Friend after you've communicated society's realities and why you've gone MGTOW

[Total LeeParticipant 1573]

Keymaster wrote:

A 16 year old behind the wheel? You gotta be f~~~ing out of your mind. That’s like handing a 12 year old a pair of skates and pushing them out onto a frozen lake.

Even better if parents can teach their kids some self-actualization so they can question and arrive at this conclusion themselves. Sixteen is old enough to be able to determine it’s a bad idea on their own.

Give a man a fish, he eats for a day.
Teach a man to fish, he eats for a lifetime.

What they decided is old enough to drive, marry , get credit cards and drink is why every politician should be placed on mute. Those things come first.

[RennieParticipant]

It’s like how you can consent at 16, but you can’t produce pornography of yourself till you’re 18, Or else you’re completely hosed now and forever.

Anthony wrote:

F~~~ that stupid s~~~.

People in my age watched the show, just because they thought it was funny watching these idiots make a complete mess of themselves. Why would you even waste you’re time watching that trash?

[Anonymous 11]

Keymaster wrote:

A 16 year old behind the wheel? You gotta be f~~~ing out of your mind.

All we did was cruise and booze when we got our licenses at 16. At my 30th high school reunion, some of my friends were talking about the time they threw an empty Jack Daniels bottle out the window and hit an oncoming cop car. The cop just followed them home letting them go after chewing them a new asshole.

I wouldn’t recommend doing that s~~~ now. We were total fools, but damn it was fun.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Anonymous wrote:

I wouldn’t recommend doing that s~~~ now. We were total fools, but damn it was fun.

FUN. Yeah that’s what it USED to be. Fun.

But young guys today aren’t having any “fun”. It’s just not as fun for them. Girls were more fun back than too. The horror show testimonies some guys drop here at 21 are unbelievable. My life at 21 was FUN. All of sudden there is this generation of young 19-21 guys where it’s not unusual for them to say “I never had a girlfriend”.

Having a girlfriend use to be fun too.
Now it will finish you off if god forbid you have a drink with her.

This stupid s~~~ didn’t even EXIST.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[MochaParticipant 90]

Anonymous wrote:

Maybe that goes with age, there was no social media when I was young but I was also quite social and used to talk to lots of different people all the time. It wasn’t until I got older and stopped trying to be “normal” and just unplugged from everything that I could finally have true peace. It’s a jarring sensation and a tough transition. Perhaps impossible until you get a bit older and are fed up with the mainstream enough, and have already experienced pretty much everything it has to offer anyway.

When MGTOW was new to me I tried to share it with other men. In time, I’ve learned that trying to help other people change is like trying to drink the ocean. A little sip is a bitter and disgusting experience that hurts you, but may help someone. Trying to swallow the ocean until you’re full will not change the ocean but it will kill you.

The moment I stopped trying to change other people and focused on changing myself was the moment I became free, and soon the people around me took note of my success.

[AnthonyParticipant 2281]

Rennie wrote:

People in my age watched the show, just because they thought it was funny watching these idiots make a complete mess of themselves. Why would you even waste you’re time watching that trash?

I have to admit, I watched a few episodes of that show when all my past friends were hyping it up. I always watch at least a few episodes of a show just to give it a fair judgement, but damn, I wanted to turn that s~~~ off in the first 10 minutes.

Keymaster wrote:

All of sudden there is this generation of young 19-21 guys where it’s not unusual for them to say “I never had a girlfriend”.

Having a girlfriend use to be fun too.
Now it will finish you off if god forbid you have a drink with her.

One of the reasons I was always hesitant in trying to date someone (aside from my lack of social skills) was the fear of false accusations. The majority of women in my generation are college bound feminists. Even the hot ones.

Once you have a Fleshlight real vaginas become worthless.

[EyeswideopenParticipant 2930]

I have to agree with almost all the comments made prior.

I guess before I twigged into the toxic feminist agenda of western culture, I went my own way before being married, in the context I could careless about social acceptance. I had the odd fling, but did not date until about 27. I was not into the frat scene and have only been to a club once in my life and hated every minute.

I was so focused on school, university, and later med school. Looking back, I was so individualized and different then my peers, it makes me shake my head wondering how the f~~~ I ever got myself entangled in the LTR and marriage trap. Social programming is strong is the only explanation I can come up with.

That’s why when my marriage went boom, after the shock and the dust settled, the MGTOW mindset has come easy to me as it feels like “coming home.” I still struggle with some emotional aspects leftover from my marriage, mainly adjusting to being alone at this stage, but each day I feel more liberated. Being released from the social expectation of marriage and kids, has lifted such a weight off my shoulders I don’t have words to describe it.

I guess, I lead by example. I don’t like preaching to the unwilling what it means to be MGTOW. When you are carefree, liberated, flexible and spontaneous as my schedule will allow, others seem to gravitate towards you. If they are willing and in a mindset they might pickup on subtle social cues, question wide-held beliefs, and find there own path off the plantation.

- Marriage is described as an institution. You would have to be crazy to be commited to it. -"If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal. Not people or things" Albert Einstein

[RedDawnParticipant 1391]

Eyeswideopen wrote:

That’s why when my marriage went boom, after the shock and the dust settled, the MGTOW mindset has come easy to me as it feels like “coming home.” I still struggle with some emotional aspects leftover from my marriage, mainly adjusting to being alone at this stage, but each day I feel more liberated. Being released from the social expectation of marriage and kids, has lifted such a weight off my shoulders I don’t have words to describe it.

