Hello from a New Member

[AstroParticipant 2045]

I discovered my wife had an ongoing affair on 23/Dec/16 and kicked her out on the 26th. After a couple of weeks, we started meeting at restaurants once a week to talk and work out the details.

Today, I told her that we can remain friends but to never come back and that I am joining MGTOW, as I just did. My dad did the same after my mom and never had a romantic relationship for 35 years until he died. Both of us had married twice and both of us were repeatedly cheated on.

There was no “MGTOW” back then but it seems history repeats. I don’t want to “bump and dump” or find a hooker, I don’t know what I want but to be left alone. I wouldn’t mind talking to someone who has been through the same.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

This ^ intro was sent to us by “Sparky” (by email) who is a novice with forums and not very tech/internet savvy – and doesn’t use social media. He emailed, left his number, and I spoke with him for a few minutes and told him I would be happy to make his intro on his behalf.

Welcome Sparky.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[UKChapParticipant 296]

Welcome Brother

Betrayal cuts deep – had it done to me, penny dropped Christmas 2014 after 3 months of behavioral change in her, deflection, accusations, guilt projection etc.

Check out the videos and the forums here, as well as You Tube

Welcome to the rest of your life.

F~~~ them

Life's a bitch, then you're supposed to marry one and then die- sod that for a game of soldiers!

[KeymasterKeymaster]

UKChap wrote:

Check out the videos and the forums here, as well as You Tube

He found MGTOW on youtube and I recommended same, and that he gets comfortable first. He is very nice, uncomplicated, 53, married twice, and found himself in a whirlwind of divorce at Christmas time. He didn’t want to jump in head first, so I kickstarted for him.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[bladeParticipant]

Welcome bro . Glad you are here and sure you will fit in nice . Alot of us have been threw what you have endured so don’t feal you are alone . Your life is about to be changed . After been here a while you will see the world in a much different way .

Welcome to the brother hood

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[Anonymous 0]

Welcome! We’ve got about a half-million years of combined experience here. Anything you got, somebody here has done it before.

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

Astro wrote:

Today, I told her that we can remain friends

Re-think this one. She will try to restart the wallet draining after her f~~~ buddy moves on to greener pastures. One chance. Per woman. Per lifetime.

Welcome, Sparky. The Uranium PU-36 explosive space modulator is in the fridge.

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[Heave-Ho MgtowParticipant 1797]

Welcome sparky. I too am a slow learner who took two marriages before I came to see things as they really are.

Watch out for two things:
1) watch you back, she is not your friend.
2) drink lots of water with the red pills to make them go down easier and to fully dissolve for maximum effect

skip the cavernous vag and go your own way

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Heave-Ho Mgtow wrote:

she is not your friend.

I just bolded that! ^ Thanks for saying it first.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 3]

Astro wrote:

Both of us had married twice and both of us were repeatedly cheated on.

Hello Sparky, welcome to the forums.

There is a book you should read, written by a woman, its called: the manipulated man. (press the book name link to read the book).

I am going to quote this for you, and please notice the bold statement:

For contemporary society to survive at all, men must believe in truth. They do the work, and no practical, i.e., logical, system can function on lies.
[…]
Women, however, can lie with a clear conscience. They are not involved in the process of work, so their lies will harm only one person – usually the husband. And, if it is not discovered, it is not a lie at all – it is “feminine guile.” The only crime that does not come under this heading is physical unfaithfulness, which a man will not forgive.
As a man has been conditioned by women’s self-abasement, it seems natural to him that she should use guile, weak and dependent creature that she is, as the only way in which she can hope to guide this powerful, sex-obsessed giant, this unfortunate, wretched “animal.” It is no wonder that women, having proved guile a success, talk quite openly about it. You will read about it in one of their favorite media, women’s magazines. Mothers hand it out as advice to their daughters. Why not? It is quite justified, since all their comfort depends on it, for they are frequently forced to exploit the same man, first the mother’s husband and later, perhaps, if the mother lives under the same roof, the daughter’s husband. After all, their whole future comfort depends on whether be comes to heel.

What I wanted you to think is that your only complain (unfaithfulness) is not the only problem. You have been all your life explored, physically, emotionally and financially, by women.

Is that not so? How many times did your wife asked you to do things she could do herself?
How many times you had to sacrifice what you wanted for what she wanted?
Did you not notice that her things where family things, and that your things where egoistical things?
What was your wife financial contributions, besides spending money on stuff that you dont need?

So, the reason for you and your father to abandon women is only the more palpable and clear reason. The other reasons are those that we do not contemplate out of our habits and “how things are”.

But there is a this gut feeling of lightness, a weight that gets out of our shoulders. THAT is the weight of the yokes being removed.

[BlacqueJacqueShellacqueParticipant 6890]

Welcome Sparky. Great to have you here. Like almost all fellas, it is tragic how you purchased your ticket to the MGTOW lifestyle but you are now with great minds and sympathetic souls. Welcome to the forums. Beers are in the fridge.

[SolidParticipant 7520]

Welcome Sparky ! Here you are among friends !

[experiencedParticipant]

Welcome to MGTOW Sparky.

Things will slowly get better, but they will get better!

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[Mister StealthParticipant 362]

Welcome Sparky.

While she is playing the just be “friends” card. Feel her out on separation if it looks like she is happy and put up much of a fuss – talk to a lawyer and get a separation agreement in place. Pound out those divorce details now if its in your benefit.

Welcome to the other side brother – take up some hobbies and stop in here for your daily dose of MGTOW.

Steel sharpens steel

[JimBoLeaParticipant 1891]

WELCOME TO THE FOLD BROTHER.

LILITH IS THE HEAD SUCCUBUS AND SHE LIVES ON THE DARK SIDE OF THE MOON

[JVBParticipant]

Welcome Sparky. You are amongst friends here but a friend to you she is not. Cut that lose and carry on brother.

Peace is > piece.

[AkhilleusParticipant 2486]

Welcome sparky everyone on here had very similar experiences/stories your with brothers now. F~~~ those c~~~s

Aloha means family you don't leave family behind. Who will be the next Draconarius for MGTOW? MGTOW = brothers = acceptance = belonging

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10911]

Welcome Sparky. Things do get better over time. We’re here to listen if you need us.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[AstroParticipant 2045]

First marriage: Wife admitted to cheating with 9 guys. Second Marriage: Wife cheated in 2012 and again late last year. They split and she now has a distant relationship with a retired military General in South Africa. Crazy s~~~. It f~~~ed up my christmas for years to come. I guess I was slow to learn but I have learned the hard way. Tired of feeling like a fool.

[AstroParticipant 2045]

I noticed a difference for a month or two myself. I was a cook in the USN/USNR and have always been the cook of the house, I never had a woman that could out-cook me. I noticed what I cooked wasn’t being eaten when I came home from work (I work nightshift). Then she started talking about some guy named Michael, she never admitted to sex but was otherwise somewhat open about it. Even now, she admits that she is going to miss my cooking but that is her loss. The old days of the alleged “Man without wife starving on burnt TV dinners” doesn’t work with me. Women used to be able to cook but most have since become worthless in the kitchen and from my experience, men are far better cooks.

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