How much longer?

[FermatParticipant 3478]

You, Keymaster, me (Stealthy), Roydal, Hitman Ilearn, Sovern, and all the other mgtow around a campfire, drunk as monkeys on my spiced rum and laughing at the world. We have Snake out getting wood. Ha

Why can’t this be real??? Great image.

OP, I have been single for a year and a half. I went the first few months tormented by mental images of all the “good times” with my ex and what I am now “missing out” on. Guess what I did?

1) I got rid of Facebook. The less I saw of her and her friends the less I would have to think about.

2) I got a new phone. No more old texts to tempt me to rebound.

3) I chose not to go to a university near her. The greater the distance, the less chance of awkwardly running into her.

4) I got more into mgtow forums. Not red pill/frame game pua s~~~. I got into what male solidarity meant. What it means to live a happy life without a “happy wife”. What it means to deny sexual urges to really better yourself. I just watched video after video,read article after article. It purged my ex gf memories out of my system.

It was a tough road. It is almost never easy. But I had to take extreme steps to get over her. I would encourage you to do the same.

PS: if you’re old enough, definitely drink alcohol. Let all the s~~~ out of your system. Its worth the hangover.

I have discovered a truly remarkable list of reasons why women are not necessary for a happy life, but alas this margin is too small to contain it.

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

Change your number or block hers.

Give it at least 6 months so the lizard brain knows your not reproducing with her.

Stay busy
Stay busy
Stay busy

Everyday that passes is a step closer to closure,one relapse and your back to square one,stick to the script.

If female company is a must for you go meet other women just to chat it up,no relation-s~~~.

Visit MGTOW.com daily to cleanse the soul.

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

Also when trying to get on the other side of emotional pain there will be turbulence,once you get past that you will experience smooth acceleration and guide that directly to your goals. Women are worthless and you dodged a bullet coming out of a 8 year relations~~~ unscratched financially. You took 8 years of her youth while you are in your prime and she doesnt even know it. She borrowed from her yesterdays.

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[President CamachoParticipant 941]

Remember all the things you weren’t allowed to do because she didn’t approve of them? I’m sure at some point you wanted to build something or accomplish something but you couldn’t because it would have interfered with your time together?

Think of anything that you wished you could have done if you had more time to yourself, and do it. Make a list if you need to. And bask in the glory of never having to say “alright fine, I’ll be there in just a few minutes babe” or whatever. You can have almost infinitely more control of your own time. Also, I’m sure that no matter how “supportive” she was (women never really support your hobbies, they just pretend to share your enthusiasm), she would have secretly rather been doing something else the whole time, something which most likely required your extended and undivided attention that you would have had to put up with because she liked it.

Think of whatever she enjoyed that you put up with because of her, and NEVER DO IT AGAIN! If you hear a song she liked on the radio or see a movie/show that she enjoyed, change the station immediately and watch or listen to something that you know no women enjoy. For movies, any 80s action movie aimed at men would be a good start (I recommend First Blood since, besides being an amazing film, it has no female characters). For music, listen to corny 80s metal and you’ll get a good laugh out of it. Don’t believe me? Try to make it through this without at least smiling.

Those days are OVER! Give yourself things to do and then just start doing them. The more you focus on other things, the faster this will go by.

Also, I don’t know where you are, but if you’re in the US she most likely would have secretly voted for Clinton because girl power blah blah blah.

A Western marriage that survives in the current year is an act of mercy and compassion by the woman.

[WorkhardParticipant 343]

Hey brothers, she was spotted yesterday with her “better” guy, I was told he looks younger than her…typical huh? Doesn’t younger=easier to manipulate?

[XSDBSParticipant 3598]

Workhard wrote:

Hey brothers, she was spotted yesterday with her “better” guy, I was told he looks younger than her…typical huh? Doesn’t younger=easier to manipulate?

And why would you give a s~~~ about either of them, let alone what others are saying about them?

Stop giving a s~~~ about either of them.

[SolidParticipant 7520]

It will end sooner you take your red pills.
There is no love, just a massive brainwash scheme to create families.
Family is a social structure that was create to put men focused 100% on his work, while have a wife taking care of everything else and raising their children.
Men focused 100% on his work make society envolve, make humankind what is today.

Romantic love in a relationship is something “modern”, marriage was based on utility in older days.
Every “romantic” thing means men doing any imaginable s~~~ to inflate and overinflated narcissistic bitch ego.

Women don’t love, they aren’t capable of that, neither men, but we are weaker and that is hardwired on our brains.
Soon you do the math, you give money, your freedom, have less sex than if you are paying for that, don’t have a quality partner that will help you to focus 100% in your work, but bothering you with all and every one of her imaginary problems. You will realize that marriage is just enslavement for men.

Obviously marriage used to be a good thing, when people are raised “brainwashed” to make a family, my parents were on of those, they team up to make a family, make the family prosper and have a good living all together. Nowadays women want to have this kind of life, but without any effort, their sense of entitlement have no limits. They want everything, and they don’t ever will give a single little thing back.

