How did you guys deprogram yourself?

[The_YoungParticipant 1073]

I’m a week out of a relationship now and I’d say I’m 80% over her. I say that because if I saw her sucking some other guy’s dick I’d probably go insane. But the thoughts of getting back with her are coming up less and less.

My only problem is that while I’m trying to embrace new ideas of “Focus on improving myself, and dont give a f~~~ what women might think of you” I’m also caught in the old habit of judging myself based on what I think women think of me.

What are some ways that I can completely rid myself of this habit? Experiences?

Brother, we need to stick together.

[hmskl’dParticipant 6406]

Find somewhere new that interests you and get away and enjoy the outdoors this weekend either hiking or biking.

[Anonymous 42]

Great topic!

Take out your wire cutters and follow us through the conduits of your mind….

Speaking about nature^^^ I’m laying wood chips over one of my trails, just beyond my outdoor parts inventory (MG-T’s Junk Yard).

Are you sick and tired of being dizzy and dazed from your ride on the c~~~ carousel? I know I was 19 years ago when I saw women for who they truly are and how they function in this feminized society, you, “the man” has had your actual value swindled away from you by the corrupt forces of feminism with copious amounts of misandry.

Women have over valued their stock by this mechanism of feminism.

A manufacturing analogy: They degraded over the past 50 years from making advanced steel belted radial tires to making old wooden wagon wheels from rotten and wormy timber.
But now through the miracle of television, social media, corporations, and the U.N., They’re trying to sell stock from a now wagon-wheel corporation that manufactures these useless wheels at prices that only space-shuttle and moon-rover tires can afford.

We’re MGTOW, every gynocentric over priced, over valued, and overestimated bulls~~~ bubble is what we’re out to pop.

We’re the 1929 crash in feminism’s dirty filthy stock!

[Anonymous 54]

True freedom for a Man is achieved by not careing what women think think of him.They laugh at Men who are struggling,or down on there luck.They like a guy whos doing well. What does that tell you about them.You should value your opinion of yourself first. Do i try my best in life.Am i a good person.But what women think of you,your car your cloths your house,is that real?What do other Men think of you?

[The Laughing ManParticipant 1020]

Not for everyone but I find isolation a good way to work through my thoughts. Having too many people buzzing about making retarded small talk or people bitching and complaining can be distracting.

Remove the distractions and clear the way for focused thought.

I thought what I'd do was I'd pretend I was one of those deaf-mutes...or should I?

[Greg SilveradoParticipant 172]

Deprogramming can take place rapidly or slowly over a period of time it’s all up to the individual. In my case I started right after I had broken up with my girlfriend to watch all the videos that I could about female male nature and smoked a lot of weed. This replaces all of the wiring in my brain a little bit at a time.

It’s almost impossible to change the way that you think when you first take the red pill. This will have to be done over a period of time. I would suggest completely changing your habits completely changing anything that reminds you of her. You might even want to get rid of things that remind you of her in your house. These are all great butt in your own mind you will find peace. So remember when you think about going on online dating or calling up your girlfriend come back on mgtow. Com and read an article or go on YouTube and watch some videos. The whole idea is to retrain your brain

Always expect the unexpected and gird your loins appropriately. It's a no-fault jungle out there.

[The Laughing ManParticipant 1020]

Greg Silverado wrote:

Deprogramming can take place rapidly or slowly over a period of time it’s all up to the individual. In my case I started right after I had broken up with my girlfriend to watch all the videos that I could about female male nature and smoked a lot of weed. This replaces all of the wiring in my brain a little bit at a time.

It’s almost impossible to change the way that you think when you first take the red pill. This will have to be done over a period of time. I would suggest completely changing your habits completely changing anything that reminds you of her. You might even want to get rid of things that remind you of her in your house. These are all great butt in your own mind you will find peace. So remember when you think about going on online dating or calling up your girlfriend come back on mgtow. Com and read an article or go on YouTube and watch some videos. The whole idea is to retrain your brain

Well said.

