Help me Brothers!

[Anonymous 6]

I made a post a few months ago which was titled “mgtow or Marriage?” i was in a long distance relationship with a Thai girl, well I’m sorry to tell you this guys, after i got all of your feedback and wisdom telling me not to contact her again.

I caved in after 3 weeks and contacted her again, was feeling down after we broke up, and have not been here in a while, I went back to visit her again hoping that my visit might help her get a visa again. And after spending 3 weeks with her telling me I’m a great guy and we should have children and get married asap, but this woman can barely take care of herself let alone a child,

The fear of going any further in the relationship has returned, my instinct is to just get the hell out of this situation once again, and this time for good, the smart thing to do is to leave once again, i know what you mgtows are going to say, and i think you are right, just give me some motivation to end this once again and finally, Whoever Keymaster is, i have a lot of respect for this guy he knows his s~~~

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Marty:

Got $500k to burn? Marry her. Oh you don’t, then F~~~ING RUN!!

You are sitting at the most important crossroad in your life. You can marry her, but there is at least a 50/50 chance you will end up divorced, and a 100% chance you will pay alimony if that happens. Or you can leave her, and the biggest downside is a little regret. And there is a prescription for that regret, it’s a little red pill, and there is no way to overdose.

And by the way, anyone want to bet that the divorce rate is higher than 50% with Thai women that need a visa?

And another thing, she must be really f~~~ing hot if you can’t get her out of your head. Like you said, she can’t take care of herself but she wants to marry you and have kids. So, that leaves you responsible for taking care of everyone. That’s pretty f~~~ing narcissistic don’t you think? She is offering you a 1,000 pound rock to wrap around your neck before you go back into the pool like it’s a good thing!!!!

So, those three months you were agonizing over her. Want to guess her dick count for those three months? I’m sure she was just sitting on a block of ice that entire time waiting to hear from you. And if she is that hot, she has plenty of orbiters and Alpha’s taking their shot. I bet she let more than a few slip past the goalie. While you are kissing her, just imagine how many dicks you are kissing from the last three months. That should do it for you!

That instinct telling you to run, LISTEN!! That is the most important voice in your life. It’s going to get you out of some real f~~~ed up situations in your life if you listen to it. It is right this time, it is right every time.

Of course, that’s just my opinion, I could be wrong…………….(but I’m not).

Order the good wine

[Anonymous 6]

“That instinct telling you to run, LISTEN!! That is the most important voice in your life. It’s going to get you out of some real f~~~ed up situations in your life if you listen to it. It is right this time, it is right every time. ”

Yes you are right, My Instinct is trying to save my ass, its like your in the Serengeti, you can sense the lion is near but you don’t see him coming yet, he’s in the long grass, Waiting to tear you to shreds, from her perspective she has everything to gain, I have everything to lose, please keep posting more advice guys this is going to save my life because of what you have said and are going to tell me, thanks for your reply TaxGuy

[Wolf redpillmanSpectator 1658]

Dude.no.offenses but if you.know that 2 number.one rule.of.mgtow and still.let your emotion get to you.i suggest just go back to that blue pill and take your chances im saying this because you seems like that kind of man who are scared of being alone you already know that risk ,just because she is from thai dont mean she is differents her expectation are lower than a western women but she still thinking like one and that means she think of what can she get from you and benefit for and thats a greencard ,if you cant handle that.mgtow life style then be a blue pill take your chances ,you are a grown ass man ,you.know that truth but you stiill.let your emotion control you i will said go ahead follow your emotion at least you know that truth

[Anonymous 3]

Wolf redpillman wrote:

Dude.no.offenses but if you.know that 2 number.one rule.of.mgtow and still.let your emotion get to you.i suggest just go back to that blue pill and take your chances im saying this because you seems like that kind of man who are scared of being alone you already know that risk ,just because she is from thai dont mean she is differents her expectation are lower than a western women but she still thinking like one and that means she think of what can she get from you and benefit for and thats a greencard ,if you cant handle that.mgtow life style then be a blue pill take your chances ,you are a grown ass man ,you.know that truth but you stiill.let your emotion control you i will said go ahead follow your emotion at least you know that truth

I agree. In my experience, the red pill is not something one man can give to another. It’s something a man has to take on his own.

