Hello brothers, new here

[BlackValeParticipant 79]

I guess I will start by saying that I may have been mgtow for most of my life (24 currently). I grew up in an abusive household with me and my father and watched how his life spiraled often. And to provide a little more background my father had custody of me and my mother left to get away from the abuse. I perferred it that way because it made things a bit easier.

What mostly redpilled me was the way I was responded to by my peers. I grew up in what would be called the ghettos or slums. In areas like this the only way a man could be accepted is to have the persona of a thug. So consequently my father didn’t allow me to go out or have friends to keep me out of trouble. Growing up, I wasn’t liked very much. Southern hospitality doesn’t like for you to keep to yourself and I wanted no part in the path of the people around me. For references, I still see the exact same people I grew up with and only a handful of them went to college, bettered themselves, or don’t have kids out of wedlock.

Through much of my school life (middle school – high school) I was known as the lame or the weird guy. I didn’t get respect at all. I also shut down completely in middle school after my brother’s death. He was the only person who attempted to break me out of my shell and made me feel like a somebody. High school was a bit better, but I was mostly ignored.

I used to try to get numbers from the ladies but that mostly failed. In middle school you were harshly judged by how many girls you could hook up with as with any other middle school and how much you loved to fight. During the time, I would get rejected for reasons so petty like not being able to afford expensive Jordans or having to wear clothes that were too tight for you because your dad can’t afford it. Also because I was fat which I thought was actually a half decent reason. Quickly I began to realize that people don’t really respect decency, niceness or being a good person, And that women mostly look down on men that are below what they believe is worthy of their smv.

High School was a bit better. Still fat but lost a good bit of weight that was often noticed. Was able to get a few numbers but they were all fake lol. Then college came around. And I was able to get a ltr (Terrible decision).

College was a big change for me. It was the first time I had to live without my parents. It was the first time I had peace in my life. And it was the first time that I realized that I am not a victim and that my life and its direction was ultimately in my hands. I loved it, but it didin’t come without its problems as most things in life.

My ltr dumped me with the same old its not you its me line. This is what ultimately finished my awakening. Before then I was reading a PUA book (How to become an Alpha Male). I followed it almost to a tee. But I remembered that I always knew there existed a second book to life. I started frantically googling things like “why do women hate men” and eventually chanced on one of barbar’s video (one by one men are catching on). Then followed a few of the redpill blogs, then other mgtow videos (sandman, tfm, spteznas, etc.)

Then I realized that I wasn’t the only one that saw the truth. That society doesn’t really care about men as a person but only as a human doing/provider. Shortly after graduating college I started to notice this even more. Many of the women I helped in college were getting decent jobs well before I did even though I was leagues better than them.

Fast forward about a year later, I had a big argument with my father. I stood my ground with him and told him he was an asshole basically and got put out. Eventually he figured out that he was also in the wrong and let me come back and started to respect me much more than he did in the past. After that I learned that people treat you the way you allow them to. So I made the decision to change more than I had in college. I wanted respect and to get it I knew I had to change the way I saw myself and change my goals.

Two years later after s~~~ty on top of other s~~~ty jobs, I finally landed a decent contract job that I went to college for. And here I am. Through the entire journy, I learned that the key to my happiness was to learn about myself. I learned that I was a person that valued freedom and demanded the best that I can get in life. I wanted to die so many times, but what kept me going mostly was the many things I learned and saw through the wisdom and knowledge I gained from other mgtow men. And here I am.

I apologize for how large this is and if its not great quality. I typed a lot of this out at work during my lunch break. Thanks for reading.

[Anonymous 7]

Welcome home.

[Old BuckParticipant 3596]

Glad to meet you BlackVale and welcome to MGTOW.

Life is full of changes, learn to roll with the punches and above all do whats best for you.

Keep up the good work and find time to enjoy life as well.

Cheers

Don't chase tail. Turn yours around, walk away, and live free!

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Welcome.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

Welcome you have sailed your ship into safe harbour. Glad you are here!

[RomulusParticipant 4667]

Welcome aboard BlackVale, we’re glad you joined us.

A lot to take in with your introduction. Life has thrown a few curve b~~~~ your way.

One thing about MGTOW you will hear again and again is that the general direction of your life isn’t in the hands of others, it’s mostly within your power to construct it as something that is satisfying to you. Within the bounds we all face, time money, so on. The past has led you here, but doesn’t establish your future.

There are some men here with a lot of wisdom, and a lot of men with some wisdom, I’ve benefited from both, I think you can too.

Welcome.

How can a woman be expected to be happy with a man who insists on treating her as if she were a perfectly normal human being.

[Anonymous 43]

Welcome brother, we are drinking Grue’s booze today.

lol that rhymes!

[HitmanParticipant]

welcome !
glad you made it here.
enjoy the site and comradery,
and have a thick skin bro.

