Girl "has boyfriend": is she still an option?

[RockmaninoffParticipant 1641]

Hello, brave gentleman who are still putting themselves in the meat grinder. I have a topic for discussion: the girl who has a boyfriend.

Say you have a crush or interest on certain girl, and then one of the four cases happen:

Case 1: She says “Tee-hee, maybe we shouldn’t, my boyfriend would get mad.”

Case 2: She casually drops it into conversation. “Oh, you like Beethoven? My boyfriend’s really into him too.”

Case 3: Says it outright: “I have a boyfriend.”

Case 4: You see her with a guy whom she explicitly refers to as her boyfriend.

What do you do? Do you still consider her a prospect?

For me, for all four cases, the answer would be yes, she’s still a prospect, and I would approach her as I approach all women: make it clear that I’m available and interested, but if she doesn’t leap on the opportunity then she’s not worth the effort. My reasoning is this: if she’s genuinely interested, then she would go for me, boyfriend or not; and if she’s not interested, then that answers that question.

What about you?

". . . elle, suivant l’usage des femmes et des chats qui ne viennent pas quand on les appelle et qui viennent quand on ne les appelle pas, s’arrêta devant moi et m’adressa la parole"—Prosper Mérimée

[The Laughing ManParticipant 1020]

After being cheated on by every girl I dated, I tend to stear clear of those situations. You’re dicking over another guy so some chick can get more attention.

Also she could be s~~~ testing you to see your reaction.

I thought what I'd do was I'd pretend I was one of those deaf-mutes...or should I?

[XSDBSParticipant 3598]

As soon has you hear the word “boyfriend”, turn around and walk.
If she was interested in you, she wouldn’t be saying “boyfriend”, even if he DID exist.

[FrankyParticipant 2338]

Some interesting questions you have there.
Life sure is simple when you’re a monk ;D

[RockmaninoffParticipant 1641]

XSDBS wrote:

If she was interested in you, she wouldn’t be saying “boyfriend”, even if he DID exist.

This is patently untrue. Women bring up their boyfriends, real or imaginary, as either a) anti-slut defenses, or b) s~~~ tests. Women cheat all the time, lie about it, manipulate, etc. Anna from Anna Karenina brings up her husband all the time to Vronsky; she TELLS herself that she’s married and wants nothing to do with him, but she, like all women, have the “I can’t get him out of my head” attitude.

You could argue that “women who bring up their boyfriends are not worth the drama they inevitably bring into your life,” and perhaps, under some circumstances, I’d be inclined to agree, but you’re saying “women who bring up their boyfriends aren’t interested in you,” which I know from experience isn’t true.

". . . elle, suivant l’usage des femmes et des chats qui ne viennent pas quand on les appelle et qui viennent quand on ne les appelle pas, s’arrêta devant moi et m’adressa la parole"—Prosper Mérimée

[mp357Participant 531]

Bad idea, there are too many moronic men who place their entire life and identity in a relationship.if you come along and screw it up things could turn very ugly.plus if she is willing to cheat on him later on down the line she could have no qualms about cheating on you.

[RennieParticipant]

No. You’ll just get into a mess.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Women claim to have boyfriends to put guys off and also to make them try harder. Women who actually do have boyfriends cheat and they line up future lovers for when they’re ready to monkey swing.

In other words, you should ignore it when a woman says she has a boyfriend. If you want to know if you have a shot, judge it by how she responds to you, not by what she says.

Aside from that, remember this:

When it comes to undstanding what a woman means versus what she says, no means maybe, maybe means no and yes means nothing until after the deed is done. The best you can do is set your exposure limit (how much effort you’re willing to make), keep that effort sustained and focused until it runs out, and never put yourself in a position that is legally actionable.

If you can do this, you can safely ignore anything a woman says and never spend more than, say, an hour getting what you want. If she’s not on board by then, she isn’t going to be and you need to get the f~~~ out, assuming you feel it’s worth your time and effort to try to get the f~~~ in in the first place.

