Find out if she's cheating?

[Anonymous 1]

if you think a woman is cheating irrespective if she is or isn’t, 9 out of 10 times you are asking the wrong question. The real questions are

1. Am I happy in this relationship
2. Will staying in this relationship get better or worse.

[pZ1$Participant 110]

Anonymous wrote:

if you think a woman is cheating irrespective if she is or isn’t, 9 out of 10 times you are asking the wrong question. The real questions are

1. Am I happy in this relationship
2. Will staying in this relationship get better or worse.

If I live in accordance to her status quo all is fine. That means no affection or sex.

[pZ1$Participant 110]

How does a man live MGTOW when he has no relationships other than his wife and kids?

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Y_ wrote:

can you teach me how to do that large smiley thing?
that is sooo coool like I almost shat myself

pZ1$ wrote:

I don’t know how I did it. LOL It was an accident. lol

Yeah it is an accident. When you quote someone wth a “smiley” it’s actually a scalable SVG image. The quote doesn’t know what size it should be so it blows it rip to 100%. We have to fix that. It’s just a little side effect /bug

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

pZ1$ wrote:

Should a husband try to find out if his wife has been having some sort of an affair with a coworker before he calls it quits? If so, how does he go about doing it in your opinion?

If he’s going to call it quits, have him practically ENCOURAGE it! Let her cheat. Give her every reason to. Get it on film. A good lawyer will win that case. Roll it into a custody hearing. If the “the boyfriend” is a white knight bring a suit against him for “alientation of affection”… and buy yourself a nice car with the settlement. Then look for a slimmer, hotter, model to assist with your stress level.

Just be creative.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[pZ1$Participant 110]

Keymaster wrote:

pZ1$ wrote:

Should a husband try to find out if his wife has been having some sort of an affair with a coworker before he calls it quits? If so, how does he go about doing it in your opinion?

If he’s going to call it quits, have him practically ENCOURAGE it! Let her cheat. Give her every reason to. Get it on film. A good lawyer will win that case. Roll it into a custody hearing. If the “the boyfriend” is a white knight bring a suit against him for “alientation of affection”… and buy yourself a nice car with the settlement. Then look for a slimmer, hotter, model to assist with your stress level.

Just be creative.

I never heard the term “alienation of affection.” That’s what my wife had done! But wouldn’t I bring that up against my wife and not the man?

[Sky-OParticipant 18936]

During my blue pill era, I initiated a tactic that enabled me to catch sluts (that claimed we were monogamous) cheating with a 100% success rate based on 3 out of 3 times.

Voicemail access.

Getting the password was never really hard.

In each relationship after the first few months where my grasp on logic & reason was distorted due to phenomenal, porn induced sex. I would wait until I was coming out of the cognitive fog and actually getting burned out on the sex:

Then, each time mention I was going to have an extra key made to my house for her since she was over all the time. Then I would walk over to my ADT security panel, (adding some casual laughter) and say, ‘I need to give you the security code too. I’m kind of dumb and still use the factory code that it had prior to setting it up. Which is 1-2-3-4. I’m going to change it now. What would be a good code? Like four numbers you will remember.’

Then. BINGO

Relying on the fact none of them could probably even remember more than one set of four numbers anyway.

Each time, it turned out to be the same as their voicemail passwords.

I would wait about a day, then dial in from a back up, stealth mode Trac Fone that I used for covert things like Operation: Expose the Slut.

Slut wouldn’t answer. Goes to voicemail, hit the ‘*’ button during the greeting. Then enter the password.

Still amazed at how sluts will actually save voicemails from a few days or a week prior when it’s a guy they have been banging. It probably feeds their egos listening to them again.

Best part was, by hitting the number ‘5’ during those messages, I got the time & date they originally came in too.

Point is. If you think a woman is cheating, then she already is.

