How did you make your exit?

[PushingnumbersParticipant 72]

For those who initiated the divorce. How did you make your exit?

Did you let it be known you were on your way out?

Did you just leave?

I would find it incredibly awkward to announce my departure and then have to live around her until I was ready to leave.

I feel like I’d be leaving myself open to trouble, tensions will be high. If I end up losing my cool and yelling at her during a fight all she has to do is lie on me and I’ll be carted off by the police.

Although we don’t typically fight I don’t know who she’ll turn into when I say the gravy train is coming to a stop. She knows I care about my firearms and having those rights I’m afraid that she’ll lie to get me jammed up.

Would signing a lease and moving first be a better way to go about it?

My goal is to be moved on Aug 1st.
There is no easy way to tell someone they suck and you just want out. I’m just trying to make this as clean of a break as possible.

I originally intended on waiting it out longer in order to pad my move a little better but her son recently moved back in. I’m tired of seeing money I work for going towards this loser living more comfortably than I’m able to.

[Anonymous 13]

I suggested, since she was trash talking me to all her hive c~~~s, and had not been intimate for nearly a year that we go our separate ways. Sell the house, split proceeds, make it easy on ourselves, no lawyers.

THAT insane thinking on my part got me JAILED.

When she made THE phone call.

I’m telling you man, DO NOT PLAY NICE.

These c~~~s don’t, so why would you even try.

S~~~ vortex, it’s coming bro.

I’m sorry.

[Anonymous 13]

Oh yeah, sorry, in answer to your question, how did I make my exit?

In the back of a f~~~ing police car.

Women are JAIL man, get the f~~~ out any which way.

[Anonymous 13]

Pushingnumbers wrote:

Although we don’t typically fight I don’t know who she’ll turn into when I say the gravy train is coming to a stop. She knows I care about my firearms and having those rights I’m afraid that she’ll lie to get me jammed up.

It’s not who she’ll turn into, it’s who she always was.

Make your announcement.

The mask falls off.

It’s no longer cupcake.

It’s a demon.

Hell f~~~ing bent on your TOTAL, internal and external destruction.

[Anonymous 42]

Pushingnumbers wrote:

Would signing a lease and moving first be a better way to go about it?

You best make a fast immediate exit with your personal stuff and not let her know where you live. I like your vaporize plan to a new pad. She will become hell fire and brimstone, invest in a dash cam (don’t forget to buy the memory chip) and or a go pro to record any contact, she’s gonna be f~~~ing p~~~ed now that the slave (you) has decided to leave the plantation.

Move your guns first to a friend or storage locker but in air tight containers depending on your climate, hide your guns in a place that’s safe from a police raid! They’ll lie and know all the trigger words and accusations to send a swat team after your ass!

Play it smart like you’re going to WAR!
See a lawyar for legal advice. Don’t at any point in time tip your hand, TOP SECRET! Otherwise you’re f~~~ing dead!

[OldschoolParticipant 2481]

Yes, it WILL turn ugly. Get the guns out, start hiding money. Get a place to stay and have a move out date set where you will have people (witnesses) help you move. Contact a lawyer now and have them ready to go. Once she is out of the shock and crying stage and she is talking to friends and family about what an asshole you are thats when the fireworks start.

Get a vasectomy.

[Heave-Ho MgtowParticipant 1797]

Lawyer up. Every situation is different. Plan your exit by moving your stuff out discreetly. When your ready, lay some paper on her and dIssapear of into the distance. There are other sites that deal in the event. We can offer advice, but out goal is to keep you from doing something stupid with females after you exit the plantation good luck.

skip the cavernous vag and go your own way

[PushingnumbersParticipant 72]

Anonymous wrote:

In the back of a f~~~ing police car.

Man that’s brutal…I guess I’ll be moving out first then.

Did they actually stick you with any charges based on her accusations?

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

How I did it was the wrong way. Cost me 6 figures.
If I was to do it again ,and I won’t, I would do it this way.

Your mindset – You have entered a dog fight and you’re the small dog. Not against her but against her lawyer and the courts. You are the underdog. On low ground flanked on two sides. Don’t act with mercy, her lawyer won’t.

Don’t tell ANYONE your intentions. No one is going to lie under oath for you. Not even your best friend.

Your tangible assets – Sell them and spend them before you announce your divorce. If you do this right she will divorce you first for decimating your future finances. My ex spent almost everything and got into retirement funds. There was nothing I could do about it. Sell the toys the guns the kids anything that could be divided. Sell to friends and buy them back. You could be forced to sell great uncle’s WWII 1911 and give her half. Keep enough for a lawyer and the only place you can hide money is in a hole in the ground.

Know how debt is divided in your area. Cars are valued im State by blue book – loans. If her car is worth 4000 – 3800 lein and she get the car and owes you 100.00
If you get the paid off car she gets half. This is the only case where debt could be a good thing. I would have done well to have taken a lien against my vehicle.

Homes are tricky. If you have kids and the kids need a home you will likely be paying for home you’re not living in.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[Anonymous 13]

Pushingnumbers wrote:

SpiritRR wrote:

In the back of a f~~~ing police car.

Man that’s brutal…I guess I’ll be moving out first then.

Did they actually stick you with any charges based on her accusations?

I was charged with serious assault based on the fact that there was

NO F~~~ING EVIDENCE.

