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I went to the doctors with my ex wife to try and get to the bottom of my son’s reoccurring illness that neither my ex or the docs seem to be able to sort. I won’t go into the problem but it is fairly common amongst toddlers and I was totally baffled why so called experts couldn’t remedy it.
Into the doctors room we go with my son. An overweight female doctor invites my ex in and shuts the door on me – I put that one down to an accident. I then enter the room. She chooses to quite deliberately ignore me, talk to the ex and not offer me a seat – so I just stand.
I offer my opinion on what I think might be the problem with my son but obviously keen to point out that I am no medical expert so I am hoping she could shed some light. The doctor gave me short thrift and says the symptoms are manifesting themselves as a result of the trauma my son experienced from our acrimonious divorce (my ex having obviously told her a load of s~~~ and lies about the divorce on previous visits). I said this was total nonsense as he didn’t experience any trauma or unpleasantness and what events was she referring to ? She then changed tact by saying that my son is experiencing “attachment issues” when away from his mother and the time he spends with me is most likely damaging him. I was obviously not happy to hear this having just spent thousands in the courts to get limited access to my son. The ex was of course overjoyed to hear another feminist from the sisterhood get on that anti-male bandwagon. The eye contact and smiles between the two made me want to vomit. The doc then continued to say that because the woman carries the child there is a unique bond between mother and child which simply does not exist between father and child so when child is away from mother these medical problems occur. I said that was total rubbish and there is no medical evidence to support what she was saying and as a general practitioner she was not qualified to make such a comment…it was a personal opinion. She then tried unsuccessfully to dig herself out of the whole but still stuck by her diagnosis that my sons symptoms are due to him spending time with me – even though it happens whilst in the ex’s care and is very common amongst toddlers. I have now made a formal complaint to the surgery and await a response.
Don’t back down. Get a second opinion from a specialist.
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The doc then continued to say that because the woman carries the child there is a unique bond between mother and child which simply does not exist between father and child
That’s when the gloves come off.
“Then why you bitches need our money? That “bond” certainly exists, doesn’t it, cows. I can’t even get rid of you. What would you rather do? Carry for 9 months – 5 of which are zero effort at all? Or carry 216 monthly payments?? Choose.”
Oh yeah in a situation like that, you don’t “mind your manners”. You educate on MAN-ners which women simply have no concept of.
The eye contact and smiles between the two made me want to vomit.
I have seen this before and know what you’re talking about.
I said that was total rubbish and there is no medical evidence to support what she was saying
No no no, you’re talking to them like MEN and attempting LOGIC and REASON. Men invented diplomacy and peace treaties. Women invented paternity fraud. (hows that for a bond?) They are attempting to best you with social backstabbing right in your face. A completely different kind of weapon. You stab back and drive the point home. There will be none of that “she carries” bulls~~~ f~~~~~ry in your presence.
“Yes. Women give birth. But men give LIFE.”
Render them both speechless and give them one final opportunity to start over and keep their f~~~ing c~~~ing attitudes in check, because you will not tolerate it. Don’t worry. They are not expecting it and they will not be prepared with a retort.
I have now made a formal complaint to the surgery and await a response.
You’re far more gentlemanly than I. I would have verbally nuked them from orbit and given them a “psychological problem” of their own.
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.Perhaps spend a little cash for a malpractice attorney to accompany you to the next appointment if it is with the same doctor. You are correct that as a general practitioner she is not qualified to comment on what she claims is a psychological problem for your son. If you can find a medical librarian, ask them to do a search on your son’s condition to get medical literature to refute her claims. Jan is correct, too, in getting a second opinion, if possible without your ex-wife having pre-influenced the case with the second doctor.
Perhaps spend a little cash for a malpractice attorney to accompany you to the next appointment
An excellent idea.
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.
Anonymous14Never ever ever trust a female doctor, especially with male issues. Ever.
That’s my policy when it comes to doctors. Call me a misogynist but I just can’t forget some of the things I witnessed females in the medical profession do to their male patients. Sorry.
