Have you gone through 'the change' in your attitude towards women

[HermitParticipant]

There is only one thing I want from women and even that is growing less important every day. My freedom, my peace, my solitude……everything I now have is way more important to me than anything any woman could ever offer. They are nothing to me.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[ZoidbergParticipant 965]

The red pill rage seems to have started to dissipate a couple of months ago. I am more indifferent nowadays. My libido is also down. I still notice some sexy looking women, but they don’t have the strong effect they used to have on me. I don’t know if it’s just some seasonal change, a medical thing, or simply my age. Less rage and more indifference— nice!

[GrumpyParticipant]

I’m not quiet certain if my attitude has changed or was just heavily “negatively” reinforced over the years, however I do not keep nor pay for anything or anyone around me that doesn’t “improve” my quality of life.
I just got tired of the work/cost/responsibility of relationships/women being 99% my effort and regardless of the outcome being shat upon by someone who contributes as much as the T.V in the corner that is always “off”. It just sits there drawing resources regardless if I watch it or not.

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[the roadParticipant 3125]

I have slowly changed over the past few years since I discovered MGTOW.

At first I was looking for advice on how to fix my relationship with a woman I thought I was going to marry.

Then I randomly discovered MGTOW while reading through forums.

MGTOW reinforced my belief in myself. Instead of giving in to my girlfriend, I stopped taking s~~~ from her and left her.

A year later, like a dumbass, I relapsed and got back together with her for a very short time period, like a month. I had already changed too much to even let her start with her crap again and it fell apart almost instantly. This time I told her how I really felt about her. I told her that she is not marriage material and that she’s the type of woman that will bitterly divorce rape me and steal everything away from me and my daughter. I haven’t seen her since.

I got a vasectomy because of her. I had a moment of clarity that made me realize that if I had gotten her knocked up and she decided to keep it, I would be destroyed. She went after her son’s father like a rabid dog trying to take every last dime. And the same would have happened to me.

I haven’t even tried to start a relationship with a woman since her. Although multiple women have implied a relationship with me. I only do what I want now. They always get p~~~ed off and then I put on an act to make them want to leave me. It works better that way when they think that it’s their own decision.

I think my change was highly noticeable to others. No one asks me if I’m ever going to settle down anymore. Like never. It’s pretty nice. I don’t know, in a sense, I turned cold and dark toward the idea of a relationship after taking the red pill. It took a couple years to work past my blue pill tendencies but I kept getting drawn right back to the cold hard truth of the red pill. I realized that once you take it, there truly is no going back. It’s sounds so cliche but it’s true- just like in the Matrix.

Do I hate women? No. I think I understand them now. Am I upset? I used to be. It hurt realizing that the world I was conditioned to believe in was a lie. But I am lucky that I’m a man and that it’s generally in our nature to be productive on our own. I appreciate that natural quality.

I have my life in pretty good order. I make a good living, my retirement planning seems to be on point. I get to travel sometimes (I would never have been able to do that when I was with my previous girlfriends) and I don’t answer to anyone. Some of my friends tell me how lucky I am that I dodged the bullet as they got divorce raped and screwed over.

Sorry, just rambling. I haven’t posted here much lately.

#MANOUT

[SpiderHerderParticipant 3763]

Awesome post, man.

You have your head on straight, congrats.

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