If you’re afraid of being alone or need a woman, the red pill is awful to take and you’ll just throw it back up. Picking it back up and swallowing it with your own bile isn’t going to work any better, it’s probably in fact going to be worse.

In the Matrix there was that one guy that sided with the machines and wanted back into the Matrix. he said he knew the meat he was eating was fake but he didn’t care, he just wanted to be comfortable inside the Matrix. And even at the end, the machines said they’d release those that wanted to be released, not really that everyone would be released.

Just because you know about the red pill and the fematrix doesn’t mean you have to or even should take the red pill.

Just get married and then link back into the fematrix, sync up with all the other couples and families in it. MGTOW is far lonelier, it’s for pioneers, free thinkers, real independents. That’s not most men. Most men didn’t get into ships and sail around the world, or get into wagons and go West, or join the military and wage conquests. Most men staid at home, did whatever society told them to.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Is this reverse psychology? If the guy was sitting here saying he met a unicorn, I would wish him luck. But let’s count the red flags:

1. From another country
2. Wants a Visa
3. Can’t take care of herself
4. Wants to get married ASAP and have kids ASAP as a trap
5. ASAP is before he changes his mind
6. His inner voice is telling him to run.
7. I have yet hear anything in his story about how much SHE loves HIM.

You can take the red pill and dump her ass. You can take the blue pill and marry her. But there is also the option to take the blue pill and still dump her ass. Those two aren’t mutually exclusive.

Dump her ass. My inner voice was questioning whether or not my ex was good enough for me. I went through with it. $500k later I wish I was smart enough to listen to myself. And that doesn’t count all the money I made that she spent over the last 20 years we knew each other. That’s just what it took to make the spending stop.

But f~~~ what we all say. Listen to what you are telling yourself. You already know the answer………………. Dump her ass.

Order the good wine

[Anonymous 42]

BLUE PILL; you go back to sleep,,,,, until another NIGHTMARE WAKES YOU UP!

RED PILL YOU live happily ever after GYOW! If it isn’t a unicorn, PUT IT OUT OF YOUR MISERY!

[The Skank SpankerParticipant 1372]

If you need to ask us on MGTOW, then you basically already have your answer… You know pretty well that this women is full of red flags, like TaxGuy stated. You just need the extra kick in the butt in order to make the decision to opt out. So far the pro’s outweight the con’s…

Considering your username I reckon you are 28 years of age. Plenty of time left to find a more suitable woman if you so desire. Like somebody told me when i joined MGTOW is that, perhaps you need some time to digest the red pill and get used to it. Gather more MGTOW knowledge, reflect and learn about yourself.

[RebalancedParticipant 346]

There’s only one other thing that comes to mind, that might make you see what this female is really about as all the red flags in your case are still not waking you up.

Get a fake email acct and start talking to her as someone else (not as effective as she knows how you talk) or get someone to else to do it for you. I bet you that any man who could be a means to get her a VISA could sweet talk her and make her drop your ass for them.

That would then show you that she only loves the VISA and the idea of having you indebted to her via kids and doesn’t give a damn about you except as a utility to use abuse and diffuse.

I don't need pussy

[Elric GreenstoneParticipant 1637]

TaxGuy wrote:

Is this reverse psychology? If the guy was sitting here saying he met a unicorn, I would wish him luck. But let’s count the red flags:

1. From another country
2. Wants a Visa
3. Can’t take care of herself
4. Wants to get married ASAP and have kids ASAP as a trap
5. ASAP is before he changes his mind
6. His inner voice is telling him to run.
7. I have yet hear anything in his story about how much SHE loves HIM.

My uncle is a flip (filipino). He’s one of the coolest people I know. I dated a filipina in college, who was awesome but for the fact that she was actually my best friend and fraternity brother’s girlfriend. So. Probably not so cool for him, right?

