HELP! Parents want to get me married! Indian MGHOW beginner

[M3GTOWParticipant 103]

Greetings men,

I would really like some help here. A few things that one must know, I come from a tight-knit Indian Family. My parents have been married for 35 years without any issues, and I am the eldest of three siblings. Now my parents want me to get hitched as well, and are planning an ‘arranged’ marriage. (normal Indian thing), now I am in two minds and utterly confused.

My father is not blue-pill. He did get married to my mother because he saw her back in the day and was like ‘yep, thats mine’ Thats it.

This has come at the worst time in my life. I have just begun my MGHOW journey after getting cheated on by a woman who ‘wanted to spend the rest of her life’ with me. I would not take the s~~~ test and stop doing things for her, I stopped being her driver or her ATM card. Chad enters with blowing trumpets and she cheats on me saying ‘she could not control her emotions’. BS, Ill see her when the wall hits her in 3 years time (Shes 27)

Now I know, American/European marriages are far different than Indian marriages, but I need an Indian MGHOW right now!!

[ShineParticipant 1696]

I think the cultural diffences will limit the amount of advice. I often thought life would have been simpler with an arranged marriage or mail order bride, it’s the no fault divorce and woemn dumping dudes for cash and prizes that seems to be at the heart of western marriage decline.

If an Indian arranged marriage is likely to last 35+ years, the indian girl is a good catch, and you see a bright future rasing a family, then you may have found your unicorn.

I can’t really offer you advice, I know that my own white picket fence dream was nothing but a dream, and all the things I took as normal or for granted growing up turned out to be basically a lie or as others are finding out blue pill hell.

I’m more p~~~ed at the decline of everything not just relations~~~s, trying to keep a positive spin on things.

But yeah back to mgtow, it’s your life dude… choose wisely.

"Society is to blame" Denton

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

RUN, RUN FOR THE HILLS.

F~~~ mom, f~~~ dad, are you a slave? Are you a property?

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[AwakenedParticipant 35200]

ALL that YOU NEED TO LEARN IS ONE TWO LETTER WORD, ad that word is NO !!!

Of course it’s up to YOU TO PRACTICE IT DAILY AND NOT BE AFRAID TO USE IT, but that is NOTHING that anyone else can help YOU with.

This may cause friction/instability within your “close knit family”, and it may even cost YOU your relationship with your parents and/or your siblings, but isn’t YOUR LIFE WORTH IT ???

ONLY YOU CAN ANSWER THIS …………..

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Anonymous 1]

Are Pre-Nuptial agreements a thing in your world?
My advice, if you HAVE to get married (or feel like you HAVE to):
This is my bank account…everything in it is mine.
My earnings during the marriage will go into this NON JOINT account.
I will pay bills from it, but it is NON JOINT.
If I want to buy whatever the hell I want with my money, I will.
If we divorce, you get NONE of this money, or future money in the account.
You are entitled to zero of any retirement, pension, etc.
If there is a divorce, and there are kids, you are entitled to maximum 50% custody, unless I agree to giving you more.
If there are other valuable items, (house, car, mutual funds, etc.) you are entitled ONLY to the percentages that you contributed IN DIRECT MONEY to attaining those things…there will be no “valuation of the time you spent with the babies,” no conversion of the “sacrifice” time you were away from your career.

I’m sure others can chime in with more.

[AwakenedParticipant 35200]

Anonymous wrote:

Are Pre-Nuptial agreements a thing in your world?My advice, if you HAVE to get married (or feel like you HAVE to):This is my bank account…everything in it is mine.My earnings during the marriage will go into this NON JOINT account.I will pay bills from it, but it is NON JOINT.If I want to buy whatever the hell I want with my money, I will.If we divorce, you get NONE of this money, or future money in the account.You are entitled to zero of any retirement, pension, etc.If there is a divorce, and there are kids, you are entitled to maximum 50% custody, unless I agree to giving you more.If there are other valuable items, (house, car, mutual funds, etc.) you are entitled ONLY to the percentages that you contributed IN DIRECT MONEY to attaining those things…there will be no “valuation of the time you spent with the babies,” no conversion of the “sacrifice” time you were away from your career.
I’m sure others can chime in with more.

Personally NO CLUE how any of this plays out in the OP’s world, but in the states it takes about a hot minute for your average judge employed and empowered by the gynocentric Focused legal system to take WHATEVER pre-nup that you may have agreed upon and “set it aside”, and then THEY SHALL DISTRIBUTE YOUR ASSETS AS THEY SEE FIT.

I had a similar conversation with a blue pill mangina, and it did no good. So, I wished him, his “pre-nup”, and his future marriage the best of luck as he lives in one of the most Libtarded states as well.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[JB BooksParticipant 3182]

Great post, JS33! Talk to your father privately. As for your mom, do three things:

1. Tell her (and keep repeating it each time), “thanks for your input; I’ll consider it”.

2. DON’T get into a discussion over it!! Follow numbers one and three.

3. Make any lame excuse and cut the visit/call short. Negative reinforcement will help.

We just don't realize life's most significant events while they're happening. Back then, I thought, "Well, there'll be other days". I didn't realize that that was the only day. - "Moonlight" Graham

[iMickey503Participant 12465]

Aray YAR!

