I can't even see the bar!

[eng_87Participant 122]

So, now that I’ve been MGTOW for a little while (sic 4 months – and to be honest I’m still learning and struggling to find my feet in this way of life – 28 years of blue pill life is hard to shake) – I decided to sign up to some online dating, not for want of a relationship – just to work on my game, learn a bit more about the psyche of the average front bum and spread the net a bit further for possible lays. And this is what my reaction was:

WTF

The bar these women set is high, like unreasonably high. One lady wrote, he needs to be charming, funny, tall (6ft +), intelligent, employed with a good salary, financially secure, into travelling and wining/dining etc etc. Sorry darl, if he’s all of that, he ain’t gonna be on here.

Surely, SURELY, this must be a conscious delusion of grandeur, or are women so indoctrinated into their own image of princess-dom?

I can’t believe the stuff I’m reading.

Madness.

[FermatParticipant 3478]

I’m over 6 foot. I like to travel. Europe and Africa. My family lives in Nigeria so i enjoy seeing them every few years with my parents. I am an engineer with good salary prospects. I am intelligent as the job requires quick and good decision making. Why on earth would I sacrifice an iota of my time effort or money on these delusional sluts? Who do they think they’re talking to? sounds to me they want stupid irresponsible rich man-children they can take advantage of. Online dating really does bring out the worst in some people.

I have discovered a truly remarkable list of reasons why women are not necessary for a happy life, but alas this margin is too small to contain it.

[UntamedParticipant]

It’s all bulls~~~.
The whole dating scene, dating sites… They don’t raise the bar high, they just make you think they do to appear pure and moral online. It’s their way of filtering the ones they’re after: men who have something going for themselves.
They lie on their profile for show, misrepresenting themselves in order for others to think that they still got it going on. The only thing they’ve got going on is the Wall and the threat is approaching with every guy that won’t give them the time of day.
They are pathetic and don’t even know it, begging for money and dick on the internet like some two-bit crack hoe.
I used to use dating site to find easy lays and believe me, regardless of the bulls~~~ they put on their profile, they’ll f~~~ you if you only have a job to pay for that dinner date. How sad they are. Picking their “partner” according to how much he makes. How morally low. How decadent, how whorish.
And then they dare question our integrity as Men.
Git outta here!!

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[I_Walk_AloneParticipant 580]

eng_87 wrote:

So, now that I’ve been MGTOW for a little while (sic 4 months – and to be honest I’m still learning and struggling to find my feet in this way of life – 28 years of blue pill life is hard to shake) – I decided to sign up to some online dating, not for want of a relationship – just to work on my game, learn a bit more about the psyche of the average front bum and spread the net a bit further for possible lays. And this is what my reaction was:

WTF

The bar these women set is high, like unreasonably high. One lady wrote, he needs to be charming, funny, tall (6ft +), intelligent, employed with a good salary, financially secure, into travelling and wining/dining etc etc. Sorry darl, if he’s all of that, he ain’t gonna be on here.

Surely, SURELY, this must be a conscious delusion of grandeur, or are women so indoctrinated into their own image of princess-dom?

I can’t believe the stuff I’m reading.

Madness.

Welcome to the world of online dating. Hordes upon hordes of obese and hatchet-faced single moms who look like Mama June from Honey Boo-Boo, trailer park lifestyle – all of whom make demands that a guy be 6ft, look like Brad Pitt, have the bank balance of John Rockerfeller and the body of Channing Tatum in Magic Mike and are openly disgusted by and hostile to any man who doesn’t meet these criteria.

You will gain so much knowledge of female nature on these sites that it will appall you enough to put you off for a VERY long time.

[eng_87Participant 122]

I’ve continued to read through the profiles and am feeling nauseated.

I am a well educated, well paid, creative balanced man, but by no means have I ever had a list of check boxes for anyone I have ever wanted to date.

This will be an interesting experience.

[I_Walk_AloneParticipant 580]

eng_87 wrote:

I’ve continued to read through the profiles and am feeling nauseated.

