Have you ever fallen in love with a woman before?

[AkanbiParticipant 2120]

My answer is NO.

I’ve only had dopamine rush through my brain and adrenal glands, which enhanced the release of testosterone in my body.

Dopamine then affected various organs, including my genitals, my sweat glands, and also my senses.

As a consequence of dopamine being released, my mood and emotions were also influenced, leading to feelings of excitement and happiness.

Meanwhile, the testosterone increased sexual desire, but also increased “aggressive” behaviour.

All these chemical activities that were going on in my body were then heavily backed up with the blue pills I’ve been fed with since birth.

This eventually pushed me to pursue the bitch who was fueling this intense response.

-What’s your own answer?

My brother make you no follow sheeple o. Look them and Go Your Way.

[Anonymous 0]

Define love.

[AkanbiParticipant 2120]

Anonymous wrote:

Define love.

I fixed the title. Now, what’s your answer?

My brother make you no follow sheeple o. Look them and Go Your Way.

[BlacqueJacqueShellacqueParticipant 6890]

I did. I trusted too much.

[Anonymous 54]

I turned dopamine into alimony.

[MGTOW_MikeParticipant 6253]

Akanbi,

“Love” is a chemical reaction in a man’s brain, pushing him to procreate. As for me I did feel “love” towards one girl back in 2002/2003. I am glad she turned me down. I am doing exactly what Rick is recommending to Morty, focus on science. My passion is in electronics engineering.

A tranquil mind is neither happy nor sad, it is uninfluenced by external conditions.

[JVBParticipant]

I thaught I did. She made it clear that her and chad thaught differently.

Peace is > piece.

[xlrsnbrgParticipant 1786]

Yes, a couple of times, but it didn’t last long, I’ve got to know them better.

A man shouldn't make his life's objective to be on the side of the majority, but to avoid finding himself in the ranks of the insane. (Marcus Aurelius)

[Shadow1275Participant 1178]

I did, only after she told me she loved me first. At least I didn’t fall for her first. But love to women is different than love to men. Men wrote the marriage vows: Till death do us part. Women think the deal is all about them and temporary.

And no, let my heart grow cold. It will never happen again

He who is Brave is Free - Seneca

[Anonymous 0]

Title looks the same to me, but I’ll go for it. I will say that I had what I thought was love a couple of times. In reality it might have been just lust or infatuation or something. I’ve had a feeling of responsibility to provide and whatever else a husband’s supposed to do. I think I may have missed the love boat.

Now, I have seen a few older couples that might actually be in love. I’m amazed at how close they are and think to myself that I can never be like that. That, whatever it is that they have, must be love.

[AntipathyParticipant 4901]

Akanbi wrote:

My answer is NO.

I’ve only had dopamine rush through my brain and adrenal glands, which enhanced the release of testosterone in my body.

Dopamine then affected various organs, including my genitals, my sweat glands, and also my senses.

As a consequence of dopamine being released, my mood and emotions were also influenced, leading to feelings of excitement and happiness.

Meanwhile, the testosterone increased sexual desire, but also increased “aggressive” behaviour.

All these chemical activities that were going on in my body were then heavily backed up with the blue pills I’ve been fed with since birth.

This eventually pushed me to pursue the bitch who was fueling this intense response.

-What’s your own answer?

Absolutely brilliant ! Psychologically, humans can be very messed up and complex, but this is spot on, “LOVE” is actually something that’s not extremely complicated when you break down the biological causation, because the biological & chemical aspect, is more responsible for it, than the psychological aspect i think.

[Anonymous 14]

I once thought I was in love, but in hindsight it was just my youthful b~~~~ in need of draining of an over abundance of stupid juice.

[Can’t Stump TrumpParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Define love.

I agree. Ask a question like this, and everyone just answers according to his own understanding of the word “love.” It’s bad enough that men and women mean completely different things by the word, even fellow men don’t necessarily use it in the same way.

If by LOVE you mean extended sexual attraction, I suspect the answer is “yes” for everyone. You can’t defeat your biology.

If by LOVE you mean the desire to live with one woman for the rest of your life and take care of her, I think the results may be split. This is no longer just a matter of biology, but also of choice.

