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  • #39092
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    HateSweetLies
    HateSweetLies
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    Ok this one really p~~~ me off. I was on the spanish party (I used to have a few friends that were spanish and wenezuelian. They partied a lot and did a good house parties so I hang out with them.) and there was always a few of spanish girls that barely (or sometimes above basic communication level) spoke any english. Most of them came to country I live in as Au Pair for one year (great opportunity for traveling for free, female exclusive obviously).
    I understood that the just started to learn english (despite some of them being in late twenties) so I kept conversation basic. But first words of one of them really left me ,,impressed”.

    I am not sure whether one of them knew my name or did I know her. But she just looked at me and first sentence she managed to get out of her mouth (with extremely stupid face expression) was ,,where do you work”. Exactly – girls constantly are asking me where do I work. Up to one month ago I used to answer honestly:

    ,,I am studying.” Because I am – I study in field I really love so I spend most of available funds on it (in country I live in studying is expensive). And then they asked me how many years before I will graduate (and start making money. They need to know when start noticing me, right?). Honestly I am so p~~~ed off with that – every girl I date or just met on some party asks me that.

    What the hell – do I go around asking girls are they good at deepthroating or other sexual activities? No – if I would it will be considered so so rude. But it is perfectly ok to ask me in third sentence we ever exchanged whether I am a capable provider or not?

    Last time I met a girl she told me that she works in  pharmasutical company. I told her:

    ,,I hunt witches, but don’t worry – I am off today”.

    Then she asked again (they will not stop once they do not got answers they want). I told her that I really hunt witches, and this is stressful job…

    You used me
    To get ya anything you wanted
    Oh...but I'm a changed man
    It's your other friend that gets ya what you want now

    ,,Bad Influence"
    Robert Cray

    #39097
    +10

    Anonymous
    1

    Oh boy.

    It is funny though, since I am introverted and always had my focus on what I wanted to do instead of girls, I never noticed that. However, now that you mentioned, yeah! The first question, even if she knows proper English, is where do you work.

    There was this girl that asked me this question, on my blue pill days. And I, being naive, started describing my work. She lost interest really quickly, the irony is, she graduated on the same area I did. The difference? I actually went for the real thing, she went to be a waitress. Nothing against people on this field, mind you, but I have the impression that she makes money out of her looks, while a male counterpart would probably have to rely on the actual work.

    Good topic, it brought memories.

    Cheers

    #39113
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    DoinMyOwnThing40
    DoinMyOwnThing40
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    Yup, they are all like that. The one and only thing that matters to any woman is “Where do you work?” If it’s Home Depot, they automatically disqualify you. If it’s “I am a banking resource manager” or some s~~~ like that, then she sees dollar signs and you are in.

     

    Women are parasites. Each and every last one of them.

    #39133
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    Soul Man
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    I don’t “own” a lot of material things.  The few material things I do have possibly hint at the fact that I’m doing ok financially if anyone pays enough attention.  The truth is I haven’t p~~~ed away my $$$ on stupid s~~~…well mostly so.   🙂  No sir, my $$$ is safely tucked away making me even more $$$.  However, that’s my business and mine alone.  Nobody else needs to know about that.  As for my occupation, well I just answer, “I have a job.  It keeps me solvent and self-sufficient.  Now do you do anal?”  HAHA!

    You are not under any mandate to give out the information just because someone asked.  I was raised and taught that asking such things of another person is rude and in bad taste.

    @hatesweetlies

    I like the witch hunter answer!  That’s funny man!

    HISTORY...learn from it, memorize it, DON'T repeat it...
    #39153
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    Casquetero
    casquetero
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    Asking your profession is a common way of comparing “social status” in some Central American and South American countries. It is considered small talk as talking about the weather in the USA.  “¿A qué te dedicas?” or “¿En qué trabajas?” translate roughly to “Where do you work?” to someone learning English.

    #39159
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    Keymaster
    Keymaster
    Keymaster

    Ah yes. The old “where do you work” lame and pathetic opener.
    Since the arrival of the smartphone, that’s the extent of the modern female’s conversational & social skills.

    She asks 4 words, and expects you to just expose yourself right there so she can judge the f~~~ out of you.