Think of inception, the underlying premise was an idea can’t be forced. It has to take root in ones mind and grow organically.

Be a sponge and soak up info while you rewrite your software and sculpt your hardware. No hard, just takes time.

I thought what I'd do was I'd pretend I was one of those deaf-mutes...or should I?

[Anonymous 11]

Make a list of her every fault no matter how petty it is. Whenever you pine for her, take out the list and read it. It’ll help break the cycle. You’re a week out. You’ve only just begun.

It’s normal for it to take time. Active deprogramming can speed up the process significantly though.

[AttonParticipant]

Video games, electronics and programing. They consume large amounts of time and they change how you think.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[Anonymous 1]

The_Young wrote:

I’m a week out of a relationship now and I’d say I’m 80% over her

In terms of relationships, time is the great deprogrammer.

As time notches on (away from her) ive found I look more and more objectively on the c~~~ and her behaviour, then this knowledge is used to ensure it never happens again.

I dont do relationships now so it wont happen again.

Its absolutely necessary to reflect on what a c~~~ has done to you. After that forwarned is forearmed

[HitmanParticipant]

rent a professional and f~~~.
drink with your friends.
focus on work/school.
stay busy.

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

Take a hint from this guy

http://culturalmarxism.net/man-goes-mexico-kill-himself-spends-week-doing-coke-banging-hookers-decides-to-keep-living/

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[FrankyParticipant 2338]

The_Young wrote:

I’m also caught in the old habit of judging myself based on what I think women think of me.

If young man truly master art of not give a f~~~.
Habit go away.
Young man give it time.

Young man must find what food good for soul.
Once soul full, young man a flying f~~~ give not.
Strange food.. even wise men don’t know.
But.. young man will know..

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

Can I also suggest you watch your bank account figures.

Compare 6 months before & after your split.

That should help you some.

I’ve just gone a spent £7k on two toys … well for business … but still toys.

Can you imagine the s~~~ I’d take if still married?

I love this fking life now.

[JollyMisanthropeParticipant 3356]

I’ve basically been a purple pill type guy for a long time and then got off the fence and committed to going my own way.

The Children of Doom... Doom's Children. They told my lord the way to the Mountain of Power. They told him to throw down his sword and return to the Earth... Ha! Time enough for the Earth in the grave.

[RedpillPrimateParticipant 1026]

I didn’t have to do much “depogramming” for myself at all. I took the red pill at a very young age.

The only thing I had to do was teach myself AWALT. Including my own family. That was the hardest red pill I’ve ever taken.

Now, I avoid women like the plague as much as possible.

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

Just pull the gynocentric plug out the socket then turn around and walk away….don’t look back…don’t look left or right…straight ahead brother…no matter what you hear dont look back….pssss pssss…dont look back….NEVER look back. MGTOW

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[Anonymous 12]

Think about things ultra logically and pragmatically.

I’ve always been an outcast, so it was pretty easy for me to be where I am now.

But the best way is just to question as much as possible, try and see things as pragmatically as you can.

For example, if you are horny – masturbate. Do you still want to bother finding a woman now that you have given yourself an orgasm? If the answer is no, then you know you are already on your way.

Start thinking about the relationships you have been in, the women you have tried to communicate with, how much s~~~ did they put you through?

Think about where you want to be and then think about how much longer it will take if you invite another woman back in your life.

Just do what you need to do to be who you want to be. I know you still need a job and all, you have to play nice sometimes, I’m not saying be a total prick to everyone. But just question the reasons why you do things.

Let logic be your guide.

[Dr. SableParticipant 1064]

The_Young wrote:

I’m also caught in the old habit of judging myself based on what I think women think of me.

Most of the time they think and see you as a walking wallet.
Do you still care what they think of you now ?

I suggest you start thinking of them as a walking f~~~ing implement.
Something like a spittoon for a dick.

Zero Tolerance

[The_YoungParticipant 1073]

I suggest you start thinking of them as a walking f~~~ing implement.
Something like a spittoon for a dick.

my sides

Brother, we need to stick together.

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