Gender Equality Talk with Female Friend

[KeymasterKeymaster]

@doc With your permission we would like to consider this post / thread along with one of your others for inclusion in our front-end blog page coming up. Right now we have more of a static “archive” that isn’t updated very often , as we have concentrated more on static materials that are unwaveringly fundamental to MGTOW.

But the blog page will be more anecdotal in approach….. with news items and more of a daily (or weekly) “magazine” feeling – and would be more forward facing to our non-member visitors. We would like to pepper it with some threads and epic comments we have seen in the forums because they really deserve to be in the forefront.

In fact, we sent this thread as relevant to a woman who wrote to us asking about this kind of topic. I know it’s already public will be asking some others as well. It would be preserved , unedited (except for typos if any) and attributed to you.

Please let me know if this is OK with you. Big thanks.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

That works for me. Just let me know when it’s up so I can read it. You can republish any of my posts on the site with attribution. When you get around to writing books, we can talk again 🙂

[Takuan NohoParticipant 14]

Budtao wrote:

The interesting thing about arrogance is that in a certain light it can resemble hubris very closely. The wonderful thing about hubris is that it inevitably ends badly for the one with it. So I say, wait, and let their own actions end them in time. It is pointless to argue with someone if you have nothing to gain from it, and men really have little to gain from women anymore.

Be like water and flow around the feminist.

Absolutely splendid, Budtao.

“When you look at a tree, see it for its leaves, its branches, its trunk and the roots, then and only then will you see the tree”

[Cheetah84Participant 39]

Wow great viewpoints and stories here.

I can agree with the OP, sometimes if you have known someone for YEARS of your life, its hard to tell the them the HARD TRUTH. But its better than lying for the sake of their feelings.
I like that she eventually agreed to some points. This I think is where feminism is lacking ALOT.
It all seems to be ME ME ME ME TOO…ME FIRST..ME ONLY

I read this
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tragedy_of_the_commons

when I was studying for my degree, it opened my eyes. Its a really good study.

Oh well, our way of life as we know it will change again like the Egyptians, Romans etc

[TheroniusParticipant 975]

@doc Fenderson
Masterfull!

"I am is reportedly the shortest sentence in the English language. Could it be that I do is the longest sentence?" - George Carlin

[OgreParticipant 5863]

I don’t know how I missed this when it was on top of the pile, but Doc this was great.

I’m glad you had the patience with your old friend to law it down like you see it. Many times I stop right before the death blow with my friends,even though I get called brutally honest often.

I have a follow up question for you. Do you think she always fought so hard for the feminist ideas that she was spouting to you, or do you think it’s an effect of her hitting the Wall and having even more increased reliance on her husband at this point. Her fear of starting over or starting out for herself, depending on whether or not she actually gave anything up for the relationship may have been both the driving factor in her aggression in the discussion and the wedge that finally cracked her facade. I was just curious if you had any ideas from that perspective.

Theronius, thanks for popping this one to the top. The post and replies here have been great.

I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

[RedDawnParticipant 1391]

Tiga K wrote:

Well… at least she admired men are stronger. Sometimes they don’t even recognize that to be true. Great post!

The harshest truths realised are the greatest foundations for growth; the only thing greater than this is the acceptance of these newfound truths.

Courage is the key to life itself - Morgan Freeman

[Anonymous 1]

Thanks for that Doc, great post!

Reminds me a bit of a discussion I had with a female friend a few months ago. It started out with the discussion of the migrants in Germany, the mass rapes that occurred on New Years in Köln, and it finally wandered down into the “we don’t need agressive men anymore” topic, and how she abhors violence, thinks it’s unnecessary. She isn’t an extrovert feminist (she’s married, two kids etc), but tows the female party line.

After a long, drawn out discussion that revolved around politics, religion and human nature, she did admit at the end that violence (war) is justified when nothing else works.

Personally, I don’t condone war either, but if the enemies are pounding on the gates, trying to appease them is not going to work. It didn’t work for England 80 years ago, and it never will.

[PhiloParticipant 84]

Have to admit that I lack the patience or desire to engage women on these topics. The chances of even making a dent in their entrenched positions are so low as to be nonexistent.

Even still, I did find your tale to be inspirational in that there might be some few women out there who might be reached if someone they may be inclined to trust is willing to make the effort.

This above all: to thine own self be true - William Shakespeare

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