Former girlfriend contacted me

[JustAnotherGuyParticipant]

Men take all the blame for ruining dating and relationships in the west, for tanking the fertility rate, for the rise in divorce. But there’s a secret nobody outside our circles wants to acknowledge: it was the women who did it, and our grandfathers who let them do it.

No man alive today is responsible for the s~~~ty state we find ourselves in. The laws are cast iron. They’re not getting better. The only play is to not.

Cupcakes are Cold. MGTOW is Absolute Zero.
“Let us wait a little; when your enemy is executing a false movement, never interrupt him” –Napoleon Bonaparte, 1805

[finallyfreeParticipant 341]

What a coincidence my ex girlfriend contacted me 2 weeks ago on the exact same day we met 7 years ago? ( March 1st 2011). We broke up in 2013 and she has been contacting me via text only every 6-8 months like clockwork just to see if she can have me back. I have not contacted her even once since 2014.
She officially hits the wall on April 18th as she is turning 40 yrs old. God that brings a smile to my face every time I think about it. I really loved her and would have married her if she hadn’t turned out to be a gold digging, narcissistic manipulator. She claimed I was perfect for her(what she really meant was my wallet was perfect) and made all these plans for children and marriage, then she out of the blue made up some BS about me not wanting to travel as much as she did ( she is a flight attendant) and POOF it was over after 2 years. She just didn’t understand that I could not just take off work whenever I wanted to travel?? duhh? I’m sure she was simply monkey branching to some other c~~~.
Anyway she contacts me on March 1st and has the nerve to suggest that I should be a gentleman and ask her out on a date so we can “catch up”. Really bitch? I told her that she killed the gentleman in me a long time ago and that if she wanted she could swing by my place, take her pants off and bend over. This whore actually said “Lets go to dinner first to see what the vibe is, then we can go do that”.
I told her I wasn’t interested in dinner. She then starts spouting some bull s~~~ about how I will always love her.

This is the kicker: She then texts me ” oh well I see you haven’t changed , I always contact you hoping you have changed. I would marry you if you got your self together, Guess I’ll continue to play with my toys (vibrator) and you can find someone else to do that with”
Get myself together? I make 6 figures, have no children, condo paid off, 2 nice cars and can benchpress 235 lbs 10 times. Get myself together?? Lmao. These whores are absolutely delusional. Sorry about long rant/post.

[surfdude12Participant 4103]

finallyfree wrote:

Anyway she contacts me on March 1st and has the nerve to suggest that I should be a gentleman and ask her out on a date so we can “catch up”. Really bitch? I told her that she killed the gentleman in me a long time ago and that if she wanted she could swing by my place, take her pants off and bend over. This whore actually said “Lets go to dinner first to see what the vibe is, then we can go do that”.

When she says “gentleman”, she means “sucker”

This is the kicker: She then texts me ” oh well I see you haven’t changed , I always contact you hoping you have changed. I would marry you if you got your self together, Guess I’ll continue to play with my toys (vibrator) and you can find someone else to do that with”
Get myself together? I make 6 figures, have no children, condo paid off, 2 nice cars and can benchpress 235 lbs 10 times. Get myself together?? Lmao. These whores are absolutely delusional. Sorry about long rant/post.

Classic 1-2 punch

1. play nice with him (offer him dinner, sex, etc) to try and lure him in

2. if #1 doesn’t work, guilt trip him (“you haven’t changed”)

Yawn.

[narwhalParticipant]

finallyfree wrote:

I told her that she killed the gentleman in me a long time ago and that if she wanted she could swing by my place, take her pants off and bend over. This whore actually said “Lets go to dinner first to see what the vibe is, then we can go do that”.

So she wants to be paid in the form of a meal for sex.

Ok. Then do it.

[XSDBSParticipant 3598]

As I’ve mentioned in a similar thread:

Ex girlfriend 101:
No contact…of any kind…EVER…
When she tries to contact/reconnect with you, she is s~~~ testing you.
Why let her?

[sjt1975Participant 2536]

It’sallbs wrote:

sjt1975 wrote:

they come running-back to the good man

They are looking for beta orbiters/providers whilst continuing to fcuk with chad(s).

OK, obviously I was crediting women with too much intelligence; they obviously have still not learnt to not waste their prime years on shagging the idiots.

