Got my house back

[HermitParticipant]

NoMore wrote:

I left work at 11pm and came back to the house I bought. She has moved out and in with her parents. The echos remind me of the failed dreams for a home and family I’d hoped for.

I do feel occasional pangs of sadness. These are overwhelmed by the emotional abuse I suffered and the lying in court she did. I was greeted by my 2 dogs I have rarely seen over the past year. They were so excited to have their dad home at last.

I wander through the empty rooms, the man cave, my son’s room, my bedroom. I reflect on those memories sadly. I know the melancholy will fade.

But…. I have my damn house back. It’s a small step, but damn it feels good to see my backyard, watch my dogs play, and just walk around.

I’m still waiting on the final ruling, but I have my house back!

There was a virus in your home called “woman”. She made the home sick and now that the virus has been removed, the home can heal. Some symptoms of the sickness that the virus caused may still be there, but they will soon be gone and the house will be 100% completely healthy and happy again. Red pills are the inoculation to keep the home virus free from now on.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[Puffin StuffParticipant 25017]

Notice how much easier it is to think clearly now that your back in familiar surroundings? That is one of the tricks of the divorce game. Men are made to leave the marriage home and if they don’t she just makes “that call”.

Then you are stuck in a studio apt or, like me, sharing an apt with a stranger. It’s hard to get your bearings.

Women have the luxury of riding out the divorce war in her comfy little house you so lovingly bought for her.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[LosPukeParticipant 514]

My own personal experience from 12 years ago during my divorce was not what I recommend for you. I was overwhelmed with depression that my parasite had left me.

If I EVER get another house in the future, I will man cave the f~~~ out of it as CuckSniper advises. How would that look for me?

First, I would make 1 of the 3 bedrooms into a hot tub room. Then I might make another bedroom my own personal home gym, since going to the gym is a gynocentric affair now. I might put a pool table in the dining room. Or perhaps a PlaySeat with 3 monitors with wheel and pedals to mimic driving on Project Cars 2. Out in the garage, I would have a refrigerator/keg kit with my favorite brew on tap at all times.

I don’t know…the possibilities are endless. A movie theater room with an old school McIntosh amplifier powering the latest and greatest surround sound system, along with whatever kickass 100″ screen TV technology is available. Perhaps, even a grow room with half a dozen strains of kick ass indica growing.

I don’t think I would ever invite anyone over…EVER! If a friend wants to hang out, we could have a beer/dinner at a neutral place or at his place. My house, my sanctuary. No one else makes it past the front door.

[MgtowWaveParticipant 4352]

The pain does fade .

Im very sorry you are going thru this .

I know how it feels .

It COULD have been much much worse for me than it was .

SO

I have determined NEVER to go thru that s~~~ again .

MGTOW .

frankly my dear i don't give a damn

[BrainPilotParticipant 7640]

From a guy I know who went through divorce 4 times, but still ended up a millionaire (smart in business and ruthless AF): If you get the house, you won. If you need to lie to get the house, then LIE. If you need to cry and beg to get the house, then CRY AND BEG. If you need to negotiate, then NEGOTIATE. Do whatever you have to do. According to this guy, the house is the biggest prize in the marriage, aside from the kids. But the kids are only valuable to the two of you. You can never sell them. But the house is not only valuable to other people, the amount that you can sell it for increase every year that you live in it.

You buy a house new for a certain price. You live in it (use it) for 10 years and sell it for more than you bought it. Nothing else works that way. Used cars, used tools, used machines all go down in value from when they are new. Houses go up. Whatever else happens, get the house.

Pay attention to the posts above about time. Time not only lessens the pain, it increases the value of your house. It brings (back) peace of mind which you can better enjoy in your house. It allows opportunities to restore and improve mental and physical health. It allows for hobbies and sports, both of which are made easier if you have your own house.

The clock starts when the divorce is final, and the house is yours. The sadness of what is not there will very soon be replaced by the opportunities for happiness provided by what is still there.

Tick, tock. Time is very much on your side.

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

[NoMoreParticipant 1233]

Sorry for the late reply. I’ve spent the better part of 2 days surveying the house. Though she’s lived in it for the past year and a half with me paying all the expenses, you couldn’t tell it. I’m sure she cancelled the lawn service, maid, and pest service and pocketed all the money.

However, damn right I’m keeping the house. It’s a great house on a 3/4 acre lot in the city and is close to my work. I’ve already talked with the mortgage person to re-fi her off the mortgage. I’ve had the locks re-keyed. Met with the lawyer to submit all the paperwork. Now, I’m waiting on the judge to decide. In a week or two, I should be done.

And my dogs are glad to have me back home.

A co-worker recently told me, "If you want to see who someone really is, divorce them." I have found out how true this is. When your wife drops the façade of being the caring partner, you will witness all of the greed, hate, and spite that she has masked. It is truly breathtaking!

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