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Meek Mill 1 year, 10 months ago.
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I feel your pain, but you are NOT ready for MGTOW. Read the forums and get a feel for what we are.
You are putting too much value in a woman who couldn’t care less about you. She will never validate you because it’s not in her programming. Here’s a hint, she doesn’t really “love” any man, nor will she ever. You need to figure out that all women are like that. Once you do this, you’ll be ready to accept life on your own terms. It was the truth that set me free.
"I've been thinking about what it would be like if we got back together."
"You know it's too late for that."I don’t get the ‘sniff sniff’ reference.
Stop digging hole and read…Live the life of other brothers here by reading their intros or their history…Perhaps you will get an inkling of what MGTOW is…
I want to understand what a real man is.
You got hands? Now cup your b~~~~…Its still there? If it is, then its a start…
Second is to read so you can detox…Other people got it worse so learn from them…If you are really interested to go MGTOW be prepared to have your mind f~~~ed because only MEN emerges from the trial and laugh about it…
Keep reading earlier posts from vetted members, watch youtube sandman, human, turdflinging monkey, loyal eugene who is hosting big johns videos and countless others…
You are young, the pull of the plantation is still strong…And dont keep making excuses…Cut off the exes from social media and block them…Go to a gym, get a guy instructor and lift…one hour cardio and one hour weights daily…Push yourself to get out from that rut…In a month of daily gym you will be too tired to think about your ex and would feel better about yourself…
And read…If you waste our time here you get the empty chair…We cannot fix your life for you…Only YOU can do that…Understand that YOU HAVE THE CHOICE to be miserable or YOU CAN DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT….
I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...
@thespice
Thanks. I appreciate the feedback. How will I become ready? By keep interacting with this loop of pain? I don’t want to self destruct and die. I refuse to continue to live in this bobble with the Tinder-crap illusion s~~~, polygamy-bulls~~~. I want to live and be happy but as for the time being, I find it so difficult because I am alone. I want to learn how to live happily as a MAN – alone.
In terms of getting to know MGTOW, I am looking at the forums, at different sections, and I do admit that there’s so much material and very interesting discussed topics.@nerdtunneler
Just what I needed. Some ass kicking. TYVM!Go to the videos here and watch them.
Up top click sections / videos.
Watch MGTOW 101, and keep going thru.
Everything will start making sense, then you will start getting p~~~ed off at what should of been easily seen for so long. This is red pill rage.
Welcome to MGTOW.
Don't chase tail. Turn yours around, walk away, and live free!
@oldbuck
Thank you very much. I’ll follow your advice and get right on with it.
Have a good evening, sir.Thanks. I appreciate the feedback. How will I become ready? By keep interacting with this loop of pain?
Obviously not. You need to emotionally detach from your situation. As bad as you feel, things can always be worse.
I refuse to continue to live in this bobble with the Tinder-crap illusion s~~~, polygamy-bulls~~~.
Good! You SHOULD refuse to put up with that bulls~~~. Don’t use Tinder, Facebook, Snapchat, Twitter, or any kind of social media bulls~~~. It’s all fake nonsense.
I want to live and be happy but as for the time being, I find it so difficult because I am alone.
We’re all alone in the end. Stop trying to be in a relationship with a woman. Focus on doing things you like to do. Your value isn’t assigned to you by a woman. Understand?
"I've been thinking about what it would be like if we got back together."
"You know it's too late for that."
Anonymous14OP, take a time out and read thru the plethora of information at your mouse click or fingertips. Every answer you poise has already been answered shall you choose to dig and research. I did it, you can too.
be welcomed. women suck. i had a relationship like yours go on for 3 years like that, she just hid it better. Time heals all wounds
God grant me the Serenity to accept the things I cannot change: Courage to change the things I can: And Wisdom to know the difference. -Reinhold Niebuhr 1951
Enabler, listen man, you need to reinvent yourself. You are a man only through the women you are with. This needs to change with you. You MUST be a man that can stand on his own and not need validation from another woman. Hang out here, read our stories, and take that red pill when it comes. Your life will be much better when you do.
