Have you gone through 'the change' in your attitude towards women

[Anonymous 38]

For me there was a clear shift in my attitude towards women. It was a very definite change when I thought about it.

I knew this was for real when I stopped looking at a hot woman and being thrown into an emotional state.

That would happen, even when being pretty red pilled. A hot chick could throw me off my line of thinking, my frame. I’d end up white knighting for them, even subtly. Issuing the pussy pass. I guess deep down I still wanted to f~~~ it / possess it. I thought I was over women but I wasn’t really.

But it’s been replaced with a genuine aversion. There’s no hate, I just look at them as something to be avoided. And not in a fearful way, more like an obstacle. Something to be avoided because it’s boring, a waste of time, potentially a trap. Not something worth sticking my dick into.

I’m no longer moved by superficial beauty. I know too much.

It’s quite a good place to reach, as there’s no associated frustration or sadness. If she thinks I’m a loser, then cool.

Going one’s own way unhindered is pretty peaceful.

I suppose it is transcending your basic desires for something greater. It is however a commitment to something greater, something to be ever mindful of. You can always slip back to your basic self.

For those not there yet, have faith. It can and does happen.

[Daryll55Participant 2953]

Anonymous wrote:

But it’s been replaced with a genuine aversion. There’s no hate, I just look at them as something to be avoided. And not in a fearful way, more like an obstacle. Something to be avoided because it’s boring, a waste of time, potentially a trap. Not something worth sticking my dick into.

I’m no longer moved by superficial beauty. I know too much.

Very well said !
I’m alone and
I can do what I want; when I want. My wallet has money in it. For those 2 reasons alone I have little interest in women.

Marry again, Hell NO ! ( Even JESUS was hung on a cross just once)

[AwakenedParticipant 35203]

The Blue Pill MAKES YOU SEE THEM AS YOU WANT THEM TO BE, and the Red Pill ALLOWS YOU TO SEE THEM AS THEY TRULY ARE.

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[SpiderHerderParticipant 3770]

I’d said not completely yet. I still enjoy their beauty when around 18-22yo but it’s not hard to imagine them post-wall and easily burst my own bubble.

It’s like expensive sports cars: I’ll see a Lambo or Ferrari and think:”Nice”. And carry on with my day unlike blue-pillers which would fawn over, take selfies with and talk about them endlessly.

Hmmm… maybe it’s not the same thing. I’ve lived in a place where it was normal to own fancy cars and have become desensitized to their effect. Women, on the other hand, have shown me by their behaviour that they are not worth being in my life.

[Anonymous 38]

SpiderHerder wrote:

It’s like expensive sports cars: I’ll see a Lambo or Ferrari and think:”Nice”. And carry on with my day unlike blue-pillers which would fawn over, take selfies with and talk about them endlessly.

I absolutely appreciate high end cars and want one myself.

I don’t want a high end woman. I don’t want any woman. Not unless she’s a nawalt. Lol

[Max PowerParticipant 2721]

Yeah, a woman has to be exceptionally beautiful and young to briefly draw my attention, and it is momentarily powerful, sure.

My main response after the initial 2-second biological attraction is “Wow, she is gorgeous – I wonder whose life she is f~~~ing up atm?… anyway, on with my day…”.

[Anonymous 38]

Max Power wrote:

Yeah, a woman has to be exceptionally beautiful and young to briefly draw my attention, and it is momentarily powerful, sure.
My main response after the initial 2-second biological attraction is “Wow, she is gorgeous – I wonder whose life she is f~~~ing up atm?… anyway, on with my day…”.

I ALWAYS think of the simp who is her else and am thankful I’m not him. A vagina is a vagina at the end of the day. Regardless of how hot she is.

[Call Me WinterParticipant 141]

Today I purchased a Jaguar XF R Sport, not everyone’s cup of tea but it is mine, I walked into the showroom, spent 2 hours making my mind up, after 3 months of searching for the right one, I had no woman to tell thecolour it should be, no woman to tell me what My Interior has to be,no woman telling me how much of MY money I could spend

I’m currently having a new bathroom fitted in my house, no woman to tell me the colour scheme, shape of the bath and the size of the shower, I just love the freedom, why would any sensible male allow these parasites to dictate to them.

Stay free, stay happy, enjoy your own money, enjoy your own freedom of choice, as the Depeche Mode track goes…..Enjoy The Silence!

God created man...........then he fucked up! Female empowerment only lasts until you reach the cash till.

[Knarley BobParticipant 2219]

It’s kinda like being on VACATION…

OATHKEEPERS, not on our watch. MOLON LABE

[Knights Templar RisingParticipant 5106]

Max Power wrote:

Yeah, a woman has to be exceptionally beautiful and young to briefly draw my attention, and it is momentarily powerful, sure.
My main response after the initial 2-second biological attraction is “Wow, she is gorgeous – I wonder whose life she is f~~~ing up atm?… anyway, on with my day…”.

You just summed up my reaction to them.

If I do decide to get some pussy, I purposely bone mediocre middle age women. It helps to take neurochemical visual attraction out of the equation, and makes severing ties easier.

Sovereignty above all else.

[MaverickParticipant 811]

Knights Templar Rising wrote:

If I do decide to get some pussy, I purposely bone mediocre middle age women. It helps to take neurochemical visual attraction out of the equation, and makes severing ties easier.

