Got my house back

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  • #831726
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    NoMore
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    I left work at 11pm and came back to the house I bought. She has moved out and in with her parents. The echos remind me of the failed dreams for a home and family I’d hoped for.

    I do feel occasional pangs of sadness. These are overwhelmed by the emotional abuse I suffered and the lying in court she did. I was greeted by my 2 dogs I have rarely seen over the past year. They were so excited to have their dad home at last.

    I wander through the empty rooms, the man cave, my son’s room, my bedroom. I reflect on those memories sadly. I know the melancholy will fade.

    But…. I have my damn house back. It’s a small step, but damn it feels good to see my backyard, watch my dogs play, and just walk around.

    I’m still waiting on the final ruling, but I have my house back!

    A co-worker recently told me, "If you want to see who someone really is, divorce them." I have found out how true this is. When your wife drops the façade of being the caring partner, you will witness all of the greed, hate, and spite that she has masked. It is truly breathtaking!

    #831729
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    Anonymous
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    Awesome news! Sorry about the sad feelings but as you say they will pass.

    #831732
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    NoMore
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    Awesome news! Sorry about the sad feelings but as you say they will pass.

    They are fading fast brother. I’m sitting in my chair on the back porch with a nice cold drink. My dogs are roaming around the back yard as if I never left. My healing is progressing swiftly.

    A co-worker recently told me, "If you want to see who someone really is, divorce them." I have found out how true this is. When your wife drops the façade of being the caring partner, you will witness all of the greed, hate, and spite that she has masked. It is truly breathtaking!

    #831734
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    Foolsgold
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    Good for you. Keep in mind it was just an illusion. Also keep in mind your dogs will NEVER turn on you.

    #831735
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    NerdTunneler
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    Congratulations brother…The memories will linger but now you get to create new memories and enjoy your awesome life…

    There is peace…there is freedom…a lot of possibilities…Your house…your rules…

    I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

    #831736
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    Untamed
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    Happy for you!
    Don’t lose it to another bitch.

    Enjoy your dogs and the peace and quiet.
    🍺

    Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
    Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
    #GenderSegragationNow!

    #831737
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    Freedom
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    Good, now you should sell it and move out to somewhere else, it’s not healthy for you to stay there

    #831739
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    Carnage
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    Ahhhh soon I will have my own place.

    Watch the trees grow, the dog play, relax with my feet up, watch the sky in and enjoy the summer breeze.

    Soon I will be a free men.

    To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

    #831741
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    Anonymous
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    That sounds awesome.

    You can now combine the “roots” aspect of the property with the fact that it is empty and ready for the future.
    And you know what?
    Make sure of one thing, and one thing only.

    The whole house is a man-cave now and for all eternity to come.

    The Beer&Billiard Bar, the Computer room, the Mechanical Workshop, The Walk in fridge (heineken ad?) and the Library/Study.

    Reassign these rooms to a future use immediately.
    This is your estate.

    Welcome home.

    #831748
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    K
    Hitman
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    i have been in similar situation
    make sure to remove ALL of her things,
    and send them to her.
    everything.
    if you decide to stay make all of the space YOURS.
    a radio can be a great help,
    find some station you like and it will keep you company.
    a talk station is always good,
    it really helps to avoid feeling lonely.
    .
    remember that ALONE is not the same as lonely.
    and slowly remodel the place.
    a new paint job on the walls will help.
    get rid of clutter,
    and make it ALL YOURS!!!
    ENJOY IT.
    i am happy to hear good news.
    .
    when my ex left i thought it was the end of the world,
    it was actually a NEW beginning.
    a true blessing in disguise.

    #831762
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    743 roadmaster
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    I did not make it to far past the echos and moved out of my house. Regret it, Regret it, Regret it. At the time it was about 1/2 paid off.

    Congrats on getting your house back. It sounds like you are in a much better frame of mind then I was at your point. With the help of your dogs it should feel like home.

    mgtow is its own worst enemy- https://www.campusreform.org/

    #831765
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    Anonymous
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    Too bad for women in general, the scheme of the carousel has been applied to marriage, she’ll find another prince, but while she’s searching, make sure you deny who’s searching for you!