I know a little about filipino culture. A little less about Thai culture. I like Thai folks. Sadly, traditional pinoy and thai culture NO LONGER F~~~ING EXIST BECAUSE TELEVISION MOVIES RADIO INTERNET BOOKS CULTURAL HEGEMONY FEMINISM VIRUS.

She’s a Westerner with a different skin color and better cooking. Oh, can she cook? Most young pinoy women I know can’t actually cook because TELEVISION MOVIES RADIO INTERNET BOOKS CULTURAL HEGEMONY FEMINISM VIRUS.

Every time you go over there and have sex with her, you are putting yourself at risk for indenture. Use a condom? Awesome. Hope you flush it and don’t let her touch your c~~~, because sperm are funny things that can be put in a vagina voluntarily by dusky little fingers. Or out of a condom in the trash.

In general, in business, if a deal is only good “rightnowsignsignsign” it means it’s a really, really bad deal.

She’s not different than American girls, friend. She’s part of the same Westernmonoculture. Sure, there’s a Thai overlay. Sure. Southern girls have a Southern cultural overlay. Alaskan girls are a little different, too.

Run. Run far, run fast. Get the f~~~ out, while you can.

Phoenix also had very good advice (and usually does – Christians often do. . . wherever two or more are gathered, in My name . . . I digress). If you’re a blue pill guy, awesome. That’s great. Most guys aren’t cut out for this. But completely dependent Thai wives WHO WANT TO COME HERE are not bonus material, friend.

"You can either love women, or understand women. You can't do both. Because once you understand women, you realize that there is really nothing to love."

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

Filipinas are awesome because they tend to have toothpaste-cap nipples, which drive me crazy in a good way.
As far as the character goes – manipulative, shameless, disorderly.
Take your pick

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[HitmanParticipant]

marriage is a scam perpetrated on men …by women and the court system that will RUIN you if you dare …feelin brave ? or just f~~~ing stupid ?

[RedDawnParticipant 1391]

Plenty of hookers offer the girlfriend experience.

Courage is the key to life itself - Morgan Freeman

[HitmanParticipant]

Ball and chain man. He has his entire future planned out for him. THAT my mgtow is the definition of a slave.

damn right ! i see men picking up their wives with new born babies at hospitals ..i look at the type of vehicle he drives because i know in a few months he will probably be LIVING IN THAT CAR !!! ( tip ; fold down seats give you a better nights sleep ) …

[FrankyParticipant 2338]

Anonymous wrote:

my instinct is to just get the hell out of this situation once again

Good good, you can already hear the instinct this is good progress.Now just follow it and trow in some common sense and a sense of self-preservation and you’ll be free in no time!

[Deus Ex MachinaParticipant 1068]

OPTION 1.
Porn: you rub one out, you save money, heartache, marriage, kids, and drama and bulls~~~

OPTION 2

Escort
they do whatever you like sexually, and like Keymaster always says “You pay them to leave”

if that’s not sweet music to your ears, i sure as s~~~ don’t know what is Bud.

You know what you have to do as MGTOW, and you know what we all here are going to say, so do it.

That is all.

"If You have the Tooth of a Whale, You must have the Whale's Jaw to hold it". (i.e. One Must have the right qualifications for leadership) -Hawaiian Proverb

[Anonymous 6]

Thanks guys for your replies and support, btw when i was visiting with her i met her two friends which are sisters, one sister has 3 children and the other has 1 child, So i said to her jokingly but deep down deadly serious.

Me : Gee, don’t you think having a baby is a big responsibility?
her : Well, my friends say it is hard to raise one but i know i (YOU) could manage it .
My internal Voice : Bulls~~~

Me: And so your friends, were are there lucky husbands?
Her: Both husbands left them, but that will not happen when me and you are married, we are a perfect couple
My internal voice: I am so f~~~ed, time to abandon ship.

