I don't date to avoid sex, lady!

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

I typed up a long ass reply, then when I hit submit my cell battery died…

Bottomline: I wouldnt play passive aggressive games with her. Thats what women and children do. We dont play “games”. The moment you engage on that level you lose due to her LIFELONG experience playing games.

It sounds like ignoring her worked. I would show indifference. What I would do is show indifference JUST long enough for her to initiate contact and ask if you want to go to dinner, or whatever. Then, I would point blank ask her: are we going to f~~~? Because I can have dinner on my own. I like f~~~ing and stretching out pussy, and Im sure as s~~~ you like your pussy getting f~~~ed and stretched. Point blank ask her if she does. Make…FORCE her to tell you and confess she wants your c~~~ -“You WANT my c~~~ stretching ALL of your lips out, dont YOU?”

Most certainly she will pause, exhale, and then whimper “Yes”….”Good, Im ordering chinese take out. Get over here, wear something SLUTTY and I hope you dont have to walk straight tomorrow”…click.

She will be wet, giggling, and have that “fear” of male sexual aggression that is a turn on for women. Because 9 out of 10 guys wouldnt say this. You just BLUNTLY cut through her BS childish games she KNOWS shes playing and KNOWS she needs to be held accountable for. But youre the only one who did.

Id bet dollars to doughnuts if you said that, you could order delivery chinese and eat it in between your f~~~ sessions.

Keep us  updated.

EDIT—-

I would never claim to be a Romeo, but in retrospect I have always MADE women say the things outloud I know they want. I think asking questions, being persuasive, and TELLING them to TELL you what they really want sexually, has some serious merit. Forcing them to verbalize it reinforces their desires, and lets you KNOW without a doubt THIS is what they want. It cuts through that childish read between the lines BS they play. Id get sexually verbal with her at JUST the right moment. You already know shes physically into you. Now MAKE her confess and say it. To me, that is SUCH a rewarding experience after putting up with all of their “CHASE ME” games.

Resident cynic.

[J.D SilvernailParticipant 383]

I would cheat on her.

I'm married to the game,but she broke her vows.

[ChristovParticipant 85]

I like that, Ancientwisdom. The frustration comes from wasting my time. Being suggestive enough to capitalize my time or attention, and then being unwilling to have sex… It’s a bait and switch. And definitely a power game designed to disrupt my sexual resources. I want an equal social exchange.

What’s more, is that I like your suggestion of forcing them to vocalize their wants. It’s aggressive, effective, and time efficient. Efficiency being the most important part… I don’t want to waste any more time pursuing than I have to.

 

Already on that, JD.

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

Christov wrote:

I like that, Ancientwisdom. The frustration comes from wasting my time. Being suggestive enough to capitalize my time or attention, and then being unwilling to have sex… It’s a bait and switch. And definitely a power game designed to disrupt my sexual resources. I want an equal social exchange. What’s more, is that I like your suggestion of forcing them to vocalize their wants. It’s aggressive, effective, and time efficient. Efficiency being the most important part… I don’t want to waste any more time pursuing than I have to. Already on that, JD.

That is precisely it: what you have just encapsulated in that sentence is what they have turned into their own perverse artform they reffer to as ‘seduction’. It is not a seduction that leads to unbridled sex at your whim, but the: suggestive nature, luring, and enticing you by giving you JUST enough for your desire (sexual) to override anything else you want in order to get what she wants; which is most likely attention and leverage over the relationship.

If shes giving you a couple fantastic blow jobs as of late, than undoubtably this isnt the case of a girl trying to play prude (not look slutty) as a result of her wanting you to think shes marriage material and not slutty. Shes obviously sexually attracted to you as well.

I would get verbally sexual on her, as I suggested. But the key is in the timing. Lay one single line to “lubricate” her when the moment is right. This is the ONLY time I would take a line from the female playbook, because afterall it is a FEMALE your turning on. Id say something on the phone alluding indirectly to the blow job she gave you last time she was over. Then make her tell you how wet she got. How her mouth was filled up. The more descriptive the better. Most girls are TERRIBLE at expressing themselves, despite what they think. So Id be happy getting simple “Yes, I love that” amswers. Its actually more effective because you fill in all the holes (pun intended) with whatever the f~~~ you want, requiring only positive confessions on her part, which turns them on all the more anyway. Your leading. Shes confessing her dirty, slutty side to you, but in her mind YOU brought it out.

Pesto.

Resident cynic.

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

Any updates dooood? More boow jobs lol?

Resident cynic.

[ChristovParticipant 85]

Sorry, man…

 

The party is over here: /forums/topic/watching-someone-on-the-line-of-hypergamy/

 

Besides the female foolishness becoming more predictable, it’s about the same. I’m still getting what I want. (Thanks to you guys.)

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