I almost fell into a trap

[Gravel PitParticipant]

Romulus wrote:

I’ve seen guys get a ring and proposed before 6 months has passed when they are struck that hard by a pretty young woman

Zarathustra wrote:

Some people can walk into a bar, have a few drinks and leave

Everything Manspread, Mansplainer said is dead on.

Philandry wrote:

Don’t listen to your feelings they will lead you into the trap.
Always remember she WILL be having sex with other men.

Philandry wrote:

SHE IS NOT YOURS IT IS JUST YOUR TURN!

I’m 31 and I could relate truly to your mode of thinking. I have replayed their images and what-ifs in my head when I meet them. That itself, IS the red flag. I can tell you’re young and you have not been burned hard in the love department.

So I say, give in. Go after her with all your might. It wont be long before you’re back.

I predict 9 months. Your heart will feel SO BAD man. I hope for your sake you do not get her pregnant.

[Gravel PitParticipant]

[Gravel PitParticipant]

You really should avail yourself of this. Just saying. I only mean well. Good luck

[narwhalParticipant]

BuckFitches wrote:

I went home that night questioning my MGTOW beliefs and whether or not it’s really for me

Forget about beliefs and the idea that it fits or doesn’t fit you. MGTOW is primarily about facts and making smart decisions based on those facts. We all have different levels of risk acceptance, but the facts don’t change. What you believe and how you feel doesn’t stop reality from happening.

BuckFitches wrote:

It’s so easy to meet a hot girl and assume she’ll make a great wife. I don’t necessarily have good reasons to totally ditch this chick cause she hasn’t given me any red flags yet, but MGTOW helps me realize that just because the red flags aren’t showing yet doesn’t mean they wont.

I don’t know that you have to ditch her, just don’t do anything you don’t want to do, and never forget to think.

Ok. Then do it.

[Anonymous 38]

I’ve just met a chick and it’s true, if she’s a real catch you can’t stop those thoughts.
She seems like a genuine sweetheart. Maybe this is it, my fairy story… lol.
Well done for not falling in to the trap. Just watch these thoughts come and go, chuckle at them.
I’m not going to fight this girl off me. But I’m well aware AWALT, and this is just my turn. I’m not gonna do any silly s~~~. The minute she does something I don’t like, NEXT. As long as you don’t put yourself in a vulnerable position, you should be fine to have some fun with it. You can play with fire as long as you’ve got all the protective gear on etc etc!

I don’t know that you have to ditch her, just don’t do anything you don’t want to do, and never forget to think.

narwhal’s post is bang on the money.

[KevinStylesParticipant 2580]

There’s always that honeymooon phase where you go out of your way to be agreeable and whatnot during the courting phase. But after 3-4 months things go back to normal and the hormone or whatever caused that fades and she’ll go back to being bat-s~~~ crazy like most chicks.

BUT if you want to stick it out, i mean go for it if it makes you happy. You just know the signs and when things turn, you now know to get the f~~~ out. In the mean time, don’t live together and use extreme safe sex measures if you don’t have a vasectomy. Like double bag that s~~~.

[Anonymous 18]

BuckFitches wrote:

I went home that night questioning my MGTOW beliefs and whether or not it’s really for me.

What happened there Chuck was that you asked to pet-sit her hamster. A red pill man doesn’t keep hamsters.

MGTOW is like flowers that blossom whether its children playing in the garden, or corpses in a cemetery. They just blossom. Its their nature.

Saying MGTOW isn’t for you is like saying blossoming isn’t for flowers. You may suspend your ‘AWALT’ belief because the dopamine/serotonin/vasopressin high is more intense being a blue pill simp but AWALT is swiss alarm clock- it WILL wake you up.

BuckFitches wrote:

I don’t necessarily have good reasons to totally ditch this chick

You do. Her hamster will ‘just wanna play with you’. Then it will ‘just move in, cuz we have so much fun together’.

Then, well, that’s all she wrote.

BuckFitches wrote:

hasn’t given me any red flags yet

Ummmmm.

ps: It could be a beautiful woman syndrome. I just had a semi-ugly woman perform fellatio and she swallowed. Twice. I haven’t texted in past few weeks. Nor has she.

I am not sure if she was hot, I would be here calling ya all f~~~~~s and losers. But rest be assured – I’d be the f~~~~~ and loser.

Perhaps I try me a hawt gurl next. Can I borrow her after you are done with her ‘brother’?

[MonkParticipant 16983]

BuckFitches wrote:

When I met my ex she was tons of fun! Super Adventurous! Then we got intimate and she began hating risks, adventures, and all things glorious.

She was in chameleon mode. She NEVER liked any of these things. Once she thought that you were hooked, she dropped the pretence.