And so she spends a lot of time with this single mother of 3 ( i bet you guys are surprised to hear something like that, a single mom 🙂 and so she is obsessed with this idea of doing the same thing and having kids, having mixed children with me because i am a European guy and she is Asian, and somehow having them maybe gives her more fulfillment and somehow life will get better (who the f~~~ knows whats going on in there minds)

I’ve done a lot of stupid things in my life, but that is one mistake i do not want to make, because it is irreversible, crippling, life changing. Please post more replies guys i am grateful for your wisdom and feedback because i know MGTOW is my salvation, shove that f~~~ing red pill down my throat and make me swallow it forever.

[FullMetalExoParticipant 2383]

Hi there man. When I study my s~~~ (latin, pharmacology etc.) or when I relax in Cities Skylines, I almost religiously listen to Tom Leykis videos, almost daily. It’s like a mantra, on repeat.

Anonymous wrote:

Thanks guys for your replies and support, btw when i was visiting with her i met her two friends which are sisters, one sister has 3 children and the other has 1 child, So i said to her jokingly but deep down deadly serious.

Me : Gee, don’t you think having a baby is a big responsibility?
her : Well, my friends say it is hard to raise one but i know i (YOU) could manage it .
My internal Voice : Bulls~~~

Me: And so your friends, were are there lucky husbands?
Her: Both husbands left them, but that will not happen when me and you are married, we are a perfect couple
My internal voice: I am so f~~~ed, time to abandon ship.

And so she spends a lot of time with this single mother of 3 ( i bet you guys are surprised to hear something like that, a single mom 🙂 and so she is obsessed with this idea of doing the same thing and having kids, having mixed children with me because i am a European guy and she is Asian, and somehow having them maybe gives her more fulfillment and somehow life will get better (who the f~~~ knows whats going on in there minds)

I’ve done a lot of stupid things in my life, but that is one mistake i do not want to make, because it is irreversible, crippling, life changing. Please post more replies guys i am grateful for your wisdom and feedback because i know MGTOW is my salvation, shove that f~~~ing red pill down my throat and make me swallow it forever.

– single mothers
– fathers left
– “it will be different for us”
– “kids will be for the better”
– etc.

Red Lights are flashing and sirens are screaming all around.
Avoid like plague. Don’t make dumb mistakes, be real and honest, say that YOU DON’t NEED THIS S~~~.

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[Anonymous 6]

i know, i hear you brother, i might as well step inside a prison cell taking on this s~~~, maybe ill just watch a porn video, hey presto, you’ve got your satisfaction and still walk away free anyway.

[Anonymous 6]

Okay guys, i accept it, i accept that i am a red pill guy, my instinct is still saying this, i have just left her country a week ago and since then, i have heard very little contact from her, maybe every 12 hours i get a message from her like “what are you doing?”

I have never seen this since i met her which has been going on for a year where one message has been this distant from another, its always been maybe 2 hours maximum. nothing just silence.

maybe shes waiting to see what i am going to do or maybe shes thinking that my silence means that there is someone else like I’m cheating or something, at this point i really don’t care if she thinks that or not, i have read your advice (not advice, FACTS) and i already know what I’m going to do, I’m going MGTOW, i just don’t want her to know my decision already. I’m just giving it a little more time in case i break it off too soon and she maybe terrorizes me with a load of bulls~~~ like, I’m pregnant for the next 9 months

Its just the silence is starting to make me panic like she is plotting something against me so that’s why I’m still acting to her like everything is fine when im ready to vanish from everything like i never existed.

and anyway the thought of bringing a child into this life, putting them through all of the obstacles every human faces as they live it, i would not want my son to have to face things like this himself, this woman does not realize that, she sees it as a toy or an accessory to her

One of the guys i know from work is in his 40’s and he is a red pill 100% MGTOW, i told him the scenario, what was going on and he just looked at me straight in the eyes and said

“Son, don’t walk away, RUN!”

This is a mid 40’s year old guy im listening to say this and im 28, he is older and wiser than me and has lived a bit.

I would love to finish 2015 as a free man again, after 1 year of this long distance relationship bulls~~~, single, free and next month Star Wars is coming out, guys, it doesn’t get any better than this 🙂 (BTW this girl has never heard of Star Wars before, WTF?)

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