I am a well educated, well paid, creative balanced man, but by no means have I ever had a list of check boxes for anyone I have ever wanted to date.

This will be an interesting experience.

I’m in my early 40s, lift 5 times a week, job, own house and car etc. Haven’t had a date in almost three years on account of being 5ft 8. I’ve been straight up hated on with regards to my height, in a manner that would have most women calling the cops if you said the same about her weight!
At the age of 41, I would not get messages from anybody under 50. Despite being in damn good shape (lifting 5 days a week and eating clean, which is really easy when you live alone!) tends to have that effect on your shape – I only get messages from women who weigh in the region of 250lbs! The entitlement of these hambeasts is off the charts – it will make you feel like utter, utter s~~~ about yourself for a while until you realise that there is nothing wrong with you, it’s just how women on online dating sites operate.

Get off online dating. Seriously! You’re wasting your time panning for gold in a sea of s~~~. Do your own thing and enjoy your life instead.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

eng_87 wrote:

Sorry darl, if he’s all of that, he ain’t gonna be on here.

I disagree with that. As a matter of fact, it’s women who have this f~~~ed up idea in their heads that men on dating sites MUST have something “*wrong* with them. Well, if he MUST (just for being there) then doesn’t SHE too?

A woman on a dating site once asked me “how I know you’re not an axe murderer?”.

F~~~ off . Can you imagine that s~~~? Can you imagine that being one of the FIRST questions out of your mouth to someone you expect to be interested in you? Wanna know what i said?

“Watch your spelling. It’s ASS murderer.”

She “lol”-ed and grabbed her purse to meet me might away. If she is so “afraid” and expects men to *prove* the are not axe-murderers, why did TYPING “ass murderer” change her mind so quickly? Take my word for it, she was a f~~~ing freak and I refused to ever be on a “dating site” ever again. Forget about whether or not there is something wrong with YOU for being there…… any c~~~ who asks a question like that isn’t permitted to meet you.

eng_87 wrote:

Surely, SURELY, this must be a conscious delusion of grandeur, or are women so indoctrinated into their own image of princess-dom?

Yes.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1213212/The-ego-epidemic-more-inflated-sense-fabulousness.html

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[hmskl’dParticipant 6411]

guaranteed gnashing of teeth w anguish to be around these gals & their baggage in real life ..count me out

[OldscoundrellParticipant 412]

Like you, got on there just looking for some simple action. Rebounding in my case. Didn’t make it past a week each for two different sites.

But I recognized one woman on there, she was in here mid 30’s, claimed to be old school valued, father was a preacher, and never partaking in the night life ways. But seen her on multiple occasions go home with different guys at a hotel bar I go to sometimes when working abroad. She gravitated towards my co worker and me last time we were down there, was fun listening to her nawalt talk and seeing right through all of it. She was great looking with the most innocent face too. Not my style and couldn’t get drunk enough, so really enjoyed passing that one up.

[EscapedMentalPatientParticipant 1489]

eng_87 wrote:

learn a bit more about the psyche of the average front bum

↑
This gave me a great, unexpected huge laugh for the day. Thanks for this man. hahahahahaha

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

I write back to them saying are you less than 150 ibs, write back your standards, then you see them realize doesn’t work and they start making changes to their profile, I seen it happen in the past.
Fight back or ignore it.

Either way, their shrieking their pool of men. Can you say 38 and 5 cats.

I was talking to a girl who was 30, and chubby on the internet, she feared dying alone, and I said I feared buying a house not knowing if there was paranormal activity in it, lol, she didn’t like that one. She was desperate, agitating and in the process finding ways to reject me, which is starting to work in men’s favor, lol.

You can start to use womens behaviors against them, because if you ever rejected a woman, look out.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[Aroused By Her AnguishParticipant 343]

Just to let you know, a lot of those profiles on those dating sites are fake. There are men who create profiles posing as females just for entertainment or surveying purposes. You probably saw a profile that the guy created. I’m not saying that women DON’T make profiles like that though.

[EntropyParticipant 902]

bigboy83 wrote:

I feared buying a house not knowing if there was paranormal activity in it.

