Hi, Where do you work?

[SnakeSpectator 2080]

Bill Burr Epidemic of Gold Digging Whores

[MadScientistParticipant 131]

I say “I don’t discuss work when I’m out” and put out body language that Im suddenly uncomfortable.

To which I almost always get “Why not?”

“I think about work when I’m working, so I don’t like to think about it when I’m out, you know? It’s harder for me to relax.”

I’m sure the astute man will know where to take this to retain the mystery, and advantage.

[experiencedParticipant]

You got it MadScientist:

I say “I don’t discuss work when I’m out” and put out body language that Im suddenly uncomfortable.

To which I almost always get “Why not?”

“I think about work when I’m working, so I don’t like to think about it when I’m out, you know? It’s harder for me to relax.”

I’m sure the astute man will know where to take this to retain the mystery, and advantage.

Or the “Oh I’m sorry, I forgot that right now, you’re working.   Wait a sec, doesn’t that make you a whore?……….why not?”

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[Cap285Participant 6007]

If that is one of the first three things a woman asks you (and it will be), eject.

I’ve done it.

Cap: “Oh, because it’s always about money isn’t it?”

T~~~: “I don’t need your money! I have a ‘career’, yakyakyakyakyakyakyakyak!”

It’s always about what you can give them. It’s never about who you are as a person; your likes, dislikes, etc.

Fuck this planet.

[Cap285Participant 6007]

Keymaster wrote:

“where do you work?”

“Im an astronaut. (points to the sky) You see that? That’s my office.”

“Really?”

“No”.

You’re my freakin’ hero………………I’m stealing that.

Fuck this planet.

[Anonymous 12]

Shows you how simple and stupid some women are, a man could be a high flying attorney on 400k a year but if he wastes all his money on whatever crap he is into then he could be poorer than your average factory worker who actually tend to be pretty well off as they save most of their cash.

 

[davParticipant 422]

Answer: How’s your gag reflex?

[IggyThundersParticipant 246]

To this question I have sometimes replied, “The better question is what are you passionate about or what makes you happy?” or “I really dont like talking about work because it doesn’t define me or have anything to do with who I am as a person.” This usually sets them back on their heels because  most women like to have this public persona of being open minded, nonjudgmental, spiritual and only concerned with the deep human qualities of people. Which are all very feminine qualities. Flipping the script on them in this way makes them seem masculine and shallow.

[WolfParticipant 890]

I honestly don’t mind the question. We all know that women view men as financial utility, and I’m okay with playing the game. I’m in my late 30s, established and baggage free, and I know that appeals to women. So I’m okay with playing there games for a few dates and sex.

[Helen be DamnedParticipant 480]

I’m an alien from a couple of galaxies over, I’m just here on vacation.

"You can keep your soul, I don't want a cell-mate." - Them Crooked Vultures

[Proud MasculistParticipant 39]

The answer to the questions,  ” so, where do you work?”  or  ” so, what do you do?” ,   must ALWAYS be,  ” so, how much do you weigh?”,  or  “so, how old are you?”,  or  ” so, do you always wear that much makeup?”,  or  “so, how much do you get in child support and alimony?”   Rude ignorance must always be met with same.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Proud Masculist wrote:

”so, how much do you weigh?”….. Rude ignorance must always be met with same.

NICE. I love that.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Ned TrentParticipant 4894]

Meanwhile my stock answer to that sort of gold fishing question is like: “Well, I am a survival artist, but I recently was re-educated towards jack-of-all-trades…” (as in translated as: “What business is that of yours? Do you even have one yourself..?”)

I'd rather die a natual death with a clear MGTOW conscience somewhere off the grid than one within "modern" civilisation with a big stress mark on my forehead and a couple of dozen tubes plugged into my body. Back to the plantation..? Me..? Hey, literally: I won't ever fucking kid myself...YZERLMNTSIC

[ThouMGTOWParticipant 22]

Hello

First post… A strange and strong red pill moment!

A year ago I decided to meet with a single mom of 2 from Okcupid. She was quite a lot older than me and must of had her kids around the time of leaving school or possibly at sixth form if she went… We lived locally so she decided that we would meet at her place for the first meet. (She told me she wouldn’t do anything on the first meet) She asked me all these questions and I told her the truth. I was working at McDonald’s at the time and worked there through some of college. I was also living with mom and brother so I had a lot of savings + a car. I presumed she’d never had a job in her life from the response she gave next… After my answer she replied saying something like… Yeah….. There’s so many people taking these kind of jobs that have been to college nowadays. She said this all with a disappointed look on her and was smoking at the time also lol…. I couldn’t F***** believe it!!!!!!!

[I_Walk_AloneParticipant 580]

Back when I was on POF, I was on a day off from work and I didn’t have a car at the time following a crash. I had some fat single mother ask me flat out in the morning “Why aren’t you at work and why haven’t you got a car?” I replied with “Got a day off. It’s getting fixed” and then blocked her.

She worked in a store, and had the gall to flat out cross-examine me as to my employment status (she wants a human ATM for her and her kids) and my driving status (she’d also expect me to ferry her kids to school every morning? F~~~ that. I’m never being anybody’s taxi!)

