Hot Holy Damn !

[Frank V.Participant 2445]

Sorry I have been gone so long. Life, work, health and the holidays have conspired to keep me away.

So, what happened to drive me back here so fast ?

This week, I was visiting a client. It was a typical “wrapping up” where the consulting team was getting ready to leave after dispensing advice. Normally, we just end up hanging out, answering the last few questions people have and say our good byes until the follow up visits 6-12 months later.

One employee, let us call him “Melvin”, had made a deep impression on me. He’s middle aged like me and seemed to just have a dark cloud of defeat hanging around him. You could tell whenever his wife called, which was at least twice a day, because he would visibly slump and the blood would drain from his face. You could hear her cringe worthy voice through the phone.

I felt so sorry for this guy, I had to resist the urge to take him aside and have a long talk with him. It is far too risky to mix personal activities with my professional life, but I wanted to help him.

I often consider myself a pretty keen fellow when it comes to sizing these things up, but the last day on site proved to be entertaining.

He came in an hour late, dressed more casually than he usually does- slacks and a polo instead of his usual cheap suits. He had a jaunty step, a huge smile beaming from his face and (when you looked closely) hickeys along his neck. The sight of him going to his desk had the office buzzing.

I was drinking coffee with some of the secretaries when some of them started chattering away. I was silent- he seemed like a teenager who just got laid the night before. I was speechless, the transformation was that drastic.

As the morning went on, a few people tried to ask him what was up, what little I could manage to overhear was vague “non-answers”.

I had noticed the typical “downer” phone call from the wife had not happened yet. He was in a happy mood all morning before I decided to walk up to him at about 11 o’clock. No sooner than we had shook hands when the phone rang. He picked it up- and I heard that shrill voice as he grinned and said

“Sorry, the divorce is already filed and I got a girlfriend. Can’t cut me off now !”

And hung up the phone.

The ladies of the office where shocked and red face and I was laughing for a solid five minutes !

I chatted with him for a few minutes after I recovered and caught my breath and learned that a few months after she cut him off, he took the Red Pill and spend the last 4 months planning his divorce. The “girlfriend” was something he picked up at a bar after getting word from his lawyer that the divorce papers had been served.

I mentioned MGTOW.COM. I wish I had done it far earlier.

Moral of the story: Watch it ladies, some men are fast learners !

Frank V.

[HitmanParticipant]

NICE ! ” melvin ” f~~~ing rocks ! ..great to hear a guy who had enough took the initiative and threw the first hit in a divorce ! i’m smiling ear to ear !

[HitmanParticipant]

[Tiga KParticipant 1693]

Great story.

[HitmanParticipant]

i had a roommate many years ago, he’s surely dead by now due to the passing of time ..i remember him telling me about going out with his mistress ..how it was the thing that made him most happy in life …i was too young to understand …till i did the same thing ..i was married to a woman for ten years and had a beautiful, exotic mistress for eight of those years ..good times ! that wife was getting too f~~~in old and nagging ,so I divorced her ! it felt incredible , empowering ,freedom from her was terrific. not a regret .not one .

[SeamusTheDogParticipant 78]

Hitman, how did you avoid her taking you for every last cent?

"All your children are poor, unfortunate victims of systems beyond their control... A plague upon your ignorance to the great despair of your ugly life!" -Frank Zappa

[HitmanParticipant]

10.000 u.s dollars bank check to sign uncontested .

[Frank V.Participant 2445]

Hitman wrote:

i had a roommate many years ago, he’s surely dead by now due to the passing of time ..i remember him telling me about going out with his mistress ..how it was the thing that made him most happy in life …i was too young to understand …till i did the same thing ..i was married to a woman for ten years and had a beautiful, exotic mistress for eight of those years ..good times ! that wife was getting too f~~~in old and nagging ,so I divorced her ! it felt incredible , empowering ,freedom from her was terrific. not a regret .not one .

I knew a few guys like that growing up. It made me think, even a couple of them outright telling me, “Don’t get married kid……”

If this marriage crap was so great, how come I would hear so much about guys “sleeping on the couch” like it was a cultural meme ?

F~~~ that, I stayed single !

Frank V.

[Anonymous 26]

MELVIN…. MELVIN…. MELVIN…. Fist Pump, way to go Melvin!

When they are done f~~~ing you, F~~~ them up first before they f~~~ you over first!

[UntamedParticipant]

This story brought to mind KeyMaster’s Forum’s signature: If you try push a man around enough…. eventually, “around” becomes “away”.! God only knows what s~~~ “Melvin” had had to put up with for him to transform from a Bluepilled deluded sheep to a hard-core mgtow but I’m glad he showed that bitch that the sun doesn’t rise and sets in her panties.
I used to work on construction sites and I registered every guy’s face the moment a call came from their wife or partner. Their expressions were a mix of annoyance, desperation, depression and frustration. As was mentioned before, the “sleep on the couch” theme surfaced again and again when it was clear, after the phone call, that they somehow were “in trouble” for some reason or another ( usually over some crap like not having had time to pick up milk the day before, right after work).
In trouble. Here is another disgusting social norm between a husband and a wife. “In trouble” tells me that the wife lords it over her husband and that he had better do _______ or he’ll be “in trouble”. How much more pretentious can these weemins be, thinking they have the right to treat their Man like a child, a donkey or a cash machine?!