Good luck and God bless.Like a bird on the wire, like a drunk midnight choir, I have tried in my way to be free.
@thespice
I understand. Thanks.
In addition to the social media thing… I’ve deleted most of them but I am left with one question: What about Linkedin and career building?… Won’t I need it or shall I put it like this… Isn’t it necessary to have it? I am a software developer and I do have Github and StackOverflow, which is referenced in my CV but Linkedin… I have no experience with Linkedin and I am connected with people, whom I don’t even talk to or like, only met once or gone to school with before…@zerenity
Have you shared your story somewhere? Or your story on how you coped with it? I really would like to know how you managed to handle this situation and that dark time of yours.@generalkenobi
Thanks. I just started this thread to share my story and hear some of your experiences in terms of handling some of the feelings that I am having right now. Again, I see that there are some tough men here, whom have no patience with newbies like me and I totally get it. It is always like that in communities but I just wanted to get to know some of you and your stories/coping mechanism for both now and back then when it (infidelities) happened to you.Have a good evening.
What about Linkedin and career building?
I don’t really consider LinkedIn social media, though some might. It is a way to keep your professional network organized. I don’t post or read much there, but I do keep in touch with old colleagues and vendors there. I get the occasional job offer (offer to apply, I should say) which can be a bit of an ego boost.
In short, keep LinkedIn.
"I've been thinking about what it would be like if we got back together."
"You know it's too late for that."@Enablr
I haven’t yet. As you can imagine its dark. The difference is, is that im 8-10 years down the road from it now.
I also did my best to repress the memories from the get go. This hampers my ability to recall all the details.
I relied on my friends and my career to pull me through. I also had a child with this person so I still have constant contact.
Time heals all wounds. Its dark now but it took time for you to get this dark. Its gonna take time to get back to the lightEventually ill resurrect all the details and I will share my story in its entirety.
God grant me the Serenity to accept the things I cannot change: Courage to change the things I can: And Wisdom to know the difference. -Reinhold Niebuhr 1951
@jdanderson
Thank you so much for your reply. I appreciate your take on this matter. I’ll follow it by heart.
God bless you too sir and thank you again. Really!I am connected with people, whom I don’t even talk to or like, only met once or gone to school with before…
You just answered it…Plus, you cant have a career when you are a mess…Rebuild yourself before doing greater endeavors. Being a programmer, you build your code one line at a time and not do everything at once expecting the jumble to compile..
To simplify, you are a junk car now…You have to rebuild the body, change engine, clean the rust and remove the crap that is hindering performance…A crappy car will not win a race just because you are in a hurry…
I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...
Anonymous14@generalkenobi
Thanks. I just started this thread to share my story and hear some of your experiences in terms of handling some of the feelings that I am having right now. Again, I see that there are some tough men here, whom have no patience with newbies like me and I totally get it. It is alwaysS like that in communities but I just wanted to get to know some of you and your stories/coping mechanism for both now and back then when it (infidelities) happened to you.Have a good evening.
You should start your own thread as is S.O.P. here per introduction as first post. We are not here to get to “know” each other, rather to share our stories and to teach/learn the newcomers to this site. Be advised:
Hey Enablr, I was watching some vids on YouTube and found someone who made an enlightening comment. If you want to respect yourself, then self-respect comes before your desires, no exceptions. You never do anything humiliating just for some pussy. I recommend reading books on philosophy (not nihilsm, it’ll just make you more depressed) and get some regular exercise. Anywho this comment is more a thesis, kudos to the guy that posted this. Please read all of this and save it to your computer. Also note if you are willing to learn red-pill knowledge you will probably feel angry, it’s a normal part of the grieving process, but it will wane with time and with a mentality that doesn’t accept ‘victim-hood’.