Her accusation was the evidence.

I went to hell in a handbasket, man.

Denied contact with my daughter while a full blown criminal trial hung over my head.

FOR SIX F~~~ING MONTHS.

Near job loss, felt suicidal.

That C~~~ was celebrating in Spain.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Pushingnumbers wrote:

Man that’s brutal…

Sure is and I feel for you SpiritRR, and every man on this forum who has endured similar treatment.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[Anonymous 12]

Once you are sure you want out, it becomes a tricky game.

Things i remember others suggested:
– a storage locker, rented in advance
– a place to crash, rented in advance
– a PO box for mail
– a bank safe for documents and valuables
– a new bank account at a different bank, your pay flows into this one from now on.
– two male friends (not from work, not people she knows, men you trust)
– a lawyer

How to – incomplete
think long and hard what you need to start your life from scratch.
First what is essential for survival? Documents? Guns? a Weeks´ worth of clothing?
Pack that s~~~ up discreetly. She can not notice.
Second are valuable assets that you could… that are not listed anywhere as common assets, things that you can smuggle out of there without her ever knowing or having proof they even exist. Find them and know where they are.
Third: Talk to a lawyer who knows your local laws and all the dirty tricks.
Fourth: use the two helpers to GTFO when she is at work.

from then on i do not know… serving papers?
Will let my fellow Men pick up.

The importance, as said before is a clean split.
No fighting, no yelling, nothing burnt, just be gone. You, your essentials and your bare necessities in your storage unit and you in your hideout.

Because being gone is a declaration of War.
From then on, expect everything from insults, police, bullets and Nukes to be rained on your ass.

[Anonymous 1]

SpiritRR – sounds like you got right royally f~~~ed over.

If that’s a risk for the OP – I would suggest talking to a lawyer and having a dated and signed affadavit that there are no claims of violence in the relationship etc etc *before* announcing the separation should provide some protection against a vindictive lying slapper. It can only help.

[Anonymous 13]

Two years on from that accusation, I lost everything, my home of 30 years, my garage, my projects.

Another man sitting in my chair and walking my dog.

Two years later I’m still fighting to get ANY equity from my house and it’s already cost me whatever I might get back.

These c~~~s get away with murder.

These c~~~s lie.

For the love of God,

STOP. THE. F~~~. MARRYING.

Stop this f~~~ing carnage.

[narrow road travelerParticipant 1680]

The exit is different, in different circumstances. I lost an apartment, and most of my personal property.

In that circumstance I knew it would come to that. Because the t~~~, was that dumb and narcissistic.

The reality of this s~~~ society is. The indivdual man knows the cost of leaving a t~~~. Sometimes the price is higher than the perceived cost.

The courts and society make us pay because we have a penis.

So calculate your cost, then minimize the price you pay through various strategies you learn on boards like this.

The supreme art of war is to subdue the enemy without fighting. --Sun Tsu

[PushingnumbersParticipant 72]

Anonymous wrote:

she’s gonna be f~~~ing p~~~ed now that the slave (you) has decided to leave the plantation.

That’s exactly how I feel…like a slave on the plantation. Working for the benefit of everyone else while I’m doing horribly. That’s why “I gots ta go”

Anonymous wrote:

Move your guns first to a friend

A friend actually suggested that I “sell” him my guns and I “buy” them back once settled. This seems to be the best course of action in keeping them.

[Anonymous 42]

Anonymous wrote:

STOP. THE. F~~~. MARRYING.

Stop this f~~~ing carnage.

Done!

Now after deep indulgence in the manisphere for 2+ years I can really smell the gynocentic in women I never thought were libbers, women praising man bashing permeates every tongue and they jump at the opportunity!

I can’t stand even being around them, the resentment is that strong every time they cross the f~~~ing gender line!

I’m putting bitches in their f~~~ing place, and that place is the f~~~ out of my life until they learn to respect men/me otherwise it’s always gonna be s~~~ test after s~~~ test!

They can s~~~ test the empty chair all they want! I’m going MGTOW MONK F~~~ING HERMIT!

[PushingnumbersParticipant 72]

Heave-Ho Mgtow wrote:

but out goal is to keep you from doing something stupid with females after you exit the plantation good luck.

Thank you, I’ve learned my lesson, from here on out women are for pleasure….I don’t need companionship I enjoy being by myself

[PushingnumbersParticipant 72]

Anonymous wrote:

STOP. THE. F~~~. MARRYING.

Yeah, I won’t do that again. It’s lose lose for me so far

[DorkShitParticipant 4353]

Pushingnumbers wrote:

For those who initiated the divorce. How did you make your exit?

Police detective (Old classmate from high school) came to my parents house asking for me. I went over to parents house and he asked me if I knew where my wife was. (She didn’t show up for work and her coworkers thought I off’d her, called 911 and reported her as a missing person)

I called her cell phone and she answered. I handed phone to detective. She told him she was fine and decided to abandon me and our child.

Game over for her. Freedom for me.

Side note: she wasn’t computer savy and didn’t know that I could read her history on chats she was having with Chad. I knew the whole 6 months prior that she was planning to leave. I didnt know when but i had an extra 2,500 in our joint bank account as bait. She took it. (All she needed was enough to get to Chad)

If you can’t keep your emotions in check you will always overreact. Nothing. Breathe and think. As it appears you are

Peace brothers

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