Well. It did cause some friction in my small family when I told them I was not going to marry an Indian girl period. Hell, I did not want to have anything to do with the women coming over. Even though they were Pharmacists, etc. Pretty successful women.

But you know what’s best? Do what you father says. I know. Tut-tee advice But hold on. There is way more to it. Let him know that if you marry, and you get a divorce, the new Indian law is that your bride gets their house as well in a divorce. You are the oldest son.
And let him know clearly that the rules have changed in India.

Now depending on where you are from and where. There may be a very good chance that your marriage is going to last..for at least as long as you keep her close to family. But even the Guru of india will tell you that love with a woman is impossible.

If you Just want to get out of it, there are a hundred honorable ways. All of them make sense for you and them.

But really? with the rate that India is progressing? it might be a good time to stay our of marriage right now for the best interests of your own parents.

Watch Disco Dancer with them and let them know that without a woman, you can take care of them when they get older. With a woman, you can’t

Whatever you do. Be a MAN and tell the truth and give facts. And NEVER let a woman screw you over again.

You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

[MonkParticipant 16975]

As Awakened and Carnage have already said – you are not something to be bartered or traded for THEIR advantage.

NO is the most powerful word of all. Use it.

[Duke TogoParticipant 2664]

Say no and make no apologies about it. Your life is to be respected amd protected. Learn to say no and don’t give a f~~~. If people want to argue about your decision, finish the argument off and show them they are wasting their time.

As for cultural differences, I say bulls~~~. AWALT (all women are like that).

Seriously don’t even bother with a pre nuptual agreement, not worth the paper it is written on. Never date, cohabitate, marry or impregnate. If you do see a woman, it is on your terms, otherwise tell the bitch to take her loose c~~~ and leave you alone.

[Anonymous 38]

Consider it a test of your manhood to say NO.

[JVBParticipant]

I know your culture well. Been to India at least 40 times. Indian men do not have the b~~~~ to stand up to their parents. The word “no” is your best weapon but you probably don’t have the guts to use it. Please prove me wrong and put yourself first. Good luck bro.

Peace is > piece.

[iMickey503Participant 12465]

JVB wrote:

I know your culture well. Been to India at least 40 times. Indian men do not have the b~~~~ to stand up to their parents. The word “no” is your best weapon but you probably don’t have the guts to use it. Please prove me wrong and put yourself first. Good luck bro.

Winner Winner Chicken Dinner! There’s the prize that makes you wise.

You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

[Anonymous 5]

I wouldn’t be discussing facts about marriage, I’d be discussing facts about divorce in modern day India.

It’s debatable, but I believe India is the worst place on the planet to be legally married, closely followed by Spain.

Learn all about section 498a law, and what has happened to countless husbands,,,and the parents of the husbands,,, where the wife has made an allegation of cruelty, with no proof what so ever.
Up till 2014 it was a non-bailable offense so the husband and entire families of the husband were sent straight to jail indefinitely,,, sometimes up to 4 years! All based on the wife’s word and nothing more.
Remind them that abuse of section 498a law isn’t rare and makes up about 6% of all criminal charges in India.

Read up on MENS RIGHTS INDIA and also read and quote from a totally Blue Pill source they’ll find more credible in the beggining such as Wikipedia Men’s Rights India

The social peer pressure to wifey-up in India and many other eastern societies is mind blowing. You’ll get no end of shame tactics from your family so section 498a is the best to quote because the repercussions could affect them (even your parents and brothers and sisters) just as much as it could affect you.

[Anonymous 5]

I wouldn’t be discussing facts about marriage, I’d be discussing facts about divorce in modern day India.

It’s debatable, but I believe India is the worst place on the planet to be legally married, closely followed by Spain.

Learn all about section 498a law, and what has happened to countless husbands,,,and the parents of the husbands,,, where the wife has made an allegation of cruelty, with no proof what so ever.
Up till 2014 it was a non-bailable offense so the husband and entire families of the husband were sent straight to jail indefinitely,,, sometimes up to 4 years! All based on the wife’s word and nothing more.
Remind them that abuse of section 498a law isn’t rare and makes up about 6% of all criminal charges in India.

Read up on MENS RIGHTS INDIA and also read and quote from a totally Blue Pill source they’ll find more credible in the beggining such as Wikipedia Men’s Rights India

The social peer pressure to wife-up in India and many other eastern societies is mind blowing. You’ll get no end of shame tactics from your family so section 498a is the best to quote because the repercussions could affect them (even your parents and brothers and sisters) just as much as it could affect you.

[Anonymous 5]

repeat post IGNORE

[Anonymous 1]

M3GTOW wrote:

Now I know, American/European marriages are far different than Indian marriages, but I need an Indian MGHOW right now!!

[743 roadmasterParticipant]

If push comes to shove,…do what Forsaken said. Make one hell of a prenup. If your prenup is hard and cold like it should be she might be the one to back out of the marriage. Just be sure you live in a place where judges do not over rule them. Like California of New York.

Good luck

mgtow is its own worst enemy- https://www.campusreform.org/

[Anonymous 12]

sorry, i am Gay.

done.

[Anonymous 1]

Ask her if she will drive you home from the vasectomy.

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