[mgtow_85Participant 752]

I’m starting to wonder if pZ1$ REALLY is looking for some advice here, or if he just wants the attention.
Yes…I remember your first post nearly two years ago. “Enough is enough”, you said, and you rambled on about how you can’t take it any longer.
Apparently you CAN take it longer. It’s been two years and this bulls~~~ from your wife is apparently never-ending, so you must have a high threshold for being walked all over like a doormat.

Not that we can really give you any sympathy because I also faintly recall that you jumped all over one of the members in this forum because he insulted your wife for her bulls~~~ and you were giving off the impression that NO ONE is allowed to talk about your wife that way because despite her shortcomings, you’re still madly in love with her, no matter how miserable she makes you, so you are the only one who is allowed to talk about her.

It’s been two years. You talk about what you should do, we all give you great advice, but you continue to keep the marriage going because deep down inside, you don’t want to DITCH THE BITCH. I’m sure we’re all getting fed up of giving you advice and numerous stories of OUR experiences that you won’t take to heart.

And who cares if your wife is cheating??? You don’t, apparently. Yes, she might be, but as usual, you’ll just complain about it and then go on with your hell-on-earth marriage with a big happy smile. We’ve given you all the advice you need to kick that c~~~ to the curb but you refuse to do it, and the longer you hold off a possible divorce, the more it’s going to cost you in the end because us guys have a tendency to make MORE money as the years go by. You’re just giving her a bigger alimony check from what the courts would have entitled her in the first place two years ago if you had just LISTENED to us and dropped that bitch like a bad habit.

You shouldn’t ask for advice anymore if you’re just going to sit on it and do nothing. Your marriage is a dead thing that should’ve been put out of it’s misery a long time ago. Your wife even knows it. No wonder she’s cheating. She’s waiting for you to give her the “it’s time for divorce” talk and preparing for her next relationship, but you’re holding onto it like a panicked passenger to the railings of the sinking TITANIC. The passenger doesn’t want to die, and he’s clutching to the f~~~ing ship as if it’s somehow going to save him, even though the ship has started it’s f~~~ing plunge beneath the surface and he’ll either get dragged down with it or freeze to death in the icy waters.
That passenger is you. And you had plenty of opportunities to get into a f~~~ing lifeboat earlier. You just refused to do so because you thought the ship is still unsinkable and you don’t want to be out there in a “cold, cramped lifeboat” even with the deck beginning to slant down under your feet and the f~~~ing distress rockets are going up in the air every 5 minutes.

[Anonymous 0]

Hear! Hear!
+1 for MGTOW_85

[mgtow_85Participant 752]

Thanks, buddy. +1 for you too!!!

This guy is a blue-pill troll. He just wants to whine about his marriage, not to actually DO anything about it. Then he’ll attack others who insult his “pwecious wifey” but then continue to complain about her in many “I’m-so-sad” posts. We tell him to dump her, he won’t even acknowledge the advice and keeps on living in a marriage that he said AGES ago that he “had enough of and can’t endure any more”.
I’ve had a few jobs I’ve hated. Instead of whining about my jobs and enduring the bulls~~~ misery, I simply told my bosses to go to hell and I hit the road and found better ones. I didn’t continue to eat a s~~~ sandwich served to me every day because I was afraid of everything else out there that might be offered to me. I love my current job. Why? Because when I was stuck in a worse job, I got off my ass and found something better.
Some guys just LOVE to complain. They have the means to go out there and better themselves, but they refuse to because the REAL WORLD is “oh so scar-wee” for them and their s~~~ty lives is actually what they prefer.

pZ1$ is just a whiny blue-pill troll. Most likely, his wife is typing up at least HALF these posts his profile is making or he’s suffering from a multiple-personality disorder because at first, he’ll BEG for advice, and then within minutes, he’ll go, “But I can’t leave my wife. I love her and even though she’s cheating, I don’t want to be lonely all over again.”

[TrapperParticipant 2912]

chir wrote:

Hrm…

Properly you should have asked “How can I find out if my wife is cheating”

We are anonymous here. (Clear the cache on your history and browsing) What? You think your wife isnt snooping on you? Women live to snoop. Gives them ammo to instigate drama.

