Good Friend Getting Used by Divorced Woman

[AwakenedParticipant 35214]

Nathan R. Jessep wrote:

. My view is that it’s shady on her part to keep accepting money/gifts when she knows that he wants a relationship and won’t even go on a real date with him.

It’s definitely shady, but as you know most women don’t turn down cash and prizes. Your friend just doesn’t know any better.

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[Nathan R. JessepParticipant 1102]

Jim01 wrote:

ha ha laughed at that!

but as others have said; this guy is being used as an emotional tampon. She is getting support and a walking ATM and he will be discarded later on when she no longer needs him.

but wtf is that all about hugging for an hour?! some people just never learn

That’s the most bizarre part about it and he thinks it’s perfectly normal for a ‘couple’ to do.

[AwakenedParticipant 35214]

Maybe you should remind him that they are not a “couple”, and explain the whole concept of being “friend Zoned”. Also, explain to him what an “orbiter” is, and it appears she may be setting him up for this role.

Additionally, you might add that you have been asking around without mentioning his name, and everyone agrees that he’s being used. Also, “hug” sessions MAY happen as a “couple” is falling asleep after some marathon sex, but “hour long” hug sessions are more then a little excessive regardless of he situation.

Then again, if you get into all this crap with him that he’s not capable of understanding, it may hurt your friendship with him. You have already warned him.

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[SwimcatParticipant 3600]

Sounds like she’s still hoping to put things back together with the ex. Your buddy needs to take a walk.

[Won'tGetFooledAgainParticipant 3299]

It is usually women that instigate the separation and they have had months if not years to prepare, hence why they are so emotionally cold and calculated about the whole thing. Separation for women is basically c~~~ carousel party time, first they get in shape, buy new lingerie and start f~~~ing 20 something guys for the SMV validation. Usually they will do all of these things before they actually separate from the husband.

As everybody has already said, your friend is being used as a wallet. Does your friend honestly believe that she has been separated for a year and hasn’t been inviting Tinder chads to just come over and f~~~ her?

For most men being divorce raped is the trigger they need to discover red pill, seems like your friend has still not realised the truth yet. You need to let him get on with it, red pill is a self realisation, it cannot be taught.

For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

[Jim01Participant 6678]

Nathan R. Jessep wrote:

Jim01 wrote:

ha ha laughed at that!

but as others have said; this guy is being used as an emotional tampon. She is getting support and a walking ATM and he will be discarded later on when she no longer needs him.

but wtf is that all about hugging for an hour?! some people just never learn

That’s the most bizarre part about it and he thinks it’s perfectly normal for a ‘couple’ to do.

it really is strange!

Even during my blue pill days I wouldn’t have done something like that. The TV must be on though as otherwise you would just stare at the wall lol

[Nathan R. JessepParticipant 1102]

Won'tGetFooledAgain wrote:

It is usually women that instigate the separation and they have had months if not years to prepare, hence why they are so emotionally cold and calculated about the whole thing. Separation for women is basically c~~~ carousel party time, first they get in shape, buy new lingerie and start f~~~ing 20 something guys for the SMV validation. Usually they will do all of these things before they actually separate from the husband.

As everybody has already said, your friend is being used as a wallet. Does your friend honestly believe that she has been separated for a year and hasn’t been inviting Tinder chads to just come over and f~~~ her?

For most men being divorce raped is the trigger they need to discover red pill, seems like your friend has still not realised the truth yet. You need to let him get on with it, red pill is a self realisation, it cannot be taught.

Yes, he really believes this because she’s his neighbor and sees her coming home with her kids at night. I don’t know the depths of his stalking so it’s possible that she’s getting babysitters to watch the kids while she bangs guys.

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Won'tGetFooledAgain wrote:

Does your friend honestly believe that she has been separated for a year and hasn’t been inviting Tinder chads to just come over and f~~~ her?

This is a very likely scenario especially with her coming home at night with the kids. I used to bang a divorced woman when I was in college. She’d have her kids disappeared before I arrived. Her friend would tend them while I tended her.

She dumps her kids with a friend then she heads straight to some dark parking lot where she and a Tinder Chad have a roll at it in the mini van. She’s most definitely getting c~~~ from somewhere possibly even her ex.

Having them not be over their ex’s is a very common problem. Your friend is going to be in for a rude awakening. Just have a handful of red pills at the ready and hope they take.