How does it make severing ties easier? Seems they would be more desperate to snag a sucker at that age.

[iMickey503Participant 12465]

Call Me Winter wrote:

Jaguar XF R Sport

Man, I love the new Jags. But the old one’s? I am in love. Sir Lyons knew a thing or two about cars. I just wish his middle of the road electrical engineers did too. Before they started putting all this electric crap in it, they use to be FINE cars. Hell, the smartest thing they did was stick a GM transmission behind the engines.

My love affair with the V-12 started out then. Lucas, and his Price of Darkness always seemed to rear its ugly head way to often. I’m kind of glad the Indians bought the company. They just never understood why people liked the cars. It was all about the fitness and beauty of the pedigree.

But the people that end up with them. Oh GAWD! They just ruin the image. Everything wonderful about the cars, they just kill. From the 20″ rims, to the gawd awful paint jobs.

I love the new rides.

However, my love affair with the markee will always be this.

And if I ever get around to it, and get my Metal work up and 3D printing skills up to par, A REAL AWD V-12 Fire breathing Original just like it was meant to be XJ-220. I want to hear those pipes SCREAM “Do you want some TEA!”

What I really want are those wheels. Oh man. DO I want them. What a great looking van made by TWR.

We use to have one of these:

And they are just RIPE for modifications (Tasteful ones)

And of course the Sexy AF 2 door.

But the car that I will have soon? This wonderful sexy beast.

You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

[Knights Templar RisingParticipant 5106]

Maverick wrote:

Knights Templar Rising wrote:

If I do decide to get some pussy, I purposely bone mediocre middle age women. It helps to take neurochemical visual attraction out of the equation, and makes severing ties easier.

How does it make severing ties easier? Seems they would be more desperate to snag a sucker at that age.

Easier on my end. If the woman was a hot piece of ass, the primal 18yo in my 50yo brain would be too hypnotized.

Sovereignty above all else.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

I feel nothing towards women anymore, whether “hot” or old/fat/green-haired. Not even aversion.

There is just a simple internal directive to avoid them since they are a danger to my well-being.

Any interactions are governed by the heuristic “what is in it for me?”. Sex is not a factor, since I am basically asexual now.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[narwhalParticipant]

Kind of a tough question to answer. On the surface I want to say no. I still enjoy the company of women sometimes. I still find alot of women unbearable to be with, while some can be fun under certain circumstances. But there have been some changes.

When it comes to rather attractive women, I used to feel less of a man if they didn’t approve of me. It was a sign that I was lacking in some way. For most attractive women, I simply feel that they have set different priorities than me, and I’d be absolutely miserable trying to pretend what matters to them matters to me. The thought when you’re young is that once you’ve gotten her approval, you’ve arrived, and the work is done. The reality is that the work you’re expecting to do for her approval has just begun.

I also no longer assume that she has the same value system as me. She is seeing things through different eyes than me, so is very capable of things I’d never even consider, because it doesn’t look the same to her. And that’s putting it lightly. By default then, I believe I must rely on the law for protection…which simply isn’t there. I cannot rely on her morals or the law to protect me from harm. When related with a man, I feel I can rely on most men (till the prove otherwise) and the law.

Maybe most importantly is finances. When I was younger man, marriage and relationship looked like paths to financial success. Dual income, house and kids. A partner to help you with decisions and encourage you. And none of that happened when I was married. Now I see it as a way of bullying me into spending money against my will, forcing me to live in a home I don’t like, going to places I don’t want to to, so on and so forth.

It’s not really as if my knowledge of women has changed, it’s more that my wisdom has changed. I know the same things I used to know, I’m just not letting my emotions convince that I’m the exception, or that I have to play the game to be happy.

I could see myself having a girlfriend in a similar way to Ranger One does, but I can’t see myself believing that she would never hurt me, basing myself worth on it, or being able to risk my financial future on her.

Ok. Then do it.

[hdvrodParticipant 1109]

Anonymous wrote:

I absolutely appreciate high end cars and want one myself.
I don’t want a high end woman. I don’t want any woman. Not unless she’s a nawalt. Lol

MG, a high end car is infinitely cheaper than a high end woman over their life spans. Good choice.

Anyway communication, real open communication, is not wanted or even required in a relationship. Women cannot handle fully open and honest communication, plus most perceive it as a weakness on the part of a man. All that is required is catering to her whims, and even then nothing is certain. There is no way to be sure of having a successful relationshit with a woman. MGTaoist

[RealityBitesParticipant 2198]

My “change” has been very gradual and is continuous..over time it gets more drastic. I guess I kept hoping for the Unicorn to appear…but it never did….one of my hardest things is looking at other couples and realizing I am only seeing an Act being put on public display…and I got a little of this when I was married to a Chinese Woman and watched her pretend in front of friends and relatives to be completely than she really was….and when I look very very closely at supposedly happy couples I see signs of “desperation” by the husband…and bottled up hostility by the wife….and then I realize the guy is desperate to prevent being taken to the cleaners by Divorce Court…

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

Becoming “woke” to the ways of women is the best kind of liberation.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

I have too many sisters to have ever had any illusions about women.

[DeadhoodParticipant 155]

Outside of sex nothing, I’m completely indifferent with women

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