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I’ve had an off-and-on relationship with a woman for a while.
I’m not emotional about the subject. But I am sometimes frustrated.
I’ve found that she spends more time projecting insecurities than actually enjoying the time we spend together. I do the regular stuff… Invite her out. Buy her dinner. Let her passenger on my sportbike. Physically, she’s extremely hot. And we’re very sexually compatible.
I’ve found the exchange to be equitable. And I don’t bear any misgivings.
However… Lately, I’m not getting laid. Affection is meted out on her terms.
I wonder if it’s a test for her to measure her control over me. I also wonder how to answer such a test.
After a few arbitrary rejections today, I asked her plainly, “Who am I supposed to have sex with, exactly?”
I think that bulls~~~ is photosensitive. We’ll see how this one shakes out.
Obviously, walking away is a reasonable option. Besides that, what would you guys do?
Act like sex is not a big deal to you! In the future always start out with sex not being a primary need for you and they will throw it on you all the time. Women love sex also,but if you love it more than them they will use it to gain leverage on the relationship. When you stop asking for it she will feel like she’s losing her vaginal whip to keep you in order and will put out immediately. If that doesnt work,then chances are she could have the hoootz for some other guy.
Never lose sight of what brought you here.
Act like sex is not a big deal to you! In the future always start out with sex not being a primary need for you and they will throw it on you all the time. Women love sex also,but if you love it more than them they will use it to gain leverage on the relationship. When you stop asking for it she will feel like she’s losing her vaginal whip to keep you in order and will put out immediately. If that doesnt work,then chances are she could have the hoootz for some other guy.
Very good advice.
I would go so far as to reject her next time.
Not only that …… start flirting with other women.
This is s~~~ test no1 on the list ☺
She needs to understand she’s not that important and can be replaced.
Kick her to the curb. You owe nothing to her. You’re not required to take her out for meals or buy her anything. You can find another woman to have sex with, trust me there are plenty. She isn’t worth the effort even if she offered sex freely.
"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle
Outlasting her sounds like it might be a smart move. I always flirt with other women, anyway.
The combination of asking her “who I should be f~~~ing” and then stop being interested in her body could be very effective.
Although I don’t have any qualms about kicking her to the curb, women are horrible creatures in my locale.Men here can go for years without anything. The women command a ridiculously high price, and generally won’t even make eye contact with you if you’re trying to hand them money on the street.
I don’t have any problem with travelling for poon, though. Wyoming has really nice women.
After a few arbitrary rejections today, I asked her plainly, “Who am I supposed to have sex with, exactly?”
I use to make that kind of error a while ago!!!!You’ve just told her, that she is the only women you can have sex with, there are no others….absolutely no competition 🙁
Limit contact with her for about a week, don’t answer text message or phone calls from her….let her think you are dead. If she is really interested, she will make a big effort to catch up with you.
If and when you catch up with her, make her want to have sex with you and tease her….you’re the catch not her.
If you don’t hear from her within that week or a bit longer, I’d start looking for another. As a matter of fact, I’d be looking for others now. She’s replaceable, as if you got her, there are others out there.
Every time a women plays games, disappear out of sight for a couple of days. Only go out for dinner etc. when they give you sex (not before) and act nicely…good behaviour is rewarded.
Sex and manipulation go hand in hand!
You are in the middle of a power play s~~~ test. She is holding the pussy over you and seeing if you will beg. If you do, she would be the alpha and you are the beta.
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Doing without is not an option, I presume?
You are in the middle of a power play s~~~ test. She is holding the pussy over you and seeing if you will beg. If you do, she would be the alpha and you are the beta.
That’s already happened.
The combination of asking her “who I should be f~~~ing” and then stop being interested in her body could be very effective.
Although I don’t have any qualms about kicking her to the curb, women are horrible creatures in my locale.Dump her. She will be remorseful and you can “take her back” and get laid again for a few weeks.
Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?
You are in the middle of a power play s~~~ test. She is holding the pussy over you and seeing if you will beg. If you do, she would be the alpha and you are the beta.
sometimes i wonder how you guys don’t get tired of all these power games ,this “love” thing most of the time is just a woman trying to compete with you with the only thing she has, a vagina.
Anonymous0Kick her to the curb.
Haha…my first thoughts.
But I also agree with ILiveAgain. Going so far to rejecting her and flirting with other women has a certain attraction.
Flirting with other women should be easy especially when she, as you told us, is physically hot. Women love to rip out a man from another woman’s hands. But don’t forget, it is not because of you, it is just because of the jealousy.
Anyway, what do you have to lose?I’m not emotional about the subject. But I am sometimes frustrated.
I don’t really think that you are not emotional to the subject.
If you have already f~~~ed her, dump her. The feeling of that pussy won’t change but what goes on insider her head sure will
I concur with MGTOWmonkey. In most cases, the only thing a woman brings to a relationship is her beauty and her pussy. If she uses her pussy as a control or reward system, either walk away or mind f~~~ her by showing her that you’re ambivalent about getting laid. Ambivalence and indifference are great passive aggressive tools. You will be surprised just how a woman reacts when you calmly tell them that you’re okay with sex or without sex. Tell her that you enjoy it but you really don’t care that much about it. This speaks directly to their ego and makes them question their attractiveness and their ability to control you. A little side bar….I have enjoyed doing stuff like this because I get a dark pleasure dealing out justice to someone that f~~~s with me. Anyway, it’s been my experience that this tactic throws females way off kilter…..and the sex that follows as they try to regain their footing is fun too.
