I came across my friend's girlfriend on Tinder…

[FangParticipant 102]

Tell him immediately and do so in person, face to face. Tell the truth, but also let him know how difficult it is for you, potentially risking your friendship to keep him from being hurt…or worse!

He needs to know, sooner rather than later. If doing the right thing destroys your friendship, well, was it really a friendship? If he somehow holds you responsible, is he really the kind of person you want to spend time with or rely on in any way?

[Anonymous 11]

I’m with Fang. ASAP and in person too. Even if he gets PO’d and ghosts on you for a while, trust me your friendship will be strengthened in the longer term as he will be back guaranteed.

I’d slap that Tinder bulls~~~ live and front and center in his face, and let the Tinder piece do all the talking. Frankly, I would want this to be brought to my attention.

[Anonymous 42]

1+’s  for fang and CPig,  tell the dude! “I was that dude!”

My friend told me! My girlfriend advanced on him by dropping her cloths right in front of him! He was honorable and told her he wasn’t interested, I knew she was floozie, I had been with this girl for more than a year (HELL) she was emotionally compromised (NUTS), I learned all about hypergamy, and the gynocentric drama QUEEN, she was a wild one! No man could tame that beast!

Tell the dude, he needs to know. Every minute he spends in dumbsville he’ll feel even more like a fool! Drop the red-pill-bomb and let the damage be done! The truth will set him free, we hope.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Robert Hallam wrote:

If the roles were reversed and a girlfriend saw this guy’s dating profile up she would be telling the girlfriend in less than a minute.

Except cheating men can’t put their girlfriends on the hook for two decades of child support for some other woman’s child. Women can. And do.

For that very reason all cheating women need to be exposed immediately. No exceptions. This guy MUST be told about his cheating girlfriend before he gets put on the hook for child support or worse: marriage.

[Sam FisherParticipant 206]

UPDATE: Told him about it all 2 months ago with cold hard evidence – haven’t heard a thing since from anyone. Oh well, ultimately, I did the right thing in telling the truth and letting people deal with the truth as they may.

[Helen be DamnedParticipant 480]

Ah yes, the river Denial. So many people go down that one.

"You can keep your soul, I don't want a cell-mate." - Them Crooked Vultures

[BDParticipant 1146]

Sam Fisher wrote:

Told him about it all 2 months ago with cold hard evidence – haven’t heard a thing since from anyone.

This man is ignoring a massive red flag.

He will contact you and tell you his sad story after she has ruined him.

Then you can help him pick up the pieces.

I would have gone one better, I would have gotten a player friend to get her out for dinner off of Tinder, then I would have sent the BF the pictures.

I have even heard stories of men hiring male escorts to test their wives to see if they would cheat, and what do you know, it worked.

Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.

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