As for me, I’ve experienced both. I actually like the idea of living with a woman and having children with her in a system of mutual support and affection. I also wouldn’t mind providing for her by working in the public sphere, provided that she pulled her weight with the washing, cooking, cleaning, and taking care of the kids, and also understood that the money belongs to ME because I’m the one who made it.

That being said, this is not possible in reality, because you have no rights as a father, your wife will monkey-branch the first chance she gets, her beauty will quickly disappear the moment she no longer needs your attraction, and as for her bringing anything to the relationship, FORGET ABOUT IT. Yes, I’ve been in love, but to act on those feelings would’ve been foolish.

Women are better at multitasking? Fucking up several things at once is not multitasking.

[IntellectualSaviorParticipant 1238]

I have fallen in love before. But after years I have ralized that it’s all in the mind, it’s a mirage, I would go into details but it would take long paragraphs to explain.

Lust on the other hand is more sane feeling than love, because lust is what we need, love is a beggar.

When I have a pen in my hands, it's lethal.

[AkanbiParticipant 2120]

BlacqueJacqueShellacque wrote:

I trusted too much

I think most of us here did, BJS. We did so with hopes that our actions and feelings towards them will be reciprocated…only for them to show us that they had other intentions from the onset.

MGTOW_Mike wrote:

I am glad she turned me down. I am doing exactly what Rick is recommending to Morty, focus on science.

You’re a lucky man, Mike. Focusing on anything productive, fun and self improving is way more worth it and more beneficial to a man’s sanity than any piece of ass.

My brother make you no follow sheeple o. Look them and Go Your Way.

[BlacqueJacqueShellacqueParticipant 6890]

Akanbi wrote:

reciprocated

I love English!

[AkanbiParticipant 2120]

JVB wrote:

She made it clear that her and chad thaught differently.

Well, JVB. Like Shadow has correctly stated:

Shadow1275 wrote:

love to women is different than love to men…. Women think the deal is all about them and temporary.

My brother make you no follow sheeple o. Look them and Go Your Way.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Anonymous wrote:

Define love.

Love is what you GIVE. Even if doesn’t come back to you.
The people we give the most to…. are the ones we “love” the most.

( that’s how I define it )

So….

Have you ever fallen in love with a woman before?

Being “in love” is something else.

“Falling in love” ( with one woman ) is just the illusion that she differs from another.
So yes, I have subscribed to that illusion more than once.

I don’t actually need a woman in my life to have plenty of love in it. I can love my work. My car. My free time. My friends. My SELF. . . . .

The people we give the most to – are the ones we “love” the most.
A man just needs to make sure he is the recipient of a healthy amount of what he has to give.

—

To a woman, love is what she GETS. And if she’s not “getting”, she is miserable.

…. except for Catherine Hepburn, who seemed to understand “love” better than most women. She the only woman I have heard say “love is what you give”. The rest of them seem to have an ass-backwards understanding of it and speak as though it’s sometime they FIND that’s supposed to magically COME to them.

Even Celine Dion sings “love comes to those who believe it”.
Such complete bulls~~~. Believe it.

I have even heard them complain about how hard “motherhood” is. Like it’s a drag. As if they are expecting the baby to pop out wearing a tuxedo and ask “is there any I can do you for YOU, mum?”.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[joetechParticipant]

I haven’t really been in love since my first wife. Something died in me during those years and I haven’t had that feeling since. I can understand how hard it must be for other guys that are in love to lose a girlfriend or wife. I think once your first love is gone that you’re never the same again. I’ve gone decades without actually being in love, and I’m glad looking back on it. Wife #2 left and my ex GF ran me off. Not being in love with either of them saved me a lot of heartbreak. I guess I’ve learned to ‘Harden my heart’ as the song says.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[AkanbiParticipant 2120]

Anonymous wrote:

I will say that I had what I thought was love a couple of times

Yes exactly. Blue pill training/programming/indoctrination has led men to THINK that what they have with women is “love” (6th paragraph of the OP).

*It seems that the composition of my title didn’t come across to you the way I intended.

Can’t Stump Trump wrote:

If by LOVE you mean extended sexual attraction, I suspect the answer is “yes” for everyone. You can’t defeat your biology.

Yup. That’s exactly what I meant by “love” in this context…and also some of the actions we (used to) take to attain it.

My brother make you no follow sheeple o. Look them and Go Your Way.

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