GETTING MARRIED THIS MONTH!

[MajinParticipant 56]

Don’t worry guys, it’s not me.

I have this very nice friend, “John Doe”, an obvious blue piller (but not a simp nor a total mangina) who is getting married at the end of this month.

Next saturday, 2 days from now, it’s gonna be his barchelor’s party. Basically, we men will hang out for a few hours (probably doing silly things and no strippers), and later on the girls (mostly the guy’s girlfriends, and also the bride) will join us for what I believe it’s gonna be a regular party.

I’m not familiar with most of John’s guy friends, since I’m not that close to him anyway. But I like him and he cares about me enough to invite me to his wedding.

I was thinking about some advice to give to John, but I really don’t know what to say. I obviously won’t try to convince to jump out of the wedding now, for that would only make things awkward and I wouldn’t convince him anyway. I’m thinking more about things ideas he could use to remedy his situation, specially if his soon-to-be-wife start to walk the common path of married women – become more nagging, more demanding, less available, possibily cheat and/or leave him… the usual stuff.

What good advice could I give him to help his situation, besides “don’t get married” ?
I recently showed him this video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YD5F5cxRGnk
and he seemed to enjoy and agree with it’s content, although I can’t say if he’s ready to apply it in his life or not.

Please share your opinions on the matter. Thanks.

There's no fate but what we make for ourselves.

[MajinParticipant 56]

Btw my girlfriend will attend the wedding too. I hope she doesn’t start to get ideas in her head…. (but that’s an issue for another topic)

There's no fate but what we make for ourselves.

[Anonymous 42]

This week he’s John Doe, next week he’s John Dough!

[BoarParticipant]

Throw him a Bon Voyage party and let him know that after the wedding he will not be allowed to see any of his male friends ever again….

Girlfriend? On second thought, buy two Costco-sized bottles of redpills and give him one…

Untamed wrote: Quit complaining and Go Your Own Way in whatever manner suits you best.

[MajinParticipant 56]

Anonymous wrote:

This week he’s John Doe, next week he’s John Dough!

Sad.

Boar wrote:

Girlfriend? On second thought, buy two Costco-sized bottles of redpills and give him one…

6 year long relationship, talked about it in another topic recently. I’m not gonna dump her preemptively. As most guys said already, as long as I keep things separated (not moving in togheter etc) I should be fine – no alimony possible. I’ll dump her if she makes something to deserve it, simple as that.

There's no fate but what we make for ourselves.

[Anonymous 24]

I don’t do marriages as they are more like friendship funerals. I have no idea what I would tell him other than he is more than likely f~~~ed. And then there is the buying a gift and the costs of attending if you have to travel or buy a suit… I am going to continue to pass on all of that.

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

Majin wrote:

Btw my girlfriend will attend the wedding too.

By herself, I hope . . .

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[BubParticipant 1405]

Majin wrote:

Please share your opinions on the matter. Thanks.

You’re new here aren’t you?

Just rolling down the road

[Anonymous 3]

Hello Majin,

Majin wrote:

Btw my girlfriend will attend the wedding too. I hope she doesn’t start to get ideas in her head….

Majin wrote:

6 year long relationship,

It is sure as hell, that your girlfriend will get the ideas…. You cannot fix this situation now any more, it would have been better to not talk about that friends wedding at all with a girlfriend of 6 years.

And I know it by my old experience many years ago, even if we don’t talk to girlfriend about any wedding, they have all their Fakebook accounts, posted full of her friends of her age getting married and seeming happy. (Remember, people post photos about the seemingly happy ceremony, and happy events from the new marriage, but do not post on social media the fight and emotional blackmail and all the bad stuff that happens in a relations~~~. So, girls are seeing a very unbalanced and half-false lives of the people on social media, and so, easily start to “get the ideas” of wedding)

Now hold on tight to your life, and prepare for turbulence, things will get shaky and rough. Don’t be surprised about some suddenly happening drama and emotional abuse and blackmail and crying from your girlfriend in the near future.

By the way, how old is she now? Above 20-something, girls are starting to “get the ideas” and then she will start ask “When will you marry me?” and “What will be the name of our children?” and start pushing you towards moving together and start looking for flats for 2 people… Believe me, I escaped this situation in the very last minute…

If women were really that kind of “strong independent woman” that feminists are saying, then they -in theory-, would not have any problems with “friends with benefits” relationships, since they could support themselves on their own.
But no, this is fake, and they want to hijack your life to get everything for free, and make men to support and marry them and at the same time keep all the money they earn and they do not even support you back with some love and sex if you are stressed out… And this is totally f~~~ing s~~~. That’s why I don’t give any attention to any women, and only talk to them the very minimum necessary things.

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

Show your mate this:

My work here is done.

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

Majin wrote:

What good advice could I give him to help his situation, besides “don’t get married” ?

This site doesnt give marriage advice,we advise men to never get married. If you dont agree with the wedding why go? Tradcons have been invading this site lately,maybe you should check out reddit/marriage-advice section,where too busy here preparing the freedom boat to sail the hell away from here. Read up on some topics here and you will realize we’re about going our own way and maybe you should consider doing the same because its not if but when…..she…..your GF….

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[MajinParticipant 56]

Bub wrote:

Majin wrote:

Please share your opinions on the matter. Thanks.

You’re new here aren’t you?

I meant your opinions on what advice I could give to the guy – if there’s any that can be given at this point.

Anonymous wrote:

Hello Majin,

It is sure as hell, that your girlfriend will get the ideas…. You cannot fix this situation now any more, it would have been better to not talk about that friends wedding at all with a girlfriend of 6 years.

