hate women” as entire sex – just like it’s silly, unrealistic and impossible to LOVE them all.

Do you knock the Starbucks cups out of their hands when you pass them?
Do you spit epithets when you pass a woman on the street?
Do you set their s~~~ on fire?

Then you don’t “hate women”.
With no intent to diss your feelings, be practical.

I dunno man. Mass shooters and serial killers internalize alot of s~~~ before they unleash on society. Or they just snap, without doing anything prior ever in their lives. WOTGM could be a woman killer in the making. (Just kidding dude.) It’s possible to hate inside without it showing.

[bladeParticipant]

Well dyd this might help our bro

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[Anonymous 25]

WOTGM wrote:

How do I get to a point where I can let my anger go, and just “not care” about women instead of hating them?

Developing a kind regard towards yourself eventually leads to an indifference to women and what they do. They just are what they are. Put yourself and your own needs first.

happiness is the greatest revenge

Hate only affects the person carrying it. Don’t give them the satisfaction. better to just see the funny side and laugh at them

[UntamedParticipant]

They don’t deserve your attention and much less your hate. That’s how I got to a point where I can be in peace regarding those creatures. I don’t want to give them anything, not even hate, and I got no f~~~s to give either.
I content myself to ignore them. It’s very satisfying and rewarding.

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[MGTOW_MikeParticipant 6253]

WOTGM,

I can understand your last reply to my comment in another thread. I can see that you were hurt by women in the past and I do not shame you for feeling hate. If you are feeling p~~~ed off, do not beat yourself up for that feeling. Just be aware of how your are feeling in the present moment and just observe it. We are here to listen to your story, so never keep things bottled up brother.The reason why we feel angry is because we want others, mainly women, to recognise/acknowledge our suffering. You may agree, when women don’t care about men’s suffering, it hurts us even more. I use to be so angry and easily triggered. Example, if I am driving and someone else drove poorly, I noticed myself getting so angry. I mean no harm to other people or ill will. I hated the fact that I was getting so angry. I know how it feels like to be lied to by society. It is very painful. We all are going through this.

What really helped me was talking/communicating with others who had gone through this. I also re-established my passion in electronics engineering to keep my mind focused on something positive. I also, little by little, built up forgiveness for how this world has become. Instead of building up strength, based on society’s false promises, I now build up strength based on my own standards. We are told, ever since we were little boys, to protect people, especially women, and that we will be treated with the utmost respect. Unfortunately, as you can clearly see, this world is not like that. A lot of innocent men have been burnt.

Helping other men who have been burnt or about to become burnt is the crux of this MGTOW community. A few words of welcoming advice goes a long way.

A tranquil mind is neither happy nor sad, it is uninfluenced by external conditions.

[Dashing Young DissidentSpectator]

blade wrote:

Well dyd this might help our bro

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Lol

[Anonymous 1]

You are high on theredpill rage man, just relax and spend some time doing the things that you like to do. Give them nothing.

[Anonymous 12]

in short:
stop hating others.
And in the free time gained, start loving yourself.

better quality food.
exercise.
Vitamin D by sunshine
clear your s~~~ and paint your walls.
health checkups
better mattress against that bad night sleep.

that is your path.
now walk it.

[RedDawnParticipant 1391]

It’s normal to feel angry for a while, but the important thing is how you react to your emotions. The most emotionally intelligent of people feel angry sometimes, but they have methods of dealing with it.

Reframing a situation so that you don’t feel like a victim is a powerful thing. For many guys on here, being burned by the fire is what helped them discover freedom! Hate feminism? They inadvertently helped us question marriage and discover self-sovereignty. Thanks Sistas. I like to picture myself as some form of professional eg. police officer or other person of authority (including fictional characters) who have to deal with people who pose challenging behaviours. The problem is to deal with the challenge as a puzzle rather than a personal attack, this way our emotions are more manageable and we feel we have a stronger sense of self-esteem, because it’s ‘not all about us’.

Humour, used by emergency service personnel and many others all around the world to deal with pain. Make the personal challenges in your life a laugh and thus make them smaller.

Forgiveness, it’s hard to do, but it frees you for your sake, not the other person’s. But those who can’t forgive are slaves to their anger. Not saying it’ll happen over night, but with the goal of acceptance I think it will happen. One doesn’t have to completely forget how someone acted towards you, but you have the choice.

It’s important to remember that as human’s we can’t shut off our emotions completely, sometimes we feel happy or sad or angry and that’s normal, but we can change the way we respond to those emotions. With some practice you can change certain behaviours. Eg. not smashing up things when you’re angry 😉 And that delayed gratification is truly a powerful thing.

Courage is the key to life itself - Morgan Freeman

[Jim01Participant 6678]

I think Keymaster has nailed it

for me personally I don’t hate women but what I do hate is how they f~~~ things up that I enjoy doing in my spare time

I pay women no attention as well as a growing number of men, so they then decide to f~~~ up things men enjoy doing – films, sports (I can’t go anywhere without women’s sports being shoved down my throat), videogames etc….

that is what I hate about them – they can’t leave anything men enjoy the f~~~ alone

[TwistParticipant]

This thread is just another reason why this site is so valuable. Advice and caring offered from the heart – where the f~~~ else in the world do you find that these days?

And for myself, I find that it takes quite a bit of time here – reading, and nodding in agreement – before you truly understand what so many are saying. For me, its been years of internal rage, of letting myself be ruined by others, and only now do I really understand the work and acceptance necessary to move beyond that.

To put it in religious context, I do the church thing quite a bit – mainly searching for some peace in losing my children. I have had no problem in accepting “deliver us from evil”, but I have struggled mightily with “as we forgive those who trespass against us”. Forgiveness has been, and still is so hard for me. But I know the one who will best benefit from it is me, and I need to love myself enough to find a way to forgive.

Not that she’d ever be safe walking across the wrong parking lot…. 🙂

Peace.

[MGTOW_MikeParticipant 6253]

Twist,

I reckon aye? Its amazing to see men band together and help each other, rather than trying to out-do/compete with each other, not realising their underlying biological drive is influencing them.

A tranquil mind is neither happy nor sad, it is uninfluenced by external conditions.

[xenonParticipant 2007]

For me, I don’t hate women because I can’t. I just don’t respect poor behavior. I hate the way women are.

It is a fine line in the eyes of a female who wants or needs to label me a misogynist. I always liked females, just not when they behave poorly. It is a personal responsibility thing for me. I would be going against my own nature to hate them as a group. And hate is just a huge waste of time and energy.

Hate the message not the messenger, until the messenger proves your hate to be a worthy response.

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

Hate is an active emotion. You’d do better to develop passive feelings for them. You have knowledge of their perfidy. Expecting females to change is like expecting a skunk not to stink. They are what they are. By focusing on yourself – you begin to take energy wasted and make it productive. Your feelings of hate will subside once they no longer matter to you.

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