You think that is absurd to want a virgin wife ? Absurd is someone expect to control your money, your free time, your sex life, and don’t give you anything for that. You are just a step in her life, just another guy, sooner this “better” guy, will be exchanged as a tampon.

Women don’t love you, they love the power, the money, and have their egos inflated

They will throw any perfect man away, just to get what for them is better in the moment. Sometimes, they don’t throw it away, they just want to get the best of all men that they are able to have around, and don’t give nothing back.

C~~~s are narcissistic crazy bitches

Go MGTOW, focus on your life, focus on your happiness, start doing what you like, what make you happy. C~~~s will only bring you problems !

[President CamachoParticipant 941]

Workhard wrote:

Hey brothers, she was spotted yesterday with her “better” guy, I was told he looks younger than her…typical huh? Doesn’t younger=easier to manipulate?

Let me tell you about a friend of mine….

He’s six years younger than his wife. When they met she was pushing 30 and openly speaking about being nervous because she didn’t have kids or a husband yet. They got married last year (right about the same time she turned 30! What a coincidence!) and three months ago he knocked her up after she repeatedly pressured him into having a kid. After they get out of the Navy, they’re moving closer to her relatives in Idaho even though his family lives in Texas and he’ll basically never see them.

It gets better!

This girl (who, mind you, is a “good Christian girl”) cheated on him behind his back while he was on deployment with a douchebag Chad. They were assigned to the same crew and it continued unabated throughout deployment. Later on she moved on to a different Chad, all the while claiming to love him. Occasionally she would make honest proclamations such as “I’m not leaving him, he’s too fragile” (referring to her future husband).

To this day, he has no idea any of this happened, and he continues to basically do whatever she tells him to do. She’s continually monopolizing his time and telling him he doesn’t spend enough time with her. At the same time, she nags him constantly about EVERY DAMN THING.

That’s the future for that guy. Is that really what you want your life to be? Because it probably would have turned out similarly.

So yes, you are correct, younger usually does mean easier to manipulate.

A Western marriage that survives in the current year is an act of mercy and compassion by the woman.

[narwhalParticipant]

Workhard wrote:

Back in black, that’s what hurt so damned much, being together 8 years and telling me some bulls~~~ like that,

It’s not scientific, but it’s simply going to take sometime to heal from that. You’re brain has conditioned to have her that up is to replace with other activities.in your life, so it’s quite understandable that you’re feeling that loss. As suggested, the only way to speed

Workhard wrote:

how heartless… telling me how I never did anything for her and how much more happy she is. I wouldn’t do that s~~~ to my worst enemy, let alone someone I “loved” for 8 years.

Because that statement actually has nothing to do with you. She’s making these statements to alleviate her own guilt. She knows what she is doing is s~~~ty, so she must convince herself that you were the problem so she can leave with a clear conscience.

Look at it this way, if you did nothing for her, then why did she wait for anther man to monkey branch to before deciding to leave? It is not a coincidence.

Ok. Then do it.

[SuperBeeParticipant 65]

narwhal wrote:

She’s making these statements to alleviate her own guilt. She knows what she is doing is s~~~ty, so she must convince herself that you were the problem so she can leave with a clear conscience.

So much essence in just a view words.
100% correct.

Life turns on a dime

[WorkhardParticipant 343]

You guys are all so right, and your comments alleviate the pain a great deal, I guess I just thought that after 8 years I would mean more than a pile of s~~~ on the bottom of her shoe, bit I guess AWALT.

[President CamachoParticipant 941]

If you focus and follow through on self-improvement, eventually the shoe could be on the other foot where she wants to come back to you, and you’ll be the one holding the cards.

Then you can put on some mirrored Gargoyle sunglasses and a leather jacket, and peel away in a vintage muscle car leaving her in the dust as you listen to this:

A Western marriage that survives in the current year is an act of mercy and compassion by the woman.

[DanceMyOwnWayParticipant 2097]

Workhard wrote:

It’s been 3 weeks today since she told me she has a “better” guy than me. When will the hurt/confusion end? It’s like nothing I have experienced and is still as fresh as the day she told me sometimes. Deep down I believe I’m better off and I’m not feeling sorry for myself, I just can’t shake the feeling. Guess it proves I cared a lot more than she did.

They all say this s~~~. And she will say this to the next guy and the next guy and the next one and eventually to Mr. Tibbles her cat, who she will marry post wall.

Go No contact, f~~~ some escorts or new girls, throw yourself into new hobbies, look up old friends, exercise it off, and never look back.

If you fall down 7 times, get up 8

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Workhard wrote:

t’s been 3 weeks today since she told me she has a “better” guy than me. When will the hurt/confusion end?

If not sooner, then it will definitely end when she tries to get back into your life in a few years, and you see the fat, ugly, knocked up bullet you just dodged.

I’m serious. There will come a day when you are eternally grateful for being rid of her now instead of stuck with her then.

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