Females arguing in circles with you

[Enjoy The DeclineParticipant 1719]

A link to a yahoo answers question on this topic

Don’t some of you people find that your former wives or girlfriends or even your sisters or mothers tend to argue in circles with you just because they do not want to admit they are wrong? I am sure that guys do not tend to do this as much since we tend to be more rational and girls tend to be more emotional. What do you guys think?

"Question everything" - Albert Einstein

[Soldier-MedicParticipant 2566]

I believe that this is the normal state of estrogen fueled mind.

I would argue with my ex about her dislike with my not appreciating her mind games and control games. I would get angry and yell. She would tell me that she isn’t going to modify her behavior until I stop yelling at her.

When I pointed out this circular argument she would respond that, that wasn’t what she had said.

Insert divorce here.

"I asked you a question. I didn't ask you to repeat what the voices in you head are telling you" ~ Me. ........Yes I'm still angry.

[JackinovParticipant 5229]

That’s why I don’t argue with bitches. I state my case and they either deal with it or I’m not listening.

are you a chia pet in man drag

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

My question is why are you are wasting time talking to females?

If you talk to them it should be business only.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[Anonymous 5]

Bill Burr explains this better than most.

When a woman is right, she’ll argue the point and stay on point.
She’ll be reasonable, rational, calm and logical.

When a woman is wrong she goes rogue, off road.
They’ll start deflecting, mostly using ad hominen tactics to make it an emotional issue while the man is still thinking it’s about the original issue.
They’ll keep going off on tangents claiming you implied something or pretending the original issue is not the real issue.
It’s all about her asserting her emotionally manipulative superiority to the point where she gets a negative emotional reaction.
The reaction then becomes the issue.
Men are left dumbfounded, thinking the woman is bat s~~~ crazy and doesn’t really understand.
They end up apologizing for the negative reaction or just walk away defeated.

She understands perfectly well.
Esther Vilar stated in “The Manipulated Man” that women are trained by their mothers from about the age of 2 to be manipulative and exploitative.
Chapter (Breaking them in)

A 12 year old girl watching any argument between a man and a woman knows exactly what’s going on.

[HitmanParticipant]

they also go to extremes , trying to p~~~ you off so they can get you upset,angry and even WANT you to hit them…giving them the ” victim card ” which they will use on you FOREVER ! a complete waste of time and energy..walking away is the only answer.

[Anonymous 3]

I’ve never in my life ever heard a female say she was wrong about anything ever. I’ve never seen them take accountability for anything at all.

The day either of those things happen I’ll probably expect the Apocalypse.

[33wolfmanParticipant 216]

My ex was a pro at this, it would get to a point where I would end up with a raging migraine and forgetting everything except how to breathe.

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22589]

I had to deal with this through on by childhood, by everyone. Both women, men, and children.

And it always would starts the same.

Someone would make a comment. Not me. It would create a misunderstanding that lead to everyone arguing. But, it eventually turned into a bitch fest against me that lasted for hours on end.

I honestly I am surprised I am sane. I know I am sane because I tend to be the calm rational person in any given situation I am in.

I have a very low opinion of humanity. Most of whom are emotionally immature, overly critical bullies, whom are looking for an excuse to hurt others.

As such, I keep to myself. My hobbies tend to focus on personal growth and spirituality.

But, I do not keep to myself because I prefer to be a recluse. There is just no one I know in my day to day personal life that I can stand to spend more than five minutes with, because within five minutes they would find something to complain about against me. And I am just not going to deal with it anymore.

Except for some mild entertainment diversions. The only reason I am still around is I want to see how the world burns.

[uchibenkeiParticipant 7965]

women think they win an argument by getting the last word. they’ll say anything and change the topic repeatedly to get the last word. they’re also trying to get you to say something wrong on one of the extra topics so that can be the new focus of the argument and you will be wrong.

I bathe in the tears of single moms.

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22589]

uchibenkei wrote:

women think they win an argument by getting the last word. they’ll say anything and change the topic repeatedly to get the last word. they’re also trying to get you to say something wrong on one of the extra topics so that can be the new focus of the argument and you will be wrong.

This isn’t about getting the last word, but to tear you down to inflate their egos.

As as child there were times I was silent and they just screamed, yelled, and insulted me for hours on end, and they wouldn’t let me leave. They just wanted to make me suffer to make themselves feel better.

One of the reasons I am against killing is that I won’t want to see such cruel people in the afterlife. I want to get away from this s~~~, not run into it after I die. I deal with more than a enough of it in my current life.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

women will pick fights with you just so they can win.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[RhettParticipant 637]

I’m just going to drop this here and walk away………………………………….

Single guys come home, look at what’s in the fridge, and go to bed. Married guys come home, look at what’s in bed, and go to the fridge.......But the best representative of MGTOW is…………… an empty chair,.

[Anonymous 18]

Arguing with women is like stealing a candy away from a child while dressed as Santa.

Shouldn’t be attempted for completely different reasons.

Besides once you know them well enough the silence and speculation of what you are thinking hits them closer to home than any rebuttal points.

On a further note it gives her less ammunition to rationalize, project or use for shaming purposes.

Master the look. ®I won’t argue with you, but I not only disagree with you, I think you are pretty stupid®. Or simply say, “ah hah”, nod and walk away.

