Gone to jail with my parents!!

[rajshekarParticipant 46]

Dear friends,

P.S = Sorry for my bad English.

I am from India!

I have just seen this wonderful website and joined immediately.

I got married on 2011, from there on i have started to see the real world!

She did not allow for <span data-dobid=”hdw”>consummation by saying she was afraid! i believed her and didn’t force her. And only after a week, she picked up a fight against me and my parents and left the house and stayed with her parents for 3 months!
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Later after three months, she stayed for a month. I with my parents planned for her birthday to be done grandly, while we are in preparation for her birthday, she again picked up a fight and left! This time she stayed for 5 months.

 

This continued for for past three years! to be frank, i never touched my wife let alone having sex!

Now on 2013 Just, she picked up a fight again, this time she did the un-expected ! She lodged a police compliant (498a, dvact) against me and my parents. My parents were not living me us, because she doesn’t want anyone in my house.

 

This was so unexpected the next early morning at 6AM police came and took us to PS. From there we tried to contact them for compromising, but they didn’t want to.

I was literally in tears, my aged parents , especially my mother, who recently had hernia surgery and suffering from diabetics, had to spend in central prison for almost 2 days.

We came back after 2 days, and we didn’t hear from them anything until last this year.

 

Public Procecuter called my layer threatening that they can file 2 or 3 case, if we do not come for settlement.

They need huge amount of money, which we are not in position to give that huge amount!

She took away my Gold ornaments which cost nearly $18,000 US dollars with out my knowledge!

I don’t know what else i can do. i can not open a case against her and her family members for harassment or any such!

The law here sucks a big time. She might be going to open a Maintenance case against me. i am only living for my parents. if they are not here, i would have been a history by now. I don’t want to live anymore.

 

“I spent my life trying not to be careless. Women and children can be careless but not men” - Godfather

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

I’ve heard this situation before. India has some real screwed up laws.

Dowry is another issue it seems.

I don’t know anything about Indias law system and sorry I can advise you.

But my thoughts and prayers are with you.

I hope you and your family find some peace.

Maybe someone here has some advise.

Stay with us friend. We will help as best we can.

[Crazy CanuckMember 4215]

You might want to try AFVM India facebook page or go the site, you will see contact information at the bottom.
https://www.facebook.com/avfmindia

http://www.merinews.com/mobile/article/Lifestyle/2015/05/24/indian-mens-rights-movement-goes-international-officially/15906662

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

[MOWsince95Participant 1446]

Welcome Rajshekar.

I’ve heard Indian laws regarding women are nuts (worse than ours), and this is more confirmation.  Can only give general advice:

1. Always be there for your parents.
2. Get out of that marriage however possible.
3. If you get nailed for maintenance, get the hell out of the country and let the bitch rot.
4. Don’t ever buy into the lie of marriage again.

Seriously, most of us had to learn this the hard way just as you did.  Women are psycho, and the legal systems everywhere are mostly all on their side.  The only way you can protect yourself going forward is to get out of their rigged game entirely and play your own for the rest of your life.  Don’t think about anything drastic because if you do, they win.  Just get out of it and never play again, and then you win and they lose.

If you are MGTOW when you are young you have no heart.
If you're not MGTOW when you are 20 you have no brain.

[IronVParticipant 77]

F~~~ing bitch! Beat the living s~~~ out of her and take your possessions back. After all you are a MAN! F~~~ the legal system of your country, you’ve been robbed! Don’t lose your dignity, fight for your rights and get what it’s yours no matter what!

[treelville..miamiParticipant 893]

Good lord bro, that bitch is insane and India’s laws are f~~~ed up. If my mother had to suffer in jail over some broad, idk how I’d react to thatt, vengeance would definitely be brewing in my head. Just remain calm and try and sever all ties with that bitch and get as far away as you can and learn it and live it f~~~ marriage.

