Holding a door open

[No CountryParticipant 759]

Should we still be holding the door open for these c~~~s? A good portion of these women aren’t even grateful. They just expect us to do what we have been taught. I have had a few recently not say a f~~~ing word to me, after I held it open. I’ll open the door for anyone really if they are in a close proximity to me entering the structure. I am almost to the point of not doing it anymore.

[Anonymous 43]

i stop and pretend to answer my phone, if i see a woman approaching the same door as me. open yr own door. ive been snarled at too many times. if you don’t have the good grace to accept my good manners, then we will both have to get over you.

[Anonymous 0]

Dont, no one seems to ever be greateful or thank you. Let it slam in their face. They are strong and independant right? They can surely open a door. I enjoy letting a door close on a c~~~. And I love doing it in uniform.

[Anonymous 1]

I do it when someone is close or when professionally beneficial I do not go out of my way to do so.

Disappear in public being the Grey man.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

No Country wrote:

Should we still be holding the door open for these c~~~s?

Only if someone is holding a box or carrying something that makes it difficult to open the door.

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[DocParticipant]

I hold the door for people if there is need but I never distinguish between men and women.
They wanted to be treated the same so I treat all I encounter in the same way.
If I were ever to be challenged about my lack of chivalry I would point out the fact that they asked for equality so deal with it.

The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

[JVBParticipant]

Simple say.

“Excuse me, did you forget your manners at home today”

I love doing it. They have no clue what just hit them.

Peace is > piece.

[Anonymous 1]

No Country wrote:

I have had a few recently not say a f~~~ing word to me, after I held it open.

I noticed this trend too. As a result, I rarely hold doors for women anymore. I will almost always hold it open for a guy, and usually get a “thanks man” in return. Women will usually put their nose in the air and act like they are doing me a favor. My exception is older ladies, if I see a lady who reminds me of my grandmother, I hold the door.

[AwakenedParticipant 35211]

If my experience shows that it’s no longer received in a positive manner then I’ll eliminate that too.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Cap285Participant 6007]

Quit doing it years ago.

Let it slam in their face.

Fuck this planet.

[Anonymous 54]

I give it a push open as I go through. Whos ever behind me can catch it..or not. I dont give a f~~~.

If theiy’re old folks I hold it open and let them through first.

But hold it open and let some healthy young c~~~ through first?
Are you kidding ne?

Hell f~~~ing no!

[Cú ChulainnParticipant 3910]

Doors are for pussies, I always go in through windows, James Bond style, with a combat roll finale.

[Jack HarperParticipant 2863]

Cú Chulainn wrote:

Doors are for pussies, I always go in through windows, James Bond style, with a combat roll finale.

Please. Windows and doors are for pussies too lazy to manifest their own natural x-men teleportation abilities.

[Anonymous 42]

I’m a sneaky door expert! I slither in quickly usually side stepping the door and opening it as little as possible or shooting in behind someone before it closes.

The trick is not to be seen operating the door, then you can’t be blamed for anything!

[Deadly RaverParticipant]

I hold the door open because of who I am, not because of who they are. I am a good guy and I that which lets me look at myself in the mirror. If they want to act the ass for it, let THEM deal with that when they look at a mirror. Fortunately, there are still people out there who appreciate that, so it’s not all bad.

Learn from the past, Control the present, and you will know the Future.

[GoodKid44Participant 1524]

I just treat everyone like they’re men. They want equality, they’ll get it from me baby. Most of them forget that with “equality” comes zero privileges like they’re used to having.

[Anonymous 12]

Some will get very offended many will just walk through without saying thank you.

That’s why I stopped doing it a very long time ago.

At my work in the lifts the c~~~s can be at the back and just assume they will be let out first and push their way to the front.

Don’t do anything for them. And besides its no way to treat strong independent women.

[TrapperParticipant 2912]

If they expect it, let it shut. If they don’t, let it shut.

[sjt1975Participant 2536]

Anonymous wrote:

I do it when someone is close or when professionally beneficial. I do not go out of my way to do so.

This is me.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

No Country wrote:

Should we still be holding the door open for these c~~~s?

In 1993 – I remember this clearly — I was coming out of a Bank Tower downtown and a woman was approaching with her hands full of bags. I stopped, backed up , grabbed the door for her and motioned her in without thinking.

“I can get the door myself”

… like she had something to prove.

Until that day, I had never experienced random, total c~~~ stranger before. So I let go of the door and it slammed right into her. I did not look back. The rest of the day, I actually rewound the moment in my head at least 10 times and talked about it with others at work. I couldn’t believe my f~~~ing ears.

This kind of p~~~-poor attitude in women is a goddam epidemic.

No Country wrote:

A good portion of these women aren’t even grateful.

Of course not, because it’s your “duty” in their minds.

A woman once accused me of being “chivalrous” because I held the door for her. And – as a man – when I am accused of something, I actually THINK about what that something is before running my mouth.

The only reason I held the door open for her, is because I thought she was going to walk right into it and give herself a big nasty bump on the head… and we can’t have that.

I don’t like bruised peaches either – and that’s not “chivalry”.

Women don’t seem to be able to open anything correctly without a man’s help. A jam jar . . . a conversation . . . potato chips . . . nail polish . . . their legs.

So why would a DOOR be any different??

So ladies, please don’t call me “chilvarous” just because I don’t like a woman to hurt herself. Persistence, alcohol, and making sure your woman isn’t banging into any doors has worked since the beginning of time.

“CHIVARLY” —>> is when some poor shmuck has to put on his suit of armor and make sure his slutty girlfriend isn’t whoring herself out for more attention on Match-dot-com / Tinder / Facebook or any other social sites.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

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