Grooming Malaysian Girl

[ShinyParticipant 2307]

San Soo Sifu – good luck with whatever you decide, but remember, there are endless stories on here about women who are chameleons (which is also my personal experience with a Malaysian girl). The more she accepts your rules, the more she is trying to convince you she’s the one.

It’s not who she is. It’s what she wants you to see.

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

ILiveAgain wrote:

That crunching noise as you walk …… are the charred bones of those who went before.

lol! Some of you guys should do stand up!

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

San Soo Sifu wrote:

Like many Westerners, my eyes are looking to the East to find a possible unicorn.
I am currently texting and phone conversations with a Malaysian Chinese girl 20 years younger than myself (I am 49 years old, and she is 29 years old).
She is a born again Christian who understands the passages in the Holy Bible that spells out for women to submit to their husbands. (I am not an egalitarian, I am old school — women need a real man, a short leash, and a very small allowance.)
I am very careful to observe behavior that is questionable, and raises any red flags.
When she displays behavior I don’t agree with or like; I let her know it is not acceptable.
For example, when she told me that I should always be the one to initiate contact with her (via text messages and phone calls); I told her that is not going to happen. It needs to be roughly equal between us, or she is going to be very lonely and disappointed waiting for me.
I respectfully request any useful suggestions to further groom her to a suitable and acceptable mindset.
Yes, if it ever does come to any possible marriage; she will be signing as ironclad pre-nup, as legally possible, to protect not only me, but what I plan on bequeathing to my fraternal twin sons (10 years old).

Just dont do it! You have used your time to gather info from the MGTOW community just to go back and do the same as a guy who never entered this arena? Remember its not more or less the actual women, its the SYSTEM they us to extract resources. The SYSTEM is not in your favor and could care less about some silly prenup at the judges discretion. So no matter how nice she is or nawalt she claims to be you cant outmaneuver the SYSTEM which is geared to f~~~ YOU!

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[OneforfreedomParticipant 930]

Keymaster wrote:

She turned out to be one of my top 5 all-time nightmares.

I’m curious- what did she do? Can you share some details?

[GrotesqueRogueParticipant 116]

I recommend you spending time here and reading posts. You will find some guys who shared their stories about their Asian gf/wives. Read them and think.

You will get burnt. If that’s the only thing that can teach you a lesson – go ahead, this is your life, no one here can make you do something.

And another thing. About the Bible verses. As far as I remember, it’s part of some cultures to instill this knowledge in the heads of girls. They know that it is a requirement. Does knowing this mean that she believes in it? No. Does this mean that she will always follow it once she gets what she wants? No. And you see… it seems a sales pitch. You know why? Because she learnt something by heart, and you already bought it.

Think twice.

You want to spend time with her? At least don’t sign the marriage contract. And firmly state that this is your requirement. If she doesn’t agree, you know what it means.

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8283]

If you want your sons to inherit part of your assets after you get married, I suggest you talk to a lawyer about setting up a family trust BEFORE the marriage. Good luck, pal.

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

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