Grooming Malaysian Girl

[San Soo SifuParticipant 7]

Like many Westerners, my eyes are looking to the East to find a possible unicorn.

I am currently texting and phone conversations with a Malaysian Chinese girl 20 years younger than myself (I am 49 years old, and she is 29 years old).

She is a born again Christian who understands the passages in the Holy Bible that spells out for women to submit to their husbands. (I am not an egalitarian, I am old school — women need a real man, a short leash, and a very small allowance.)

I am very careful to observe behavior that is questionable, and raises any red flags.

When she displays behavior I don’t agree with or like; I let her know it is not acceptable.

For example, when she told me that I should always be the one to initiate contact with her (via text messages and phone calls); I told her that is not going to happen. It needs to be roughly equal between us, or she is going to be very lonely and disappointed waiting for me.

I respectfully request any useful suggestions to further groom her to a suitable and acceptable mindset.

Yes, if it ever does come to any possible marriage; she will be signing as ironclad pre-nup, as legally possible, to protect not only me, but what I plan on bequeathing to my fraternal twin sons (10 years old).

[RoyDalParticipant]

NAWALTs are statistical outliers, the same as winning lottery tickets. The odds are roughly the same.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[San Soo SifuParticipant 7]

I completely agree with you.

However, people do, in fact, win the lottery. I see illegal aliens winning it all the time! 🙂

[Big Viking Chef BVCParticipant 1286]

I have no advice on how to safely juggle maltov c~~~tails, sorry.

BVC

Swallow this RED PILL ===> Men will lay down their lives for their brothers, their women and their children. This makes Men useful as slaves. Women will lay down their lives for ONLY their children. To expect more from women is just a FANTASY created by society and reinforced by the unconditional love that we experienced from our Mothers. The key to freedom is the understanding that the woman you meet is not going to fantastically love you like your Mother did. If you buy into the fantasy, then she is your new master. If you do not buy into the fantasy, then she is nothing, and you retain your freedom.

[YAZParticipant 140]

You need a maid. Or a dog. The lure of Western riches will make any Malaysian gal succumb over the internet, phone, etc. Your unicorn is most likely a donkey with an artificial appendage. Use the money that you spend on minutes and data usage for a sexy Nevada whore.

Whore Magnet

[Swen AugustParticipant 373]

pre-nups have been ruled “unreasonable” and are being thrown out of court.

[Dark KenshiParticipant 2132]

There is no s~~~ as a NAWALT.

Not even in the East.

Don’t even bother looking, brother… The moment you sign the “marriage contract”, s~~~ will fall on your head harder than rocks.

If you still want to marry, even after having all the knowledge that is within MGTOW.com, then be my guest.

But, never say that you have NOT been warned. It is YOUR CHOICE, YOUR WAY, after all.

So, you know what is better FOR YOU.

We here have gave up, because we KNOW that we will never find the unicorn.

"Young was I once, I walked alone, and bewildered seemed in the way; then I found me another and rich I thought me, for man is the joy of man." Odin, Hàvamàl, stanza 47.

[uchibenkeiParticipant 7965]

Quitting her job to “take care of you” is not acceptable.

I bathe in the tears of single moms.

[QcummerParticipant 652]

you sir, are an idiot.

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

I was going to add my 2 cents here on what it costs me, but it appears it would be wasted effort. See you on the other side, after it all goes up in smoke and 16 yrs of your life is over. That’s how many it costs me, and that was just the time I was married, that doesn’t include all the other s~~~, or time trying to recover from it.

you should listen to this before you sign the legal binding contract,

[KeymasterKeymaster]

A prenup is toilet paper, and you are more likely to meet a NAWALT unicorn on an acid trip.

I met a 100% pure Japanese NAWALT unicorn in 2009. Not only was she the most perfect f~~~ doll of my wildest dreams, she did some things no woman ever did. When we would go out to eat and order — say, a pizza — before she took anything for herself , she would take MY plate….. ask me what I wanted, put it on my plate, hand it to me with both hands, look me in the eye, smile, and say “thank you for dinner”…..

….. BEFORE dinner.

A nothing gesture that was virtually zero effort for her, and it made ALL the difference. It put in her in a class of female so separate from any other, I would have put my hand in the fire for this one.

She turned out to be one of my top 5 all-time nightmares.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Dark KenshiParticipant 2132]

Keymaster wrote:

A prenup is toilet paper, and you are more likely to meet a NAWALT unicorn on an acid trip.
I met a 100% pure Japanese NAWALT unicorn in 2009. Not only was she the most perfect f~~~ doll of my wildest dreams, she did some things no woman ever did. When we would go out to eat and order — say, a pizza — before she took anything for herself , she would take MY plate….. ask me what I wanted, put it on my plate, hand it to me with both hands, look me in the eye, smile, and say “thank you for dinner”…..
….. BEFORE dinner.
A nothing gesture that was virtually zero effort for her, and it made ALL the difference. It put in her in a class of female so separate from any other, I would have put my hand in the fire for this one.
She turned out to be one of my top 5 all-time nightmares.

That is what they do FOR ETIQUETTE, Key… They are taught this EARLY in their life, so that they ALWAYS be like this, polite and s~~~.