L.O.L.

(She probably didn’t laugh because this was number three on her list of REAL FEARS behind the dying alone thing and spiders)

"Compare your lives to mine and then kill yourselves" -BBR

[BearParticipant 11]

In the last issue of “Cosmo”…

“Sex moves that will have him worship you”.
WTF?
Indoctrination!

Online dating is such a crock.
One site allows users to display your personality types from canned choices.

The most irritating:

1) Princess (I can’t believe women don’t understand what guy repellent this is!)
Perhaps they are intentionally seeking naive victims.

2) Diva

3) Fashionista

Even funnier are women over 40 who are specifically looking to get married.
What divorced guy over 50 would ever want the legal entanglement of getting married again?
(Well, unless they are on a heavy religious trip.)
Once bitten, twice shy.

I know the answer is to get off online dating.
I have met almost all of my significant others in real life.

The problem I face is that my area of South Florida has an unusual number of old people and partnered people.
Nearby communities are full of women who are highly materialistic.
I don’t think I am going to meet a quality woman in a bar.

At this moment, a hooker seems FAR preferable.
I have an upcoming visit to the Netherlands and will be visiting Amsterdam on the trip in addition to other cities.
For about $50, guaranteed results, typically more respect than a date in the US if you look for a happy girl, negotiate exactly what you want and are nice to her and certainly no “I’m pregnant” fallout!

I have spent more than $50 here on women only to be treated like s~~~ and with disrespect when I was nothing but polite.

[Anonymous 25]

eng_87 wrote:

The bar these women set is high, like unreasonably high. One lady wrote, he needs to be charming, funny, tall (6ft +), intelligent, employed with a good salary, financially secure, into travelling and wining/dining etc etc. Sorry darl, if he’s all of that, he ain’t gonna be on here.

They have absolutely no idea of their place in the social order of dating. They are completely delusional. Just another crazy old cat lady in the making.

I wouldn’t even go near a woman who put anything like that. A woman like that has to be mentally retarded. Basically, she is trying to persuade a man into some kind of relationship with her by telling him all the things she wants. Seriously? NO. She needs to say what she is bringing to the table or she has no value. I wouldn’t even go near a woman like that for a one night stand. She is a selfish narcissistic asshole. And the majority of female online dating profiles are a shopping list solely of what they want just like that. They can fk off.

Maybe next time I go buy a car the salesman can tell me what type of customer he would like. “Well I want a customer who is 6 foot, intelligent, no accidents.” If a salesman did that you would look at him and say ‘are you fking mental?’.

[ChristovParticipant 85]

I believe that a woman’s inflated value is based on the quality of man that will dick her.

For instance… A very good looking guy 8/10 will f~~~ a 5/10 if he is bored.

That conveys to a woman that she can “get” a 8/10 guy.

Unfortunately, there is a non-stop line around the block of 8/10 guys who will stick their dick in this woman once and leave her…. That makes her think that she has an endless supply of 8/10 guys to choose from for a relationship.

But that’s not the case. Men will not love a woman who is beneath their level of self respect.

That leaves women to ride the c~~~ carousel, endlessly. Maybe desperate to get off, but no good options to do so. Finally she says… “What can I do to keep him?!?”

“Maybe if I am carrying his child, he will love me.”

[KeymasterKeymaster]

eng_87 wrote:

I am a well educated, well paid, creative balanced man, but by no means have I ever had a list of check boxes for anyone I have ever wanted to date.

That’s the difference between you and a woman. A woman thinks she can order a man like she orders a pizza. Don’t laugh. It’s true. Every western bitch born in the last 50 years thinks she can sign up on a dating site and now has suddenly some control over whether or not the “right guy” will suddenly walk into her life. Delusions beyond belief.

You don’t have a “checklist” because we don’t approach it that way.
Get her into the real world, meet her, and take it from there.

That is the ONLY purpose of a “dating site”.
It’s not even a “dating” site! it’s an EMAILING site.