Mothers tend to create a mindset of dependency in their children, while Fathers try to foster independence and independent thinking.
We as males deal with teaching finding positive outcomes with the scary things, which tends to leave a younger child running to momma when the child cannot handle trauma, rejection, conflict, or crisis. When no father figure is present to help mediate those kinds of regular life issues, the child becomes even more dependent on the mother and her point of view. In short, they do not adapt proper coping mechanisms or ethics.
As you know most women are fear-mongers when it works to their advantage, so this compounds the problem most children experience. In divorce situations this is often a weapon a woman resorts too when a child wants answers from the dad perspective. This is when women seek to strike and manipulate a child’s views. I have seen women who create crisis in a family life in order to facilitate this kind of manipulation of how their child reason and things.
Emotional reactions to crisis situations is often damaging, and that is what women gravitate towards in their own lives, as well as teach children to adopt. This is why we have so many male kids that have zero conflict resolution training in life. Instead of confronting fear, the boys in particular are either badgered into it or shamed into it by females, which creates its own problems of feeling isolation and detachment from other people it the young adults life. It also creates approval seeking behaviors from women in the child when they become teens and older adults. This is the source of much of the mangina out there and their growing ranks.
Seek a second opinion from a male psychological professional or therapist, and make it a requirement for any agreement to medical therapy or treatment for the child. Expect your ex to resist, as this is counter to her anti-man views. You will thank yourself for doing so in the future, as it may cut off the legal battles before the medical opinions are loaded up for use against you.
Good luck.
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Call me a misogynist but I just can’t forget some of the things I witnessed females in the medical profession do to their male patients. Sorry.
No apology. Talking about what a woman actually do doesn’t make you a “misogynist”.
Dealing with misandrist bitches is easy – and necessary. Who cares what they call you. They are never as clever as they think. The advantaged position for the man is to just say it out loud – because they won’t. They use “looks” and “innuendos” and “double meanings” thinking they are being clever and discreet…. but none of their infantile politics compete with the truth. Let them have it.
Female doctor couldn’t hide her contempt for men/fathers
They clearly aren’t interested in hiding it and don’t have the class for it. They shamelessly bring it right out into the open and as long as they want to try that s~~~….
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.Never ever ever trust a female doctor,
….. or a female lawyer, or a female counselor, or judge, the list goes on…
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You’re far more gentlemanly than I. I would have verbally nuked them from orbit and given them a “psychological problem” of their own.
Ha ha – I was so tempted but realised it would have played right into their hands. The ex took me to court on false charges of domestic abuse so any strong verbal fight back would have just bolstered their narrative of the “aggressive abusive male”. Mounting a logical defence would be interpreted by these imbeciles as “abusive and threatening behaviour” and all because they just can’t handle rational reasoning and being challenged.
Perhaps spend a little cash for a malpractice attorney to accompany you to the next appointment if it is with the same doctor.
I would love to but I spent 45k on lawyers getting access to my son so don’t have any more funds. I will though be getting a second opinion and do some further research to support my case throughout the complaints process.
Anonymous14No apology. Talking about what a woman actually do doesn’t make you a “misogynist”.
Dealing with misandrist bitches is easy – and necessary. Who cares what they call you. They are never as clever as they think. The advantaged position for the man is to just say it out loud – because they won’t. They use “looks” and “innuendos” and “double meanings”…. but none of their politics compete with the truth. Let them have it.
Oh I don’t know. I saw my hospital roommate get a handjob from a female nurse when I was having my appendix removed.
But before that, when I was 10 my mother took me to a female doctor because I had common cold. She told my mom to wait and took me inside and checked me with a stethoscope, then told me to lie down and proceeded to get a pressure reading and also pulled down my pants and fondled my dick for 2 straight minutes.
Wonder what kind of medical procedure that was? Maybe some of the docs in here like BrainPilot or PuffnStuff can tell us.
The ex took me to court on false charges of domestic abuse so any strong verbal fight back would have just bolstered their narrative of the “aggressive abusive male”.