[Knarley BobParticipant 2219]

You found a good place to rest a while. Nice to meet you.

OATHKEEPERS, not on our watch. MOLON LABE

[TheSpiceParticipant 2644]

Welcome, Blackvale.

The “It’s not you, it’s me.” line is actually the truth from women, though they THINK they’re lying to spare your feelings.

"I've been thinking about what it would be like if we got back together."
"You know it's too late for that."

[Anonymous 7]

Anonymous wrote:

Welcome brother, we are drinking Grue’s booze today.

Bloody hell! I am pinching @Venoms stash.

[ShineParticipant 1696]

Welcome Blackvale,

just a quick hearty hello and glad you found us.

Your upbringing sure sounds like a rough serve, but sometimes the best in humanity is bought out through necessity, adversity and holding off from the brink of demise.

Comparatively I have lived a very sheltered life, I simply stopped chasing tail (my own and the ones attached to cute curves).

Looking forward to your posts, keep ya chin up lad, there’s plenty of good left in the world even if you have to forge your own path.

"Society is to blame" Denton

[Anonymous 18]

Warm welcome to Blackvale.

Thank you for the introduction.

BlackVale wrote:

I remembered that I always knew there existed a second book to life.

Didn’t we all brother. Didn’t we all.

BlackVale wrote:

one of barbar’s video

Dang. You went straight for your PhD. Why you no do the Master’s? lol 😛

BlackVale wrote:

Through the entire journy, I learned that the key to my happiness was to learn about myself.

Salute brother. You are essentially coasting on high life when you internalize this idea. It’s not all roses but its a guide wire that can only bring you true contentment and bliss in life.

BlackVale wrote:

I apologize for how large this is and if its not great quality.

Not nearly large enough. I typed my introduction on Word and bitch was 8 pages long.

Putting your story out there is part of the journey. With healing comes acceptance, and with acceptance comes the courage to get up and stride for the best version of yourself.

Glad to have you on board bro.

[joetechParticipant]

I see a lot of me in you. Thank God you haven’t married. Women only respect money and power, as with most people in general. Welcome to the forums. It’s refreshing to see a young man whose future hasn’t been snuffed out before it begins.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[bladeParticipant]

Welcome hope you enjoy the forums

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[Handsome VicParticipant 1613]

Hi BlackVale. You’ve been through a lot but have also discovered paths to your freedom. You’re a young man with a lot of good living ahead!

I'm going my own way. Maybe I'll see you there.

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

Welcome Blackvale… Keep learning…You are lucky to have found MGTOW when you are still young…Keep growing and living life to the fullest…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[The Manipulated ManParticipant 1856]

Greetings BV,

yours is the only Introduction that has shown up in my inbox in about a week.

BlackVale wrote:

…I also shut down completely in middle school after my brother’s death…

I am sorry for your loss.

Thankfully, my four younger brothers are still in my life and I try not to take them for granted.

BlackVale wrote:

…….my mother left to get away from the abuse.

It is interesting how most women these days are proclaiming the same “abuse” story. They are like a bunch of mindless parrots.

BlackVale wrote:

Before then I was reading a PUA book (How to become an Alpha Male).

My Son & I, younger brother, and his Son enjoyed reading David DeAngelo’s PUA material back in the day.

BlackVale wrote:

……But I remembered that I always knew there existed a second book to life. I started frantically googling things like “why do women hate men” and eventually chanced on one of barbar’s video (one by one men are catching on). Then followed a few of the redpill blogs, then other mgtow videos (sandman, tfm, spteznas, etc.)

Me Too.

All good stuff.

MGTOW.com is awesome!

You have found a gold mine. So, keep digging.

BlackVale wrote:

..That society doesn’t really care about men as a person but only as a human doing/provider…

With all due respect, you are too kind to our Great Enemy. I have come to believe that the Gynocracy doesn’t even see us as human.

Here is a link to a Post which attempts to discuss the Feminist Beast. Your feedback there is appreciated:

/forums/topic/todays-womyn-are-like-wild-boars-razerbacks/

Anyway, without Doxing yourself, in the reply box below, kindly write about what your life as a free man looks like.

What happens when a man finally comprehends the cold and calculating thoughts that are going through a woman's mind, while her eyes are brimming with tears?

[MACHOParticipant]

Welcome BlackVale, enjoy the forums.

BlackVale wrote:

Through the entire journy, I learned that the key to my happiness was to learn about myself. I learned that I was a person that valued freedom and demanded the best that I can get in life. I wanted to die so many times, but what kept me going mostly was the many things I learned and saw through the wisdom and knowledge I gained from other mgtow men. And here I am

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[JBearParticipant 138]

BV, Welcome friend. Listen/read to the wisdom here. Don’t give up, and you’ll do fine. The fellas here are very helpful if you ask any question with sincerity. Trust me. Lot’s to learn (like all of us to be sure), but you’re on the right track. Best of luck, take care.

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