Hes AFRAID of Girls!

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

I read a really cool post by a member here named “Franky”, in the introduction section. Rather than hijack that thread I decided to start a new one.

His post stated something to the effect of if men dont approach girls, theyll claim you are “aafraid” of them, for whatever reason.

I have two distinct memories of girls saying this to me when I was younger, and wanted your guys honest opinion. I was kind of a late bloomer when it came to branching out, and the main reason for that is I was brought up in a household with old school traditional values. Sex was for marriage, was the way I was brought up, and it was sacred.

I remember when I got out of that awkward, puberty pimple phase, and the first time I ever saw girls giving me that animalistic F~~~ ME eyes. Walking in late to a class in junior college, and I saw four girls giving me that swollen eye gazed look. I was SHOCKED. I dont hide my expressions too well, and Im sure my face showed this. One of the girls said “hes AFRAID of girls”. That happened on one other occasion.

Years later as a man, those words stuck with me. Because when your young and impressionable, that happens. Anyway, until recently I always looked back with regret, as though I did something wrong, and should have behaved differently.

What do you guys think? I know it sounds petty and trivial, but remembering it all these years later says something to me.

I love the way my parents raised me, but a part of me knows I wasnt fully equipped and aware of how women are. I viewed them as innocent, non slutty, so of course I was shocked in realising their true nature.

Anyway, just curious if anyone can relate. Those kinds of comments are so immasculating from women.

Now, I obviously know better. But being a ripe youth, it is interesting looking back.

 

Resident cynic.

[RoyDalParticipant]

They are running a shaming and guilt campaign on us. It’s what they do; they are hardwired for it. You are shamed if you don’t approach them. You are guilty of aggression if you do.

You have every reason to be afraid. Marry one. She will get your kids, house, money, and then she will get you thrown in jail for the crime of being broke.

Get a job handling poisonous reptiles. It pays better than dating and it’s worlds safer.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

You should be afraid of girls … women … ladies … and unborn females.

You should be this way when a child …. boy …. adolescent …. teen …. young ….. man ….. elderly.

Being afraid of women will serve you well.

However, can I replace the words ‘afraid or scared’ with F~~~ EM

[Anonymous 12]

Firstly it is shaming language designed to manipulate us into becoming all macho and proving them wrong by running up to them and saying hello all so they can reject us.

Ever notice how women will complain about men who don’t approach them but will never approach a man themselves? It’s a power trip for them, to sit back and reject men one after the other. If you want a taste of how powerful that can be then go to a strip club and let strippers approach you and knock them back when they ask if you would like a lap dance.

Women only want a man when it suits them, when they don’t want one we are just dead meat for them.

The only way we can win is to not play. Then watch them s~~~ themselves.

And that includes using the sex industry.

 

[Anonymous 11]

I’m not afraid of girls. I fear the troubles and bad times they inevitably bring along for the ride.

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

Thanks for all of the replies, but I must have not been clear because noone is really addresing what I was asking.

This incident happened when I was a TEENAGER. Im not afraid of girls lol, and have no problem approaching any girl now a days.

I was asking if any of you experienced this in your youth prior to being more experienced.

I only ask because I HAD looked back on those events with regret, but now I believe it was just girls playing head games.

I think my original post was too long, which is why my original question got lost.

No worries. Just curious NOW, at this age, if any of you can relate looking back on your youth.

Resident cynic.

[Anonymous 11]

I hear you AW. Here’s my first fear mistake as a Blue Pill teen.

My friend and I went swimming with two girls both of whom were quite attractive. I had a crush on one of them as did every other swinging c~~~ in a 3 mile radius. Her friend who had a better body than her began to approach me for a make out session in the pool. I chickened out due to fear. I realized my mistake within a few hours and never again got offered the chance to sample those juicy t~~~ she possessed.

Of course, they both look like washed out sea hags now that we’re in our late 40s.