Carry on, gentlemen, as you were…

[Anonymous 0]

Agree she is an enemy, and I’ve told her she is when we broke up. I’ve had tech prob blocking her number, and may need to wipe my phone, or get a new number. I blocked her on social media when we broke up, and then left social media. I considered getting a restraining order against her, but now that I’m several states away, it’s just easier for me to ignore her. But yea, I don’t trust her at all. I think she believes I still have feelings for her when actually, that goddamn c~~~ can just f~~~ right off. No doubt she’s stuffed her mouth with who knows how many c~~~s in 3 months, and taken it in pussy. Good riddance. I like my independent monk life, and my right hand works just fine.

[JustAnotherGuyParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Agree she is an enemy, and I’ve told her she is when we broke up. I’ve had tech prob blocking her number, and may need to wipe my phone, or get a new number. I blocked her on social media when we broke up, and then left social media. I considered getting a restraining order against her, but now that I’m several states away, it’s just easier for me to ignore her. But yea, I don’t trust her at all. I think she believes I still have feelings for her when actually, that goddamn c~~~ can just f~~~ right off. No doubt she’s stuffed her mouth with who knows how many c~~~s in 3 months, and taken it in pussy. Good riddance. I like my independent monk life, and my right hand works just fine.

If you can’t block her number from your address book in your phone (most smart phones let you selectively block or ignore a number), log into your carrier, go to the support section, and I guarantee you can find instructions to have her number blocked at the carrier level.

Just a thought. I did this to a dude who owed me money after I won a garnishment against him in court and cashed the last check.

Cupcakes are Cold. MGTOW is Absolute Zero.
“Let us wait a little; when your enemy is executing a false movement, never interrupt him” –Napoleon Bonaparte, 1805

[Anonymous 0]

Her phone number has been blocked at the carrier level for months, but some tech glitch, it’s not working. I’ve had this happen before, and I had to wipe my phone to get the carrier level block to work.

[Anonymous 1]

She is setting you up by telling you it is ok to call her. I’ve seen it happen dozens of times. If she can get you to fall for her again, she can then s~~~ on you when you least expect it. When she does that she wins TWICE. 1st, it will pump up her ego that she still has market value. And 2nd, she will get a thrill from hurting you again. Why does she want to hurt you ? Because you are standing strong against her female bull s~~~.

[Space CowboyParticipant 1466]

You can get apps for your phone that block numbers if you’re having issues.

"Have you ever thought about any real freedoms? Freedom from the opinions of others...even from the opinions of yourself?"

[BeerParticipant 11832]

I’ve got a simple rule for phone calls. Only people I want to talk to get their number saved in my phone. If I get a phone call that isn’t from a pre-saved contact, I don’t pick it up. If its important they leave a voice mail, and you can decide to call back or not. If its some meat hole from the past…yeah…they don’t get a call back.

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

Former girlfriends never contact me. Probably because they hate me.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[Frank V.Participant 2445]

Anonymous wrote:

Former girlfriend from last year contacted me from out of the blue. 3 months ago {……….}

When I finally became super attached, she f~~~ed up, and she became such a solipsistic s~~~ show at the end, her behavior more than anything drove me deeper to GMOW. Not unlike how my ex-wife’s behavior led me to MGTOW in the first place.

These women have no clue how destructive they are of relationships, and take no accountability for it.

AWALT

This

This is what I mean about women making the argument for MGTOW and recruiting men to it. Feminists are great at it too. No MGTOW can Red Pill a man as well as a woman can.

Frank V.

[Frank V.Participant 2445]

Removed wrote:

Walking away is the right answer. If she threatened to call the police once, it means she has a plan in the game for when she wants to make that fake claim, and she has her cross hairs on you once more. You don’t even have to set her off, as she will change her mind at the slightest whim, and you will be the receiving end of her lack of emotional stability. Ignore and ghost, unless you want to be sharing a cell with real criminals in the soon future.

They say “Listen and believe” her. In this case, I cannot agree more !

If she says she is going to throw you to the cops, believe her.

Good advice in this reply. Can’t assume she won’t change her mind just as fast one way she did the other.

Frank V.

[Frank V.Participant 2445]

I think we all agree that this is what you should offer her:

Frank V.

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