Had to put my mother in her place today

[AwakenedParticipant 35200]

SolidusX wrote:

I got an email back this morning actually from my mom saying she understands what I was saying and thankfully will back off

You know your mother, Do you really think it’s over “permanently” ? She might just be taking a little break, and will come back at you once the dust settles.

The best predictor of future behavior is past behavior. If her and you father have been after you for years, it very well might come right back up. I hope not for your sake, but don’t be surprised if you start hearing it again.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[narwhalParticipant]

Agreed that is not likely to be over. I’m 43 and way past having issues with my mother, but I would say that I’ve had plenty of discussions with my mother regarding the nature of modern marriage and women, and I honestly think she may try and talk me out of it I told her I wanted to remarry at this point.

Anyone who tells you marriage is good for you is never going to get below the surface. They will speak broadly and never look to deeply. So, the best way to counteract that is to speak specifically and look deep. For example talk about equality in terms of money and only that. Keep it in small palatable bits. There’s a decent chance they will grant you the battle, but still feel like they’ve one the war. Once you’ve one a few battles, they will come easier and easier to the point where your parents don’t even bother to challenge you on it.

At least, that’s what seems to work for me. However, if they refuse to listen and consider the possibility that they’re incorrect for whatever reason, then it’s pointless.

Ok. Then do it.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Anonymous wrote:

I totally agree. there is a saying, that “If she says you don’t need to wear condom, that is when you really need to wear condom.”

If she says you don’t need to wear a condom, that is when you really need to get a vasectomy. And document the f~~~ out of it.

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

Thats never fun, getting fights with mother. Their suppose to support you, not go along with the feminists propaganda.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[Masculine_ManParticipant 2735]

I don’t get this from my mother, she knows better than to ask me. My grandmother bothers me every now and again but the answer still remains a firm, NO. Marriage, kids, live in meathole does not sound appealing.

If it costs you your peace of mind, then it is too expensive.

[SolidusXParticipant 854]

I just do not understand it why women are baby crazy, probably has something to do with hormones or some s~~~. Was at a halloween party last night and a buddy of mine who has been married for less than a year was with his wife and all the f~~~en wife could do was talk about babies with her stupid fat friends. I could see the look of defeat on his face…. It reminds me of a caged animal that fire and fight in their eyes is just gone.

Knowledge is power..... Don't waste your brain on bullshit

[Anonymous 3]

narwhal wrote:

Anyone who tells you marriage is good for you is never going to get below the surface.

Anyone who tells you marriage or relationship or similar is good for you,
1. will not help you to deal with the s~~~load of stress that a marriage/relationship will put on you,
2. will not help you to earn twice the money to feed and care wife and kids,
3. can not give you your free time and hobbies or full night sleeps back,
4. does not help you out in case of false violence accusation
5. when it ends (and it will, human relationships have finite lifetime), they will not pay the child support and alimony for you.
So why care for their opinion?

And for the “NAWALT” argument, if they use it: If there is that kind of girl out there, it is very damn small percentage.
1. Hundred messages or else per date. Ten or more dates per something useful result. And a lot of these for one that may last a few years. And how many of these are needed to find the NAWALT? Easy to conclude, one can waste his own lifetime for trying to find her. And there are these false-rape accusations, sperm theft, and all the other things. And the definition of “being stupid” is to do the same thing over and over and expect different results.
And, spending time to find a Nawalt anyway would take away time from more useful stuff. But you may sooner and easier land in jail than successfully find a nawalt.
2. I’m not good at blah blah nonsense fluff talk. I don’t care for the scandals of celebrities and private life of TV-show people, and similar topics that girls always talk about.
3. I’m introverted, I feel better alone in silence. Except colleagues and other men, during daytime. (At least we talk about hobby and work stuff, and other useful things. Or beers, coffee, wine, pizza, whatever except girlish topics.)
4. I’m not rich yet, don’t have a fancy car (not even a drivers licence yet), and I don’t yet have my own place. And I definitely don’t want to take bank loans that I would then need to pay for decades. By the time I earned the price of all these things, I will be at least 40-something, with not much libido, so then I won’t give a f~~~ about dating. Not to mention, I’m not famous yet, and might probably be 60-something until I achieve that. Let’s say, at 60 I won’t give any more f~~~s at all on dating. (And even if I get famous in science sooner, most women only recognize movie stars and TV-show celebrities as famous, so it doesn’t count.)