[foolsgoldParticipant 5881]

I was approached as a teenager more often because I was a “high profile jock”. I treated them all the same. We called them cleat chasers. I was told many times that I was afraid of them. I wasn’t. I knew they would never give me the time of day if I was on the debate team or the marching band. Wish I would have taken my own advice from back then. DAMMITT!!!

[rorickParticipant 682]

@chauvinistpig Same here not afraid of them but just being cautious.!  Whenever i have to deal with a woman it feels like i need to set up a spy cam cause i can’t trust them..

[Anonymous 25]

Shaming is a female manipulation tactic.

The correct response is “meh” then a shrug of the shoulders and walk away.

And in relation to your question about experience in youth, women are more interested if a man isn’t desperate to speak to them so ignoring them will likely make them want you more. It shows self respect and scarcity, particularly if you are busy pursuing your own life dreams and goals. Unless a woman brings some benefit to your life (even temporarily like sex), there is absolutely no reason to speak to her.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

I’ll say it again because it’s not only hilarious, but it’s also completely true.
And I will say this to any female who brings that s~~~ on, too.

AFRAID of approaching women? First of all, I hate that f~~~ing word: “approach”. That’s all PUAs talk about “approach, approach, APPROACH!!! Just keep doing approaches!!!”. They LOVE that word . And if that’s not enough.. they call it “approach anxiety”.

YOU HAVE APPROACH ANXIETY!!!!!

F~~~ off.

You “approach” a dead snake. You “approach” a problem. You “approach” the edge of a cliff. You don’t “approach” a f~~~ing woman. She’s just a woman. Not a dentist’s chair. Tell that to every PUA and watch the expression on his face. Ever thought of getting a woman to approach YOU? (Why would you want to? But even if you did)… it’s really easy. Here’s how it’s done. Look at her. When she sees you looking , motion her over with your fingers… like you’re tickling her G-spot. They don’t teach THAT in those stupid seminars.

If she doesn’t come over, who f~~~ing cares. Shrug your shoulders and go about your day.

If she does (and it will shock you how often they will – if they aren’t totally insecure) BAM!!!!! SHE just “approached” YOU. Done. You’re cured of all “anxiety” and you’re now in a position to play with her: “are you hitting on me?”. If she doesn’t like you , she can LEAVE. But you didn’t approach her, and therefore you can’t be “rejected”. Besides, you didn’t call her over to find out if she likes YOU….. you called her over to see if you like HER. And if she has bad breath or smells, you can just “gotta go” and leave her there. And if you hit it off with her, you get to remind her that she came up to you and started hitting on you. How awesome is that.

“Approaching women” is a f~~~ed and stupid concept. They are biologically designed to approach YOU and ask for a light, or the time, or directions, or for a favor. They already do that without prompting!! Why a guy would go over to a table of women, and open himself up to being told “we’re just here for the food” and then to be c~~~-blocked by some bitter fatty with her fingers in the dip….. forget it. No. Tell HER to come to YOU.

When they tell you you’re “afraid”… all they are doing is FALSELY TRYING TO ELEVATE THEIR DESIRABILITY.
They are projecting the illusion that they are “unattainable” and they want you to be “afraid” of them.

They WANT to “reject” you. In their minds they WANT you to *ASK* them. They want you to *ASK* their name, number, for a date, if you can buy them a drink or dinner. By getting you to *ASK* you put them in the position of being able to say no. And the first rule of sales is: “If you give someone a chance to say “no”… they usually WILL.

So don’t ever *ASK* a woman for anything. TELL her instead. Remove the question marks.
Instead of:

• “Can I get your number?”
• “Can I buy you a drink?”
• “Would you like to go out some time?”
• “Is it OK if I call you some time?”
(pathetic)

You will say:

• “Tell me your number”
• “I’m going out tomorrow, you should come”.

ANYTHING but “asking”. Don’t ever give women this satisfaction. You’re not gonna ASK her “if it’s OK” if you call her and then wait for her permission – or let your good time hinge on her “yes” or “no”. It’s total bulls~~~. She should be GLAD to go with you, and you should believe that. If you don’t, fix that s~~~.