[Anonymous 42]

If a married woman wants to hop on your piston-rod, how much more is a single chick willing to go motoring?

I view them all the same,,, sex starved chimpanzees, some wear gold rings, others don’t…

I’m waiting for my 18v Stepford wife! When I park her in the garage I know she won’t be screwing all the tools…

[RhinoParticipant 3477]

If you want to only think with your dick go for it brother you can do what you want but it will come back to bite you in the ass eventually karma has a way of giving you what you in turn dish out to others. Personally I don’t care how hot the girl is anymore if she offers herself to me and is in a relationship or marriage I stay clear because I learned the lesson the hard way what happens when you do bang attached females it gets ugly fast.

[UnicronParticipant 752]

Men don’t like it when other men drink their kool-aid and you run the risk of p~~~ing off the wrong guy.

For example in my area a few years ago, a man was killed by the boyfriend of a woman he was seeing on the side.

Marriage is the process of finding out what kind of man your wife would have preferred.

[atlasParticipant 285]

“Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.”

“We are on strike, we, the men of the mind. We are on strike against self-immolation. We are on strike against the creed of unearned rewards and unrewarded duties. We are on strike against the dogma that the pursuit of one's happiness is evil. We are on strike against the doctrine that life is guilt.”

[Al BundyParticipant 245]

You should not. First, it’s a dick move. Second, it could literally get you murdered, and a wet hole isn’t worth your life.

[W]e are MGTOW. We eat shaming language like tic tacs.

--chir

I have known more men destroyed by the desire to have wife and child and to keep them in comfort than I have seen destroyed by drink and harlots.

--William Butler Yeats

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22521]

The Laughing Man wrote:

After being cheated on by every girl I dated, I tend to stear clear of those situations. You’re dicking over another guy so some chick can get more attention.

Exactly. Don’t be that guy. The guy that help a woman cheat on her lover. It is not worth it. And all you are doing is putting you dick into someone that has already been proven to be untrustworthy. That is a bad idea by itself.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Let’s look at the situation with no bias here just because she might have nice t~~~ or a nice ass. If there is no boyfriend she’s a liar. If there is a boyfriend and you f~~~ her she’s a cheater. If you truly must date women still…would you consider a woman an option if you already know she is a liar or a cheater? (or both lol)

[Won'tGetFooledAgainParticipant 3293]

These are the sort of prick tease women who constantly go on about how much of an asshole their boyfriends are to beta orbiters for attention. The beta then convinces himself that she is going to notice what a nice guy he is and then go out with him instead.

The reality is she goes home to f~~~ the asshole boyfriend and the cycle continues.

For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

Don’t be THAT guy.

Plus if you do indeed be THAT guy, none…I mean none of your mates will EVER trust you around their GF’s, Wives or Lovers because you’ll be THAT guy.

[Oz-BlokeParticipant 3233]

A single friend of mine was out last week when an attractive married nurse 13-years his junior cracked onto him at the bar. As the night wore on she was all over him and she straight-up asked him for sex. She lamented that she had dated her husband since they were 15 and now at 27 the sex was ‘boring’.

My mate didn’t f~~~ her and I was impressed that he had the willpower not to mow another man’s grass. Anyway, too many women cheat on their husbands and if caught-out concoct some bulls~~~ rape or drink-spiked story to try and allay their guilt or avoid any personal responsibility for their unfaithful actions.

I was impressed with my mate until he told me that he was sober that night and if he had had a few drinks he probably would have split-her-whisker. I’m sure that girl found another man that night to cheat with, but it’s quite indicative of the female mindset, especially when they are on heat.

#ManOut

[HitmanParticipant]

BRO’S BEFORE HOES .
plenty other women to bang without f~~~ing over some guy you don’t know..
not cool.

[RoyDalParticipant]

This is what she is aiming for by leading you on:

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

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