Marriage is so great that guys have to duplicate the evasion depicted in the Great Escape to keep their sanity and find themselves again!
This is what marriage means to MGTOW:

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[OgreParticipant 5863]

Hitman wrote:

10.000 u.s dollars bank check to sign uncontested .

Awesome! Short sighted on her part obviously, she could have gotten at least two to three times as much over the years. Throw money in their face and “Wow! Shiny!” wins every day over planning.

@frank V. I hope Melvin didn’t just go from blinded by one set of meat curtains to blinded by a new set. His reply and mike drop is awesome. You may not find out for a while, but the whole pool of ladies around during his last conversation was probably dripping to hear him be such a BA. He’ll probably tap three before the new year.

I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

[Ned TrentParticipant 4894]

Cor blimey, great story indeed. Now, if that’s not the very definition of our famous line “mgtow saves lives…” then I really don’t know what is…

Soooo enjoy your new life, Melvin. You earned it and you bloody well deserve it..!

I'd rather die a natual death with a clear MGTOW conscience somewhere off the grid than one within "modern" civilisation with a big stress mark on my forehead and a couple of dozen tubes plugged into my body. Back to the plantation..? Me..? Hey, literally: I won't ever fucking kid myself...YZERLMNTSIC

[Binary LogicParticipant 2351]

Well done Melvin. Well done. You did it like a sir.

Funny, isn't it? How women thrive on a mans time, attention and resources, while simultaneously telling him he isn't enough...

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10917]

Awesome story Frank!
Like you, I used to hear the “don’t get married” remarks along with “he doesn’t know what he’s getting into” statements when young guys would talk about marriage to older men. The older guys would never give reasons or say why though. So unlike you, I got married, learned the hard way, then got a divorce. Melvin may be on his way out of the plantation but I hope the divorce laws where he lives are easy on him.
I am happy for him and wish him good luck!

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[Frank V.Participant 2445]

KeyMaster’s quote about pushed “around” becomes pushed “away” reflects what I have observed and thought over the years.

I also, when I told to others, talk about the “why” that marriage is often a horrible idea. I make it a point to mention that- some older men I grew up with would not, and just leave it hanging in the air like a 3rd rate “Mystery Sandwich”.

I have to admit, it was an awesome sight to behold. One of the too-god-damned rare times I have had a front row seat to a man taking back his b~~~~.

I am in touch with Melvin. I offered to buy him a round of drinks over the holidays. Looks like he will be taking me up on it. With a little luck, I can get him to join us here.

Otherwise, I consider it an honor to buy him a drink- out of respect to him as a man.

Wish him luck !

Frank V.

[MalfunctionNeedInputParticipant 257]

F~~~ing Awesome! Women need to step up their game! Won’t happen though.

Thanks for sharing his inspiring story! Marriage is game over guys…

The important thing is not to stop questioning. Curiosity has its own reason for existing. One cannot help but be in awe when he contemplates the mysteries of eternity, of life, of the marvelous structure of reality. It is enough if one tries merely to comprehend a little of this mystery every day. Never lose a holy curiosity. --Einstein

[hollowtipsParticipant 681]

Legendary

[the roadParticipant 3125]

Damn, the story about Melvin has me grinning ear to ear. Right on!

#MANOUT

[hellraiderParticipant 2837]

Better late than never.
another men joins the mgtow ranks.

[Frank V.Participant 2445]

Melvin Update:

Sorry I have not been on much gang. Last week was that chance to take him out for a few drinks, my treat of course.

To answer some expected questions:

She is getting the house. He told me he didn’t want it because it was too big, too costly to heat and and maintain and was in a neighborhood on the way down. His lawyer felt that letting her have the house and car (both paid for) would go a long way to a settlement. He wants neither.

As for “social” stuff. He simply wants to “hang out with the guys”, get laid here and there and has NO desire to share his apartment with a woman or get married. “Once was goddamned enough”, he said.

It was amazing to hear him tell his story, but yet it was like I heard it 100 times before. Before the wedding, all lovey-dovey and humpy-humpy. After the wedding- ice cold.

How many times have I heard the phrase “she changed after we got married…..” too many times. He also mentioned other men he knew that had happened to.

He learned his lesson, and it seems as if the ex was a good teacher after all. She just never taught the lesson she thought she was going to give.

As KM said: Push a man around, it eventually becomes away.

Melvin: It’s been awesome to see you take your wings up and go back into the air. Soar, soar like an eagle.

Frank V.

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