Now if you don’t want to go out with her…. it doesn’t mean you’re “afraid”. it just means you’re NOT INTERESTED. Make sure you tell these stuck up bitches this – so they don’t get confused.

“You’re afraid of GIRLS!!!!!!!”

“Honey… if you see a piece of dog s~~~ on the street, and you are not interested in picking it up, talking to it, or playing with it… does that mean you’re AFRAID of it? Not remotely. And neither am I. It means I’m simply not interested in you. You are that piece of dog s~~~. Totally uninteresting.”

Knock her RIGHT DOWN off her goddam pedestal, because she just hanged herself.

The PUAs should “teach” how to make women go away and leave men alone without having to be PAID to f~~~ off and get lost. Has anyone ever seen a woman get lost when you tell her you don’t want her around? Now that would be a neat trick. That would be some useful information.

In what kind of F~~~ED social climate would anyone tell you to “approach women” when men are PAYING THEM to go away.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[v9wlmn8c1982Participant 83]

It’s actually the opposite. Women are afraid of approaching men. Women are supposed to be the one’s who approach men because they are the one’s who chose first and then the man is supposed to either reciprocate or reject. How can a man chase the thing that chooses? So many have got it wrong. Men aren’t supposed to chase women, they are supposed to chase us.

To many young men and boys listening to PUA’s and watching Disney movies have got themselves confused. Women are drawn to powerful men. These men don’t need to approach women, women approach them. These women who shame men who refuse to chase them are the real cowards, because they are the one’s afraid of rejection and they project that onto men so they can do their lazy work for them.

[sidecarParticipant 35874]

Hehehehehe. “Afraid.”

When I was in school the women would always insist that some male white knight escort them if they had to go anywhere on campus at night. Because it was dark. Because they didn’t want to be alone. Because women. Never mind the fact that the man would then have to walk home alone in the “dangerous darkness”, only to get called back when she was done with her business. And it gets worse: the women’s college up the street had a f~~~ing 16 foot WALL all the way around campus like a fortress.

Even today when you go out at night and look around you will see plenty of men going about their business by themselves. You will not see one unescorted woman.

Now that’s fear.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Someone posted the other day that he was talking to a girl who mentioned the can of pepper spray she allegedly keeps her hand on(!) in her purse. You know, to deter “rape”. That enormous problem the most unattractive women complain about as if it’s some kind of looming threat to their very existence…….

He said this t~~~ “had a friend in gender studies who has numbers to back up her data”.

But aren’t the hundreds and thousands of men who pass her in every every day life numerical data enough??

“He’s afraid of girls” is only worth entertaining if it required COURAGE to interact with them.
But it doesn’t.

There is a difference between “fear” and “stupidity”.
To interact with a creature who admitted such inferiority doesn’t require “courage”. It requires STUPIDITY.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

v9wlmn8c1982 wrote:

It’s actually the opposite. Women are afraid of approaching men.

Women are afraid of men who aren’t afraid of women. The “he’s afraid of girls” s~~~ is just projection. That girl will be terrified of any boy who isn’t afraid of her at all. She’s hoping he is afraid because she can’t handle the opposite.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Keymaster wrote:

Women are afraid of men who aren’t afraid of women.

That’s a FACT!

I knew it already with plenty of experience, but this one female CEO I worked for (for 1+ years part time and then another year remotely except for 2 days a week) really was a demanding c~~~. And people – especially women! – were afraid of her. She would even introduce herself that way “I am demanding and don’t apologize for it”…. but when I heard it, I was thinking “how is that a skill or a positive quality”? Being a demanding c~~~ doesn’t require any skill, brains or talent.

But I just bided my time and treated her with NO fear. I wasn’t even an employee, so she couldn’t fire me anyway.

Then one day, she f~~~s up and start behaving like the demanding c~~~ she knows she is. She asked me to attend a meeting on a Friday in person. … across town at 5 PM. What does she offer? f~~~ing donuts and coffee. That’s easy 2 hours in traffic – both directions. + 1 hour for a meeting is 3 hours out of my f~~~ing day and she’s not going to say anything genius. NO reason for the meeting except she’s a f~~~ing control freak.