But women attempt to set and establish all of the term,s and conditions of a “relationship” right on their f~~~ing profiles. It’s outRAGEOUS. “He should look like this…. talk like that….. earn this much….. be like this… dress like that…. be this tall…… he would never do this…. he should never do that…… he must do this…… he should do that………. and don’t email me unless. SO WHERE IS HE???” And that’s before she even MET the dude. She actually logs in and thinks she is “dating”.

No.

Don’t even f~~~ing TALK about a “relationship” for at least 9-12 months AFTER you have have had PLENTY of good times with her. But a woman clasps her hands together , looks at the sky, and waits for this imaginary Phantom to appear who “wants a relationship” with her – before she even met him. There are only 2 words for that:

IN.

SANE.

“Are you looking for a relationship?”

“Certainly not before I met you. You f~~~ing nutjob.”

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[MotivParticipant 441]

Swamp the bitch with just what she wants to hear. Then tell her to f~~~ off when she agrees to meet

Cool story babe now go make me a sandwich

[MonkeyMindParticipant 5340]

Online dating has ruined relationships. A 5 landwhale suddenly acts like she’s worthy of an a 8 man and then wonders why she gets pumped and dumped by Chad Thunderc~~~s repeatedly. Eventually they become used up whores that are no use to anybody apart from desperate blue pillers.

The worst thing about online dating is that women seem to demand standards in men that they’re incapable of upholding themselves. Deep down they want someone superior than them in terms of social mobility/ finances but at the same time men are being handicapped by sexual equality drives.

I predict that there will be a huge influx of MGTOW’s in the next 5-10 years. The dating pool of males will just evaporate as they just walk away from the table en masse. The only people left f~~~ing these whores will be Chad Thunderc~~~ and it will be up to the Wellfare state to pick up the tap – unless the western world collapses first. This model of society is usustainable in the long term.

Either way, i couldn’t care less so long as it doesn’t collapse before i die, what happens after that is someone elses problem.

[Anonymous 42]

I don’t f~~~in get it??? I hear guys on this sight saying their 5’8″ and turned down, not good enough looking, a host of other excuses too!!! I had a friend who’s face was a blend of volcano and moon crater, he nailed a 9 “right in the pussy!” Another guy that looked like an oaf, nailed an 8.5! what did these guys have in common, they have man-strong personalities! It’s the paradigm of online interconnected gynosentrocity that stifles you! WTF! You’re walking straight into their web!
I’m floored at the dating situation of today! I don’t know??? I’m only 5’6″‘ and juiced more pussy than I can remember! I can’t imagine moving in on some chick I couldn’t see, hear, smell (pheromones), talk to (the only way to gain access), but most important, look into her eyes!!! Online dating is a form of plasticizing your persona, and no matter how cooool you really are; on their plastic computer screen they want a perfect model just like the one they saw on the online shopping catalog the page before. I hated using the telephone back in the day, another plastic person toy!!! It’s all this digital interconnected conglomeration and participating in it that’s ruining all your fun!
Real life, real contact, real people, that’s where it’s at! I walked away in my maximum sexual value, women??? been there, done that, desolate soles were all I could find.
Instead of adding to my life and making me feel fine, each one, each time, drained my spirit, took a piece, gave misery, drove me out of my mind!
Online dating is like trying to get laid through a C.B. radio!
The more you smell like a man to women’s senses, and not a mangina, the more their attracted to “YOU!!!
I’ll share this memory of words said to me from a woman, she told me I was the manlyest thing she ever had! I was different in personality and the rack, I moved her around and placed her where I wanted her to be, I totally made her wet instantly! I’ve lived a life pretty much isolated from gynothinking, I learned from men of old at a very young age, women like men, not pussies, walk away from their bulls~~~, call them out, don’t be a pussy, it works every time! But hey, I’m now a MGHOW, I’m not in the business of retraining women, I’m no longer willing to waste any more time.
Sorry for rambling, sometimes I just smell pussy, not height, not weight, not looks, “just pussy” it’s the smell of failure to a woman, and if you have it’s awful odor, you’ll lose out every time!

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