I really wish that I’d have seen this thread first so that I could have replied with:

“Why are you overweight?”

“Why do you have multiple kids to mutiple ex-partners?”

[MGTOW4LIFE1990Participant 18]

I so much hate that question cause they use it to decide if you’re good enough for them. I’m a cab driver and I use to tell them that I was an independent contractor which I am cause it sounded more better than a cab driver. But now I don’t give a f~~~, cause I enjoy what I do and I make enough money for myself and some more. I’m my own boss and I make my own schedule. I drive in the DC area and I have a lot of male passengers which we will get into this topic and they always say the same thing. Many women out here will ask what they do for a living. Since its DC, if its not anything with government/politics or even a lawyer, they won’t give you the time. It’s funny cause a lot of women out here tend to work for non-profit organizations which don’t pay s~~~ even tho the organizations are for a good cause but yet if you’re not what I listed above, then they don’t give two s~~~s. In some cases I just respond by saying….I work!!!

[CatsPawParticipant 423]

Last girl that asked me where I work in the first 20 minutes of the conversation I countered with the question “do you take anal”?

You can guess she was not pleased with me after that. When I meet a girl that is with that sort of talk, Ill know its worth talking to her.

 

*As a side note, that girl was upset and tried to make me feel ashamed for my behavior. It didn’t go well for her, as she was the one who walked away ashamed. MGTOW works.

[Terminus EstParticipant 145]

When women ask me “what I do”, I have two standard answers:

1) If they are pleasant: I innocently begin listing all my hobbies and projects. (this frustrates the hell out of them)

2) If their digging is too obvious for my taste: I ask them how old they are.

[Terminus EstParticipant 145]

[MadScientistParticipant 131]

As an aside, I have gotten a female perspective on this from female friends who I have had to set straight on this. I mean, they can’t fight their nature, even if they are basically good people and not crazy feminazis. (Us too. You have to remember that)

In a conversation with three women I mentioned this as being a dick move, and one said “Well, women just want to know that a guy is not a dead beat. you know.. has a life” Which I knew was bulls~~~.. however.. interestingly.. they actually BELIEVED that as their reason. I mean I was not on the table as a potential partner for any of them, and I did my best to make sure they were not sending me up because Im a guy. So these three were not intentional gold diggers, as I already knew but they didn’t realize they were acting like one.

So, I took it at face value.., and replied.. I’ll grant this as a possible good reason to ask at some point, HOWEVER, the first freaking question? Or on the first date? I mean, you can tell if a guy is a dead beat from all sorts of other things than going there. And did you know you were alienating the good guys immediately? No? Did it not occur to you that a guy is evaluating YOU for fitness as well, and by asking this question you are disqualifying yourself from a relationship, but not from sex? That you are essentially making it much more likely that he will pump and dump you?

No, they didn’t They had no clue they could come off as gold digging whores by asking that one question. Amazeb~~~~. But then again, we can be pretty stupid when t~~~ and ass are on display, and they are petting our heads so.. I’ll give them one. They do get minus one for believing that they could even ask this question without repercussions though, as well as not understanding their own nature, so its all even.

But it took a bit to explain to them why it was stupid, and insensitive to THE GUY. And you know why? They are all pretty, and they are used to assholes bragging about money, or showing displays of wealth as Game (yes, they knew all about game) that’s why. And when a guy did NOT do it, they got suspicious that he didn’t have any money or a life. I had never thought of that (that they are being manipulated by society too), and so I explained it to them that ‘Good Men’ generally don’t brag about money much. They might tell you they have a good job, but they wont get into details. I told them about one guy I knew who is a millionaire, and will not wear anything but jeans and normal shirts when he goes out.. purposely downplays his status, because he doesn’t want a Tsunami of gold diggers to be his only choices in life. So that guy they think is a dead beat, might just be a millionaire, or at least comfortable, and he ain’t telling you, nor will he.

Totally rocked their world. They had not known they were the victims of a social train wreck, nor were they even aware of just how selfish a question this is. Gotta love it. Blew their freaking minds that they had been doing the exact opposite thing they should be doing.

So there are at least three women out there who are now a tiny bit more sensitive. Trying my best guys. 😉 Next lesson: How to keep a guys stomach full, and his b~~~~ empty as a pathway to Happiness.

I have to say, ever since I went MGTOW, talking to women platonically has actually become easier. Its pretty awesome, since I am not at all afraid anymore 🙂 Cautious, yeah.. but not afraid, now that I know their tricks. I can actually use this as a way to gather much more intel, and they buy ME drinks sometimes. Who’d have thunk it. Plus maybe I can improve some poor guy’s life as a result. I guess I am past the anger stage.

Addendum: I realize this could also backfire on some poor shmuck.. but after spending some time with them, these three women are actually real people, and genuinely trying to figure out the world and life, and their evil monkiness (most of th time we dont talk about male/female issues, so I know them as people pretty well). That’s how I met them in the first place.. through a meditation group that is fairly serious about figuring out life. I think they will not use this info as OppFor research, and really take it onboard. And anyway, education is probably the only way to change this crap at all. So Im trying to do whatever I can.

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