    Like chambers in a Gatling gun, the carousel will keep on firing for as long as men feed it ammunition! We are that ammunition!

    You can bet your bottom dollar that no matter what, with a modern women, in modern times, you will become an empty shell on the ground, disposed, or should we say “traded” for a live round to be fired and disposed of by her and her gynocentric man slandering legal system.

    It’s not a complected machine they created, you just have to keep yourself OFF THE FIRING RANGE!

    Let the machine run its course and carry these truths with you at all times!

    #831794
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    Anonymous
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    Too bad for women in general, the scheme of the carousel has been applied to marriage, she’ll find another prince, but while she’s searching, make sure you deny who’s searching for you!

    Like chambers in a Gatling gun, the carousel will keep on firing for as long as men feed it ammunition! We are that ammunition!

    #831796
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    DorkShit
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    Good, now you should sell it and move out to somewhere else, it’s not healthy for you to stay there

    Do not sell it.
    You are in the grieving process. (Far down the road brother)
    Do not make any big decisions yet.

    Make it YOURS!

    You are there. Sit in that chair and feel nothing. Bask in it. Let it envelope you.

    Nothing leads to no bad decisions.

    What should you do?
    Consult the conch!
    It says to do nothing.

    Peace brother

    Peace brothers

    #831809
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    Deadly Raver
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    congrats on getting the house back. Now turn it into your castle now and forever.

    Learn from the past, Control the present, and you will know the Future.

    #831822
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    IMickey503
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    My sister came over today and told me about another man Getting his freedom back. Yea, there is a kid now, but he wised up and saw right through all this bulls~~~.

    The c~~~ is back at her moms house. And with the 3 kids she had before. THis C~~~ drove her last man to throw himself off a bridge.

    My sister strangely let him know about me. and MGTOW. Hhaha. Oh. the justice.

    DUDE is doing just what I told him to do. Say “IT WILL WORK OUT” while planing his whole exit plan out of it.

    Keep them on a hook, and tell them you need to work stuff out, and meantime, RUN RUN RUN.

    MGTOW is saving more lives each day.

    About the empty house. I wish I could tell you the pain goes away. It just gets more manageable. Men have hearts and souls. It takes a LONG time to kill that. But at least you know now it was all an Illusion.

    Do your best to keep in touch with your kids. But don’t stress it. The best way to do this is build yourself up.

    You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

    #831841
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    Ranger One
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    Good, now you should sell it and move out to somewhere else, it’s not healthy for you to stay there

    Depends. If he is like me, then he should stay.

    I stayed, and I don’t give a f~~~ about any old memories there. I’m making new ones. This summers memories will be of the blueberries, goji berries, bell peppers, hot peppers, squash, cucumbers, strawberries, corn, carrots, radishes, okra, tomatoes, beans, peas, and eggplants that I’ll be eating from the garden. Also limes, lemons and miracle fruit from the trees I bring in each winter. (Miracle fruit eaten first can make lemon juice taste like lemonade)

    All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

    #831901
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    Monk
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    Selling ‘because of bad memories’ means because of her.

    Selling means that she is still in control, dictating your actions.

    Keep it, it’s yours.

    It’s also a subtle reminder as to how and why you came so close to losing it.

    #831937
    FrostByte
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    The echos remind me of the failed dreams for a home and family I’d hoped for.

    Those dreams were put on you by society. All programming and carefully designed to make you think they were your dreams. Unplugging from the matrix is suppose to feel like failure – it was designed that way to prevent you from unplugging.

    If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

    #831973
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    CuckSniper
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    Selling ‘because of bad memories’ means because of her.

    Selling means that she is still in control, dictating your actions.

    Keep it, it’s yours.

    It’s also a subtle reminder as to how and why you came so close to losing it.

    I agree. Keep the house. However, he should make it his own. Add some new paint, make it manlier, mancave the entire house. 🙂

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