Yeah I agree with Quiet Tom. Women are desperate. They need validation all the time. They want to know if they are physically and sexually attractive. It is a constant need of theirs. Doesn’t matter how often you tell them, that they are beautiful and sexy. they need to hear it over and over again. Try implying that you don’t find her sexually attractive and see what happens. Tell her “you just don’t turn me on today.” “Sorry, I’m just not in the mood. You’re not giving me a hard on.”
Every time a women plays games, disappear out of sight for a couple of days. Only go out for dinner etc. when they give you sex (not before) and act nicely…good behaviour is rewarded. Sex and manipulation go hand in hand!
Haha, this is so true. Right before things ended with one of my girls, I remember going over her place so I could bring up a few things that were bothering me with us. It wasn’t really intended as a break up talk, I wasn’t dumping her, it was more like x, y, and z is really bothering me, here’s what I want, and if you expect anything different out of me than how things are going right now, let’s talk about it. It was an honest attempt to improve things between us…but boy did that blow up in my face…
Anyways…she just kind of agrees with me, doesn’t really call bulls~~~ on anything I said, and doesn’t bring up anything she thought was an issue, which to be quite honest I had expected her to throw something out there as I know I’m not perfect. So I leave for work a short while later, and I text her the next morning as it was the weekend at that point. IGNORED. She didn’t get back to me until the following night. With most people I wouldn’t think anything of it if I sent a text and didn’t hear back til the next day…I realize people get busy at work and stuff…no big deal…but this was a girl who lived with her phone attached to her…it was obviously just a head game.
So long story short…the thing that was bugging me the most was that she was constantly using a female relative of mine as leverage against me…she’d get her on my back every time she expected something from me, rather than just ask herself, and that was the main thing I asked her to cut out. I found out during the 36 hours she blew me off that the first thing she did after I left her place that day was call that relative and tell her everything…and then said relative was such a dumb ass she proceeded to yell at me the next day when I saw her. You’d think if she gave a s~~~ at all about me and the girl she’d at least have been smart enough to lay off me.
Of course…like you said, when a girl plays games ignore them and that’s what I did after I had texted her that morning. I knew it was an obvious game so she wasn’t getting another attempt at contact from me until she got back to me. When the girl finally calls me back, it was an obvious “come f~~~ me call” as it came a little before midnight. She asks what I was doing, so I tell her I was out with my friends. She says “and then what are you doing?” *hint hint come f~~~ me* So I tell her going home. She proceeds to ask “And then?” *hint hint come f~~~ me* So I tell her going to sleep.
She found out the hard way that night I valued my sanity more than her vagina, as I then decided if she wanted to play the ignore each other game, I’d play it better. I didn’t call her for three days afterwards, at which point I saw my female relative again who yelled at me for that as well, to which I just replied there is no reason she can’t call me, she has my number. That’s right bitches…you want to play, I can play better. Turned out my attempt to go over her apartment that day and try to improve things between us was the last time I bothered going over to her place…
What you say though, is definitely correct, and it without a doubt happened to me with this girl. If a woman is playing games drop off the face of the earth. They will realize they don’t have enough control over you to play those games, and try to lure you back in with vagina. You can do what you want at the point, as she put the ball in your court.
Posing the question “who should I be f~~~ing” was already a carefully laid game. She already has insecurities about me pursuing other women. I was displaying my willingness to.
Haha. Hallowmile, if you knew me, you wouldn’t suggest I was emotional about anything on the planet.
I’ve employed the “ignore her” approach. We’ll extend that until she acquiesces or until global warming kills us all. Whichever comes first.
Well she’ll either start chasing you in a few days or she’s already on some other dick and you won’t have to be bothered with telling her to f~~~ off.
Dump her. She will be remorseful and you can “take her back” and get laid again for a few weeks.
I wouldn’t even put that much effort into it. Just walk away and let her figure it out on her own.
In most cases, the only thing a woman brings to a relationship is her beauty and her pussy.
Both of which are rapidly depreciating assets, which only get more and more expensive to maintain over time. Maybe it’s time to trade in for this year’s model.
Anonymous9It’s time to move on. Once this started happening to me I figured there was someone else in the picture.
Lo and behold she was f~~~ing some other guy on the side.
When you’re dealing with females in relationship terms there’s nothing without sex.
But more importantly, the sex you get from her isn’t worth losing your dignity, and living on your knees in worship of some c~~~ isn’t becoming of a MGHOW.
F~~~ that bitch.
It’s time to move on. Once this started happening to me I figured there was someone else in the picture. Lo and behold she was f~~~ing some other guy on the side. When you’re dealing with females in relationship terms there’s nothing without sex. But more importantly, the sex you get from her isn’t worth losing your dignity, and living on your knees in worship of some c~~~ isn’t becoming of a MGHOW. F~~~ that bitch.
I’m not insecure about her f~~~ing another guy. I care about getting laid adequately, myself.
Anyway, your guys’ advice worked… “Ignore her” yielded a couple of fantastic blowjobs after just a couple days.
Anonymous9Here’s how you answer the s~~~ test OP…
Go f~~~ another chick, or at least start communicating with others to keep your options open. But once you get laid by someone else you’ll forget about her little s~~~ test, and then you can start a few tests of your own.
This proves you’re not hung up on the sex, and you have options to satisfy your needs.
Edit-
I just read your update.
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