"The wounds of honor are self inflicted"

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

Keep cool man,remember time heals all wounds. This tramp is not worth you taking your life and she might feel happy if you did crazy as it might sound because they dont love you dude. Get out of that marriage and away from her and remember next time to leave a women on the first crazy error, you went back therefore feeding the machine. We have all had the signs and didnt listen,this c~~~ will have your parents locked up? Im beyond shocked about this,keep ya head up and use the male instincts gifted to you by big daddy bilogy!! You will survive.

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

IronV wrote:

F~~~ing bitch! Beat the living s~~~ out of her and take your possessions back. After all you are a MAN! F~~~ the legal system of your country, you’ve been robbed! Don’t lose your dignity, fight for your rights and get what it’s yours no matter what!

No no no no STOP THAT NOW

While I totally understand your frustration and angry … this is NOT what you do.

Take a deep breath, let the red pill rage subside and help this guy …. not dig his grave deeper.

I know how you feel and I agree with the feelings of outrage.

This is a thinking battle my friend … let’s help the guy.

[rajshekarParticipant 46]

Thanks a lot for all your support.

There are tears in my eyes while reading all your comments that there are so many people who supports me in this misery  of my and my parents lives.

Heartfelt  thanks for all your support.

Will keep updating  regarding our 498a and dvact case.

Court took my passport and said they only return once these cases are settled.

I used to live in Australia before marriage happily for 8 years.

So there is no option for going anywhere outside this s~~~ country. i don’t get job anywhere because of the criminal case. i am doing e-commerce business right now.

My both parents are well educated, both retired from central and state government jobs and this case has put us in to so much pressure, even my relatives, friends boycotted us as if we did crime. But the fact is we do not even done anything wrong to be booked in a criminal case.

Now i have a courage to fight after seeing all the posts and comments. will definitely fight and may the Lord be with us in this gender biased laws that effecting men and family members.

 

Once again thank you for support.

Will keep updating!

“I spent my life trying not to be careless. Women and children can be careless but not men” - Godfather

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

rajshekar wrote:

Thanks a lot for all your support. There are tears in my eyes while reading all your comments that there are so many people who supports me in this misery of my and my parents lives. Heartfelt thanks for all your support. Will keep updating regarding our 498a and dvact case. Court took my passport and said they only return once these cases are settled. I used to live in Australia before marriage happily for 8 years. So there is no option for going anywhere outside this s~~~ country. i don’t get job anywhere because of the criminal case. i am doing e-commerce business right now. My both parents are well educated, both retired from central and state government jobs and this case has put us in to so much pressure, even my relatives, friends boycotted us as if we did crime. But the fact is we do not even done anything wrong to be booked in a criminal case. Now i have a courage to fight after seeing all the posts and comments. will definitely fight and may the Lord be with us in this gender biased laws that effecting men and family members. Once again thank you for support. Will keep updating!

You do understand that we’re here right?

That’s not a shallow promise … it’s one mans promise to another.

Things will get harder and you will feel incredibly low and isolated …. come talk with us.

WE WILL BE HERE

[rajshekarParticipant 46]

ILiveAgain wrote:

rajshekar wrote:

Thanks a lot for all your support. There are tears in my eyes while reading all your comments that there are so many people who supports me in this misery of my and my parents lives. Heartfelt thanks for all your support. Will keep updating regarding our 498a and dvact case. Court took my passport and said they only return once these cases are settled. I used to live in Australia before marriage happily for 8 years. So there is no option for going anywhere outside this s~~~ country. i don’t get job anywhere because of the criminal case. i am doing e-commerce business right now. My both parents are well educated, both retired from central and state government jobs and this case has put us in to so much pressure, even my relatives, friends boycotted us as if we did crime. But the fact is we do not even done anything wrong to be booked in a criminal case. Now i have a courage to fight after seeing all the posts and comments. will definitely fight and may the Lord be with us in this gender biased laws that effecting men and family members. Once again thank you for support. Will keep updating!