    Such a LAZY question isn’t it? It’s not even “so what do you do for a living?” anymore. It’s just “where do you work”. For the sex that will dump a man for being “boring” and predictable, they sure are boring and predictable – one after the other, after the other. I would almost prefer if they just came out and asked “how much money do you make?” or “what kind of car do you drive?”.

    3 QUESTIONS YOU WILL NEVER ANSWER WHEN FIRST MEETING HER:

    • “where do you work”
    • “where do you live”
    • “what kind of car do you drive”.

    NEVER answer those questions directly – or any of her questions directly – and she will be intrigued by you. It will irritate the s~~~ out of her, but who cares about that. When you’re indirect and refuse to fall for it, annoyed women who’s will starting running after you when you don’t answer her and just keep walking.

    Here’s what I do now and some of my stock responses:

    “where do you work?”

    “Im an astronaut. (points to the sky) You see that? That’s my office.”

    “Really?”

    “No”.

    .. then smile and pick up your pace a little. She will come running after you.


    “where do you work?”

    “I’m an underwear model. (twice as hilarious if you look like George from Seinfeld). Don’t believe me? Here, feel it. You can bounce a quarter off this puppy”.

    … and now you have a woman feeling your ass within 60 seconds of meeting her.
    That would never happen if you told her “where you work”.

    “Hey! don’t get fresh, or I will cry sexual harassment. Impatient girls sometimes miss dessert. Now go buy me a drink and apologize.”

    … and now you have a woman feeling your ass, buying you a drink and apologizing to you.
    That would never happen if you told her “where you work”.


    Women are boring as s~~~. You play with them, not to entertain THEM, but to entertain YOURSELF. Be creative. Use your imagination here. Have fun with it. Crack yourself up doing it. Whatever you do, don’t f~~~ing answer that stupid question. That question is a puck shot at your net, and you’re the world’s best goalie. Make sure she doesn’t score. Don’t even tell her your first name for AS LONG AS YOU CAN.

    “What’s your name?”

    “You can call me Sir”.

    You get the idea.

    Imagine if some t~~~ asked me “where do you work” and I told her the truth.
    “5 letters sweetheart. M.G.T.O.W. Google it”.

    She would break into a painful monologue about how “Not All Women Are Like That”.

    If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.
    #39165
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    I get some looks of admiration when I tell women that I’m semi-retired.  They have visions of me jetting off to some exotic locale any time I feel like it or some such thing.  When I tell them that I make enough just to pay my bills, I immediately become social poison.

     

    Yup, it’s all about $$$$.

     

    #39174
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    Sidecar
    sidecar
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    I’m not clever enough to come up with something off the cuff. I just tell them, “that’s none of your business,” and leave it at that. More often than not this only encourages them though.

    #39185
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    I_Walk_Alone
    I_Walk_Alone
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    I’ve been on POF for two years (deleted my profile this week, no dates in that time) and invariably the questions follow as such:

    1. What do you do? (So she can Google the average wage in that field)

    2. Where do you live? (So she can gauge whether or not it’s an affluent neighbourhood and can also Google house prices)

    3. How many kids you got? (She wants ALL of your money for HER kids, how DARE you keep some of your hard-earned for YOUR OWN!)

    4. What you looking for? (Translation: I’m looking for a simp to give me and my kids all of his money in return for a stressful, sexless Hell. Do YOU measure up to those requirements?)

    Utter gold-digging trash the lot of them.

     

     

    #39237
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    HateSweetLies
    HateSweetLies
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    Ah yes. The old “where do you work” lame and pathetic opener. Since the arrival of the smartphone, that’s the extent of the modern female’s conversational & social skills. She asks 4 words, and expects you to just expose yourself right there so she can judge the f~~~ out of you. Such a LAZY question isn’t it?

    Women are boring as s~~~. You play with them, not to entertain THEM, but to entertain YOURSELF. Be creative. Use your imagination here. Have fun with it. Crack yourself up doing it. Whatever you do, don’t f~~~ing answer that stupid question.