But it ALWAYS turns out as you said, after the marriage contract is signed, they turn into bloody demons! Read about the “Hannya” myth in Japan…

They even HAVE A MYTHOLOGICAL CREATURE to describe what a woman turns AFTER the marriage.

That is why I always reinforce… There is NO S~~~ as a NAWALT. AWALT, always.

"Young was I once, I walked alone, and bewildered seemed in the way; then I found me another and rich I thought me, for man is the joy of man." Odin, Hàvamàl, stanza 47.

[San Soo SifuParticipant 7]

Thank you all, for your perspectives. I truly appreciate your time and effort. Again, thank you.

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

Keymaster wrote:

A nothing gesture that was virtually zero effort for her, and it made ALL the difference. It put in her in a class of female so separate from any other, I would have put my hand in the fire for this one.

Thanks for sharing that, I never even heard of anything like that before, on everything she did before dinner.
That’s a smooth sucker punch, glad I am now aware of that tactic.

San Soo Sifu wrote:

Thank you all, for your perspectives. I truly appreciate your time and effort. Again, thank you.

It is a harsh reality to face & accept, but failure to do so only leads to misery & torment, to put it mildly IMHO

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

Be careful what you wish for. That crunching noise as you walk …… are the charred bones of those who went before.

NO pussy is worth the risk ….

NO PUSSY EVER.

[The Moth Attracted to the FlameParticipant 2982]

RoyDal wrote:

NAWALTs are statistical outliers, the same as winning lottery tickets. The odds are roughly the same.

Oh yea, I’ll agree on this!

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Phantom wrote:

Thanks for sharing that, I never even heard of anything like that before, on everything she did before dinner.
That’s a smooth sucker punch, glad I am now aware of that tactic.

There is a very seriously dangerous trap you can fall into here – and many men do.
They make a VERY tragic mistake in thinking because ONE woman is “so awesome”, that she’s a NAWALT and you can’t let her go.

My needle has redlined toward “NAWALT” maybe 3 times. I put it in those terms because it’s dangerous. You can’t think of a girl as “awesome” just because other women are not. She actually has to BE “better”. It was something that made her “outstanding”, but at the same time…… just because there isn’t a single woman in 50 states who would ever do that, doesn’t make her exceptional.

You MUST put it in it’s proper perspective.

A guy mentioned (here) a couple of months ago that he had a blue -pill friend who was about 30 and he was reflecting on his college girlfriend. He said “she is the only woman who ever LOOKED AT ME LIKE THAT”…. and he was still obsessing and regretting breaking with her many years later, JUST because she batted her eyelashes a certain way. That’s his justification for wanting to go back in time and propose marriage – because she LOOKED at him a certain way.

No.

This girl ( I was speaking about) was outstanding, but not really. As nice as it was, it was totally wrong of me to think “I would put my hand in the fire for this one”. Just because an American girl expects a man to pay and she reaches for a menu to order whatever she wants…. doesn’t mean you drop to your knees in awe of the foreign kind who FINALLY shows some consideration for a man who is paying for her meal. That’s how women who have dinner bought for them SHOULD behave. It’s actually not that amazing….. it’s quite minimal and nearly effortless. The gesture actually costs her nothing. Not even time or effort. It’s just polite and respectful.

Men really need to keep their eyes open and put into perspective what to be impressed by.

Lets say dinner costs you $80 that night. In order to afford that after taxes and all expenses, a man needs to work AT LEAST long enough to earn $800 to be able to throw away $80 on a meal. Did she ever put that kind of effort forth to feed ME one time? Did she work at least an entire afternoon to prepare a lasagna for 3 hours? Did she even get out of bed to squeeze me some oranges or make an omellete? No. She took the plate, asked me what I wanted, smiled and thanked me for dinner – before dinner.

NAWALTS will often maintain the are NAWALTs because they “won’t ever destroy a man in divorce”. That’s their sales pitch and they think this is enough to earn them “special” status. But that’s like a man saying “I have never been to prison” while expecting to get a medal or a star in heaven for that! It’s actually quite laughable!!

Think twice before you allow yourself to be “blown away” by your NAWALT unicorn.

Better yet….. think 5 times.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

It’s all Bait and Switch.

There’s always free cheese in a trap.

NEVER sign on the dotted line.

You have more fun sticking to test drives, anyways, so why buy?

[Anonymous 42]

Melanesian or Malaysian, all grenades explode with the same destructive force! F~~~ that! MGMOW; Me Gone My Own Way!

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

Keymaster wrote:

NAWALTS will often maintain the are NAWALTs because they “won’t ever destroy a man in divorce”. That’s their sales pitch and they think this is enough to earn them “special” status. But that’s like a man saying “I have never been to prison” while expecting to get a medal or a star in heaven for that! It’s actually quite laughable!!

Think twice before you allow yourself to be “blown away” by your NAWALT unicorn.

Better yet….. think 5 times.

Wow man, the way you laid that whole thing out.
In all seriousness, thank you for sharing all that.
Enlightening & informative beyond my ability to even articulate it.

Sidecar & Tower, your words also ring loud and true to me as well…glad I popped back in here. Would have missed some excellent wisdom.

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