How To Enjoy The Friendzone

[MuglintarParticipant 1333]

KM, exactly! Women are trapped in an infantile mindset. Who as adult Man would or could enjoy fooling Kids? Occasionally yes, but as a permanent was of communicating things? My playground days are over and that is good and something to enjoy.

I wonder if society’s youth fetish of nowadays has something to do with feministic indoctrination raising it’s ugly head?

"Him, who delights in solitude, is either a wild beast or a GOD!" - Aristotle (Aristot. Pol. 1.1253a) 1 Hom. Il. 9.63; the passage goes on: ἐστὶν ἐκεῖνος ι ὃς πολέμου ἔραται.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Muglintar wrote:

Who as adult Man would or could enjoy fooling Kids?

Valid question. “Friend-zone her” first is “trolling” in a way. But it is amusing, because it festers in her mind. The gesture means SO much more to her than it ever will to you. She will drive herself mental about it… for days, weeks, months.

“OMG does he not think I’m pretty? How can that be? EVERY guy wants to screw me, dammit. Why did he say he just wants to he friends? Is he saying I’m fat? what did he MEEEEEEEEEEEAAAAAN!!!!!”

They do this because they re-interpret everything to “mean” something else.

I’m not terrorizing her. She does it all to herself.
I just said “friend” and her hamster goes berserk.

Even a child is more adult than that.

Muglintar wrote:

I wonder if society’s youth fetish of nowadays has something to do with feministic indoctrination raising it’s ugly head?

Feminist indoctrination needs to get them young. Or it doesn’t work.

That’s what you’re dealing with.
Adult versions of that s~~~.

Like 5th grade with bank accounts.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Eric LauderParticipant 12043]

What is this s~~~?
Friendzone?
“Enjoying the friendzone”???
Really???

It seems an old Italian surreal joke:

What do you do?

I’m striking my testicles with the hammer!

Are you crazy? It is painful!

Yes, but when I miss the target is a GREAT ENJOYMENT!!!

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[KeymasterKeymaster]

Eric Lauder wrote:

“Enjoying the friendzone”???

Depends on how you look at it.

This is how women look at it . . . . .
It’s just code for “GO AWAY”.

Use it on them for the same reason. And enjoy.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Rolling Tin FistParticipant 484]

It’s funny. I used to have lots of female aquaintances before I got married, even my sister, who likes attention more than a hungry newborn, told me I had way too many women in my orbit.

I was no player, alpha male, or rico suave, etc., so her comment caught me off guard. I didn’t run any kind of games. I’ve just always been a quality over quantity dude. So out of a couple of dozen women I maybe would sleep with one, if that.

I’ve always had sexual relations on mutually beneficial terms, or not at all. I lost some nice opportunities to be sure, but there is value in being discriminating about women one choses to bed.

I couldn’t quite figure out why until I took the Red Pill over two years ago. Women can be great at sucking a man’s resources from him, if allowed, whether it be money, utility, time, or even attention. Sex is just one of the tools in their arsenal.

Maybe it’s the movie, When Harry Met Sally, that got it into my thick skull, in my younger years, that men and women can’t be friends until the issue of sex has been addressed and mutually resolved. Before I saw this movie, I was a total pu$$y beggar

My use of acquiaintance and friend are deliberate. I have never had a female friend that I didn’t already have a long sexual relationship with or the matter of sex was definitively resolved (e.g. You’re old enough to be my grandma ? so we ain’t fcuking.) Every other woman is considered an acquaintance, at best.

I learned that once you get the sex out of the way with a woman, you know a lot more about her, and what’s left will have a lot less bull$#+ associated with it. You can keep it real without having to pu$$yfoot about stuff.

Any one you can’t keep it real with, probably shouldn’t be labeled friend.

"Love is the delusion that one woman differs from another" - H. L. Mencken

[Anonymous 2]

I think of being friends with a woman and being in the friendzone as two different things.

Being friends with a woman because you share common interests is fine. No expectation to pick up the bill, you don’t have to deal with the drama that boyfriends deal with, and there is a mutual respect of boundaries. If she goes all feminist on you, or wants you to white knight for her, then kick her to the curb. It’s not like she can take your money and assets or anything. I have a few female friends who like hanging out with guys because they hate the drama that always comes with hanging around other women. They want to watch a football match or go see a band without dealing with the drama. They buy their own food and drinks and don’t expect gifts or to be showered with praise.

Being “in the friendzone” has a whole different meaning to me. When I think of being in the friendzone, that’s when a guy is a beta cuck trying to get into a woman’s panties by playing the role of the “one good guy”. He buys her gifts, dinners, and drinks, showers her with compliments, and allows himself to be used as an emotional tampon, all with the thought that she is going to “see the good in him” and be drawn away from the Chad types she is putting out for. Of course, she won’t, because she doesn’t respect the beta and looks at him as a weakling. She just uses him to get free s~~~ out of him and stroke her ego. It’s very much like a male-male or female-female “friendship” where one idolizes the other, and because of that, they don’t get treated as an equal. It’s an alpha/beta relationship. We’ve all seen that beta guy or girl who kisses the ass of their alpha “friend”, even though the alpha makes fun of them all the time and constantly treats them like an inferior, usually because the beta wants to be part of a more popular crowd. The only difference is that in male-female ones, the man is being a beta for sexual reward. The woman is obviously well aware of this, and just strings him along to take advantage of him.