Solomon may be onto something here.

If not. Use these…
GPS Tracker
If you suspect she is bringing in some c~~~ to your home use these.

OH S~~~!! I’d recognize that fake plant in the spy shop link anywhere! My ex has one! I just thought she was to lazy to water real ones! What the F~~~!!

[pZ1$Participant 110]

mgtow_85 wrote:

Thanks, buddy. +1 for you too!!!

This guy is a blue-pill troll. He just wants to whine about his marriage, not to actually DO anything about it. Then he’ll attack others who insult his “pwecious wifey” but then continue to complain about her in many “I’m-so-sad” posts. We tell him to dump her, he won’t even acknowledge the advice and keeps on living in a marriage that he said AGES ago that he “had enough of and can’t endure any more”.
I’ve had a few jobs I’ve hated. Instead of whining about my jobs and enduring the bulls~~~ misery, I simply told my bosses to go to hell and I hit the road and found better ones. I didn’t continue to eat a s~~~ sandwich served to me every day because I was afraid of everything else out there that might be offered to me. I love my current job. Why? Because when I was stuck in a worse job, I got off my ass and found something better.
Some guys just LOVE to complain. They have the means to go out there and better themselves, but they refuse to because the REAL WORLD is “oh so scar-wee” for them and their s~~~ty lives is actually what they prefer.

pZ1$ is just a whiny blue-pill troll. Most likely, his wife is typing up at least HALF these posts his profile is making or he’s suffering from a multiple-personality disorder because at first, he’ll BEG for advice, and then within minutes, he’ll go, “But I can’t leave my wife. I love her and even though she’s cheating, I don’t want to be lonely all over again.”

Mgtow_85 thank you. I mean it, thank you! You’re right! I’m guilty of asking for advice and not taking it. Thank you for slapping sense into me. I needed to read this. But please know that I am not a troll. But thanks man. I needed this splash of cold water. I mean it.

[mgtow_85Participant 752]

You ARE a f~~~ing troll. Don’t act all nice and pretending like it was MY post that “slapped sense” into you when at least a hundred other posts from other guys have all said the same f~~~ing thing I have said. You’ve had SO MANY “splashes of cold water”, you should have died from hypothermia and exposure months ago.
You are nowhere near red pill or the way of MGTOW like the rest of the men in the group. Yes, there are other men in here who are married, but they are miserable as F~~~ and looking for a way out. YOU are just looking for reasons to stay married to a cheating trash sewer c~~~. And YES, I DID say that about your wife. You gonna get all p~~~ed at me because I talked that way about your “pwecious Cupcake”???

You are one of the biggest goddamn trolls in this place. You DARE to act like you haven’t gotten this kind of advice before and that it was MY post that woke you up after all this f~~~ing time that you spent in here??? Get f~~~ing real. I’m not buying your s~~~ for a second. You’re just another unhappily married man who just wants an occasional moment to whine about your life, but not to do anything about it.
Right now, it is January 8, 2017. I would bet a month’s pay that by January 8, 2027, NOTHING would have absolutely changed for you at all. 10 more years being married to the same bitch, 10 more years of whining about it on this site, and doing ZERO effort to do anything about it, because as you claimed nearly 2 years ago, “I can’t take any more of this!!!” Apparently, you CAN take it, and keep on taking it for the rest of your life.
So stop pretending like MY post is the only piece of real advice you’ve ever read that “wakes you up”. Your word is worthless. Now stop wasting our f~~~ing time with your posts bitching about YOUR bitch. The only reason you haven’t been tossed out as a potential troll is because you’re the perfect example of a married man who is unhappy with his life, but is completely blind and deaf to the signs and advice given to him that perhaps he needs to change it for the better. And many people in here find that amusing.
Some people PREFER being a doormat. You are one of them.
Now go out there and go back to work so you can provide your wife with more spending money that she needs to go to events with the Chad Thunderc~~~ that she’s cheating on you with. You have to make her boyfriend happy too!!!

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