[sidecarParticipant 35862]

There’s a reason they call it the hamster wheel. Running furiously around in circles getting nowhere.

They only do this s~~~ because they get away with it. The way to deal with it is walking away. As soon as one of them tries anything but facts and reason, you call them out on it, turn around, and walk away. They will quickly learn that their games don’t work on you and stop playing them.

The only thing is making damn certain you can walk away.

[TheroniusParticipant 975]

sidecar wrote:

The only thing is making damn certain you can walk away.

Damn right, Sidecar. Don’t live with them. Just don’t do it.

"I am is reportedly the shortest sentence in the English language. Could it be that I do is the longest sentence?" - George Carlin

[RoyDalParticipant]

Arguing, making your point, trying to convince another that the concepts trapped in their lizard brain are incorrect, these are as fruitless as can be.

Even trained scientists, who of all people ought to know better, cannot be jostled out of their deepest convictions — no matter how convincing the rationale or returnable the data.

Just go your own way and let them go theirs. It simplifies so many things.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[DDJParticipant 1880]

Women argue feelings…not facts. They don’t care about truth or facts, they care about how you discovering the truth and facts upsets them.

AWALT

Every woman is a slut, if you catch her on the right day.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Great topic.

Enjoy The Decline wrote:

Don’t some of you people find that your former wives or girlfriends or even your sisters or mothers tend to argue in circles with you just because they do not want to admit they are wrong?

That’s their entire strategy.
/dont-argue-with-women/

…. to keep you talking in circles. If you have ever engaged in a “debate” with a female (online or otherwise), she will start with a point that isn’t even backed up as more than just her opinion or something she is blindly parroting that she read in Chatelaine magazine…… but when you bring her a fact that flattens her opinion, she will deflect it as regular as clock work.

Examples that actually happened on twitter.

“Women are objectified as sex objects”

“So? Men are objectified as success objects. Except, when women are objectified as sex objects she enjoys countless benefits.”

“Did your mother not love you enough? You probably live in your mothers basement and have a tiny penis. lol”.

One minute she has a “problem” and the next it’s “lol”.

—– or vice versa ——-

Example#2:

“LOL at all the butthurt males who complain about #wastehistime2016”

“You won’t be lol when you tweet #whereareallthegoodmen2017”

“You misogynist prick.”

“Don’t get all butthurt now.“

…. and suddenly she’s not “lol” anymore.

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“The point” is never really the point with women. They just want the confrontation, argument, response and attention — unless it’s the response and attention they were not counting on, or expecting. All you need to do is respond to what she said DIRECTLY and she loses her s~~~ as well as the argument.

She isn’t interested in a solution or the resolve the problem.
Only to argue in circles.

Even when she wants the last word, if you keep going until she tires herself out while refusing to GIVE her the last word, she will comment on how childish it is that “you need the last word” — when she is the childish one, because no argument would have taken place if she didn’t open her f~~~ing mouth in the first place. She CULTIVATES this and demands the last word…. and then accuses you of something she is most guilty of.

There is no rhyme or reason to their methods.
There are no “rules” for women, and they scoff at ours.

It’s one deflection after another and changing the topic.

• A “wage gap” argument she started quickly becomes about your tiny penis when she realizes she is wrong and can’t “win”.

• The abortion debate she started is now about your mother.

etc…

Only in a woman’s mind does a “wage gap” argument translate to “your tiny penis”. She will actually pretend to know the size of your penis from across the internet, but she doesn’t even know how tall you are, or what color your car is. But she is totally CONVINCED that you have a micro-penis? No. She is just WRONG and she knows it – even about the penis. So you beat her at her own game by saying “no matter how tiny you THINK a man’s penis is…. it’s ALWAYS going to be bigger than yours“. And now she will be p~~~ed, because her strategy didn’t work.

Women are not interested in right or wrong. They are only interested in winning the argument or continuing it to try and tire you out. And as far as she is concerned, manipulating her opponent into submission by being the snot-nosiest & loud-mouthiest is how she convinces herself she has “won”.

… but she didn’t “win” anything.

You can’t start an “argument” if you’re not even WILLING to be wrong. Men are WILLING to be shown they are wrong, and when you do it, they are actually GRATEFUL for it and will thank you. “Gee I never really thought about it that way! Thanks!”. The last time anyone heard a woman say that when she was corrected ….. was f~~~ing never.

sidecar wrote:

There’s a reason they call it the hamster wheel. Running furiously around in circles getting nowhere.

Roger THAT.

If you argue with women like a man, you won’t get anywhere and neither will she. But if you argue with women using their own “rules” against them, you can reduce her to tears.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 42]

Females arguing in circles with you

That strikes a nerve with me, I think this topic is one of the four pillars supporting MGTOW, I hate being stonewalled by a woman to such a degree I usually walk away at first sign of their slippery s~~~. When I run into, as KM said ( a snotty bitch) I immediately look to infuriate her! That’s when I’ll say anything just to get her c~~~ to twitch! I’ve left countless c~~~s so f~~~ing mad, I know they couldn’t wait to get home and tell their mangina about the asshole they ran into.

When a straight shooter guy like me runs into one of these hop-scotch, skip-around, all-over-the-road meandering bubbleheads, I leave them full of truth holes!!!

You can’t argue with a woman, you can only lay down the law, and walk away…. not giving a s~~~….

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