    Ah yes. The old “where do you work” lame and pathetic opener. Since the arrival of the smartphone, that’s the extent of the modern female’s conversational & social skills. She asks 4 words, and expects you to just expose yourself right there so she can judge the f~~~ out of you. Such a LAZY question isn’t it? It’s not even “so what do you do for a living?” anymore. It’s just “where do you work”. For the sex that will dump a man for being “boring” and predictable, they sure are boring and predictable – one after the other, after the other. I would almost prefer if they just came out and asked “how much money do you make?” or “what kind of car do you drive?”. 3 QUESTIONS YOU WILL NEVER ANSWER WHEN FIRST MEETING HER: • “where do you work” • “where do you live” • “what kind of car do you drive”. NEVER answer those questions directly – or any of her questions directly – and she will be intrigued by you. It will irritate the s~~~ out of her, but who cares about that. When you’re indirect and refuse to fall for it, annoyed women who’s will starting running after you when you don’t answer her and just keep walking. Here’s what I do now and some of my stock responses: “where do you work?” “Im an astronaut. (points to the sky) You see that? That’s my office.” “Really?” “No”. .. then smile and pick up your pace a little. She will come running after you.

    Women are boring as s~~~. You play with them, not to entertain THEM, but to entertain YOURSELF. Be creative. Use your imagination here. Have fun with it. Crack yourself up doing it. Whatever you do, don’t f~~~ing answer that stupid question. That question is a puck shot at your net, and you’re the world’s best goalie. Make sure she doesn’t score. Don’t even tell her your first name for AS LONG AS YOU CAN. “What’s your name?” “You can call me Sir”. You get the idea. Imagine if some t~~~ asked me “where do you work” and I told her the truth. “5 letters sweetheart. M.G.T.O.W. Google it”. She would break into a painful monologue about how “Not All Women Are Like That”.

    You are absolutely right. Most of people say that women are much better communicators because they are so smart and learn so much and so quickly. This is bulls~~~ – all of them just do the same few – steps pattern and that’s it. When you take away colour of their dresses they behave like army of clones! In the past I used to idealise women because they were so successful and all teachers/employers always put them higher than men. But is it their creativity – no it is just dumb repeating, that’s it.

    ,,Where all good men went” – you didn’t noticed them while you did your routine for 10000 time (seriusly, they do not care about any guy character, neither want to get to know it. All they care is does he passed her test of ,,where do you work” and few others. They do not even think about us, never!).

    So for now If situation is not official (I do never have any other relationship with women I met officially) I am a witch hunter.

    I’ve been on POF for two years (deleted my profile this week, no dates in that time) and invariably the questions follow as such: 1. What do you do? (So she can Google the average wage in that field) 2. Where do you live? (So she can gauge whether or not it’s an affluent neighbourhood and can also Google house prices) 3. How many kids you got? (She wants ALL of your money for HER kids, how DARE you keep some of your hard-earned for YOUR OWN!) 4. What you looking for? (Translation: I’m looking for a simp to give me and my kids all of his money in return for a stressful, sexless Hell. Do YOU measure up to those requirements?) Utter gold-digging trash the lot of them.

    Exactly, now I just realised that they ask me about where I live and (yes directly!) how much do I pay for my accommodation.  How f***g rude is that? To be honest – women are only so confident successful in social field because they are allowed to do most of the thing men are not allowed to. Yeah – they can win every tennis match with you – as long as you have your hands tied. They get the job most often and stay in this job (even if they don’t really work) because they have a golden vagina.

    ,,Keep a woman happy and everybody will be happy” – No, everybody will pretend that they are happy because this is ,,how it should be” (read they are programmed this way by social programming).

    There question are rude. I will listen to KeyMaster while answering them because this is how it should be.

    I see woman dissapointed when I do not answer directly and I used to believe this means I did something wrong. While talking to women that can only leech money and destroy opposite gender.

    You used me
    To get ya anything you wanted
    Oh...but I'm a changed man
    It's your other friend that gets ya what you want now

    ,,Bad Influence"
    Robert Cray

    #39251
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    HateSweetLies
    HateSweetLies
    Participant
    50

    What is even more stupid is fact that with exception of these few stupid tests women do not care how they behave and what they say. On the other hand men are supposed to learn multiple ,,the game” books, memorize all of this and always use correct sentence in correct moment. In other hand every evening for a woman should be relaxing and for man like competing in olympic discipline – tiring, exhausting, stressful, usually disappointing. He have to be very careful, watch every word while women can just REALLY BE THEMSELVES (this is why they are so annoying). Also if something fails it is always his fault – he did not studied good enough with techniques, or he is too small, or he do not have everything he should have etc.