Yes well I just don’t see how a man can be required to pay for their open admission of inferiority and weakness.
“Women give birth. But men give LIFE.”
I would really love to watch them try and explain how that is “abusive” or “aggressive”. Take out the word “cows” and “bitches” from my original question if you want to make it polite and classy.
“What would you rather do? Carry for 9 months – 5 of which are zero effort at all? Or carry 216 monthly payments?? Choose.”
Cut then off at the knees with a smile.
It’s all in the delivery.Last month a person (I am not remotely fond of) expected “congratulations” because they were expecting their first. When they announced it, I said nothing. The even attmperd to coach me on the proper thing to say. “Psst…. your line is CONGRATULATIONS!!”
“Oh I’m sorry. I don’t congratulate people for having unprotected sex. But when your child has a 21st birthday and you managed to successfully keep your daughter off the pole and she doesn’t turn into Miley Syphilis, THEN I will congratulate you on your proper parenting skills and a job well done.”
I thought HE would start crying. Not my problem they find the truth “aggressive” and “abusive”. Should have shut her cakehole instead of trying to tell me what I should SAY. That’s what I’m talking about. Zero tolerance for bulls~~~ bitches is not abusive or aggressive.
But I do understand your position and why you would take it. Perhaps you haven’t been brought to a breaking point as I have. This is how I would AVOID being “abusive and aggressive” and make sure I don’t completely snap when the truth will do nicely.
Their tactics are simply unacceptable.
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.
Anonymous25If you’ve got a good relationship with your child, it can sometimes be very helpful to insist on supervised contact. Then there will be a record of how much the child enjoys spending time with his father and is really happy and has a good attachment.
These feminist doctors are everywhere, I’ve come across a similar one. They have positioned themselves into positions of influence so they can maintain the monopoly in being the main carer. They have infiltrated police, court advisers and doctors to name a few. Their modus operandi is to falsify records and make misleading reports. Which could be construed as a criminal offence.
If you want to get their panties in a twist, put adverts out locally for “mystery shoppers” to investigate corruption in the family law system (but not the courts), they will have no idea whether it’s happening or not and it will freak them out. Something to give them sleepless nights. Every case they do in future, they have to worry they are being mystery shopped. If women want to be against feminism, this is one way they can step up and actually do something rather than talking a load of hot air
You could consider reporting the doctor to her regulator too. Check what their rules are that doctors have to follow and see if she has breached one. Even better if you can get the local dad’s to gang up who have had similar problems with her and make a group complaint to her regulator
This thread has not helped me mitigate my red pill rage I can say that much.
Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.
That’s feminist bulls~~~ and you should report her because it’s scientifically disproved.
The special bond exists WHEN the child is within the woman’s body and, at a lesser extent, during the breastfeeding.
Then: stop. No special bond.
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Anonymous0Reading this makes me angry.
Don’t back down. Get a second opinion from a specialist.
Absolutely yes!
“Yes. Women give birth. But men give LIFE.”
I like this view.
Perhaps spend a little cash for a malpractice attorney to accompany you to the next appointment if it is with the same doctor
This sounds perfectly reasonable and may lesson this freak’s impact on other’s lives but…
Ha ha – I was so tempted but realised it would have played right into their hands. The ex took me to court on false charges of domestic abuse so any strong verbal fight back would have just bolstered their narrative of the “aggressive abusive male”.
Very rational thinking here. Always remember we are the monsters and they are always the helpless victim even if they were to run you over several times with their car, killing you, it is always your fault (as is playing out in Melbourne today).
Mothers tend to create a mindset of dependency in their children, while Fathers try to foster independence and independent thinking.
… great post Ironheart.
I love KM’s other famous sentence he could’ve used here: “Wrong. I came out of a man, I came THROUGH a woman.”