Observer MGTOW 1 week ago
Something you guys might be interested in. Years ago I became friends with a very hot blonde in her early 30’s, who was dying of cancer. Due to her impending death, she decided that it was okay to relay a vast amount of inside information to me, regarding what women were really all about. She volunteered this information. I have never forgotten what she told me, and it has served me quite well over the years. Here is a summary of the 10 critical things she told me about the true nature of women over the span of a couple of weeks, shortly before her passing:Point 1) Women are exactly like little children. We are constantly poking, prodding and testing a man, in order to find out what his boundaries are. If he has no boundaries, we will destroy him, especially if he loves us (more on this in Point 8, below). A man has to have boundaries, and he has to outline them precisely, and he has to force us to adhere to them with the power of his conviction and the power of his action. If he doesn’t do that, we will beat him over the head with his weaknesses (his lack of boundaries) until he breaks.
Point 2) Women put up a false front about virtually everything. Our faces are fake (makeup), our hair is fake (dyed), our boobs are fake (some of us), everything about us is fake. Most especially when it comes to what is inside of us. We lie constantly, because we are far worse, characterwise, than even our closest friends or lovers will ever know, and we desperately fight to keep all of that hidden. We are looking for our true daddies, basically – the idealized daddies that we never had – somebody who can see through all of our false fronts and call us out on our bulls~~~ and put us in our place. The problem is, those type of men are very few and far between.
Point 3) If a woman ever tells you, “If we don’t have trust, we don’t have anything,” she is either cheating on you already, or she is planning to cheat on you. There are no exceptions to this rule. We use that as cover, to try and make the man feel guilty for questioning our fidelity. What we are really saying here, is, “I will f~~~ whomever I want and you’d better keep your nose out of it or I’ll cut you off from my pussy and I’ll ruin your freaking life if you keep pressing the issue.” If we really cared about you, and if we really weren’t cheating on you or planning to cheat on you, we would tell you something like, “I am not cheating on you, I love you, and I would never do that. I don’t care if we have to stay up all night, for the next week, and go over every single shred of doubt that’s currently troubling you about this. I have nothing to hide, I would never cheat on you, and I don’t want you thinking these things about me. Please tell me exactly why you think I am cheating, point by point, and I will do anything and everything that I have to do to prove to you that I’m not cheating, in order to ease your worried mind.”
Point 4) Women are much hornier than men. Vastly, exponentially, hornier than men. A woman will do just about anything, sexually speaking, so long as she is fairly certain she won’t get caught. For example, we will occasionally go out of town in order to rendezvous with a man we’ve been longing to f~~~, and/or to have multiple sex partners in the same evening, and/or at the same time. This is something that hot women do, most especially. In our minds, it is a natural desire, and a natural thing, and so long as nobody else finds out, it’s “game on”. Women are receptacles for c~~~, that’s how we have been biologically designed. Nothing feels better to us than being completely filled up with multiple penises, than being the center of sexual attention, than being the object of unbridled group lust. Since it’s something we can’t risk doing on our home turf (don’t s~~~ where you eat), we have to think outside the box, in order to get our boxes completely satisfied. And you might find this shocking, but many women – many, many women – have sex with dogs on a routine basis. This is just one example of how insatiable we truly are. I can see why you might not believe it, to which I say, look really hard at all of the women you know who have dogs. Look at women who have dogs whenever you see them out on the street, in the act of walking those dogs. Or at the park. You will notice that most of them have male dogs – the vast majority, in fact. This isn’t a coincidence. And look at all the female teachers who are exposed in the media for having sex with underage students. We have no self-control when it comes to sex – or anything else, for that matter. To our way of thinking, losing control is what makes sex great. Doing anything that is taboo is what makes sex great.
Point 5) Women do not have female friends. We have female competition. We lie to our so-called female friends and pretend we are loyal and faithful to them, just like we do with the men in our lives. Secretly, we are jealous of each other, and we want all of the desirable things that other women have – most especially when it comes to our female friends’ things. And we consider men to be things. If one of our friends has a hot man, we want him to want us. We will do everything we can to seduce him. Not because we really want him – we don’t really want anybody. We do it because we are rarely happy, and we don’t want our girlfriends to be happy, either, and we want to boost our own egos more than anything else. And after we get him to f~~~ us, when our girlfriends find out that he has had sex with us, that’s when we finally get what we wanted in the first place. If we break up the previously happy couple, that’s fine, too. It’s all about our pussy, not hers. It’s about winning.
