I almost fell into a trap

[BuckFitchesParticipant 993]

What’s up guys!
I’ve been focusing on work pretty hardcore lately so I haven’t been getting my daily doses of red pills and what-do-you-know… I met this girl I started to like. This isn’t a post about me going blue pill tho it’s a post about the importance of red pills.

I literally said to myself, “Wow she might be different.” And immediately IMMEDIATELY an alarm went off in my head.

What happened is we re-met at a party (haven’t seen her in 6 years) and it turns out that we live close to each other and she’s hot as f~~~ and actually does the same occupation I do. So at first I was getting real excited like maybe I found ‘the one’ or some s~~~. I went home that night questioning my MGTOW beliefs and whether or not it’s really for me.

Here’s what made me realize it’s the same stupid s~~~ as usual… My last girl friend was also “a perfect candidate” for me. And that was a disaster. I ended up hating my last girl friend cause SHE TOOK THE FUN OUT OF EVERYTHING.

Sidenote: I never faught with my last gf even once. Not even once. Because I was pussy whipped and did everything she told me to do. So i just began hating her deep down. She was a real fun sucker, but it didn’t start like that. When I met my ex she was tons of fun! Super Adventurous! Then we got intimate and she began hating risks, adventures, and all things glorious.

back to the new chick…
We seemed to ‘click’ real well that night, but now I’m remembering that relationships always start with everything seeming to ‘click’ perfectly and then it’s only a matter of time before the s~~~ gets out of the bag.

Another thing that really bothered me was the fact that I couldn’t stop thinking about the girl even days after we re-met. For a short period she was all I could think about and I was imagining stupid stuff like “what if we dated and then got married and had kids and life was amazing” but L-O-L we all know that’s total bull s~~~. My day dreams are like a disney movie. I wanted my focus back so I had to stop thinking about this chick and just give up on her.

It’s so easy to meet a hot girl and assume she’ll make a great wife. I don’t necessarily have good reasons to totally ditch this chick cause she hasn’t given me any red flags yet, but MGTOW helps me realize that just because the red flags aren’t showing yet doesn’t mean they wont.

Women meet you with tons of excitement, and then date you with tons of rules and logic. Women’s “logic” tho so really I should call it bull s~~~.

"Fish can’t climb trees and women can’t be trusted." -Buck Fitches

[Anonymous 42]

I see S~~~ in your future! HIGH, DEEP, WIDE and STINKY S~~~ in your future!

You may want to invest in a pair of waders and a respirator…

[RomulusParticipant 4667]

Well, if you are not in full Monk mode, and you meet a young woman and for you she is new and exciting, and she is returning your attention, you two have started the deadly serotonin feed back loop. There’s no way to say something that feel that good…doesn’t feel real good…and wanting more. That’s how nature made us so it can be assured we will want to mate. In these situations its real easy to move quickly and establish and confirm commitments before you even know what you are getting in to fully. I’ve seen guys get a ring and proposed before 6 months has passed when they are struck that hard by a pretty young woman

My recommendation (worth everything you paid for it) is to proceed slowly. Keep aware of challenges to your autonomy. Don’t get married. Don’t speak of getting married. Don’t live together. Don’t allow her to stay over night at your place. Don’t rush over to fix what ever little problem she has. Don’t give all your awake time and attention to her.

Proceed cautiously and somewhat slowly, and keep the boundaries discussed above.

How can a woman be expected to be happy with a man who insists on treating her as if she were a perfectly normal human being.

[Anonymous 43]

Sometimes the s~~~ vortex smells like Channel no5.

Sometimes the s~~~ vortex is smooth and creamy

But all the time, the s~~~ vortex is s~~~

ASVALT

[BuckFitchesParticipant 993]

Anonymous wrote:

I see S~~~ in your future! HIGH, DEEP, WIDE and STINKY S~~~ in your future!

Romulus wrote:

I’ve seen guys get a ring and proposed before 6 months has passed when they are struck that hard by a pretty young woman

When I was blue-pilled I was known for moving really fast with girls, which is not good.

Part of the reason I made this post is because I can sense my emotions stirring up and I’m coming here for reassurance. So thank you guys.

I plan on going back to read people’s testimonies and educate myself on why I went MGTOW in the first place. Monk aint an option for me cause it isn’t fun enough. Im in my 20s I want to live it up. I like to party and go out which typically involves women being around, which I don’t mind…. but i definitely can’t afford to be in a relations~~~

"Fish can’t climb trees and women can’t be trusted." -Buck Fitches

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

Why not have some fun with a hot girl. I like girls. I just hate their personalities. Sex is good and women are soft and inviting. What better than a girl you click with for a quick hump and dump with no promises for any future with her.

She probably would sleep with you well before you grow tired of her.

I had sex one time and I immediately dumped her. I was immediately tired of her.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[BuckFitchesParticipant 993]

Anonymous wrote:

Sometimes the s~~~ vortex smells like Channel no5.

Sometimes the s~~~ vortex is smooth and creamy

But all the time, the s~~~ vortex is s~~~

Sometimes the s~~~ vortex is a hot blonde girl who grew up to have amazing curves and a pretty face….

wait no NO NOOOOOOO F~~~ PLEASE THIS CANT HAPPEN TO ME I WAS DOING SO GOOOOOODOOOOD

"Fish can’t climb trees and women can’t be trusted." -Buck Fitches

[ZarathustraParticipant 2246]

Good post. I think you have to know who you are and what your limits are. Some people can walk into a bar, have a few drinks and leave. Others have a few drinks, then a few more, then a few more and then the wake up in a ditch somewhere. I am a little the way you are describing yourself here: a pump and dump is not an option for me. If I go there I will spend, weeks, years, whatever obsessing and its not good. Know your limits!