The fact she is accepting gifts from him tells me she has zero values other than me, me, me, me, me, me……..

[RhinoParticipant 3477]

This reminded me about the ladder theory that some guy posted I think 6 years ago could be longer. I will make a new thread on this theory so you all can read it if you want. Your friend would be termed as a cuddle bitch: someone who will never get to have sex with her but puts his time, energy, and money in the hopes of getting sexual gratification with her while all she uses him for his emotional support and to cuddle with him.

He put her already on a pedestal and ranked her high on his ladder while she put him on the friends ladder. Women have two ladders one for chad and one for friends. It will only get worse for him nothing good will come from his behavior but you warned him and he has to learn another hard lesson in life.

You can find the thread here. /forums/topic/the-ladder-theory/

[Nathan R. JessepParticipant 1102]

All right…I was told yesterday that he had finally sex with her. Going to take him at his word that he used protection. However, this bitch has her claws in him deep and they are now in a serious relationship.

I fully expect to hear soon that she’s pregnant with his child, followed by ‘we’re getting married’, followed by I’ll be paying for her two kids for the next 10-15 years and then their college tuition. Jesus f~~~ing christ.

[Chaff/FlareParticipant 3235]

Pregnant for sure. I was where he was once.

He still believes in the dream, family. He thought he just had bad luck the last time.

He is soooooo f~~~ed.

Dude, please please please send him here.

When you find yourself in the majority, it's time to reflect.

[AwakenedParticipant 35214]

This is the second go around for him. The first time he got out with sole custody of the kids, and no alimony payments. If he ends up marrying this divorcee dolly on the rebound, and the inevitable divorce happens, he won’t be so financially lucky as he was with the first one.

The first one became a dam drug whore, probably a crack or meth whore, just what is it going to take for your friend to learn his lesson ?? He seems like the kind of guy that likes to race cars, and after nearly killing himself in one horrific crash just can’t wait to jump behind the wheel again.

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[Chaff/FlareParticipant 3235]

Awakened wrote:

This is the second go around for him. The first time he got out with sole custody of the kids, and no alimony payments. If he ends up marrying this divorcee dolly on the rebound, and the inevitable divorce happens, he won’t be so financially lucky as he was with the first one.

The first one became a dam drug whore, probably a crack or meth whore, just what is it going to take for your friend to learn his lesson ?? He seems like the kind of guy that likes to race cars, and after nearly killing himself in one horrific crash just can’t wait to jump behind the wheel again.

I think I know exactly what he is thinking. Drugs did it. He has ZERO idea of the treachery of women.

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[AwakenedParticipant 35214]

Chaff/Flare wrote:

I think I know exactly what he is thinking. Drugs did it. He has ZERO idea of the treachery of women.

The sad part is that he is probably NOT thinking. When men “fall in love”, they think about as rationally as a crack head, but your point is well taken: “It will be different this time”, “This one LOVES me”, “It was ONLY because the last one became an addict, if she didn’t we would still be IN LOVE” bla, bla, bla, puke, puke, puke.

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[Nathan R. JessepParticipant 1102]

Awakened wrote:

Chaff/Flare wrote:

I think I know exactly what he is thinking. Drugs did it. He has ZERO idea of the treachery of women.

The sad part is that he is probably NOT thinking. When men “fall in love”, they think about as rationally as a crack head, but your point is well taken: “It will be different this time”, “This one LOVES me”, “It was ONLY because the last one became an addict, if she didn’t we would still be IN LOVE” bla, bla, bla, puke, puke, puke.

You couldn’t be more right. I told him he needs to get a vasectomy and he just laughed. He’s a really good guy but that blue pill is more addictive than heroin.

[~BSParticipant 3266]

you can lead a horse to water, but cannot force him to drink it if he’d rather taste the blue koolaid.

"He didn't marry until now, so he won't ever do it. Think about it, why would a man like him ever marry? It's too late to catch him. " ~some cunt

[AwakenedParticipant 35214]

Nathan R. Jessep wrote:

You couldn’t be more right. I told him he needs to get a vasectomy and he just laughed. He’s a really good guy but that blue pill is more addictive than heroin.

As Jack Nicholsen DIDN”T say: “He doesn’t want the truth, He can’t handle the truth!!” Your friend is doomed; tell us the date of the wedding!

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[SteelCityBlueParticipant 5]

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