How long after you meet a women does she start bashing ex?

[shovelheadriderParticipant 2400]

A Women you do not really know yet start telling you about what a loser/scumbag/cheap/deadbeat the ex is. You do not know the basic facts about the girl and she is telling you all this male bashing s~~~. It really turns me off. I tell them if you could have done better you would have and what have you done since then to attract some one Boneified? It shuts down that conversation and hopefully any future ones.I can only think the purpose of this is a secret mangina test.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

You’re right, in my experience it’s usually right away. On the other hand, I’ve never heard a woman say something like “In my last relationship I was a total c~~~…”

Now as to WHY a woman feels she needs to bash her last dude to her current one… you’ve got me. It’s not like it can serve any logical purpose except to scare the guy into walking on egg shells. And what’s the point of that?

[BubParticipant 1411]

X bashing is what you call a “red flag”.

Just rolling down the road

[experiencedParticipant]

Hand ’em the phone and say, “Here, call him and tell him.”
Then they pipe down. (1-2 seconds)
“and who will you be bashing me to when you decide I’M the evil villain and you need rescuing from me?”
It’s me they’re bashing given enough time.

I’m so f~~~ing wise. I married the c~~~ and she did exactly that to me. Cry out loud boo hoo.

No Mo’ No Mo’
No Mo’ No Mo’

I was so delighted with her pussy that I bought the company! My bad.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[XSDBSParticipant 3598]

When they start bashing the ex, say “Sounds like a great guy, when can you introduce me to him?”
If that doesn’t shut them up about it, you can follow up with “Then why are you telling me about him?”

[Anonymous 54]

If your with a devorced woman you are expected to pay for his wrong doings. Im a musician,women will walk up to us and in a nasty tone of voice say “i used to be married to a musian.” Ill respnd by saying i hope hes happier now. Ive had the thought of make a t shirt that says.im not your ex husband. I have mentiond this to women and even they laugh. They know there guilty!

[OldBillParticipant]

How soon before they start bashing their ex? Minutes is usually the average in my experience.

Fairly recently I was having coffee with a woman in her mid-30s. It wasn’t a date, my pretext was giving her some career advice and do some networking. However, I was also there to determine whether she might be worth spending more time with.

Unlike my usual “business only” and “polite, terse, dismissive” conversational posture regarding woman, I was dropping in tiny amount of personal information as a way of gauging her suitability. I mentioned my lifelong love of baseball and her first response was:

“My last boyfriend who beat me liked baseball.”

Let’s just say she failed her audition.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

I took a romantic interest to lunch and the first 30 minutes were a hate filled screed, with extra vemon sauce.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[OldBillParticipant]

That;s generally my experience too, Jan.

Because women have become so dependent on their vaginas doing all the work, they can no longer “sell” themselves as a person with something to offer in a relationship. They no longer see the need to present a nice personality, shared interests, honesty, loyalty, or anything other than “vagina”.

They’re one trick ponies and more men every day are growing tired on the trick.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

It can start almost immediately after dating. Maybe a way to pump you up and stroke your ego, but also slamming her former BF. S~~~, I’ve known women who actively talk s~~~ about the man they’r STILL WITH! But, then again, after a breakup, they’ll try to earn sympathy points from everyone that will listen, and then go around smearing his name, spreading rumors to “get back at him” and all that. Price for a little pussy is not worth it to me.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

Never bash your employer on a job interview. Rule #1 if you want the job. Seems like these skanks think they’re above common sense. If that was me on that date – as soon as said c~~~ opened her mouth with that negativity – I’d run fast for the door leaving her the check.

[Prefer Peace to PieceParticipant 10809]

This ties into the happiness deficit thread.

Ladies tend not to be happy for very long. Since they believe it’s a man’s duty to make them happy, they generally blame their unhappiness on some man who didn’t try hard enough to make them happy. It is always the fault of some man that they are not happy. And they will bitch and blame some man even if the man is a nice guy.

I think I will start to time this. Next time I’m with a lady, I wonder how long it will take before she is bitching about some man? I’m guessing 5-10 minutes.

I usually don’t even talk to these complaining, back-stabbing women. I just walk away.

[narwhalParticipant]

From my experience, it’s not always right away, but reserved for the moment it can serve them best. For example, if I’m getting to know her and she’s forced to expose a character flaw, like untrusting she will talk about how her ex lied and she could never trust him. If her kids are not well behaved…the ex spoils them. If she wants to stall on having sex…her ex cheated on her and she wants to make sure it doesn’t happen again. If you aren’t giving her enough attention… she’ll throw out the victim card so you’re compelled to feel sorry for her. If you actually meet the ex, she will ALWAYS put him down, so she doesn’t look the evil one in the marriage.

I don’t mind hearing about her ex too much, but I really want to know what you learned from your relationship and why you won’t repeat those mistakes.

Ok. Then do it.

[XSDBSParticipant 3598]

Silverstone the Second wrote:

S~~~, I’ve known women who actively talk s~~~ about the man they’r STILL WITH!

Whenever I hear a woman talk s~~~ about their husband/boyfriend, I say “If I heard my wife/girlfriend talking about ME like that, I’d DUMP her ass. One less thing for her to complain about.”

[HitmanParticipant]

i found it varies, woman to woman..
seems 99% of them do it though.
gives you a real inside look regarding who SHE is..
depending on her complaints..
sooner is BETTER because they expose themselves quicker..
i had an ex gf who was so hung up on the last guy she was with,i couldn’t stand it so i had to break up with her..
she lost out on a good man by complaining about her last one ..her loss !

[Anonymous 54]

Prefer Peace to Piece wrote:

This ties into the happiness deficit thread.

Ladies tend not to be happy for very long. Since they believe it’s a man’s duty to make them happy, they generally blame their unhappiness on some man who didn’t try hard enough to make them happy. It is always the fault of some man that they are not happy. And they will bitch and blame some man even if the man is a nice guy.

I think I will start to time this. Next time I’m with a lady, I wonder how long it will take before she is bitching about some man? I’m guessing 5-10 minutes.

I usually don’t even talk to these complaining, back-stabbing women. I just walk away.

Ive had that same thought of timeing them.This lady who walks her dogs up the street stops to say hi when im out doing yard work. She inevitably starts bitching about her husband. Ive though of hiting the timer in my phone when she aproaches,then show her how quikly she starts in on him. Im going to start doing that.

[shovelheadriderParticipant 2400]

common sense? what were you drinking when you saw a women with common sense? If Women didn’t have a pussy they would have a bounty on them

[shovelheadriderParticipant 2400]

A woman’s mission ” If mamma ain’t happy no ones happy” and making a guy miserable is a high for her. they are going to find a happy man and his job is to make her as happy as him or she is going to make him as miserable as she is. It’s like they a happiness seeking missile.

[uchibenkeiParticipant 7965]

Bashing her ex is a woman’s way of telling you what not to do.

He was cheap = you better spend money on me

He was always trying to control me = you better not tell me what to do and let me do whatever the f~~~ I want

He was always checking on me and so jealous = I’m a cheating whore and you better not check my phone or even suspect I’m f~~~ing around.

And on and on it goes

I bathe in the tears of single moms.

[shovelheadriderParticipant 2400]

yup thought it was a s~~~ test along your statements

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