[AkhilleusParticipant 2486]

do what you gotta do but be prepared knowing is half the battle G I JOE!

Aloha means family you don't leave family behind. Who will be the next Draconarius for MGTOW? MGTOW = brothers = acceptance = belonging

[RomulusParticipant 4667]

I plan on going back to read people’s testimonies and educate myself on why I went MGTOW in the first place. Monk aint an option for me cause it isn’t fun enough. Im in my 20s I want to live it up. I like to party and go out which typically involves women being around, which I don’t mind…. but i definitely can’t afford to be in a relations~~~

I hear you loud and clear brother, there a lot more stimulating you at your age then those of us in our 50s. Not everyone choses to live like a monk, and it isn’t the only option you should allow yourself if that isn’t you path at the current time. But takes steps not to allow yourself to get carried away with commitments and filling every little void in her life.

With young women its…do a trick for me, get a treat. The treats come regularly early in your training. And OMG but those treats are f-I-n-e. Then, hmm, well, after a bit, then maybe you need to work a little harder to get that trick. You’re partly conditioned and anyway, hell, in for a penny in for a pound. Pretty soon, the only trick that still works is full commitment to “HER” if you want those treats you like so well.

Set boundaries and keep them. She will leave after a bit due to the boundaries. Enjoy the time you have, soon, some other dog will be getting them treat.

How can a woman be expected to be happy with a man who insists on treating her as if she were a perfectly normal human being.

[Manspread MansplainerParticipant 4222]

We are in the age of PUA’s, Chad’s and sluts.

You know FB/Instagram etc. are her ways of reaching the magical 5000 friend count (max) then gets to discard all the ‘losers’ at her leisure to make room for more simps.

I’ve noticed something about Faces~~~: People who have 3400 friends might have 120 followers. People with 5000 friends might have 700 followers.
I suck at math, but noticed this ratio everywhere. So most people only want the friend count for ego, not to be bombarded with their actual day to day breakfast updates.

You are like a celestial object being pulled in by her gravity well.
Beware when passing other orbiters because it’s a big p~~~ing contest.

Maybe ask her if she’s down to f~~~ but otherwise ignore.
If you go this route, move swiftly before she goes on the carousel for a midnight spin.

The idea of a life partner who you trust to pull their own weight is long over in this world.

A woman has the attention span of a goldfish. Lots of different c~~~s for them to jump on.

If women ran the world = It would become the shithole you are seeing.

[Anonymous 54]

Anonymous wrote:

Sometimes the s~~~ vortex smells like Channel no5.

ASVALT

My kriptonite! Yikes!
Ive thought about haveing a bottle of it at my house.
Just to remind mysef I can enjoy the cent, with out a nagging bitch attached to it.

[Anonymous 54]

Just remember Young Men of many hormones..

There is NO sex after marrage.

[MarketWatcherParticipant]

Good post Brother. I think you have got this one. Why not have a little fun with her. You have your Red Pill knowledge. Use it.

[PhilandryParticipant 538]

Don’t listen to your feelings they will lead you into the trap.

Always remember she WILL be having sex with other men.

Either after you pump and dump her or after she has ripped your heart out in divorce court.

SHE IS NOT YOURS IT IS JUST YOUR TURN!

Think of yourself, brother.

Wisdom will save you. You have shown yours by coming to this site. Share the wisdom of these men and drink deep of the well of freedom and contentment.

Being a man is incredible good luck. Do not waste it on the unlucky.

[ShinyParticipant 2307]

Women are chameleons. If you think she is a perfect match for you, it’s because she is showing you what she thinks you want to see.

Well I’m into Peruvian mountain frogs…

Wow me too! Right up until I get that ball and chain on your ankle…

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

BuckFitches wrote:

Another thing that really bothered me was the fact that I couldn’t stop thinking about the girl even days after we re-met. For a short period she was all I could think about and I was imagining stupid stuff like “what if we dated and then got married and had kids and life was amazing” but L-O-L we all know that’s total bull s~~~. My day dreams are like a disney movie. I wanted my focus back so I had to stop thinking about this chick and just give up on her.

This is how important it is have self awareness. There are a few videos out there that woke me up to my own romantic tendencies. One thing that struck with me hard was from one of the videos that pointed out “men are the romantics not woman, but woman can use this to manipulate you”. I found myself doing just what you were doing and this Redpill knowledge helped me to put a stop to it.
It was soft spot in my armor that I needed to be aware of.

Men romanticize woman to be these wonderful creatures and create their own traps. Woman capitalize on it by asking for flowers or gifts and pretending to swoon when you do. They (s~~~) test chivalry because it’s easy for her see when a man is romanticizing his heroic nature. She rewards his ego when she gets what she wants by complimenting his honor and character, and punishes his romantic fallacy with shaming when she’s not getting what she wants.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[BubParticipant 1408]

Anonymous wrote:

But all the time, the s~~~ vortex is s~~~

^^^^^^. This is truth. ^^^^^^^

Lurkers, you’ve been warned…

Just rolling down the road

[sjt1975Participant 2536]

BuckFitches wrote:

Women meet you with tons of excitement and then date you with tons of rules and logic.

‘Women’ and ‘Logic’ together is an oxymoron. Women don’t have Logic, they have Demands and Bull-S~~~ instead.

[sjt1975Participant 2536]

BuckFitches wrote:

I was imagining stuff like “what if we dated and then got married and had kids and life was amazing”…

… Then he woke up from the dream.

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