    So if girl rejects him – this is his fault and his only (and girl have and should have no problem doing it – f~~~ his feelings). But if he rejects girl (because she for example is nasty and very fat) it means he is a monster! How could he not care about her feelings? As I said – only because they are allowed to do what we are not allowed to…

    You used me
    To get ya anything you wanted
    Oh...but I'm a changed man
    It's your other friend that gets ya what you want now

    ,,Bad Influence"
    Robert Cray

    #39336
    +7

    Anonymous
    42

    I tell people I’m a brain surgeon,,,,that’s it, nothing more, I get the strangest looks???? Like when a dog tilts his head…

    #42889
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    Douglaboy7
    Douglaboy7
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    Im a divorced man and a responsible father. And the dating scene, im mathematically inclined…the numbers are not good. First of all ppl qualifiy by their track record. An  intro doesnt give u a microscope into another persons life. I like sharing but i hate ppl overstepping resonable boundaries. Wether it is the man doing it or the woman.

    Then there is what i call “Primal instincts Bulls~~~”. The games according to the way animals operate. Well guys in nature the male bird is prettier…and does a hell of a dance to get the attention of a drab looking female…lol…so dont do the dance ok. I dont.

    “What do u do gets them”-“im a rubbish collector” or anything else that comes to mind…ur attitude shud say more than the content. if someone is not into you, dont take them seriously.

    Sometimes im asked my age online by younger women , who likey have nothing to offer to my situation…i say to them that is the least important thing you would need to know about me right now….

    anyway guy, ur responsible for you own psycological well being…dont fall for Primal Instincts BS

    #44029
    +8
    Keymaster
    Keymaster
    Keymaster

    I tell people I’m a brain surgeon

    I’ve done that myself. It’s all in the delivery….

    If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.
    #44041
    +20

    Anonymous
    42

    Putting a MGHOW on the spot, is like nailing jello to the wall, like bailing water with a sift, like catching a ghost. We’re f~~~ing slick, like a greased bowling ball, good luck trying to manipulate a MGTOW.

    I bet the titty trolls agree with most of what we say, but will they admit it? NEVER! They know we’re right, we just regurgitate the foul meal of feminism fed to us all our lives, they recognize it, it’s their own bulls~~~ being thrown back in their faces. Bitches know we’re totally right, but the bruises to their egos are to much to handle. TOO BAD!

    #44047
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    Afropick1
    afropick1
    Participant
    13

    where do i work? where do YOU work as I’m not looking for a broke woman..

    when i was in my teens- 20’s 30’s even my 40’s i looked at a woman’s personality as the only thing that mattered most and was really open to her legacy issues like children and he financial deficits but now that I’m 50 in 2015 no more

    she better come with her debts in order and i am not interested in her have 50 to a hundred thousand dollars with of school debt either

    her children better be grown and if not then more than one with a STEADY child support payment that i can see is consistant

    #44048
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    Afropick1
    afropick1
    Participant
    13

    i have done all the hoop jumping i plan to do– i am not even interested in woman over 40 and she better be very interested in taking care of me and home and enjoy cooking for me too.

    i also expect her conversation to be stimulating too

    #44050
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    Afropick1
    afropick1
    Participant
    13

    this was good advice…dealing with woman used to be my thrill buy sadly its starting to feel like aa job i don’t like

    if it wasn’t for sex I’m struggling to find out why i would want them around at all
    <p style=”box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px 0px 10px; font-family: ‘Open Sans’, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;”> “where do you work?”</p>
    <p style=”box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px 0px 10px; font-family: ‘Open Sans’, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;”> “Im an astronaut. (points to the sky) You see that? That’s my office.”</p>
    <p style=”box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px 0px 10px; font-family: ‘Open Sans’, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;”> “Really?”</p>
     
    <p style=”box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px 0px 10px; font-family: ‘Open Sans’, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;”> “No”.</p>
     

    #47305
    +3

    So true!

    I just got a job I really enjoy which is also paying quite good. I will not tell any women what I’m doing for a living until I know her better. It’s none of her business, it should not be an important information as in the age of “equality” women shall be able to provide for themselves anyway!

    #48520
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    Proud Masculist
    Proud Masculist
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    39

    The answer to, What do you do?,  must always be,  How much do you weigh ?    Repay her rude ignorance with your own rudeness.  And if you hear the s~~~,  Never ask a woman her age, or her weight.  Say, and never ask a man what he does.

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