"One of the best things internet exposed is just how insane women are." - Freeman_K
This reminds me of my ex-wife, Cheri. She’s a doctor (I helped pay for her undergraduate education, wasn’t that nice of me?) today, and like many feminist doctors, is also a serial killer. As a womeenenez rites activist, she is a cheerful
abortion providermurderer of children, and by my count has killed several thousand by now. A number of years ago, at least a decade after my divorce, a mutual friend told me that she in factabortedmurdered our child during our marriage, and never bothered telling me.Other fun Cheri facts. Cheri’s best friend, Christine, was the girlfriend and then wife of one of my close friends, Jon, in college. We all hung out together. I almost wound up with Christine, but just couldn’t bring myself to f~~~ over Jon. Cheri was truly bats~~~ even as a youngling – ironically, she drove over her ex-boyfriend in his car while we were dating – and I often considered that Christine would be a saner if less functional girlfriend.
Ha, ha. Luckily, Cheri had the opportunity to not only murder thousands of unborn children during her career, but also to convince Christine that she was actually transgender, and that she was a man born in a woman’s body. Isn’t that awesome? It was even more awesome, I imagine, for Jon and their three children, who have had the lifetime strain of watching mommy decide to become fake daddy. Jon is a nice guy – far, far too nice – and has decided to roll with this for the sake of the kids. I keep expecting to hear that he’s eaten a pistol one fine day.
Their kids are handling this psychotic, wildly f~~~ed up situation as badly as kids are wont to do. We’re all expecting heavy drug use from at least one of them at some point. Gosh, transition is so wonderful! Yes, one’s own “gender identity” is more important than one kids. F~~~ one’s kids, right? Can’t just be a butch chick or something. Cheri was along, every goddamn step of the way, encouraging this life-wrecking mind-f~~~ing family-destroying madness.
I couldn’t make s~~~ up like this if I tried. On this web site, I learned that I was far, far from alone or unique in these experiences, which has probably kept me from doing foolish things.
If I had to guess, OP, the delightful doctor who immediately took your ex’s side against you is one of a myriad of child-murderers and de facto worshippers of M-l-ch who exist in the medical profession.
You are amongst brothers, many of whom share similar experiences. You are not alone. Don’t let the f~~~ers trick you into doing something foolish. Just keep doing the best you can.
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I’m a physician trained in reporting child abuse as all physicians are.
They’re just yankin your crank. This is no “child abuse”. It is not abuse for a child to have to adjust to a new living scheme. In a short while things will settle down and the child will bond with you.
It’s called secondary attachment.
Don’t react at all. F~~~ her, the closer you get to your child the more the court will let you see them. That’s in the best interest of your child. It is now starting to be considered child abuse for a father to be excluded from a child’s life.
Children deserve fathers.
If you don’t already talk to an attorney about getting 50/50 custody, not 50/50 physical, just 50/50 decision making about things like school and doctors.
If you have it or you can get it tell your ex-wife you do not agree to send your child to that dangerous physician. A real danger to you and your child.
If you want to send the doctor a message call hospital administration at her hospital and tell them that she is interfering in a contested custody case and that if she continues you will be suing the hospital for damages in terms of family court attorneys fees and counciling time in the future for you and your daughter to undo the damage this menice caused to your family.
But I would just love your child and let her know it.
That is all you need to do.
F~~~ her.
Pediatrician and Babytalk contributing editor William Sears, M.D., father of the attachment parenting movement and the author of 40-plus parenting books, says, “bonding is not an instant glue.” It’s not a zero-sum game, either. “Just because you didn’t hold your babies for the hour after they were born doesn’t mean it’s all over,” he says. “It’s never too late to start bonding. I’ve seen parents who adopt 1-year-olds, and even though it may take longer for their bond to solidify, it does happen. You can always catch up.” What’s important is what you do with the time you have once you are together, whether that’s immediately after birth or not.
http://www.parenting.com/article/the-science-behind-baby-bonding
#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.
What a c~~~!
I have now made a formal complaint to the surgery and await a response.
I once lived across the street from this medical centre, who wouldn’t come over to help a man with a broken back because he was off-site. My flatmate made a complaint to the department, but I’m not sure what ended up happening after that. I really hope that something happens for you. Sometimes they can find small details to work around.
Sorry about your son. Hope that he gets better soon.
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