You do understand that we’re here right? That’s not a shallow promise … it’s one mans promise to another. Things will get harder and you will feel incredibly low and isolated …. come talk with us. WE WILL BE HERE

 

Thank you so much. i am feeling loved again. all these years i have suffered refection and betrayal.

Once again thank you very much

“I spent my life trying not to be careless. Women and children can be careless but not men” - Godfather

[RoyDalParticipant]

I feel for you. I hope you and your parents come out the other side of all this injustice intact.

I long for the bygone era when accusers actually had to prove their cases.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[KeymasterKeymaster]

@rajshekar Welcome to MGTOW. I wish it was under better circumstances that we could all say hello.

Don’t do anything extreme or bad for you… because enough OTHER people have done it to you already. YOU don’t need to. You need to do something GOOD for you. Do not finish their job… because then they have won. Refuse to let them win. Many times you win by not engaging them at all. You just….. vanish and make yourself scarce.

If you can’t do that…. THEN you have a fight them.

rajshekar wrote:

I will definitely fight

That’s the best news you could have told us. You may even surprise yourself what you are capable of… and I hope you do. But most importantly , I hope you will surprise THEM too. Don’t let them win.

I was in a VERY bad situation once that I thought I would never get out of. So bad, I couldn’t even work in the country I was in because my own lawyer was incompetent. I was stuck and could do NOTHING. I pulled out, and after that, I look back and would tell anyone who thinks its “THAT BAD”…… that you cannot fall off the floor.

When things are THAT BAD, they can only get better.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[aeragoanParticipant 1186]

AS AN INDIAN,I know very well dear,how f~~~ed up these marriage and dowry laws..sorry to hear about ur parents,hope u will do well in future..tc care

[FIDKParticipant 32]

If you never had sex with her, is it even a valid marriage? That seems to be a non-marriage, both legally and morally.

 

[The ApprenticeParticipant 59]

I’m not clear how it works in India, but isn’t there supposed to be some proof you hit her or something? I think what they are doing is trying to threaten and blackmail you. They are just bullying you around, don’t give in to them.

[J.D SilvernailParticipant 383]

Welcome to the forums and good luck dealing with your current legal situation. Was your marriage arranged by her parents? There might be some way to make this whole lawsuit look unethical to the judge if that is the case. Good luck getting a divorce. I dont know how life is in India but it sounds like my country(The United States of America) would be a better place for you and your parents to live. It sounds to me like there is nothing left for you in India. My best advice is to fight this lawsuit. If you win you should pack your stuff, take your parents with you ,and move to America. America is the “Land of Opportunity”. I dont think your life could possibly get worse by coming here, in fact I think it will make your life better.

I'm married to the game,but she broke her vows.

[mp357Participant 531]

dude. as an indian male i understand your frustration. If more indian men went against tradition we would see a lot less of this. we get pressure from all sides to marry (with a gun to our head) and get completely screwed. good luck man,try to live free if you can but i know india is way too bloody traditional so its an uphill battle.

[rajshekarParticipant 46]

The Apprentice wrote:

I’m not clear how it works in India, but isn’t there supposed to be some proof you hit her or something? I think what they are doing is trying to threaten and blackmail you. They are just bullying you around, don’t give in to them.

 

They can create any proofs here,

They to went to hospital, bribed the doctor, and created fake medial reports and submitted to the court !!

“I spent my life trying not to be careless. Women and children can be careless but not men” - Godfather

[rajshekarParticipant 46]

The Apprentice wrote:

I’m not clear how it works in India, but isn’t there supposed to be some proof you hit her or something? I think what they are doing is trying to threaten and blackmail you. They are just bullying you around, don’t give in to them.

 

I never had sex with her, But she complained saying it was i who was refusing to have sex with her!!

“I spent my life trying not to be careless. Women and children can be careless but not men” - Godfather

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