SolidusX wrote:

I just do not understand it why women are baby crazy, probably has something to do with hormones or some s~~~.

1
Probably. I think a human baby or child is annoying, loud, and dangerous to itself and others (by doing random things because it does not have any common sense yet) and definitely not cute.

[SolidusXParticipant 854]

Anonymous wrote:

narwhal wrote:

Anyone who tells you marriage is good for you is never going to get below the surface.

SolidusX wrote:

I just do not understand it why women are baby crazy, probably has something to do with hormones or some s~~~.

1
Probably. I think a human baby or child is annoying, loud, and dangerous to itself and others (by doing random things because it does not have any common sense yet) and definitely not cute.

Ugh tell me about it…. Babies, Children, and Teenagers are all quite annoying and irritating people that we have to deal with. My current gf is one of those people that gets attracted to glitz and glamour very quickly without knowing what it takes to get to that glitz and glamour. I have to tell her many times that those few precious moments where the baby or child is not terrorizing or destroying everything was managed by the poor ragged saps that had to control the kid. Once I put things into perspective she is like “Oh yeah that does seem bad”…. no s~~~ it’s bad. Kids made sense in the 1900’s when you needed more farm hands but in this day in age they really do not make sense anymore.

Knowledge is power..... Don't waste your brain on bullshit

[Anonymous 3]

SolidusX wrote:

people that gets attracted to glitz and glamour very quickly without knowing what it takes to get to that glitz and glamour.

True!

About kids: in the current state of the things, children are a liability. (especially if one divorces and has to pay child support), but anyway, I’m not sure the tax reductions for the children and similar stuff are enough financially, and that it takes a lot of patience that not everyone has, a lot of otherwise free time, and probably it would take lot of psychology courses or whatever to be a good parent and not mess up or spoil the child. Anyway, I choose MGTOW and full nights of sleep and a creative life, other people choose to have big family and average mainstream life. Probably they are masochists or whatever, and enjoy that annoying stuff. I don’t know. But everyone has to have some respect for decisions of other people, and not blah-blah into their lives.

[SolidusXParticipant 854]

Anonymous wrote:

SolidusX wrote:

people that gets attracted to glitz and glamour very quickly without knowing what it takes to get to that glitz and glamour.

True!

About kids: in the current state of the things, children are a liability. (especially if one divorces and has to pay child support), but anyway, I’m not sure the tax reductions for the children and similar stuff are enough financially, and that it takes a lot of patience that not everyone has, a lot of otherwise free time, and probably it would take lot of psychology courses or whatever to be a good parent and not mess up or spoil the child. Anyway, I choose MGTOW and full nights of sleep and a creative life, other people choose to have big family and average mainstream life. Probably they are masochists or whatever, and enjoy that annoying stuff. I don’t know. But everyone has to have some respect for decisions of other people, and not blah-blah into their lives.

I 100% agree that kids are in this day in age a negative liability, they are a drain to me anyway. I feel bad for the poor saps that have to drag around snot nosed whiny screaming kids around a mall or some other shopping area and for us people that have to listen to the screaming. I wish there were more adults only places or at least red pill only places lol.

Knowledge is power..... Don't waste your brain on bullshit

[AkanbiParticipant 2120]

SolidusX wrote:

I just do not understand it why women are baby crazy

That’s because reproduction is a major function of females…if not their primary function.

You see, this is the beauty of nature: no matter how much you try to disrupt it, nature can’t be completely dismissed.

An average woman produces an average of only 500 eggs in her lifetime.
Some women hit menopause as early as age 35.
So if she’s not able to reproduce at least once during the period she’s able to produce eggs, there’s this natural feeling of not being accomplished that overwhelms her.

No matter how much women try to deny that they don’t serve more functions than sex and reproduction (and maybe, nurturing toddlers), nature still says otherwise.

My brother make you no follow sheeple o. Look them and Go Your Way.

[AkanbiParticipant 2120]

Keymaster wrote:

Marriage is not a sign of maturity or responsibility

Lol. As an African man, try saying this to your people.

My brother make you no follow sheeple o. Look them and Go Your Way.

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