Former girlfriend contacted me

[Anonymous 0]

Former girlfriend from last year contacted me from out of the blue. 3 months ago I told her not to contact me anymore, and then she told me that if I contacted her again she would call the police…but here she is just 3 months later telling me that she thought about me “often”. Told me she wouldn’t call the police if I contacted her again, but she wasn’t ever going to discuss or listen to me about MGTOW, feminism, or divorce, etc again.

F~~~ that.

Me: [silence]

I was crazy for her. It prob took her a year and a half before she finally really had me, and at just that point, her mask came off, her act dropped, hamster thinking kicked in, selfish demands, hive thinking, etc.

Huge boner killer, and fortunately for me, killed off my emotional attachment to her. So I’ve hardly thought of her since our break up. When I finally became super attached, she f~~~ed up, and she became such a solipsistic s~~~ show at the end, her behavior more than anything drove me deeper to GMOW. Not unlike how my ex-wife’s behavior led me to MGTOW in the first place.

These women have no clue how destructive they are of relationships, and take no accountability for it.

AWALT

[Anonymous 7]

Anonymous wrote:

killed off my emotional attachment to her.

Hngh, the whole thing reeked of emotional attachment.
But as you say, f~~~ that bitch. Stay strong and focused.

[AttonParticipant]

Bots are better

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[Anonymous 18]

Whenever ex contacts you, assume she is lying naked after a Tinder date f~~~ed her raw. And bounced.

She is looking for cyber cuddling. And in case she gets pregnant …. U be the Real Man ®.

[MACHOParticipant]

Sounds like Russian Roulette!

Anonymous wrote:

she told me that if I contacted her again she would call the police…but here she is just 3 months later telling me that she thought about me “often”. Told me she wouldn’t call the police if I contacted her again,

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[RemovedParticipant 4676]

Walking away is the right answer. If she threatened to call the police once, it means she has a plan in the game for when she wants to make that fake claim, and she has her cross hairs on you once more. You don’t even have to set her off, as she will change her mind at the slightest whim, and you will be the receiving end of her lack of emotional stability. Ignore and ghost, unless you want to be sharing a cell with real criminals in the soon future.

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

Ghost her…She is running through her lists of beta orbiters and checking who is foolish enough to “rescue her”. The drama and suspense alone is more than Stephen King can write…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22510]

Change your number and drop your internet social contacts she has on you.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[Anonymous 3]

Anonymous wrote:

Former girlfriend

okay, first to clarify it: a girl one f~~~s is not a friend. That is just fairy tale, and chemistry making one believe that. She is just another person you temporarily let into your life, and who f~~~ed it up.

Second, anyone who ever threatened you, is an enemy. Even if she looked hot, don’t let a boner think instead of brain. Do not forgive, do not forget. Learn from your mistakes, and realize that any other cupcake won’t make any difference, just a different version of a bad drama.

MACHO wrote:

Sounds like Russian Roulette!

GenXRex wrote:

she told me that if I contacted her again she would call the police…but here she is just 3 months later telling me that she thought about me “often”. Told me she wouldn’t call the police if I contacted her again,

Take the “russian roulette” comment literally, police has guns but never shoot liar manipulating women. And, according to divorce statistics, it is more like playing that russian roulette with a fully loaded shotgun.

[sjt1975Participant 2536]

I have noticed that there have been a rise in the number of ‘my ex-girlfriend re-contacted me’ topics. Dare I be naive enough to suggest that women are beginning to realise that Chad isn’t that good for them after all, so they come running-back to the good man that they previously shafted? Or maybe that would be crediting women with too much intelligence?

[SuggestiusParticipant 3312]

Completely mentally instable person. Ignore her

Happiness for all and let no one be forgotten ("Roadside picnic", Arkady and Boris Strugatsky)

[Silver FoxParticipant 2766]

1. Ghost her. Not even a single word in response.
2. I strongly recommend getting a restraining order against her. She has already threatened to call the cops on you. That threat should not be taken lightly. She could do it in response simply to you not answering her. So be preemptive and protect yourself.

"Are you loosed from a wife? Do not seek a wife." --Apostle Paul

[Space CowboyParticipant 1466]

Keep those threatening texts and the ones begging you to contact her or see her. They are your defence case evidence. As others have said, she threatens you, she’s the enemy.

"Have you ever thought about any real freedoms? Freedom from the opinions of others...even from the opinions of yourself?"

[RhinoParticipant 3477]

Ghosting her is not enough. You have to completely cut all ties with her by deleting her phone number and contact information from all social platforms you use. Never ever engage with her again on any level and make sure all your friends and relatives know your stance on this.

If they break this rule you kick them to the curb too you are not to talk to anyone who has contact with her ever again. You are now in survival mode you must take these drastic steps to secure your well being as all it takes is one phone call from her and you are screwed.

As soon as you cut all communication with her she will try to get in contact with anyone you knew in the past to get to you. If she is really crazy she will escalate when the above doesn’t work and will show up to where you live or work to try to get into contact with you. Do not engage under any circumstances with her as far as you are concerned she no longer exists.

[ArcturisParticipant 2819]

Anonymous wrote:

These women have no clue how destructive they are of relationships, and take no accountability for it.

It’s hard mate, but silence is the best policy. I’ve struggled with this myself but so far haven’t gone back on my no contact rule. Some days it’s easy, other days it’s hard.

As men we can actually love. I don’t let people in easy and it took a good 4-5 years to really fall for my ex. They feed you with lies and will drop you at a hat IF AND WHEN IT SUITS THEM. I would have done anything for her, but now I’m a changed man and I’m BEGINNING to understand how they work. I won’t be putting myself in that situation again.

Always remember WHY you came here. She had her chance. It’s not easy, but the guys are always here to help.

Protect Your Sovereignty. Women WILL TRY To Manipulate You. #NOCONTACT #ICETHEMOUT

[surfdude12Participant 4103]

Listen to Rhino above. I had crazy ex bitch like you and only ghosted her but it wasn’t enough. She’d come by house. These women are desperate. She probably hasn’t contacted you in a while because she thought she had the hooks in some new sucker and he got away. Don’t respond at all. I made that mistake. It’s like fisherman who casts out. If he even feels fish biting the hook , he’ll keep casting even though hasn’t hooked them. He’ll keep casting until ZERO response on end of hook. She will do same

[It’sallbsParticipant]

sjt1975 wrote:

they come running-back to the good man

They are looking for beta providers and or orbitors whilst continuing to fcuk with chad/s.

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Second, anyone who ever threatened you, is an enemy. Even if she looked hot, don’t let a boner think instead of brain. Do not forgive, do not forget.

+100. Anyone f’ed up enough to threaten to call the police just for contacting her is a special brand of bat-s~~~ crazy. She gave you a reveal of who she really is and how easy it would be to make your life hell. Believe her. It was most likely the one time she actually told you the truth.

Order the good wine

[narwhalParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Former girlfriend from last year contacted me from out of the blue. 3 months ago I told her not to contact me anymore, and then she told me that if I contacted her again she would call the police…but here she is just 3 months later telling me that she thought about me “often”. Told me she wouldn’t call the police if I contacted her again, but she wasn’t ever going to discuss or listen to me about MGTOW, feminism, or divorce, etc again.

This is what women like to call ‘romance’. This is the kind of drama and dysfunction that makes her life exciting. She clearly understands that she can use the police, the government, to get what she wants from you. She is definitely dangerous.

No. Just no.

Ok. Then do it.

[joetechParticipant]

I love some of the technology of today. For instance, the “block this caller” button is very handy to keep telemarketers and ex girlfriends from disturbing my day.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

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