I think being grateful for what we have goes a long way in being content. That and seeing other people stuck in relationships provides a reminder of how fortunate we are.

Courage is the key to life itself - Morgan Freeman

[Anonymous 2]

Phoenix, your comment is simply brilliant! Even I am a mature man, your comment help me to stay away from tempting women and end up in a big trouble again.Appreciated brother.

[VarunParticipant 2981]

Anonymous wrote:

I’m not even sure MGTOW is really possible for young people. Too many of you are plugged into social media and care too much what everyone thinks and can’t just be happy with yourself and your own thoughts. Maybe that goes with age, there was no social media when I was young but I was also quite social and used to talk to lots of different people all the time. It wasn’t until I got older and stopped trying to be “normal” and just unplugged from everything that I could finally have true peace. It’s a jarring sensation and a tough transition. Perhaps impossible until you get a bit older and are fed up with the mainstream enough, and have already experienced pretty much everything it has to offer anyway.

I understand why you feel this way. I can explain this with a perfect example.

Do you see documentaries where lions hunt? If you do, you will notice that most of the prey are not big, fully matured preys, but rather they’re the 1-2 month-old newborns.

What do they do wrong that they end up more often in the dinner pate than their mature counterparts?

To explain that I’ll give another example from one of my observations.

Our chicken just hatched a new batch of chicks. They are 8-days old. If you go near them, kneel and just tap your fingers on the floor, they will come running towards your hand.

Why do they do that?

Its because they still haven’t ‘recognized’ the fact that human fingers are not edible. Its their instinct that drives them to run towards ‘anything that’s jiggling’ because ‘jiggling things are usually food’. They do not have that level of experience….yet.

Don’t you have any instance in your life when you were introduced to something ‘new’ and you were curious about it?

What is it?
How does it work?
What can I do with it?

Curiosity is instinctual. Pointing a disapproving finger won’t ‘correct’ it. That is exactly what happens with us young people.

If there were no curiosity, we would have still been cavemen; there would never have been innovation.

Life runs in a delicate balance between venturing into the unknown and keeping inside known boundaries. And the balance isn’t the same for everyone.

A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.

[Anonymous 11]

Keymaster wrote:

Girls were more fun back than too.

That they were way skinnier too. No 15 checkbox consent forms required for sex. You could actually bang a drunk chick and not be scared of being charged with rape the next day. None of them had disgusting tattoos. You could go out on a date and not pay to watch her texting orbiters. Facebook did not exist. Cameras were not everywhere. You could do stupid s~~~, and it was flushed down the memory hole. I can see why young guys are so frustrated these days.

The bad part was MGTOW did not exist.

Speaking of curiosity, when I was 8, I stuck my hand down a hole in the bank of a creek. I was bitten by something probably a mink. I never did that again. Pain and blood pouring from my finger is what corrected me.

[RockmaninoffParticipant 1641]

Keymaster wrote:

My life at 21 was FUN. All of sudden there is this generation of young 19-21 guys where it’s not unusual for them to say “I never had a girlfriend”.

Having a girlfriend use to be fun too.

Key, you said your mother was alive during WWII, so it’s not too hard for me to infer that you’re pretty old yourself.

Is it possible that you’re selectively remembering your twenties? I ask, well, because misery loves company.

". . . elle, suivant l’usage des femmes et des chats qui ne viennent pas quand on les appelle et qui viennent quand on ne les appelle pas, s’arrêta devant moi et m’adressa la parole"—Prosper Mérimée

[corkwonderParticipant 125]

my friends girlfriends treat me like a leper dont want me around the guys telling them the truth 🙂

[experiencedParticipant]

Rockmaninoff wrote:

Keymaster wrote:

My life at 21 was FUN. All of sudden there is this generation of young 19-21 guys where it’s not unusual for them to say “I never had a girlfriend”.

Having a girlfriend use to be fun too.

Key, you said your mother was alive during WWII, so it’s not too hard for me to infer that you’re pretty old yourself.

Is it possible that you’re selectively remembering your twenties? I ask, well, because misery loves company.

IMO each point of view is/was accurate for it’s era.
Long ago, it was ‘fun’.
A lot has to do with the economy.
When everyone has high hopes of going to the moon people f~~~ more.
“People, people who f~~~ people, are the luckiest people int dah world.”
Until the LP33 needle rips across the surface with ‘no fault, feminism, recession’
Not as much “boogey nights’ nor “night fever”.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[aeragoanParticipant 1186]

I have been mgtow after understanding the society reality since 2 years ..because one of my best friend is in jail for false rape allegations .. and one of my cousin suicide due to not being able to cop up from nasty breakup with his gf…:(:(

[Anonymous 5]

If you start informing a blue pill buddie of the reality of today’s female interactions you mite get back panic and that sentence that will make even wonder if your friends in control of his heart,mind and if I may soul. For example my friend has a girlfriend (whom is a fat – hypocritical bible thumper/personal opinion) told me hes never been happier. I said: be careful man just leave before if you notice any strange behavior. Haha ! Response: “Duke everyone knows your a asshole that’s a total buzzkill to be around”. My reply (this was out of nowhere I knew he was alittle mangina but he saw in the last 1.5 years how i was stoping females in there tracks between f~~~ing his girl’s friends- informing them I am not ready for a relationship after sex – and covered my back on that note. He would ask he why don’t you date her? I would respond /mgtow 1 month in – hey bro I am not ready -SMILING!): Man don’t be part of the scenery in my life. Watch yourself. (We haven’t talked in 3 weeks).

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