Finally MTGOW and Free

[IRuleMeParticipant]

Pretty fortunate you didn’t lose your ass. Good for you doing your homework. Most men don’t. Largely because even though the signs are there, men never think it’ll happen to them. Or they wait till it’s too late to try and do something. It’s hard to win when the women are on the offensive. But you made her scramble. And for all her trash talking, she dropped the ball and lost.

Welcome to the forums. The beer’s in Heyoka’s fridge.

[bladeParticipant]

Mr Logic wrote:

Welcome sir. Smoking a bowl for you tonight.

#metoo

Welcome bro you left the pussy juice at the bar .

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[Anonymous 0]

Welcome home, ronnyquest
Beer’s in the fridge
Looking forward to your posts

[VerusParticipant 965]

Great story, and part of it struck me as all too familiar. My ex also hid her mental problems and drug use from me for years. She was diagnosed bipolar and on meds for it. I found out not from her, but from our marriage counselor, who mentioned it in a counseling session. We had been married several years at that point.

Glad you managed to prevail over her in court, just wish it happened more often!

[Anonymous 3]

Great intro! Thank you!
Welcome……..
MGTOW is freedom

[VladParticipant 210]

ronnyquest wrote:

All that preparation paid off. The kids hated her, so that worked to my advantage. Her attorney wanted to appoint a GAL for the kids, so my attorney suggested a well-known local family law practice. That paid off. We had the venue changed to the next county over, where the judge was a very conservative woman with nine children, who didn’t hold with married women pretending they are 22 and single. Then, the best part happened: true to form, my lying, cheating, soon-to-be-ex-wife lied in court and withheld evidence the judge demanded. She was censured, which in this state allowed my attorney what amounted to free reign; she wasn’t even allowed to speak during the final hearing.

I got the kids and the ex-wife pays ME child support. She is also responsible for half of all expenses incurred on behalf of the kids, from education to medical. She gets supervised visits once per week–supervised by me. I have full physical and legal custody. Finally, all her debts and the debts she incurred in my name were officially made her responsibility. I was lucky: I had a good attorney, kids who despised their mother and wanted to live with me, an excellent GAL, and a sympathetic judge. However, the best part was that my wife screwed herself and demonstrated in court judge what a piece of s~~~ she had become. As I explained to my attorney early on, divorce is no different from any other conflict and I had read Sun Tzu.

Wow. Utmost respects, man. I have only one friend who screwed his wife as bad as you when she wanted divorce screwing him. Sounds like a ship(t)load of work which definitely paid off. Nice precendent too.

Maybe you should think of your experiences about this and write a brochure or even short book for those men who are still unaware. Given current marriage climate, might become a bestseller…

Marriage is the tomb of love (c)Giacomo Casanova

[AttonParticipant]

In the end you where victorious good going.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[ronnyquestParticipant 156]

It wasn’t that I set out to screw my ex, per se, but I set out to win. I do not like to lose. I am a sore loser. I am also highly motivated, reasonably intelligent, focused, and I play the long game. I also knew my wife well enough to know how she would react under most circumstances. For instance, she will oppose someone just to oppose them and will go out of her way to oppose anyone, even the judge in her divorce proceedings, whom she thinks is trying to “control” her. She used to tell me and anyone who would listen, including the judge and GAL, how I am so “controlling” of her. I was so controlling, in fact, that she did exactly what she wanted, when she wanted, with whom she wanted without any regard for anyone else. Even her own children. They cried many times and begged her to stay home when she decided to spend yet another weekend out partying with her friends and sleeping off the hangover. Yeah, I was that controlling.

Anyway, I knew that she would instinctively oppose any order to produce evidence (or anything else) or to meet any kind of deadline if she were simply told to do so by someone she deemed to be in a position of authority. Like a judge or the GAL. So, I mentioned this fact to my attorney. True to form, she failed to produce said evidence even when given extra time to do so. By that time, she had already perjured herself in court–another of her flaws. She’ll lie even when the truth is easier and more to her benefit. In my experience, AWALT.

So, those two flaws, which I knew how to exploit, led to her doing exactly what I expected, which then led to the court censuring her, which led to my attorney being given almost free rein during the final hearing, which led to her first attorney recusing himself and her second attorney sending an inexperienced lackey so as not to ruin her perfect win record. Since my attorney had all the cards because of the court censuring her, my ex was not even allowed to speak during the final hearing.

Do not wait to strike till the iron is hot; but make it hot by striking! -- William Butler Yeats

[ronnyquestParticipant 156]

Men, it pays to read and understand the various works on strategic thought and gamesmanship so you are prepared to deal with any situation, particularly the divorce that is a statistical likelihood if you live in the USA or Europe.

You must understand that women are deceitful, underhanded, vicious, and wholly unconcerned with anything but their own comfort, happiness, and well-being. The system is stacked against you; you must know the rules of the game and your own AWALT in order to properly use those to your own advantage. Most women, especially when they perceive that the odds are in their favor, are ridiculously arrogant and sloppy. They are lazy. Use this to your advantage.

Perform your own due diligence and never, ever rely on your AWALT to play “fair.” She doesn’t know how and wouldn’t even if she did. Explore ALL of your legal options, particularly when selecting an attorney and venue for the proceedings. Make sure that your attorney understands the game and has the stomach for the level of ruthlessness required to win; many do not. Don’t settle. It’s work, but you’re a man and you should be up to the task.

Do not wait to strike till the iron is hot; but make it hot by striking! -- William Butler Yeats

[ronnyquestParticipant 156]

You are not there to be nice. You are not there to be “fair.” You are not there to be considerate of her feelings. You are not there to show her pity and kindness. You are not there to get along. You are not there for her approval, your family’s approval, her family’s approval, nor your friends’ approval. Make no mistake: your AWALT is playing for keeps and will use everything she can against, especially your kids.

You are there to win. Act like it. If you do not, you will lose and then you will pay for that one loss for years to come. The court will take everything from you if you lose. Everything.

Do not wait to strike till the iron is hot; but make it hot by striking! -- William Butler Yeats

[Anonymous 12]

And that is a perfect summary of Divorce.

It is war – not just a battle, a clash.
It is already prepared in peacetime – si vis pacem, para bellum
It is fought on multiple levels, in the mind, with the people, in the community, on the stage set out by the state.
It has set goals – inner peace and integrity, upbringing and raising of kids, retaining a roof over your head and securing the future of yourself, the kids and the motherf~~~ing Dog.

Any Husband needs to be alert – once she gives an indication of he plans, there is no turning back.

[VladParticipant 210]

ronnyquest wrote:

Men, it pays to read and understand the various works on strategic thought and gamesmanship so you are prepared to deal with any situation, particularly the divorce that is a statistical likelihood if you live in the USA or Europe.

You must understand that women are deceitful, underhanded, vicious, and wholly unconcerned with anything but their own comfort, happiness, and well-being.

Practically, they triumph over men only due to two factors: current legal system and surprise. Most men just don’t want to believe women are that wretched creatures, it makes world such uncomfortable place…

When their factor of surprise is gone, they are nearly powerless. And I believe it’s best course of action for men empowerment: teach and inform properly, with quality information, so they wouldn’t be taken by surprise. Forewarned is saved.

No political movements, no heroes will save you, only yourself going your own right way, being properly informed how to choose the way.

Experiences how to win are thus really important, thank you for sharing them.

Marriage is the tomb of love (c)Giacomo Casanova

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