AWALT.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

I am so glad I no longer possess the emotions to fall for a female again.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

BuckFitches wrote:

Another thing that really bothered me was the fact that I couldn’t stop thinking about the girl even days after we re-met. For a short period she was all I could think about and I was imagining stupid stuff like “what if we dated and then got married and had kids and life was amazing”

Notice how it’s all in your head?
The whole thing is in your head.

She already MEANS SOMETHING to you. A woman you just met should mean NOTHING to you. When you know this, her rejection will mean nothing to you either.

Consider making sure no woman means anything to you, until SHE has made an effort to mean something to you. And batting her eyelashes a certain way is not nearly enough.

I knew a guy who was talking about going back to his ex – and marrying her! – because “she was the only one who ever LOOKED at him a certain way”. Can you believe that s~~~?? His bar is set so low that she only needs to LOOK at him a certain way, and he’s already shopping for a ring.

No.

How it goes is not up to YOU to imagine in your head.
It’s up to HER.

Women are unbelievably lazy, because they CAN be. I often liken them to one of those blade-sharpening benches with a stool and a foot pedal. As long as you apply constant effort, you get some action. You may even see sparks!

But remove your efforts, and what do you have?
You have something that is only designed to RESPOND.

BuckFitches wrote:

I almost fell into a trap

Careful you don’t lay that trap yourself.
Even when you fall into it, she really had nothing to do with it.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Frank V.Participant 2445]

Never forget:

Now matter how attracted to her you are, someone, somewhere is sick of her s~~~.

When you remember this, everything else starts to fall into place.

Frank V.

[OneLaneOnlyPlsParticipant 1747]

BuckFitches wrote:

It’s so easy to meet a hot girl and assume she’ll make a great wife.

Not when you allow the mgtow philosophy to wash over you, in an awesome wave.

You aren’t quite there yet, thats OK, give it time.

[BuckFitchesParticipant 993]

THANK YOU GUYS FOR ALL THE COMMENTS. I’ve read every single one. Fortunately I’ve been so busy working and focusing on getting in better shape that I haven’t had time to think about that one chick or any chick at all. I’ve basically been monk mode naturally since I posted this.

This is an awesome community.

"Fish can’t climb trees and women can’t be trusted." -Buck Fitches

[BuckFitchesParticipant 993]

Keymaster wrote:

BuckFitches wrote:

Another thing that really bothered me was the fact that I couldn’t stop thinking about the girl even days after we re-met. For a short period she was all I could think about and I was imagining stupid stuff like “what if we dated and then got married and had kids and life was amazing”

Notice how it’s all in your head?
The whole thing is in your head.

She already MEANS SOMETHING to you. A woman you just met should mean NOTHING to you. When you know this, her rejection will mean nothing to you either.

Consider making sure no woman means anything to you, until SHE has made an effort to mean something to you. And batting her eyelashes a certain way is not nearly enough.

I knew a guy who was talking about going back to his ex – and marrying her! – because “she was the only one who ever LOOKED at him a certain way”. Can you believe that s~~~?? His bar is set so low that she only needs to LOOK at him a certain way, and he’s already shopping for a ring.

No.

How it goes is not up to YOU to imagine in your head.
It’s up to HER.

Women are unbelievably lazy, because they CAN be. I often liken them to one of those blade-sharpening benches with a stool and a foot pedal. As long as you apply constant effort, you get some action. You may even see sparks!

But remove your efforts, and what do you have?
You have something that is only designed to RESPOND.

BuckFitches wrote:

I almost fell into a trap

Careful you don’t lay that trap yourself.
Even when you fall into it, she really had nothing to do with it.

Thank you Keymaster

"Fish can’t climb trees and women can’t be trusted." -Buck Fitches

[HermitParticipant]

Puffin Stuff wrote:

Why not have some fun with a hot girl. I like girls. I just hate their personalities. Sex is good and women are soft and inviting. What better than a girl you click with for a quick hump and dump with no promises for any future with her.

She probably would sleep with you well before you grow tired of her.

I had sex one time and I immediately dumped her. I was immediately tired of her.

MarketWatcher wrote:

Good post Brother. I think you have got this one. Why not have a little fun with her. You have your Red Pill knowledge. Use it.

I agree. You don’t have to run screaming from this girl. You have the knowledge now to protect yourself. Have some fun with her and as long as it stays fun, keep seeing her. The very moment she turns and it’s no longer fun, just walk away.

If it was me, I’d have some fun with her until she turns back to bitch mode and then kick her to the curb……….but my armor has been so hardened by the fire, I don’t have to worry about those silly emotions anymore. I’ll never fall for another.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[SamsquanchParticipant 4226]

Anonymous wrote:

may 7 2020 wrote:

Sometimes the s~~~ vortex smells like Channel no5.

ASVALT

My kriptonite! Yikes!
Ive thought about haveing a bottle of it at my house.
Just to remind mysef I can enjoy the cent, with out a nagging bitch attached to it.

Very Sexy by Victoria’s Secret is my kriptonite. A woman that is a 2 can be wearing it and it still gets my attention.

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