Point 6) Women want what they can’t have. If a guy doesn’t want us, it doesn’t matter who he is – if we have expressed an interest in him, and he blows us off, or laughs at us, or sees us for the piece of crap that we really are, it will make us feel miserable inside, and we will pursue him to the ends of the earth.
Point 7) Women always lie about the number of sexual partners they have had. They also lie about not wanting men with large penises. If we told the actual truth about the number of different men and women we’ve slept with, and if we told the actual truth about our fervent desire for big dicks, our pool of potential suitors would shrink drastically, to the point where it would completely dry up. So we lie. Most often, we will claim that we’ve had between three and eight sexual partners in our lifetime. And, to our way of thinking, it isn’t a lie, because if we had five sexual partners last Saturday evening, and our man asks us how many sexual partners we have had, and we answer, “Five”, well, technically we aren’t lying.
Point 8) All women hate themselves. And because we hate ourselves, we hate any man who doesn’t see through our bulls~~~. The more a man loves us, the more we hate him. The more he overlooks our sins, and the more he fails to see how corrupt we are, and the more he gives us the benefit of every single doubt – the more we despise him. We will escalate our bad behavior until we finally break him and he wakes up and realizes how worthless we are and what a fool he has been for believing in us.
Point 9) Women don’t want a man who wants us. We want a man whom we can’t have. We want a man who honestly doesn’t give a f~~~ about us, who doesn’t care if we come or go. That’s the kind of man we will pursue. Call them bad boys or call them whatever you want, that’s the kind of man we want – period. The kind of guy who will make us orgasm, crudely, and give us a huge sexual thrill in the bedroom, and then discard us like used toilet paper, and f~~~ our female friends afterwards, just because he can. (Just like we would do with his male friends.)
Point 10) All women are masochists. And all hot women are narcissistic masochists. We hate it when things are going well, especially if they continue to go well for long periods of time. We know down deep that we are f~~~ed-up and not worthy of anything that is truly good. So when things are going well in a relationship, we eventually sabotage it. We just can’t help ourselves in this regard. We could have the greatest, most handsome, most well-hung husband in the world – a one-of-a-kind man who makes all of our girlfriends jealous; we could have the greatest children in the world, who are beautiful, well-behaved and ambitious; we could have the most enviable career imaginable; we could have all of the money and prestige and the truly good things in life, and we could repeatedly tell ourselves over and over, and believe, on the surface, that we would never cheat on our husbands. But down deep we know that it’s a lie. Because one day, we could walk into a grocery store, and some bad boy could whisper just the right combination of words in our ear, and the next thing you know, we’re at the Motel 6 getting it in the ass. That’s just how we are, and any woman – especially a hot woman – who says otherwise, is a liar. ———— Over the years, my deceased friend’s words have proven to be spot-on, in the vast majority of cases. And if they ring true from your own personal experience as well, then I am more than happy that I shared them with you here today. I know that my deceased friend would be thrilled to know that I have shared this information with the manosphere. After all, she used to be a conniving hottie, and she’s now dead, and by giving me the inside scoop on her female competition, she continues to beat them – she continues to “win” – even from beyond the grave…
Courage is the key to life itself - Morgan Freeman
She found all her men through Tinder, and she has tried to attack me mentally by telling them how big their D’s are and that I should be happy and satisfied with my self that I do not have a big D. Mine is average size but she just had to mention it that she has tried all kinds of new stuff with them to get to me. To see if she could get a reaction.
Tell her you just got back from a 1 week trip in Thailand where picked up a girlfriend who was younger, hotter and sexualy more satisfying right down to marathon five hour f~~~s. Or better yet book a ticket and tell her your going on a peaceful get away and you don’t need her stinking crotch.
"Society is to blame" Denton
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