[Anonymous 0]

Why didn’t anybody tell me this s~~~ when I was 15 or 16?

[Yojimbo RockfordParticipant 348]

Key Master,
“Depends on how you look at it.

This is how women look at it . . . . .
It’s just code for “GO AWAY”.

Use it on them for the same reason. And enjoy.”

I’m glad you understand the tongue-in-cheek spirit this post was written in.

[DanceMyOwnWayParticipant 2096]

Friendzoning is sometimes a result of running bad Game but is obviously about you becoming one of the many orbiters of her used and abused pussy. I struggle more with them trying to trap me in a relationship and being attracted to the wrong type ie. most women out there now – initially fun, flirty, generous, unfaithful, disloyal hypergamy lying bitch pretty quickly. A “friendship” with a woman should have some tangible positive for a MGHOW – sex, gifts, some kind of moral support. I have female friends like that. Those who serve no positive contribution are not in my life. A woman always has to bring more than her pussy to the table. As for being friendzoned just ignore them afterwards. Plenty of willing women out there so why bother engaging in their bulls~~~?

If you fall down 7 times, get up 8

[Ned TrentParticipant 4894]

Keymaster wrote:

Valid question. “Friend-zone her” first is “trolling” in a way. But it is amusing, because it festers in her mind. The gesture means SO much more to her than it ever will to you. She will drive herself mental about it… for days, weeks, months.

That’s a good point Keymaster.

Now come to think of it I am slowly coming to the conclusion that today after PUA techniques (ie. the hot-and-cold-shower-thingy etc.) have eventually failed to lure women into bed (because they have gotten used to it) plus the rise of the fifty-shades-of-rape-fantasies (translate that as the rise of the normalizing women’s increased ultimate shamelessness) nowadays women seem to appreciate nothing less than to be mentally “raped” (as this would be the next logical more exciting “booster rocket stage” to them so to speak) in between hot as the sun’s surface temperatures and zero Kelvin to ever want to f~~~ with you and even then only under the very condition that they were into you in the first place, which you as a man would ideally have to know in an instant.

But sorry ladies, this to me is just too much to be asked for from any half decent man in my humble opinion, because that is just sick…!

MGTOWs have hacked female nature and are mostly appalled by what they’ve discovered… … hence thanks but no thanks to the plantation.

I'd rather die a natual death with a clear MGTOW conscience somewhere off the grid than one within "modern" civilisation with a big stress mark on my forehead and a couple of dozen tubes plugged into my body. Back to the plantation..? Me..? Hey, literally: I won't ever fucking kid myself...YZERLMNTSIC

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Yojimbo Rockford wrote:

I’m glad you understand the tongue-in-cheek spirit this post was written in.

Well, If you don’t enjoy the friend-zone, it’s not very enjoyable. This kind of female attitude is totally unenjoyable – and downright nonsense – so there’s no harm in flipping it around for your amusement.

Ned Trent wrote:

MGTOWs have hacked female nature and are mostly appalled by what they’ve discovered

Yes sir!

Hacked right through her bulls~~~.
“All girls keep the good ones around until the time is right”.

I have also been approached by at least 1/2 a dozen “females” (+ 2 exes) who thought “the time is right” when their eggs started drying up.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8283]

Years ago, I took the “friend zone” very, VERY personally. My self-esteem was all tied up with attractive women. I felt I needed their validation that I was a handsome, worthwhile guy that a lot of women desired for companionship and sex. Blah, blah, blah. I just want to laugh at the whole situation now.

When I look at women, and talk to them, I still have the same desire for them, but I’m not desperate. That’s the difference between today and yesterday. I’m not a needy young adult anymore. I can relax when I talk to them because I HAVE NO EXPECTATIONS FROM THEM (which made my conversations and body language awkward in the past). If they want to be a friend, I’m happy instead of insulted. They can do whatever they want with their lives. I don’t care anymore. Go ahead and f~~~ Chad and make a lot of babies. Just don’t complain about those choices in front of me. I’m busy focusing on my own self-improvement.

As far as dating, if the best I can get from women is a romantic weekend and some Nevada hookers in a hot tub, I’ll settle for that. Asking for a lifetime of loyalty, companionship, hot meals, a clean house, and daily/weekly sex is TOO MUCH when it comes to American/liberated women. They aren’t raised to be accommodating to men. There’s a small part of me that actually feels sorry for them because they will never experience the happiness of being a good wife to a good man because their feminist minds scoff at that idea. They are mentally conditioned to compete with men in the classroom, workplace, and throughout a marriage.

Want to be friends? Bring it on! I’d rather not pay for Chad’s abandoned kids, and your bills.

Friendzone = I keep my money. That’s fine with me.

Plus: there’s a never-ending supply of single, pretty women to date in this world—and some of them are actually more friendly than the conceited women that expect you to jump through fiery hoops in order to date them.

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

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