When I get there, there are donuts and coffee on the table. Thanks but I’m not a dog. I don’t work for treats and snacks. Lets get down to business. I’m busy and I need to leave at 7 no matter what. Then I find out.. she’s not coming.

Expects everyone else to come to the meeting across town if the have too… and the f~~~ing c~~~ phones it in.

Well I sent her an invoice for 3 hours …. AND time and a half for not giving 24 hours notice. She paid it too! NO ARGUMENT because she knew she didn’t want to be confronting me. She started to realize how being a c~~~ doesn’t work. And then she called me on another Friday night at 11PM demanding something for Monday. She kept me emailing her until 2AM. She shouldn’t even assumed I would ANSWER her. Of course I f~~~ing triple-invoiced her. And told her never to do it again. “why did you wait until Friday at 11PM when you could have spoken me on Monday? BAD PLANNING???? and if something is that urgent and can’t wait, CALL ME instead of this childish mailing back and forth”.

That email must have thrown her against the wall.

Not being afraid of women means women will be TERRIFIED of you.
They won’t even be able to look you in the eyes or speak on the phone.

The “Email” gives her a delay she can’t get in real life. She’s one those bulls~~~ “strong and independent women” who can’t even converse with a man who isn’t afraid of communicating with her directly. I guarantee , for the rest of her life, she will never be able to say “Men are intimidated by a strong, successful woman ” ever again.

I unleashed s~~~ on her manger too, and said in an email “is she out of her mind contacting me on a Friday at 11PM?? Who does that?”

And then I sent them a list of adjusted rates SO HIGH — just high enough to guarantee they would get someone else AQAP. Oh in the mean time, they paid me the higher rate for a wile, and I said yes to EVERYTHING – happily billing them like an utter asshole. She could never look me in the eye again, and made SURE she wouldn’t run into me.

Women are TERRIFIED of men who aren’t “afraid of girls”.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

Thanks for the replies guys. The incident in question happened when I was like 18, almost two decades ago, so ya things are different now lol. But now that Im older with eyes wide open, I look back on incidents like that, which at THE time made me think I wasnt “manning up” and now look at them differently. Those kinds of things at that age stay forged in your memory.

Its nice looking back now and knowing my behavior wasnt so strange. At the time I ascribed a lot of value to sex. It meant something. And seeing girls look all wide eyed/horn dog through me for a loop. I thought they were better than that, at the time.

Girls comments are always crap though. Dont show unbridled interest and your “AFRAID”. Show interest and its “I dont just GIVE my number out” OR “you could be a stalker”. Lol, unreal.

Resident cynic.

[Anonymous 5]

I am not afraid of females. I just have no desire to interact with them. All they have to offer is their pussy and it is not worth it.

[Anonymous 13]

I really enjoyed this thread.  Ancient wisdom, you sound a bit like me regarding this.  The first three replies you recieved sum up my response to it.

[ClintParticipant 331]

Keymaster wrote:

and then to be c~~~-blocked by some bitter fatty with her fingers in the dip…..

KM you always crack me up – I could read your posts all day long.

I used to read pick-up books a lot actually. I would criticize them more, but it was kind of a stepping stone to getting here, so I’ll give them that respect. The things you say about having girls approach you is similar to this one book I read called “the Alabaster Girl”. That’s if you ignore all of the bulls~~~ about how divine women are in it.

I think what you say is the boiled down, effective, and all-around better version of all the pick-up s~~~. All that stuff about wearing eccentric items and whatever else they do is f~~~ing dumb, frankly. Before MGTOW I was always more interested in the ways that were more authentic – not the “how to get her to your apartment!” crap.

I like MGTOW much better, though. Now I get to stop worrying about that s~~~, and focus on what really matters.

"To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you into something else is the greatest accomplishment." -Ralph Waldo Emerson

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