It was unavoidable to tell her, as John specifically asked me to invite her.

The thing with her is the “living together” part (as I explained on another topic), that she wants to eventually…. but I won’t be moving in with her anytime soon (as I also said there), so there might be some conflict in the near future… or maybe not, we’ll see.

So far she’s totally ok with the “no-marriage” idea. Not getting married is something I’ve been telling her for a couple of years (even before I got properly introduced to MGTOW) and she agrees that it’s unnecessary. I was more joking than being serious about the “get some ideas in her head” thing…. but one can never know…

…

Anyway, I’m getting the feeling that all I can do about John is giving him a pat on his back.

There's no fate but what we make for ourselves.

[MajinParticipant 56]

DeepInThought wrote:

Show your mate this:

<iframe width=”500″ height=”281″ src=”https://www.youtube.com/embed/DfL9ovYOJFA?feature=oembed” frameborder=”0″ allowfullscreen=””></iframe>

My work here is done.

That was painful to watch. Poor guy.

There's no fate but what we make for ourselves.

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

Get him this as a wedding present.

[Lone Wolf83Participant 825]

If you really cared for the fella, you wouldn’t attend it.

If it has tits or tires, you know you're going to have problems.

[OldBillParticipant]

Majin wrote:

I meant your opinions on what advice I could give to the guy – if there’s any that can be given at this point.

There’s no advice you can give him at this point and there was damn little you could have given him before.

Being c~~~struck is like being a drunk or junkie. The real time bad examples of drunks and junkies around you should teach you not to become a drunk or junkie, yet people still become drunks and junkies. It’s the same with being c~~~struck.

He’s ignoring all the evidence around him concerning the dangers of marriage because he’s too f~~~ing c~~~struck to think clearly.

Just as you can’t talk a drunk off the bottle or a junkie off the needle, you can’t talk a c~~~struck man off women. Just as with drunks and junkies, he has to want to change. Just as with drunks and junkies, something horrible is going to have to happen before he decides to change.

Your friend is f~~~ed, basically. The only question now is how much damage he’ll suffer before he chooses to escape.

It was unavoidable to tell her, as John specifically asked me to invite her.

You’re f~~~ed there. You have to attend and she’s been specifically invited. Just grin and bear it.

The thing with her is the “living together” part (as I explained on another topic), that she wants to eventually…. but I won’t be moving in with her anytime soon (as I also said there), so there might be some conflict in the near future… or maybe not, we’ll see.

Expect the “living together” pressure to increase by a couple orders of magnitude after the wedding.

So far she’s totally ok with the “no-marriage” idea.

She’s a lying c~~~. Don’t forget that. She’s a lying c~~~.

Her being “okay” with the idea of not marrying is nothing but bait on her hook. Women intuitively and subconsciously plan on changing men’s minds and they accomplish it because too many men are fools.

Anyway, I’m getting the feeling that all I can do about John is giving him a pat on his back.

A pat on the back and a wave goodbye. His new wife will have you, his single friend, all but cut out John’s life within 6 months.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[kbbroilerParticipant 886]

Ok Majin. First, if someone invited me to their wedding I’d be offended and they’d go on my mortal enemy list.

For me it’s the reason I don’t talk to certain members of my family anymore because they forced me into their marriage ritual.

My advice would be to show him this website and check out the relations~~~ section, blue pill hell and marriage and divorce.

I can’t even say congratulations to anyone I know who is either getting married or having a baby. I know how many people hate Facebook on this site but I use it as a tool. I can see thru all the redtape and spot gold diggers, wifestutes, and children who are not the biological fathers kids.

For me it’s amazing to see how many people don’t see the blue pill world is just a lie.

Plus I post stuff on their about MGTOW and I know some guys not married who may lost and hopefully I can help them discover the truth.

However, I will congratulate people who have been married 10 years or more on their anniversary.

Anything under 10 years I don’t even bother.

Anyways, that’s my advice to give your friend.

[SlayherParticipant 2074]

Majin wrote:

Don’t worry guys, it’s not me.

That’s good. However, you have a girlfriend? Swallow harder pal. And I mean get that red pill all the way down.

[The CaptainParticipant 133]

If i had a girlfriend for 6 years and i don’t even live with her, i’ll present my apologies to my friend for not attending his wedding (seppuku) and i’ll drag her away from this with creativity excuses.

The kind of bad ideas and feedback from others that she could get from that evil event will be
inversely proportional to the lost of peace that you can get in your relation, the risk do not worth the benefits (zero)

I won’t let anybody who i care go to a destructive sect info meeting, this is the same.

If he is your friend he’ll understand your point with a couple of beers the next week.

[Duke TogoParticipant 2664]

OldBill wrote:

Majin wrote:

I meant your opinions on what advice I could give to the guy – if there’s any that can be given at this point.

There’s no advice you can give him at this point and there was damn little you could have given him before.

Being c~~~struck is like being a drunk or junkie. The real time bad examples of drunks and junkies around you should teach you not to become a drunk or junkie, yet people still become drunks and junkies. It’s the same with being c~~~struck.

He’s ignoring all the evidence around him concerning the dangers of marriage because he’s too f~~~ing c~~~struck to think clearly.

Just as you can’t talk a drunk off the bottle or a junkie off the needle, you can’t talk a c~~~struck man off women. Just as with drunks and junkies, he has to want to change. Just as with drunks and junkies, something horrible is going to have to happen before he decides to change.

Your friend is f~~~ed, basically. The only question now is how much damage he’ll suffer before he chooses to escape.

This. OldBill strikes again.

But maybe send an (anonymous?) email with links to the marriage & divorce and relations~~~s section of this site?

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