How to eliminate my desire for closeness with women

[007 (Reborn)Participant 1672]

Hey guys,

My red pill journey is still going well. I no longer let women sexually manipulate me.

There is still one problem though.

The thing that I enjoyed more than sex was holding a woman close, cuddling, passionate make out sessions, etc.

I’ve come to realize that I can no longer do these things with women because they create emotional progress. Connecting with women like that is too risky.

So basically what I’m saying is that I miss intimate closeness.

How can I eliminate this desire?

Pursuing Happiness and Freedom.

[007 (Reborn)Participant 1672]

Please don’t tuna alert me.

Pursuing Happiness and Freedom.

[TattooDaveParticipant 6952]

Believe it or not I slept with the same woman from 1979 until 2009. Even after that I still have the same desire that you’re talking about but there is a solution. Especially if you are still in the throes of some kind of relationship it’s going to be nearly impossible and that’s where the men are separated from the boys because we have to stop that contact. I smoked a lot of weed and I mean a lot of weed and I broke that spell I’m not sure what did it if it was being alone other than my dog are there weed smoking but I can tell you that not having any contact with women was the best thing that happened to me in my entire life and there are very many men who are going to agree. Once you have gotten yourself rid of that addiction you’re going to feel much better much more clean much more whole. An entire Journey begins with a single step why don’t you just not be around women for a while try that out see how it works. It’s just as bad as trying to go without heroin I know we all know. Smoking weed helps drinking doesn’t.

Have a bit of confidence that things are going to get better if you can see hundreds of men around you doing so you will do the same too

I can see their heads have been twisted and fed with worthless foam from the mouth. Bob d

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

buy a large stuffed animal/plush toy.

[Anonymous 11]

I’m going to be brutally blunt. You just have to meet enough then you finally cross the Rubicon.

I was exposed to women over the weekend good looking ones too much younger than I. I could have f~~~ed two, but I banged my two Fleshlight sleeves before going. Thinking about her c~~~ count helps too.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

[KeymasterKeymaster]

007 (Reborn) wrote:

How can I eliminate this desire?

Someone call the sisterhood because at least ONE man doesn’t seem to have “a problem with intimacy”, like they love to pretend.

( Of course I’m being facetious. )

But you don’t need to eliminate it. You can certainly start by understanding you’ve been socialized to think you can’t function (or are “incomplete”) without it.

Think Jerry Maguire: “you complete me”.

…. as if he’s not a whole person without her. Oh yeah, it’s not “just a movie”. It is designed to remain ensconced in your head and you’ve been conditioned to believe it. The interesting part about that scene, was that he just walked into a women’s discussion group meeting who just finished saying “men are the enemy”.

How lovely is that.

Women decide and unanimously agree “Men are the enemy”.
Man walks in and says “I miss my wife. You complete me”.

You see the gross imbalance in that?

Now look around. Who are the ones who lay themselves down – and kneel – making grandiose displays of affection, huge offerings, and outrageous theatrical proposals? Seen a woman do that lately?

Men are constantly bombarded with that, and when you realize that it’s just NOT NATURAL, you begin to reevaluate and notice where it all comes from. Like a food commercial at 11:30PM. If your TV was off, you wouldn’t crave pizza just before bed. Certainly not Red Lobster.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[KevinStylesParticipant 2580]

Ya i get what you’re going through. I mean aside from getting a ‘real doll’ or a giant stuffed bear, seek out a woman that doesn’t want any strings attached. Be up front with what you want out of the companionship.

Also a while ago i heard about ‘cuddle’ parties where men/women meet up to cuddle. NOt sure if those are still a ‘thing’ or what, but couldn’t hurt to look into it.

[Chase PesosParticipant 2136]

Think about all the money you will save,the things that you can do for yourself and the headaches you won’t have hearing your friends and neighbors arguing with theirs constantly.

Chase a check, never chase a chick...

[Anonymous 43]

007 Wish granted

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/10/25/girlfriend-body-pillow-deluxe-comfort-sears_n_2018257.html

lol

I lol hope this cough solves snicker your ummmm problem bwahahahahaha

I am so going to hell for this

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

Keep your mind occupied.

I like to research history like world war 1 and astronomy.
Read about economics and finance.
Hobbies.
Etc….

Write a book
Build something

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[Anonymous 5]

The moment you internalize the biological truism, that the female is only truly intimate in the mating/bonding phase, you’ll completely cease looking for or missing it.
If she’s “Intimate” after that, she wants something or is rewarding you for providing her something.

Our species wasn’t always the dominant force on the planet.
For the vast majority of our time, before agriculture, humans were sparse and borderline survivalists.

It was a suicidal evolutionary strategy for women to love men, the way men love women.
Women needed to exploit men in demanding they pursue the very dangerous activity of providing protein, and also the very dangerous activity of protection in a savage world.
“Motherly” love or intimacy would severely curtail a woman’s drive to nag a man out into constant danger.
Men are, and always have been, disposable.
If her man got killed, or she found a better provider or protector, she’d replace him.

Women who could sociopathicly exploit their males had far better chances of survival for both her and her offspring,,,and those who gave “motherly” love to their male partners got Darwin awards.

We can be very grateful our fore-mothers were like this because if they weren’t, it’s highly probable that none of us would be here now.

When you realise long term intimacy doesn’t exist, you’ll cease yearning for it.

[Anonymous 43]

all the women I ever slept with and woke up with had nasty breath, snored, drooled all over me, would shove their hand down my shorts and pull flesh or hair or in the case of the c~~~, sit on top of me beating me to a pulp and compressing all the air out of my lungs making me blackout. If they put their head on my chest, I got a head full of long hair in my nose and mouth. exc~~~ like to rub her toenails into the bottom of my foot giving me leg spasms. Ya don’t want to give a former bike racer leg spasms, you will end up on the other side of the room. OMG the cramping I would get trying not to kick her were tremendously painful. F~~~.

Then in the morning she would bitch about how I stole all the blankets lol she was wrapped up in them all night and I slept on the floor usually just to get away from her.

I found zero comfort in cuddling.

[Old RottweilerParticipant 1520]

I KNOW how negative women are. I have been used many times and hurt a few times by them. I still enjoyed the intimacy and touch. The good times when they were trying to catch or keep me.

I’m getting to where they have no interest to me. Ones over 50 are old ladies and the 30 somethings are trouble.

My hobbies help, my dog is the best.

[Old RottweilerParticipant 1520]

Anonymous wrote:

The moment you internalize the biological truism, that the female is only truly intimate in the mating/bonding phase, you’ll completely cease looking for or missing it.
If she’s “Intimate” after that, she wants something or is rewarding you for providing her something.

Our species wasn’t always the dominant force on the planet.
For the vast majority of our time, before agriculture, humans were sparse and borderline survivalists.

It was a suicidal evolutionary strategy for women to love men, the way men love women.
Women needed to exploit men in demanding they pursue the very dangerous activity of providing protein, and also the very dangerous activity of protection in a savage world.
“Motherly” love or intimacy would severely curtail a woman’s drive to nag a man out into constant danger.
Men are, and always have been, disposable.
If her man got killed, or she found a better provider or protector, she’d replace him.

Women who could sociopathicly exploit their males had far better chances of survival for both her and her offspring,,,and those who gave “motherly” love to their male partners got Darwin awards.

We can be very grateful our fore-mothers were like this because if they weren’t, it’s highly probable that none of us would be here now.

When you realise long term intimacy doesn’t exist, you’ll cease yearning for it.

Really good explanation for female nature.

[Anonymous 3]

007 (Reborn) wrote:

I miss intimate closeness.

Let us think a bit about what is closeness.

Is it the warmth of the woman’s skin that you miss? A hot water bed would replace it…

Is it the smell of soap or shampoo? Buy them and use it yourself…

Is it the smoothness of a woman’s skin? Get some silk bed sheets to go with that hot water bed.

But that is not what you want, is it?

Because it is not the physical closeness that you are missing. You seek companionship, affection and comfort. It is a natural instinct for humans to be surrounded by people that appreciate them and physically demonstrate that feeling.

However, that is exactly what MEN WILL NOT GET. Yes, a woman will do something of that kind to TRAP YOU. But when they get you they become cold as fish, and nag you to death. How long can you stand a nagging fish?

All these couples holding hands? That is a SIGN OF POSSESSION, not appreciation.

[Nick6923645Participant 253]

I feel for you. It is a great feeling, however so is the feeling you get from a lot of things that are harmful to you. A lot of good advice and share by the experienced here. Me, I loved the feeling I got from my high performance street rod, but it was an expensive toy and I was certain it would one day cost me my retirement (in legal bills) or kill me! Hang in there and stay strong.

condemnation before investigation = ignorance

[Eric LauderParticipant 12043]

It’s actually the only problem that I have going monk.
I don’t miss the sex (fleshlights are on the whole superior).
I don’t miss material support like cooking, cleaning and ironing (those things are quite quick to do).
I enjoy, a lot, being totally free.
But sometimes I miss, exactly, spending some hours within the bed sleeping by being hugging a woman.

Solutions:
– Hug a pillow (you need to have two pillows, of course), it’s not even closer but it helps.
– think about the proportion between the number of days she caused troubles to you and the number of nights you effectively spent hugged to her – it’s likely to be 10-to-1 or even 20-to-1. Such simple idea will cause you to miss closeness more rarely and less intensely.

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[TuneoutParticipant]

I too have the same cravings from time to time brother and I find the company of a fine escort a couple of times a year more than enough to satisfy them.

Lifes a bitch,but you don't have to marry one!

[ExecrationParticipant 1496]

Fully accept they hate you- and would play on that to divorce rape you.

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